loreenawolf
Pocatello, ID
33, joined Jan. 2013
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Gah, i am tired of sitting at home trying to figure out something to do while my roommate is constantly cuddling with his girlfriend, i want to go on an actual date. A date where i don't have to pay a penny and be treated like a lady. Anyone interested?
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csm3000
Rigby, ID
36, joined Jun. 2011
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I find it funny that women expect equal pay, equal rights, equal treatment, ect. (Which they deserve, don't get me wrong.) But when it comes down to the nitty gritty of a date, they don't want to "pay a penny".
Ironic that all the advancements in equality get thrown back to the 50's when it suits the old fashion noition of what's "expected" of a man on a date...
[Edited 2/22/2013 9:07:26 PM ]
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livitup_id
Pocatello, ID
39, joined Aug. 2012
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High 5 cam! She is always saying poor me. Do something about it girl. 
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loreenawolf
Pocatello, ID
33, joined Jan. 2013
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Well unfortunately you both don't know me all that well, i paid either half or all for each and every damn date i went on, is it too much to ask to be able to go on one or two where i didn't pay anything? I believe its called being a gentleman to sometimes foot the bill. I don't even know why i am responding to this but how an the hell was this a "poor me?" Its called being single and wanting to go out on dates, which most people on this site are doing unless i read it wrong.
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csm3000
Rigby, ID
36, joined Jun. 2011
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Well, you've heard the saying that "beggers can't be choosers" , right? If you can't get a "gentleman" to take you on a date, yet you are so desperate to get out, you're going to have to change your approach or lower your standards of what you expect.
And this part, I'm truly sorry for saying, but you know as well as I do that looks mean alot when it comes to dating. Personality and attitude are a distant second. If you want to be treated like a lady, you need to fit the part. Being as honest as I can be without being "mean", I think 95% of the guys who see your online presence would feel that you don't meet the definition of a lady.
Why don't you meet a guys sense of a lady? Well:
By your own words, (if I rememeber correctly) you call yourself a tomboy on your profile. Strike 1 for most guys.
Then you mention that guys have rejected you based on you being a bigger girl. ( I personally prefer bigger women to skinny women, my last LTR was over 240lbs, but I know alot of guys dont feel the same way.). So, Strike 2 for a lot of guys.
Then Strike 3 comes from your attitude. I, along with the other guy that posted (and I'm sure anyone else) has read your profile and comments over the last week feel that you have a bitter old maid/ crazy cat lady type of attitude going on. Constant "poor me" comments, blaming guys and genetics for your problems and completely ignoring the fact that your personality (at least online) is what's known as "guy repellent". I know that alot of what you wrote on your profile is probably a defense mechanism because you've been hurt before, but all that emotional baggage in black and white is going to hurt your chances of finding someone who wants to give you that first date/chance.
I'm not saying any of this to hurt your feelings, but to hopefully give you insight to understand the possible reasons why you are sitting at home at night instead of going out on dates.
I do wish the best for you, I just unfortunetly don't see it happening unless you address some of those factors that are hurting your perception with the opposite sex.
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csm3000
Rigby, ID
36, joined Jun. 2011
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Oh, and also ditch the male roommate. That's another factor (unless he's your blood related brother) that most guys will find off-putting. Especially if you have had a relationship with the roommate in the past.
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