| 8/25/2013 9:57:39 AM |
It hit the fan last night |
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newdirection6
Wellsville, OH
63, joined Nov. 2007
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Hi everyone, I haven't been on her lately because I am caring for my mom and other things on my mind now.
Last night I went to my 40 class reunion. I seen a lady there who was married to my cousin. Well she looked at me and said hi. Then started telling me about how my cousin cheated on her for 20 years and she didn't know about it. O.K. here is the KICKER. She said her divorce was bad as a DEATH of her husband. Yes she said it to the wrong person. I let her have it. I told her at least with a divorce person you can call them and cuss them out if you want. I told her I wish I could just call John up and yell at him for dying. I told her never compare divorce to death unless you been there. It is the worse thing a person can go through. I have been through 2 more deaths of close men. We had plans to have a future. 
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| 8/25/2013 7:54:46 PM |
It hit the fan last night |
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newdirection6
Wellsville, OH
63, joined Nov. 2007
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I went through a divorce first. We were married for 10 years. Then I divorced him then waited for 21years then the man of my dreams showed up. He moved in the apartments across the street. Then one day he said hi. He had me from that day. We were married for 6 years.
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| 8/26/2013 12:57:18 AM |
It hit the fan last night |
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whistlerblue
Lancaster, CA
59, joined Jun. 2010
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Hi everyone, I haven't been on her lately because I am caring for my mom and other things on my mind now.
Last night I went to my 40 class reunion. I seen a lady there who was married to my cousin. Well she looked at me and said hi. Then started telling me about how my cousin cheated on her for 20 years and she didn't know about it. O.K. here is the KICKER. She said her divorce was bad as a DEATH of her husband. Yes she said it to the wrong person. I let her have it. I told her at least with a divorce person you can call them and cuss them out if you want. I told her I wish I could just call John up and yell at him for dying. I told her never compare divorce to death unless you been there. It is the worse thing a person can go through. I have been through 2 more deaths of close men. We had plans to have a future.
First of all, kudos to you for taking care of your Mom instead of being here. You have your priorities in the right order!
Second of all, kudos to you for letting your cousin's ex have it. She had it coming. People can be heartless and cruel and, unfortunately I speak from experience, family can be the worst.
Divorce can never compare with death. Remember the wedding vows? it's not "til divorce do you part!"
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| 8/31/2013 1:07:49 AM |
It hit the fan last night |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
61, joined Jun. 2012
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Years ago while going through my divorce with my first husband and in therapy, my psychologist told me some divorces affect people so strongly they feel as if the spouse had passed away. She said you go through the same stages. Now that I have experienced both, I will agree..
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| 8/31/2013 3:53:45 AM |
It hit the fan last night |
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ldyinred54
Buford, GA
62, joined Jul. 2013
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I have had same problem but it was my brother. He told me reason his divorce was worse was that I knew where my husband was an he had not idea what his ex wife was doing or where she was at. He made me cry. I told him Yes I do know where he is hes dead and I cant fix that but if him and his ex would stop pointing fingers at each other they might could get back together. I also said I cant get mine back cause he is dead. I told him we both hurt but I would never say his was worse. Death is gone forever no way to turn back hands of time. I also have a problem he dosen't my husband has a identical twin brother still here and not to far from me. I realize both hurts but death is so final no way to fix that . So sorry hun I really know how that hurts. They need to walk in our shoes awhile.
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| 8/31/2013 10:44:28 AM |
It hit the fan last night |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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yep ... OP ... but who won the game?
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| 10/8/2013 4:43:39 PM |
It hit the fan last night |
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barstoolguru1
Dallas, TX
57, joined Oct. 2013
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agreed, they should never think divorce is even close to a unexpected death
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| 10/29/2013 10:05:41 PM |
It hit the fan last night |
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honeyluck
Pittsburgh, PA
44, joined Sep. 2013
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Yes it did after funeral 2 day widow n step daughter fighting over van that the deceased didn't want wife 2 have OMG
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