why is dating and handicap so hard?

Page: 1, 2, 3, 4

6/28/2008 11:25:48 AM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
wheelsincanada Kitchener, ON age: 45	why is dating and being handicap so hard. i`am 45 and i have had only one girl friend and if you read my thing about why women don`t want to date a handicapped man you will already know that she only wanted my money. i would love to find mrs right. but it is so hard to. all i`am asking for is a nice woman to setttle downn with. is that too much to ask for??
6/28/2008 3:12:45 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
bigbadklondyke Eaton, OH age: 45	Quote from wheelsincanada: why is dating and being handicap so hard. i`am 45 and i have had only one girl friend and if you read my thing about why women don`t want to date a handicapped man you will already know that she only wanted my money. i would love to find mrs right. but it is so hard to. all i`am asking for is a nice woman to setttle downn with. is that too much to ask for?? WELCOME 2 THE BOAT GRAB A OAR
6/28/2008 4:50:19 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
springfever100 Nepean, ON age: 41	I have yet to have a girlfriend period, myself, but it doesn't stop me, so since we all have no companions, I have to ask, are they any other possible dating sites we should be on, I tried that Whispers4U page, but like many others , it's a frikin pay site, wish I knew of others that catered to disabled, also I admit to not being as disabled as many of ya out there, but I do have a lot of problems, lazy eye, chronic fatigue,massive anxiety attacks, agoraphobia, but i can still somewhat function, 3 months ago I actually wrote a woman in a wheelchair on lavalife, age was spot on, interests weren't bad etc, she turned me down for one reason, cause I didn't make any money,( she did though) so even the disabled can be picky, I wrote her back again, it was ignored, sigh i tried anyway
6/28/2008 9:04:16 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
bigbadklondyke Eaton, OH age: 45	I think they r so fixed on money they don't have the time they want something better they over look the fact we can love I've had money & all they want is more now that I don't they still want 2 take advantage of u go figure if ask me I think they suffer from dumb c*** syndrome
6/28/2008 9:34:29 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
forestrose Calgary, AB age: 55	Money is a reality, because in a long term relationship there has to be enough money. I know, because I am on CPP, so I know I have to find a man who either has his own income or doesn't mind that I bring less to the table. Other factors are: lack of knowledge, misconception, and fear about a person's specific disability, not having the character it takes to be a little more scrutinized, for lack of a better word, publicly, and perhaps misunderstanding about how a disability affects (or how it doesn't affect) a relationship. A friend of mine married her doctor. May be a stretch, but see - there is hope!
6/29/2008 4:39:39 AM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
bigbadklondyke Eaton, OH age: 45	Quote from forestrose: Money is a reality, because in a long term relationship there has to be enough money. I know, because I am on CPP, so I know I have to find a man who either has his own income or doesn't mind that I bring less to the table. Other factors are: lack of knowledge, misconception, and fear about a person's specific disability, not having the character it takes to be a little more scrutinized, for lack of a better word, publicly, and perhaps misunderstanding about how a disability affects (or how it doesn't affect) a relationship. A friend of mine married her doctor. May be a stretch, but see - there is hope! then answer this if they want equal rights then y is it a 1way street that leads 2 1 thing what's mine is hers & what's hers is hers all my life that's how it's been from my stupid f**k'n mother & sister 2 every relationship I've been in all they do is want I live on SSI may not b much but can make-it
6/29/2008 7:40:51 AM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
forestrose Calgary, AB age: 55	I can't address your issues with specific women, as that is a generalization you have because of your personal experience. I tried to give the perspective of a female with disability, as the issues are the same. There are women earning big bucks and have assets, looking for the same man I am, and I can just pay my bills. Of course there are people who care solely or in large part for the money, but not all. I know one man who is homeless and never without a girlfriend, maybe he just keeps looking. He also happens to have a very positive attitude, and treats people well. My friends all accept my situation and love me for who I am, and I believe I have a lot to offer, so one day there will be a man who likes me so much, nothing else will matter, and we will work together to keep the ship floating. That is how I deal with it - hope, optimism, and counting on myself for my happiness. No, it isn't easy, and I have days when I am depressed, don't want to be around people, and go through my feelings of sadness, loss, anger, self pity - I am entitled to these sometimes, but I don't want to 'live' there.
6/29/2008 10:29:21 AM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
springfever100 Nepean, ON age: 41	the thing with this woman in the wheelchair I asked out etc, wasn't the fact I had zero money, i do have some money, not much, but I'm stable,have no debt etc, wasn't asking her to support me, I was asking to be her companion,I myself do not cost much to function and I'm quite happy, I could have helped her actually ,, and got along fine with her.. but unlike her, least I'm trying to find someone, and staying positive etc, ( checked last night, yep she's still looking online, unfortunately, she's looking for dollar signs, she will die single unless she gives or changes her thinking, cause not too many people want a slightly overweight smoker in a wheelchair at age 44,
6/29/2008 11:24:43 AM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
bigbadklondyke Eaton, OH age: 45	I wish I was in Canada down here in the states they look at u like u will catch something I'm a giver I may have a thing about being there 4 some body but 9 out of 10 times it bites back at u or they don't want 2 get involved I'll b the same person I've always am & keep standing up 4 the disabled & if happens so be it
6/29/2008 2:06:11 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
no12luvyet Philadelphia, PA age: 53	she smokes!!! that a negative point in itself. i would'nt even consider talking online to a woman who smoked . nor will i date her if she was HUGE .i told you guys about the woman i dated who was extremely overweight but was pretty . she smelled .........yeek !!! so guys ! don;t do it .JMO as for you BIG.don;t ever beg for a females attention , it makes all the other guys look like lil wuss's . i never did and never will beg . you have to understand something guys ,alot of females on here get so many guys telling them they are this and that ! and so it goes to her head and she now thinks she's God's gift to man .....lol. let her keep thinking that way , in the meantime ,make a list of the smart ass's and Block them as i do . then one day she'll turn around and realize she's 75 years old ,lonely and gonna die with nobody there to help her or to see her will carried out . also keep in mind . alot are on SSI anddon;t have a home of her owns . some live on welfare and in low rent housing in the GHETTO . word of advice guys! just beyourself and never start a conversation with anyone .let her initiate it .if she really wants to get to know you ,she;ll make the first move . by the way fellas ,i'm going to be in long beach island this week with yep you guessed it .a female from DH . pretty lucky huh . she immed me and started the initail convo . she seems ok ,time will tell . talk to you people later ,have a good one . ROB(philly)
6/29/2008 2:08:47 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
no12luvyet Philadelphia, PA age: 53	SPRING, WHEELS AND BIG , BE STRONG MY BROTHERS ,THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE AND TRY THIS OTHER FREE SITE .IT'S FOR THE DISABLED . DISABOOM.COM good luck guys ,hope it works out for you . ROB(philadelphia)
6/30/2008 10:38:51 AM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
wheelsincanada Kitchener, ON age: 45	all i want is someone to love. i wouldn`t care if she didn`t have any money as long as the long was there. as the beatles saod money can`t buy you love and i live by that.
6/30/2008 12:04:25 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
springfever100 Nepean, ON age: 41	the fact was, I didn't have money and she did, instant deal breaker, wheelchair or not, I think most women if not all are biologically programmed at birth to only accept someone of equal or better financial status, I dunno, she doesn't know what she could have had with me someone who actually cares etc, loyal, super nice... Tony!!
6/30/2008 6:51:09 PM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
gigglebox21 Evansville, IN age: 18	Uhm thats a wonderful question. I have the same problem which I think everybody that is handicap. I was on a website called disaboom and I chated w/ alot of handicap guys but they all want girls who don't have I disability and I just don't understand why.
7/1/2008 6:41:29 AM	why is dating and handicap so hard?
lindasj Cincinnati, OH age: 49	Quote from gigglebox21: Uhm thats a wonderful question. I have the same problem which I think everybody that is handicap. I was on a website called disaboom and I chated w/ alot of handicap guys but they all want girls who don't have I disability and I just don't understand why. They are looking for a nurse and a purse. I wish them luck. I believe if two people with disabilities can combine resources and each of their abilities could offset the other's disability they could make a a good life for themselves.

Page: 1, 2, 3, 4

mega personal login

megapersonals con