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clyde222
Minooka, IL
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Yes It Is . It's Part Of The Emotional And Physical Bond A Couple Has In Their Relationship. Without It One Or The Other Or Both Will Stray.....Seen It Happen To Often. It's Not Everything A Relationship Should Be Based On But It Is Important.
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| 5/27/2013 12:03:03 PM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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For me is is no longer important. Enough women have said that "Sex is all men want" that I gave up trying to prove them wrong. Face it once a woman has made up her mind, there is NOTHING a man can do to change it.
Good thing my ex-wife broke me of ever wanting sex again.
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| 5/27/2013 5:19:43 PM |
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kazfla
Gainesville, FL
51, joined Mar. 2013
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Hell ya.!!!
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| 5/27/2013 10:11:03 PM |
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thisoneworks2
Glendale Heights, IL
54, joined Apr. 2013
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Yes very important
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| 5/27/2013 10:33:55 PM |
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bill6996
Hernando, FL
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My ex always said all I wanted was sex, that I thought sex fixed everything. She did no and does not understand a mans need for that closeness , what's so strange is she had sex with me the day I move away, she said the sex was always great and she never said no . I guess her pride and what others thought was more important,.
By the way I was totally devoted and faithful for 18 years. I filed for disability and she filed for divorce stating now I was disabled she didn't want to be married to me any more.
Sex was great her heart is made of stone.
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| 5/28/2013 6:20:16 PM |
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moundsofjoy
Milwaukee, WI
50, joined Feb. 2013
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Very important
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| 5/28/2013 9:30:18 PM |
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movingon1smore
Evansville, IN
50, joined Sep. 2012
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sex is important . but it takes more then that for a relationship
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| 5/29/2013 10:45:09 AM |
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cschoate75
Lafayette, LA
42, joined May. 2013
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I think it's very very important specially when you have a huge Tusk....lol:
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| 5/29/2013 1:14:03 PM |
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angelwithbwings
Brooklyn, NY
54, joined May. 2013
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Yes i think sex is very important 
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| 5/29/2013 2:12:17 PM |
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shadowcowboy
Chiefland, FL
58, joined Apr. 2013
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Yes sex is important. As adults sex is very Important in any relationship. It is one of the reasons for seeking companionship. Compatibility is 2nd and 3rdly is looks. A man or woman will seek out the opposite sex for 3 reasons the main reason is so that they are not alone. The next is to be told that they are wanted that they mean something to someone. And lastly sex.
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| 5/29/2013 6:23:53 PM |
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fla56
Bronson, FL
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Do you get milk from a cow? yes it is important!! but I think love has to be involved     
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| 5/29/2013 6:25:11 PM |
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fla56
Bronson, FL
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yeah right cowboy! lol lol
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| 6/2/2013 4:08:51 PM |
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koukla143
Amherst, NH
40, joined May. 2013
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Yes I think it is very important in a relationship!
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| 6/2/2013 4:17:24 PM |
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john11229
Brooklyn, NY
27, joined Jun. 2013
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Lmaoo no wonder your divorced
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| 6/2/2013 4:18:04 PM |
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john11229
Brooklyn, NY
27, joined Jun. 2013
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It deffently is
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| 6/3/2013 12:17:48 PM |
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szemkoek
Eindhoven
Netherlands
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Hell yes,l'm in fire
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| 6/4/2013 5:19:24 AM |
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chbt70s
Mountain Top, PA
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Why are you ask that ridiculous question. 
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| 6/6/2013 11:45:56 AM |
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basicguyhere
Madison, TN
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well kinda...
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| 6/6/2013 2:30:04 PM |
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bryanbryanbryan
Rockwood, TN
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Yes sex is important sex can be a conection not only physical but mental also u conect in ways u could never conect with out it and I can be amazing and fun
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| 6/6/2013 5:35:37 PM |
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tiffie06
Brush, CO
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No sex i say bye lol 
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| 6/6/2013 6:07:35 PM |
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zabala24
Columbus, GA
28, joined Apr. 2013
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Sex is very important
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| 6/7/2013 10:12:49 AM |
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ufoundme38
Miami Beach, FL
60, joined Apr. 2013
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Yes, it is but if you're too easy.
First date sex, sorry. My opinion of you is very low.
Depends on level of commitment.
Must be making love, not just a " Hump & Dumps."
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| 6/7/2013 5:06:27 PM |
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mrsukenfuk
Reseda, CA
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Sex is the only thing that matters in a relationship everything eles is just window dressing
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| 6/8/2013 3:29:57 PM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
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Actualy no it is not, but it is fun & enjoyable and so much is made of that today that it has become important, particualy to the poor and the most entitled as they feel they have nothing else better to do with their time.   
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| 6/8/2013 6:20:58 PM |
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littlewing78
Hamilton, OH
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Somewhat but it's not the most important like so many people make it out to be. Intimacy isn't just physical.
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| 6/8/2013 8:40:37 PM |
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persianprince7
Cincinnati, OH
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You should be shot for asking an idiotic question like that! Stupid, f**king, asexual moron, please go kill yourself!
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| 6/11/2013 12:18:13 AM |
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snipper1shot
Sevierville, TN
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if u dont have sex in a realationship then you are just room mates
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| 6/11/2013 2:21:09 AM |
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mostlylaughing
Jackson, MS
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I think I am going to have to go with yes on this one.... I believe to make a relationship actually work you need 3 parts. You have to be mentally compatible-communication is important. You have to be spiritually compatible-regardless of your belief, if you both believe in mostly the same things that will help. And finally the physical, you have to look at each other and part of that is being intimate.
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| 6/11/2013 6:24:21 AM |
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snipper1shot
Sevierville, TN
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you are absolutely right
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| 6/13/2013 6:07:09 PM |
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nitehowl
Norman, OK
64, joined Jan. 2013
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Yes it is!
One woman posted no it was not and she did not like sex.
I pray she find a man who feels the same way.
Enough people are in a sexless relationship.
It is past time for those who are still into the sex of life should be released to be satisfied out side the home.
If the one is willing not to have sex by choice then allow the other the freedom to find something to satisfy.
Granted this is not what most think should be but they are not in a sexless marriage either.
Some who know they can not or will not serve their mate allow outside relief for that very reason.
I would say those are the ones who do still care and love their mate to share them so to speak.
So Yes indeed sex is extremely important.
We all have a primal need built in and have a sexual drive for a reason that it can even effect our health without it studies show in Europe.
If you find you are still interested in sex by all means have THAT TALK about your sex drives and determine what if anything happens and what the other can expect should sex be removed from the relationship menu.
You do not need any surprises later after the fact that just leaves a strong sex drive in limbo.
Yes shit happens.
So talk about what happens if it hits the fan!
If you love them have the talk.
If not move away from them because Sex Is Important In A Relationship married or not.
Do not become the cause of someone doing this: 
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| 6/14/2013 10:42:46 AM |
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hunterweston87
Owensboro, KY
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Sex is important. Not at first. Its a way of showing how much u care. And ladies if u expect a man to show attention to your needs, why wouldn't u show attention to his?
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| 6/14/2013 11:53:59 AM |
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megs8268
Dallas, GA
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Is this a trick question? Of course it's important! It's one of the most human parts of life.
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| 6/14/2013 12:51:30 PM |
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jarrod339
Prior Lake, MN
29, joined Mar. 2012
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Sex complicates everything then its all you or they want
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| 6/15/2013 12:27:06 AM |
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jacksonlong
Gonzales, LA
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i think sex is essential. But not just a roll in the hay, but intamate love making.
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| 6/15/2013 5:21:04 AM |
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usmartinezm
Terre Haute, IN
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Yes it is intimacy is very important in a relationship.But that is not the only reason you should be with someone.
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| 6/15/2013 6:36:24 AM |
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julia0597
Dover, NH
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Yes it is intimacy is very important in a relationship.But that is not the only reason you should be with someone.
EXACTLY
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| 6/15/2013 11:32:19 AM |
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gtowntx66
Georgetown, TX
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I don't understand why so many people are even on here ... I've probably browsed upwards of a hundred women's profiles who are looking for a relationship, but also carry the disclaimer that they have no interest whatsoever in sex. Men must be lining up all over the country to commit to a sexless relationship ... sounds like fun.
I suppose perhaps on the flip-side of that argument, so many relationships end up completely sexless anyway, that perhaps they figure they'll just start out that way?
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| 6/16/2013 5:38:24 AM |
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jazzygirllinda
Bronx, NY
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Sex is very important in a relationship. There are times however when your
mate can't perform due to serious medical problems. That is the when
you know if love is truly there. I could not see me cheating on him due
to the lack of sex. After he passed suddenly I can say I would
not have changed a thing. That is real love.
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| 6/16/2013 5:48:28 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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I don't understand why so many people are even on here ... I've probably browsed upwards of a hundred women's profiles who are looking for a relationship, but also carry the disclaimer that they have no interest whatsoever in sex. Men must be lining up all over the country to commit to a sexless relationship ... sounds like fun.
I suppose perhaps on the flip-side of that argument, so many relationships end up completely sexless anyway, that perhaps they figure they'll just start out that way?
That is why I no longer date. Why take the time to get to know, and care about someone when the relationship will be a friend type relationship.
If I wanted to be in a totally sexless relationship, I would have stayed married.
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| 6/16/2013 1:39:15 PM |
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nitapooh1976
Chattanooga, TN
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YES sex is in important to a certain point me personally i wood rater be in a relationship first than to just have a one night stand not saying they are( bad) but it can be complicated when u do that for both i want to no the person before i have sex with them .and by saying that i mean not by their first name its good to be friends first an get to no them on a personal bass an see wear it goes from that point an no not sleep with them on the first date . but that is just me i am not speaking for any one else.
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| 6/16/2013 3:46:22 PM |
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raven01
Lumberton, TX
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Sex is a part of the intimacy in a relationship. How much, how often and how wild or kinky. That's up to the individuals. As long as it's enough for both. That's all that matters. Not what anyone else thinks is enough. I've stupidly thought I knew some and it ended up being a one night stand. Not what I'd had planned...just the way it worked out. BUT I've been talking with a guy on another site for over 2 months. Things are getting closer to meeting in person. Neither of us want to take it there right off the bat. Think he's right about that part. We want to get to know each other and make sure before taking it there. Maybe that's been my problem all along. Those I've slept with quickly all end badly. Many claim to want more...but sex is all they really wanted. Holding out is now for me again. Been single for much to long and I want love...and yes of course sex with him only now.
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| 6/16/2013 4:01:14 PM |
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julia0597
Dover, NH
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Its not on my top priorities
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| 6/16/2013 5:15:37 PM |
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ovron
Tucson, AZ
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I believe some men and women only think they can avoid emotions while having sex, but the truth is they just suppress those feelings. In other words, the emotion is there, but ignored and most certainly denied. I once read that a man has as much, if not more emotional connection during sex because of serotonin. After reading these posts, I tried to find it on the internet. I couldn't find exactly what I was looking for, but the link below is a very good explanation. (you'll probably have to copy and paste)
http://denver-marriage-counseling.com/2011/03/understanding-men/
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| 6/16/2013 5:18:45 PM |
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ovron
Tucson, AZ
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If sex isn't important to you, then you might be in a relationship where one of you isn't fully committed.
To me, sex is very important. Not just the happy ending, but the act itself.
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| 6/16/2013 7:46:42 PM |
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pj1169
Little Rock, AR
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Hell yes it's important
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| 6/16/2013 8:22:02 PM |
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tessa561
Madison, IN
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If I don't have sex then, he has got to go!
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| 6/16/2013 10:50:43 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Yes sexual intimacy in a relationship is important.
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| 6/18/2013 7:14:53 PM |
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amyhumphrey
Sulphur Springs, TX
42, joined Dec. 2011
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Very very important
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| 6/18/2013 8:09:57 PM |
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julia0597
Dover, NH
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If sex isn't important to you, then you might be in a relationship where one of you isn't fully committed.
I m not in any relationship. I m more interest in inner of that person 1st.
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| 6/19/2013 7:58:55 PM |
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musicmayker1
Springfield Gardens, NY
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Yes it is very important. Think about it for a moment folks. If was not important, it would not matter if you or your mate had multiple partners during your relationship. The pain of the word adultery would not be felt. No partner would be angry because their lover engaged in sex with someone else. In times past sex was sacred, there was nothing greater that could be given to another individual other than yourself. There is definitely a connection between two people whether we admit or not when engaged in sexual activity. There is no other activity that provides the stimulation of all the senses externally and internally at the same time. Name another activity that will make the strongest man weak, make a man work ten jobs to please a woman, make a woman extra sensitive and at times overly possessive, make a man travel across the globe just to see her face. The thing we also fail to realize is that sex is not limited to the physical act of sex. It begins with the mind stimulation, that gleam in the eyes, that whisper, that hug or rub, those soft words, the flowers, the compliment, the kiss on the neck, that foot massage, the bubble bath with soft music and candles, the scent. Sometimes fellas, the foreplay is more intense than the penetration. When we as men take care of the needs of the women, then those that feel that its not important may change their minds about it and all will be satisfied. Can't just hit it and roll over, its selfish. It will leave your woman unsatisfied which will then leave a crack in the door for someone else or something else to satisfy her. Let your mind, body and soul embrace the purpose and pleasure of intimacy. The two became one flesh
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| 6/20/2013 1:13:59 PM |
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emhayisboss
Corona, CA
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Who wants to have sex with me? (ladies only)
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| 6/20/2013 1:14:52 PM |
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emhayisboss
Corona, CA
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Lol. Everyone here is divorced??? Lol.
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| 6/20/2013 8:33:28 PM |
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ed31054
Fort Lauderdale, FL
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Yes it is very important
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| 6/20/2013 11:49:56 PM |
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sunnidays4ever
North Olmsted, OH
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Yes my ex husband was a drunk & couldn't get it up. I hope he doesn't read this
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| 6/21/2013 12:15:22 AM |
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stillwaitinfor1
Gloucester Point, VA
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I don't know who you are, but I do commend for this diatribe. I had to basically say this same exact thing almost verbatim to a friend of mine earlier tonight.
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| 6/26/2013 9:09:28 PM |
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billscousin
Harrisburg, PA
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sex is not love or love making. it is sex. you can get it anywhere anytime.
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| 7/13/2013 5:11:16 PM |
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teamstergirl
Saint Cloud, FL
55, joined Jul. 2013
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sex is absolutely very important in relationship...intimacy and touch...
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| 7/23/2013 6:06:07 PM |
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freddyolive
New Bedford, MA
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yes sex is important only with 1 who u spend time with and relationship with 
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| 7/25/2013 9:32:06 AM |
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texastaurus67
Universal City, TX
50, joined Feb. 2013
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Yes it is.
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| 7/25/2013 7:34:31 PM |
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slo_nautical
Virginia Beach, VA
34, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes, and lack of it was one of the reasons I got a divorce. Intimacy can be the purest sign of trust in a relationship and should be shared often.
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