| 6/20/2013 5:52:37 AM |
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kamildep
Forsyth, GA
31, joined Jan. 2013
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I am not the most spiritual guy in the world...but I know marriage is of God. I met a female in Atlanta, we had a nice time. .. what was weird was she brought her son bc her "husband wasn't watching her son so she can go on a date"....I made a face.  she hit me with the " we getting a divorce, we legally seperated , he hurt me" bs that a lot of women and men use. WTH?? Am I crazy or this is a disaster waiting to happen? ?  a brother out
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| 6/20/2013 6:32:14 AM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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I am not the most spiritual guy in the world...but I know marriage is of God. I met a female in Atlanta, we had a nice time. .. what was weird was she brought her son bc her "husband wasn't watching her son so she can go on a date"....I made a face. she hit me with the " we getting a divorce, we legally seperated , he hurt me" bs that a lot of women and men use. WTH?? Am I crazy or this is a disaster waiting to happen? ? a brother out
In those situations you have to be careful, do detective work, ask questions, but you answered your own question. If you are going to have sin conciseness of feeling guilty (Marriage is of God) back out.
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| 6/20/2013 7:03:45 AM |
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blk_beauty31
Kennesaw, GA
35, joined Jan. 2013
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Whoa, she brought her son? Anyway, I was legally seperated for some time as divorce can be a long drawn out process. I didn't date much, but now I realize I probably shouldn't have dated at all. Years later and I'm just to a good place emotionally, financially, etc. My ex and I are friends now, and that just took time and growing up...especially with kids involved. I think that "seperated", the husband won't watch the child is just a big mess going on. I'd never get involved in that type of situation knowing what I know, but I guess to each his own.
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| 6/20/2013 10:32:30 AM |
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hesodifferent
Marietta, GA
36, joined Feb. 2013
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This is why im scared to get married now. Nobody wants to go through "for worst part" and they break out as soon as shit gets real. The whole divorce process is supposed to be long drawn out and expensive as hell to make sure thats what they really want. But the children should not have to suffer for it. Men should be real men and own up to mistakes they may have made. Women should be lady enough to do the same and both should be ready and willing to forgive the other. Im tired.of seeing divorced couples and single parents ands broken households amoung us african americans. It aint nothin to brag about neither it just means you f**ked up a commitment over bullshit. Not just a commitment to eachother but a commiment to God as well.
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| 6/20/2013 7:29:30 PM |
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kamildep
Forsyth, GA
31, joined Jan. 2013
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I agree brother. You ain't never lied about that. Sad
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| 6/20/2013 8:06:13 PM |
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foreverreal4545
Dayton, OH
28, joined Mar. 2013
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run!!!
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| 6/20/2013 11:47:32 PM |
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sunnidays4ever
North Olmsted, OH
46, joined Apr. 2013
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 Just sayin to much drama there I wouldn't do it there are to many single ones out there. I wouldn't waste my time they might get back together it sounds like.
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| 6/26/2013 7:35:35 PM |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
48, joined Oct. 2011
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You don't want to be the rebound guy!
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| 6/26/2013 11:08:04 PM |
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idealsoflove
Washington, DC
28, joined May. 2013
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she's still married. Ask if they still live together. If so, they are not legally separated. they cannot live together for a year or have sex, plain & simple.
date her when she's single, if she is not telling the truth you could be sued by her husband and involved with the court divorce.
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| 6/27/2013 12:05:24 AM |
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jade_a_bop
Duluth, MN
38, joined Feb. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 6/27/2013 12:19:22 AM |
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bigdaddyishere
Las Vegas, NV
36, joined Mar. 2011
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is that the b*tch in the pic with you, she looks easy, go ahead and hose her a few times, then text dump her
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| 7/6/2013 5:37:05 PM |
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el1zag1rl
Springfield, NJ
46, joined Jun. 2013
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Legal separation is the stage of divorce in which a couple is splitting up their finances, households, arranging any custody issues, etc...in my experience it was definitely not a time for dating...in fact, I didn't choose to date for another two years after the divorce was final. I took the time to work on my issues and come to terms with so much in my life. I had to establish my career, settle into a custody arrangement, find a place to live, etc.
This is why, when a man that I dated later on confessed he was legally separated and waiting for the new year to avoid some kind of tax hit, I just put my hand up and told him, no. I'm sorry, but I did my work with that whole process and I am not going to get involved with someone in the middle of figuring out their own. It isn't a strong basis from which to start a relationship when there are is so much being processed and learned. bulldozing through that comes across to me as someone who does not take care of themselves and learn from their experiences. Not to mention the ethical sense I have of respecting that something is not over until it is over.
People have different points of view, but this is mine. Thanks for reading.
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