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meanmumma
Poughkeepsie, NY
52, joined Oct. 2012
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I would date a single man that had children living with him.
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| 4/29/2013 4:10:43 PM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
66, joined Sep. 2011
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never
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| 4/29/2013 7:21:09 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I might date him under these circumstances ... but I would not consider a LTR with him while his gown children lived in the home.
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| 4/30/2013 3:02:11 PM |
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insane_queen
Beaverton, OR
50, joined Apr. 2013
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yes I would.. 
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| 4/30/2013 11:44:24 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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| 5/2/2013 12:40:42 AM |
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prettykitty39
Bakersfield, CA
31, joined Apr. 2013
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I adore single fathers. Im a single mother also and it melTs my heart. Lol. I also dated a man with two children before I had mine. It was also amazing. Daddys have more love and they love better.
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| 5/7/2013 2:43:35 PM |
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faithful_dee
Alpine, UT
26, joined May. 2013
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Yes, if his kid/s r young
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| 5/7/2013 5:00:37 PM |
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calypsosocute
Bunkie, LA
56, joined Mar. 2013
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I would- I could, preference is a No. Small amounts-to none of interaction with his children prefered. I was a single Mom for over 20 years-my responsibility is done. . . time for Adult fun!
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| 5/7/2013 6:45:34 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Yes ... if his grown children did not live with him.
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| 5/7/2013 6:46:17 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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No. ..... if his grown children still lived with him
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| 5/9/2013 9:27:16 PM |
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i_am_desiree
Omaha, NE
29, joined Apr. 2013
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No I would not
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| 5/12/2013 1:12:20 PM |
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firemedic46112
Brownsburg, IN
34, joined Apr. 2013
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I would. Any man that goes that far for his kids is I great guy in my book
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| 5/19/2013 9:44:30 PM |
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julie2023
Dublin, GA
40, joined May. 2013
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Yes.I would because I love kids and couldn't have kids due to having a hysterectomy and almost having female cancer 2 years ago.
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| 5/20/2013 3:23:13 PM |
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clovelyhoney
Paramount, CA
35, joined Apr. 2013
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Love, yes I said love comes in a single and big packages. .. I would date a man with child/children. 
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| 5/20/2013 4:51:21 PM |
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dadsangel85
Fountain Green, UT
31, joined May. 2013
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Hell yes kids are great and if a man has enough love in his heart to raise his kids then he must be great think about it if he has kids he is responsible
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| 6/2/2013 12:16:01 AM |
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luvubabe1982
Talmage, CA
22, joined Jun. 2013
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Yes. I love kids and I could help him.
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| 6/2/2013 8:53:27 AM |
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irishgirlohio49
Steubenville, OH
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Yea been there done that, its not easy when my kids are adults and his kids are 6 and 8.
He has sole custody and no sitter so we never had what you would call a real "date"
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| 6/2/2013 11:49:56 PM |
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justbewondered
New Raymer, CO
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Yes. I would date a single father that had children especially if they were teens as i have a slow learner son that lives with me and i think if everything went good with him and i and the kids and everybody my son would have someone he could play basketball or football with. Or even play video games. Unless a single parent has ever had to deal with things like that don't know how hard it is and the times you cry for some one's help if for just a little bit. Don't get me wrong i love my son and will do everything i can for him but yes would definitly date a man with older kids
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| 6/8/2013 2:15:50 PM |
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countrymomhere
Sparta, MI
37, joined Jun. 2013
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Im a single mom and id date a man w kids at home
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| 6/9/2013 4:37:02 PM |
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americansikh
Brownsburg, IN
34, joined Jun. 2013
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I would not have a problem with it as long as they are well behaved and he takes care of them.
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| 6/9/2013 7:59:44 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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I'm dating a guy now for the last 8 months whose 18 yr old son lives with him. He has pretty much raised him on his own since he was 2 years old. I don't mind his son. His daughter, however, is a whole other issue. She's 5 and he has her every weekend and on days that her mother decides she doesn't want her around. But his parents basically raise her when he has her because he has no bedroom fixed up for her in his three bedroom house for some odd reason.
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| 7/11/2013 3:10:42 AM |
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funnygal7933
Williamsport, PA
37, joined Jul. 2013
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For sure I would. Not knowing if having my own is possible and meeting a great father is heartwarming. I babysit for free to give my friends time with their significant other. But will only be introduced to a man that i am interested in kids when time is right.
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| 7/11/2013 4:28:57 AM |
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1977_dawn
Brainerd, MN
40, joined Oct. 2012
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Pretty much every guy I have ever dated has at least one. At my age it's hard to find guys without kids. It doesn't bother me at all except if it doesn't work and I'm attached to the kids. That's hard.
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| 7/12/2013 10:27:40 AM |
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marilove79
Bronx, NY
37, joined Sep. 2012
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This may be the best type of man to date.
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| 7/12/2013 1:43:29 PM |
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roseanne1
Trenton, MI
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mean either, I would never date a guy w/ kids
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| 7/15/2013 10:17:08 PM |
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kraziirma
Beeville, TX
36, joined Jul. 2013
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I would date a single man with kids/kid, caus i myslef have a child,and only he would know exactly what i will be goin threw. As a matter a fact thats on my list of "what to look for in a man" have kids.
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| 8/1/2013 5:33:41 AM |
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texastaurus67
Universal City, TX
50, joined Feb. 2013
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Yes I would.
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| 8/1/2013 7:10:30 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes as long it not a house full of kids.
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| 8/2/2013 1:43:02 AM |
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purelife118
Benton, AR
40, joined Jul. 2013
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Most defiantly, that says alot about a man that has his kids, hes a good dad, good quality in a man
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| 8/2/2013 12:12:54 PM |
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sweetkizzez17
New Bedford, MA
27, joined Jul. 2013
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I don't think I would want to take on that responsibility. I would rather fall in love with a guy who does not have children and make our first baby together!
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| 8/4/2013 12:44:12 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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My boyfriend is 47 and has a 5 year old daughter and 19 year old son so it's VERY much so that someone can have a young child to raise at your age.  Happens more and more these days as people are having children later in life. My youngest is 4 years old and my ex-husband just turned 49 this year.
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| 8/12/2013 11:12:57 AM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
35, joined Jul. 2012
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Yes I would as long as he has good boundaries with the ex and no excessive drama. To say there would be zero drama would be unrealistic.
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| 8/15/2013 1:52:24 PM |
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heyboo21
Clinton, CT
27, joined Aug. 2013
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Nope I tried to date a man with kids it sucked he didn't want to do anything because he always had his kids. He was a good father he was just at a different point in life then I was
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| 8/20/2013 8:34:50 PM |
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countrymomhere
Sparta, MI
37, joined Jun. 2013
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Yes i would.
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| 8/29/2013 5:28:48 AM |
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miz_siri_babyy
Los Angeles, CA
30, joined Aug. 2013
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From personal experience, I would not date another man that has kids. I tried that already and it left me feeling like I never mattered. I was okay with him putting his kids first, but leaving me just because his babymama was being a jerk did not go well with me. Call me selfish but I don't wanna come next in line behind your babymama, when I'm suppose to be the one you love. And I couldn't help but think of the bond he will always share with her, sexual or not. Does anyone think I'm wrong ??
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| 8/29/2013 7:25:47 AM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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I would I have a 13yr old son, but as long as they not small children and he don't have a house full either.
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| 8/29/2013 7:28:23 AM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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From personal experience, I would not date another man that has kids. I tried that already and it left me feeling like I never mattered. I was okay with him putting his kids first, but leaving me just because his babymama was being a jerk did not go well with me. Call me selfish but I don't wanna come next in line behind your babymama, when I'm suppose to be the one you love. And I couldn't help but think of the bond he will always share with her, sexual or not. Does anyone think I'm wrong ??
Your situation no u wasn't wrong at all, I wouldn't put up with it either.
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| 8/29/2013 4:21:49 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008
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Well, at my age I have to worry about single grand-fathers rising their grandkids. LOL
Np,I will not date a guy rising his grand-kids...not even those only babysitting them.
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| 8/29/2013 6:40:40 PM |
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ruthann35
Victoria, TX
43, joined Jan. 2010
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Yes....
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| 8/29/2013 7:19:01 PM |
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goodkindacrazy
Scott, LA
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I am a single mom whose last two are about to leave the nest. I have dated single fathers and I probably would again depending on the age of the children. I dated a man who had custody of his two teens. Neither of us had to arrange baby sitters so we were able to make time to see each other. I steer clear of those with young children as I am just about done raising mine and am not looking to raise more. There is a guy that has messaged me a few times that is a widower with 6 kids all living at home. The guy is nice and respectful but 6! 6 Kids!
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| 8/29/2013 7:55:29 PM |
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angelkisses2223
Butler, KY
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I agree with u! I am single momma nt by choice bt By rape choice to keep my baby n I have mental disordersbi polar ADHD n etc with serve depression n I work every day wit children n adults with mental problems have to have slot of patiences
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| 8/29/2013 7:57:54 PM |
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angelkisses2223
Butler, KY
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I agree I wouldn't put up with that either and was my wrong u good choice
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| 8/29/2013 9:22:59 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008
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I don't bring kids to the relationship (I have none) so I don't want to deal with a person who has to choose between going to the theater or to a little league game
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| 8/29/2013 11:54:07 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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If the father is my age I would want to know why his grown children were living with him ... and then I would make a decision.
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| 8/30/2013 12:06:38 AM |
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veronicavroom
Crompond, NY
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With the economy the way it is, it is becoming more common for families to remain in the same house. For some reason in europe its okay but here its a sign of dysfunction....
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| 8/30/2013 7:46:47 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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With the economy the way it is, it is becoming more common for families to remain in the same house. For some reason in europe its okay but here its a sign of dysfunction....
"Children at home" wouldn't be a problem if the kids re over 20 y/o...but changes everything when they are minors.
BTW, not only in Europe but the same takes places in most well to do families in Latin America.
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| 8/30/2013 8:56:59 AM |
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veronicavroom
Crompond, NY
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I know, but i dont take any part of the third world when discussing standards.
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| 8/30/2013 5:05:46 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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I know, but i dont take any part of the third world when discussing standards.
Why not?
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| 8/31/2013 12:45:37 AM |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
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Absolutely!..My grandkids are teenagers and Ive met men my age that are raising kids much younger than my grandkids. I would fit right in.I get along great with kids of all ages. I enjoy the family unit very much..
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| 8/31/2013 7:47:31 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008
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Absolutely!..My grandkids are teenagers and Ive met men my age that are raising kids much younger than my grandkids. I would fit right in.I get along great with kids of all ages. I enjoy the family unit very much..
I love the individuality of human beings. I never had kids so it would be kind of an imposition to have to deal with one now. Teenagers and up are OK.
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| 8/31/2013 10:33:31 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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The operative word here is "date" .... not become an extension family member.
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| 8/31/2013 12:17:54 PM |
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sensuousz
Titz
Germany
27, joined Oct. 2011
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Nope. It's my deal breaker.
If in the future, I have kids then it might change. But I have no desire of taking care of other people's children 
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| 8/31/2013 8:31:35 PM |
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vickilookin4luv
Frederick, MD
37, joined Aug. 2013
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I would because i have kids too. But if u dont have kids yourself than its not a good idea. He will always put his kids first...
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| 8/31/2013 9:48:23 PM |
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41dmbgirl
Clinton, NY
39, joined Aug. 2013
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Unless I had children and could become the "Brady Bunch", I would not take on any such responsibility and/or drama! New relationships are hard enough, with 1 other adult.
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| 9/1/2013 1:44:00 PM |
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birds_tears2013
Louisville, KY
27, joined Jun. 2013
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Yes i love. a man w kids
only problem is if they ether mistreat the child or if
they just wanna have u as the mother figure but don't wanna
let u around the child. been w a guy like this before he was confusing
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| 9/1/2013 4:27:28 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008
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41dmbgirl
The irony here is most guys get pissed when you tell them you don't care for a guy with kids living at home but, in most cases, they will not even think of dating a lady who has kids.
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| 9/1/2013 4:51:50 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Yes (with explanation)
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| 9/1/2013 10:23:19 PM |
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veronicavroom
Crompond, NY
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41dmbgirl
The irony here is most guys get pissed when you tell them you don't care for a guy with kids living at home but, in most cases, they will not even think of dating a lady who has kids.
Sorry, but if you read this topic in its entirety you see a lot of women saying they would not date a single father.
So not sure whats the irony?
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| 9/3/2013 6:59:17 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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Sorry, but if you read this topic in its entirety you see a lot of women saying they would not date a single father.
So not sure whats the irony?
Exactly there...the irony rest on the fact most men get pissed off when women refuse to date them on account of their (guys) kids...but most of them (you can read about on ML) don't want a woman w/kids.
It would be the same as to say "I don't date a man who speaks with an accent." and to get pissed off when a guy rejects me because my accent.
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