4/11/2013 4:51:34 AM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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erichardson676
Queen Creek, AZ
29, joined Mar. 2013
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My final hearing is in two weeks.. We've been seperated for months and I've never been so lonely and depressed in my life... Any advise? I sure could use a friend right now.. My names Eric by the way..
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4/11/2013 8:55:00 PM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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deena1965
Winter Haven, FL
52, joined Apr. 2012
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No I'm there to didn't think it would be so hard
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4/12/2013 8:52:03 AM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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georgiamama2010
Pembroke, GA
35, joined Nov. 2012
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I'm going on 2 years of being separated because I can't afford a divorce right now. The only reason I still talk to him or his gf is because of my baby.
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4/13/2013 3:43:06 AM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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pickygirl72
Picher, OK
46, joined Sep. 2011
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I was lonely in my 20 yr marriage. I am much happier now. OP please don't rely on others to make you happy. Go start a hobby, do stuff you didn't do when u were married, call up a buddy or family member. If you don't have that start volunteering, so u can get new friends. So the nights are a bit lonely, it happens to us all. Tomorrows a new day and its up to YOU to change your life for the better. Good lcuk.
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4/13/2013 6:08:17 AM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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johneboy40
Brockton, MA
45, joined Feb. 2012
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You're going to be all right. Your going through the emotions now. The sooner the better. Just look to better yourself just be social as you can be. I'm trying to get divorced going on two years now
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4/15/2013 1:07:43 AM |
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erichardson676
Queen Creek, AZ
29, joined Mar. 2013
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Ya.. It's hard cause I'm still in love with her but she isn't with me.. I see pictures of her with another man and with his son.. I hear and see things.. Little things that remind me of her and puts me in a depression the rest of the day. I've tried finding hobbies or something but nothing has helped yet..
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4/26/2013 10:15:05 PM |
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angel4u2c2
Lockport, IL
47, joined Apr. 2013
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I feel your pain, going through the same thing, married almost 20 yearsand he could care less about me now. You are a good looking guy, u will find ssomeone who deserves you, up for chatting anytime, it does help.
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4/27/2013 11:39:15 AM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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eaglemom02
Northfield, MN
52, joined Mar. 2009
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Pickygirl has it right. Don't forget to go thru the stages of grief. It's the death of life as you know it, but start thinking and planning on what you want for a new life. I'm post-divorce 4 years, still have some set backs, but just keep looking forward.
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4/27/2013 11:45:33 AM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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eaglemom02
Northfield, MN
52, joined Mar. 2009
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Block out those comments and pictures that you see of the ex, it'll just eat at you. Take a good look at yourself and why you think you are still in love with the ex. I was married over 20 years, you get into habits, patterns, convenience, and denials.
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4/27/2013 6:12:33 PM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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jensacrazylady
Lake Mary, FL
31, joined Apr. 2013
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I wish you luck me and my ex husband separated when my son was 6 months old so that was rough, but looking back it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me time heals all.
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4/27/2013 7:26:51 PM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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itamardeluna73
Houston, TX
44, joined Jan. 2013
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Be strong it will get better 1 year affter mine and im in a good place now
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4/29/2013 11:05:15 AM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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islandia8
Tacoma, WA
53, joined Jan. 2013
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Eric, you need a hug.!!!
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4/30/2013 6:40:28 PM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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clarkeeee
Rockford, IL
39, joined Apr. 2013
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It has only been 8 months for me. Sometimes, I need to think about my marriage and why I am not still married. It is easy romanticise the past and think about the good times, but you have to remember the things that slowly built up and probably led to the end.
It's going to take time, but you need to force yourself to live your life. No use obssessing over a relationship that only one of you wants...how happy could that possibly make you?
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5/2/2013 5:45:31 PM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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kazfla
Gainesville, FL
52, joined Mar. 2013
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Surrounding yourself with family and friends will help...
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5/2/2013 7:25:50 PM |
Going through divorce.. Lonely |
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pj1169
Little Rock, AR
47, joined Mar. 2013
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Going through my divorce was much harder than I thought it would be. I was on a roller coaster of emotions for over a year. Everyone kept telling me it would get better but I just couldn't see it through my haze and loneliness. But they were exactly right. I had many very supportive friends and family around me to help me through it. Today, I am happier than I thought I could be. It just takes time and patience.
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