| 6/25/2008 5:09:35 AM |
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audreylou
Phoenix, AZ
37, joined Jun. 2008
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Is it, guys? lol Seems to be just an opportunity to get your hands on some bare skin, and see how far you can take it! Don't get me wrong, I'm all for the backrub progressing to some more vigorous activity  but is that ALWAYS how a backrub has to end?  Not that I have a problem with that,either-just wondering, I guess, if you men just volunteer backrubs so you can get some?  
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| 6/25/2008 5:12:51 AM |
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pt37
Saint Joseph, MO
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ill rub your front and your back but yes it turns me on to rub a womans back and you would want some after i did
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| 6/25/2008 5:44:00 AM |
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lonewolfslust
Oklahoma City, OK
35, joined Dec. 2007
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I have never given a backrub that led to sex that wasn't going to happen without the backrub. I have however given backrubs without the thought of bonus touching ever coming to mind. So a backrub can be just a backrub, but I'm not gonna say no to a little "special hugging" afterwards.
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| 6/25/2008 5:47:38 AM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
60, joined Jan. 2008
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If only I could have my back rubbed gently sensuously i would be in heaven ooooooooooh lovely... 
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| 6/25/2008 6:05:18 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
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Not at all. i can easily give a massage without making it leading to anything sexual. time and a place for everything. its called respect. 
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| 6/25/2008 7:35:20 AM |
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jimmyroma
Westfield, NJ
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Perhaps, just perhaps they guy you are with see's you need a backrub and gives you one cause he cares. at 28 you are a bit cynical huh? That's like saying a blow job is only cause you want a new dress or new shoes.
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| 6/25/2008 7:44:41 AM |
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doll121
Middleport, OH
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| 6/25/2008 7:58:14 AM |
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bobbyzip
Parker, AZ
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I like to do it with baby oil.. What is your favorite ?? Bobby
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| 6/25/2008 8:02:02 AM |
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sweetiepie1977
Jacksonville, FL
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Perhaps, just perhaps they guy you are with see's you need a backrub and gives you one cause he cares. at 28 you are a bit cynical huh? That's like saying a blow job is only cause you want a new dress or new shoes.
I agree...
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| 6/25/2008 8:28:43 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
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I start with the labia and work my way to the back.
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| 6/25/2008 11:11:38 AM |
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camogirl_61
Saint Helens, OR
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I've had back-rubs from guys who just want to be nice, and I have given them for the same reason. If it leads to something more, it just makes you feel that much better!
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| 6/25/2008 11:14:20 AM |
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lioness_nikki
Lakeside, CA
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it's always nice when he's rubbing your back if he brushes up against you and you feel how much it's turning him on. Of course...then I get turned on, and then...
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| 6/25/2008 11:20:18 AM |
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chetzebra34
Saylorsburg, PA
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giving a nice backrub is a good way to start foreplay-first the back then roll over and do the front kissing from lips to toe
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| 6/25/2008 11:22:09 AM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
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You could always go to a masseuse if all you want is a back rub.
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| 6/25/2008 11:22:56 AM |
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mooseslayer
Fairbanks, AK
41, joined Apr. 2008
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Its time to f**k
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| 6/25/2008 11:25:56 AM |
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haynsweetie075
Norfolk, VA
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LMAO my ex used to do that crap..footrub, backrub even massaged my hands..then i used to pretend that him rubbing my back put me to sleep so i didnt have to have sex right after lmao! something about them getting double the pleasure. i dunno guys confuse the hell out of me lol!
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| 6/25/2008 11:28:06 AM |
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littlelostgirl
Suffern, NY
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A good way to start a back rub
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| 6/25/2008 11:30:37 AM |
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jb_countryboy
Chattanooga, TN
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| 6/25/2008 2:00:41 PM |
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sweetiepie1977
Jacksonville, FL
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THATS HOT littlelostgirl...
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| 6/25/2008 2:02:03 PM |
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rerick
McDonough, GA
63, joined Apr. 2008
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Sweetie I'll rub your back any time!
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| 6/25/2008 2:03:26 PM |
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rooster2439
Murray, KY
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LMAO my ex used to do that crap..footrub, backrub even massaged my hands..then i used to pretend that him rubbing my back put me to sleep so i didnt have to have sex right after lmao! something about them getting double the pleasure. i dunno guys confuse the hell out of me lol!
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| 6/25/2008 4:48:38 PM |
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audreylou
Phoenix, AZ
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Hey hey hey-NEVER said I had a prob with backrubs progressing to more, kind of prefer it that way cause once he puts his hands on me it makes me think about where else I wanna feel those hands, that...ahem! lol No, I know for a fact he was giving me the backrub cause I had had a rough day, and have back probs 2, but backrubs always get him(and me!)going, and wondered if that's the same with you guys reading this, and what the womens' experience has been with the backrub issue-I mean, I've had backrubs from guys that went nowhere but my back, and backrubs from guys who do it for about 30sec then start feelin up my tits!  lol Just wanted some feedback from the masses-sorry if y'all took my words for cynicism-trust me, I'm PLENTY cynical regarding some subjects, this really isn't that high on my list of serious concerns though! Maybe I should have posted this as a poll instead, but I'm still pretty new here, and to the forums in general. I really couldn't think of how I wanted to phrase it for a poll or it would probably be one! So please, people-I just want to hear various viewpoints/opinions on the subject-for curiousity's sake!
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| 6/25/2008 5:03:55 PM |
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audreylou
Phoenix, AZ
37, joined Jun. 2008
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Perhaps, just perhaps they guy you are with see's you need a backrub and gives you one cause he cares. at 28 you are a bit cynical huh? That's like saying a blow job is only cause you want a new dress or new shoes.
I agree...
I'm sorry, but I'm new here, and I feel somewhat offended at being commented about like I'm some gold digger!  I buy my own dresses & shoes, if I want something new, and have NEVER expected a man to take care of me!  If I give a bj it's for the enjoyment we BOTH get from it-not for material gain! I'm really not sure how you made the leap from me asking for peoples' opinions on backrubs to me bein a cynic! Anyone who thinks physical affection in exchange for physical affection(ie, backrub progressing to sex)is comparable to physical affection in exchange for material possesions(bj for dress/shoes), I guess I shouldn't expect any better! I WAS hoping I'd find a less antagonistic group of people here-I'll try not to be biased because of your remarks. 
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| 6/25/2008 8:00:52 PM |
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taylorpetty
Aurora, CO
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anything between a man and a woman is sexual
come to think of any thing between a man and a man is sexual oh and most animals with 4 legs and some reptiles not to mention the occasional tree
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| 6/25/2008 8:05:31 PM |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
43, joined Apr. 2008
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anything between a man and a woman is sexual
come to think of any thing between a man and a man is sexual oh and most animals with 4 legs and some reptiles not to mention the occasional tree
ok hun put down the gold paint and step away from the computer
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| 6/25/2008 8:06:59 PM |
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johnny_kleo
Upper Black Eddy, PA
47, joined May. 2008
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i start off with the good intenssion of a good body massage but then i get hard while sitting on her a** and its all over with,,,, anyone want a back rub,  
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| 6/25/2008 8:09:26 PM |
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major_tom
Brooklyn, NY
51, joined May. 2008
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Is it, guys? lol Seems to be just an opportunity to get your hands on some bare skin, and see how far you can take it! Don't get me wrong, I'm all for the backrub progressing to some more vigorous activity but is that ALWAYS how a backrub has to end? Not that I have a problem with that,either-just wondering, I guess, if you men just volunteer backrubs so you can get some?
I don't, most timed what the back rubs can lead to are a fore gone conclusion.
but I do sometimes mention that one of the things I do best is a neck & shoulder massage/rub,back rub.
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| 6/25/2008 8:09:49 PM |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
43, joined Apr. 2008
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you too buddy, leave the paint cans alone 
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| 6/25/2008 8:11:40 PM |
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taylorpetty
Aurora, CO
28, joined Mar. 2008
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Kinda hit close to home huh crow8
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| 6/25/2008 8:13:20 PM |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
43, joined Apr. 2008
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Kinda hit close to home huh crow8
yeah i got tired of asking if i could share with ya, i just want the paint all to myself
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| 6/25/2008 8:13:39 PM |
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johnny_kleo
Upper Black Eddy, PA
47, joined May. 2008
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you too buddy, leave the paint cans alone
its not my fault your gay and dont like women, and all you do is skeet all over your computer screen and lick it off instead of getting p*ssy,
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| 6/25/2008 8:17:18 PM |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
43, joined Apr. 2008
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dude do you really want folks knowing how you taught me how too do all that?
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| 6/25/2008 8:17:39 PM |
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justforums
Killeen, TX
49, joined May. 2008
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If she needs a back rub I will give her one, if she needs somethign else I can give her that too.
Seriously though, if I see her look lik eshe is hurting, Im going to offer and then its all about making her pain go away as much as I can.
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| 6/25/2008 8:21:02 PM |
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johnny_kleo
Upper Black Eddy, PA
47, joined May. 2008
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dude do you really want folks knowing how you taught me how too do all that?
dude what ever makes you happy, you think im going to go back and forth on a computer, I THINK NOT.... im 38 not 8 ok go play games with someone who thinks its cool to argue on a computer and think they are cool, have a nice f**kin nite....
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| 6/25/2008 8:26:24 PM |
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taylorpetty
Aurora, CO
28, joined Mar. 2008
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oh go screw a tree!!
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| 6/25/2008 8:27:12 PM |
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rooster2439
Murray, KY
61, joined May. 2008
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oh go screw a tree!!
i got a tree
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| 6/25/2008 8:31:08 PM |
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simplman4right1
Sarasota, FL
60, joined Feb. 2008
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WAY too many variables here.
Ok.... she and I meet in a bar and she says she needs a back rub.
I'm game.... let's do it.
Am I looking for sex???
{prolley not..... HOPING???.... prolley so)
So now she and I are on our third date.... at either of our respective homes.
BACKRUB....... ohhh yeahhhh..... backrub.
I'm giving..... "Damn... you need to unfasten that "overtheshoulderboulderholder" so I can get to your entire back.
At this point?
OH HELL YES>>> I'm looking for sex!!!
You're not willing??
That's ok.... just bring me some large marsupials.... I'll be ok!!
(kidding guys..... PLEASE.... just joking)
But let's do the variable of us having sex on the first date....
We "connect"..... life am grand.
Now we're on our third date and you want a massage.
Would I be aroused??
Probably.
(a lady I'm attracted to that's frying chicken arouses me)
But would I be "aggressive" with my advances?
Maybe.... but probably not.
Too many variables to answer completely and honestly.
But I'm open to naked massages almost any time of any day!!
Michael
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| 6/25/2008 8:31:27 PM |
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johnny_kleo
Upper Black Eddy, PA
47, joined May. 2008
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oh go screw a me!!
you beggin now huh, lol
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| 6/25/2008 10:09:24 PM |
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massagepro
Vernon Rockville, CT
58, joined Jan. 2008
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Any time Touch come in to the picture, back rub or not, you are going to have one of
the persons getting hot and thus getting screwed.
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| 6/25/2008 10:11:05 PM |
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justnosey54
Roanoke, TX
63, joined Mar. 2008
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Any time Touch come in to the picture, back rub or not, you are going to have one of
the persons getting hot and thus getting screwed.
WAIT!!! You're a massage pro! Are you saying that you always get turned on???
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| 6/25/2008 10:29:21 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
60, joined Jan. 2008
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Well thank goodness for that a sensuous back rub is very arousing when given by a partner...On the other hand a back rub given by massage therapist or just a friend can be relaxing...Then we have physiotherapists whos back rub tecniques are healing.... Theres more than one way to rub a persons back I know which one i prefer
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| 6/25/2008 10:52:11 PM |
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krankit8
Hudson, KS
37, joined Jun. 2008
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A backrub is pretty much just a backrub with me. To be honest, I've tried using that to set the mood with a couple former girlfriends, but got the same reaction every time. If do too good of a job and they fall asleep, even if they had intended on fooling around afterwards.
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| 6/25/2008 10:59:40 PM |
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workinglaman
Golden Meadow, LA
56, joined Dec. 2007
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It doesn't always have to lead to sex but it doesn't always have to stop at the back either
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| 6/25/2008 11:00:38 PM |
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justinab1979
Washington, IN
37, joined May. 2008
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a backrub with me is just that. Of course since most of the people who know me know I actually make a hobby out of massage leads to anyone with a sore muscle and small amount of my sympathy asking.
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| 6/26/2008 1:00:23 AM |
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redheadedirish
Elkins, AR
39, joined Mar. 2008
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Have you ever heard the song Im Still A Guy by Brad Paisley? It's a givin it's instead of I scratch your back you scratch mine it's a You rub my back and expect something in return kinda deal! 
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| 6/26/2008 1:16:14 AM |
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scottt39
Ocean View, HI
54, joined Apr. 2008
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I have given hundreds of back rubs and only once did it not lead to sex but I dont give guys back rubs just like you dont give a guy a foot rub either. And I dont volenteer that service unless I know I am going to get some anyway.
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| 6/26/2008 1:42:03 AM |
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gary69
Raven, VA
47, joined Jun. 2008
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You must understand this. your back goes down to some very nice parts that need attention also!
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| 7/1/2008 12:56:43 PM |
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geohowler
Phoenix, AZ
42, joined Mar. 2008
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i would give you a back rub anytime and run from there till you feel great
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