| 4/18/2013 1:34:27 AM |
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anonomouse
Salt Lake City, UT
66, joined Jan. 2012
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I had a simple question to ask a couple of people that have been on here for a while. I tried to send a message but was informed that their profile is closed to anyone that is not a "friend".
Sheesh, I wasn't sending ricin messages!
It was kind of sad because that's what this place has become. Not fun and you almost have to watch what you say in case someone takes it wrong.
On the bright side....it may have been cold as heck outside today but the sun was shining and if you sat inside and only looked out the window you could pretend it was a glorious day!
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| 4/18/2013 1:57:10 AM |
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tigerclawz59
Ogden, UT
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I had a simple question to ask a couple of people that have been on here for a while. I tried to send a message but was informed that their profile is closed to anyone that is not a "friend".
Sheesh, I wasn't sending ricin messages!
It was kind of sad because that's what this place has become. Not fun and you almost have to watch what you say in case someone takes it wrong.
On the bright side....it may have been cold as heck outside today but the sun was shining and if you sat inside and only looked out the window you could pretend it was a glorious day!
Maybe you should hire a cereal killer 
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| 4/18/2013 3:31:32 AM |
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anonomouse
Salt Lake City, UT
66, joined Jan. 2012
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Not going to worry about it. After a private message I received, I realize how stupid and insignificant my little complaint was...
I should be counting my many blessings instead of complaining about dumb stuff.
And, I think I'm gonna go pop a beer open and smile.
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| 4/18/2013 7:30:24 AM |
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topendstuff
Eden, UT
61, joined May. 2007
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I can see some merit in this function. For stalkers, love sick crazies and people that have a live lifetime membership to "Idiots R Us".
The point I cant see is that if you "think" you have found your "soul mate", and only make your profile private..... then I do not think that you are sold on the idea of going duet solely. Typical half c*cked effort of the "Eternal Dater" by not deleting said profile all together.
If it is for the reason that you have such an important entourage and need their input, Facebook works.
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| 4/18/2013 10:00:42 AM |
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anonomouse
Salt Lake City, UT
66, joined Jan. 2012
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Ummm, Top...not sure what you just said but...since I'm married I probably shouldn't be on here. However...how the heck am I gonna talk to people like you????????????? I would really miss interactions with some of the people on this site.
Besides, I'm a b*tch and will do what I want..*wink*
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| 4/18/2013 1:04:26 PM |
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dayana2
Salt Lake City, UT
51, joined Mar. 2010
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I just go private because sometimes I'm not really into talking to people at the moment.
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| 4/18/2013 3:36:14 PM |
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rick0123
Salt Lake City, UT
31, joined Jan. 2012
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| 4/18/2013 5:54:40 PM |
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topendstuff
Eden, UT
61, joined May. 2007
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Ummm, Top...not sure what you just said but...since I'm married I probably shouldn't be on here. However...how the heck am I gonna talk to people like you????????????? I would really miss interactions with some of the people on this site.
Besides, I'm a b*tch and will do what I want..*wink*
I don't think I have ever seen you go "private". So I don't think it has any thing that applies to you..... Does it?
Thought more applies to the ones who found their soul mate. (but not quite sure about it) Also now that you have opened up Pandoras Box here. I wonder how many are going to jump on the band wagon for removal? Such as the other pair that were coming in here for their support group.
Dayna....... Why so moody? Your a cute gal. Seems you got the world by the tail and leading it around. In my profile it stated that "to have your bombs, ghosts and tennie runners secured...."
Interpretation.... Have all your exs and past main squeezes placed in last weeks garbage can. If you have tennie runners out ready to be laced.....You are not serious about finding Mr / Mrs Happiness. and will run once you get what you want. Be it a little nookie or use the hell out of someones pocketbook
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| 4/18/2013 7:55:59 PM |
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dayana2
Salt Lake City, UT
51, joined Mar. 2010
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Well Top, all of that just sounds like your experiences in life. Sorry, someone hurt you so bad. Oh, and I'm like Anonomouse, I do what I want
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| 4/18/2013 10:40:48 PM |
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topendstuff
Eden, UT
61, joined May. 2007
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Nah. Not hurt. Provided a platform to build from.
Doing want you want...... Does that get you what you need? IE In here and in the dating world.
Don't do no good to provide someone with a compliment.
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| 4/18/2013 11:09:22 PM |
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girl_who_dreams
West Jordan, UT
53, joined Dec. 2012
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| 4/19/2013 2:55:15 AM |
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gypsiegirly
Provo, UT
51, joined Nov. 2008
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I'm with mouse on this thing of doing what you want, sometimes people just don't feel like being bothered by emails on here I guess which is totally their choice free will and all of course if it is anyone I know mouse let me know and I will email them for ya.
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| 4/19/2013 3:27:54 AM |
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anonomouse
Salt Lake City, UT
66, joined Jan. 2012
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Hey gal, I appreciate that but, if I'm not welcome in the first place, I'm not going to pull strings to get to them.
Instead I sent the question to someone else who actually took my question and answered it. Thank you to...you know who you are.
I think this private thing bugs me the most because it does reflect that there are cliques on this site. Some people deny it, but, one in particular is a person I tried to send the question to.
This place needs a good .........pardon the word.....DOUCHE.
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| 4/19/2013 3:56:28 AM |
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topendstuff
Eden, UT
61, joined May. 2007
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The direction of this thread and recent comments, makes me wonder things like, if you don't want to be bothered with emails why , pray tell, are these people on the site?
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| 4/19/2013 9:54:58 AM |
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dayana2
Salt Lake City, UT
51, joined Mar. 2010
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I don't think it should be considered a personal affront when people go invisible. They are just taking a break and not actively looking. Nothing wrong with that. And Top....I'm not sure why anyone's going invisible affects you. We all decide what's best for ourselves.
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| 4/19/2013 1:58:23 PM |
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topendstuff
Eden, UT
61, joined May. 2007
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So glad this is America and everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
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| 4/19/2013 2:40:48 PM |
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dayana2
Salt Lake City, UT
51, joined Mar. 2010
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That's true ... I agree. And you can choose to be offended by things that don't affect you.
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| 4/19/2013 9:01:46 PM |
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topendstuff
Eden, UT
61, joined May. 2007
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And at what do you feel that I was offended by?
By you expressing your opinion?
By me expressing mine?
Is it that you feel the same as mine? Just don't have the nerve to coincide with the point in fact?
Or are you lashing out for a bad decision you made and it exposed one of your vulnerabilities?
PS As there have been many comments that when you start in on the name calling, accusations, blind inference of which one has no clue about.... These are your weakest points and character flaws that you will not admit to.
I do so pray that you find peace in your lifetime!
[Edited 4/19/2013 9:02:25 PM ]
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| 4/20/2013 2:48:54 AM |
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anonomouse
Salt Lake City, UT
66, joined Jan. 2012
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I don't think it should be considered a personal affront when people go invisible. They are just taking a break and not actively looking. Nothing wrong with that. And Top....I'm not sure why anyone's going invisible affects you. We all decide what's best for ourselves.
Not speaking for anyone but myself. I had people that I thought were friends I could talk to and now I find that I can't because I'm not on their friend list.
It does affect me because it hurts my feelings that I'm no longer "privileged" or "worthy" enough apparently.
I guess what hurts the most is that I miss talking with those people and now I have no way to do it.
LOL...yeah, I know it sounds pathetic but...after a few years of joking around with people to not be able to contact them again just makes me feel bad.
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| 4/20/2013 2:07:04 PM |
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dayana2
Salt Lake City, UT
51, joined Mar. 2010
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Not speaking for anyone but myself. I had people that I thought were friends I could talk to and now I find that I can't because I'm not on their friend list.
It does affect me because it hurts my feelings that I'm no longer "privileged" or "worthy" enough apparently.
I guess what hurts the most is that I miss talking with those people and now I have no way to do it.
LOL...yeah, I know it sounds pathetic but...after a few years of joking around with people to not be able to contact them again just makes me feel bad.
Anonomouse, I'm sorry, I wasn't looking at if from your perspective, only mine . My only point was, when people go invisible I don't think their intentions are to hurt anyone. If they are just "invisible" chances are that they will go public again. And , I don't think you are pathetic. You seem very nice to me.
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| 4/20/2013 2:08:54 PM |
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dayana2
Salt Lake City, UT
51, joined Mar. 2010
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And at what do you feel that I was offended by?
By you expressing your opinion?
By me expressing mine?
Is it that you feel the same as mine? Just don't have the nerve to coincide with the point in fact?
Or are you lashing out for a bad decision you made and it exposed one of your vulnerabilities?
PS As there have been many comments that when you start in on the name calling, accusations, blind inference of which one has no clue about.... These are your weakest points and character flaws that you will not admit to.
I do so pray that you find peace in your lifetime!
Who is lashing out? You got all that from my few words? Sorry, but I really think you are projecting. I only agreed that this is America.
Just so people know, I have never met Top.
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