Richmond, VA

2/22/2014 8:56:32 AM
baldhead1va Richmond, VA 50, joined Jan. 2014	Keep it REAL ladies! Could you date/love a man who only earns minimum wages? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/22/2014 8:59:51 AM	Richmond, VA
kaleeb09 Fort Washington, MD 23, joined Mar. 2013	I have but then again I'm 22, according to these forums I'm doomed to become a gold digging wh*re.
2/22/2014 9:02:56 AM	Richmond, VA
cheatk Urbandale, IA 46, joined Jun. 2013	Quote from baldhead1va: Keep it REAL ladies! Could you date/love a man who only earns minimum wages? Op look. Yes I'm rolling... Is this your way of trying to get women to view your profile? Yes I did, and if that's what you really make...that still does not attract...."me" Nope didn't say my attention needed to be got... So I'll cover That for ya. Now... Ask yourself, would you date a woman making "minimum wage"? I didn't think so. So cut the attention get ok
2/22/2014 9:07:33 AM	Richmond, VA
smthgabouther Baltimore, MD 34, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from baldhead1va: Keep it REAL ladies! Could you date/love a man who only earns minimum wages? Yeah. I have dated a man with no job at all. As long as men like that don't evpect the woman to be 100% on her game when his a** ain't.
2/22/2014 9:08:52 AM	Richmond, VA
riflessivo AlmafuerteStaffordshire United Kingdom 41, joined Jan. 2014	Yes, because at least he is contributing.
2/22/2014 9:10:48 AM	Richmond, VA
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 51, joined Jun. 2012	Been there....done that....
2/22/2014 9:14:11 AM	Richmond, VA
txrose64 Pearland, TX 51, joined Jan. 2013	It'd have depended on the guy and why he was only making minimum wage, probably not, as my son is finding out with his first job, it doesn't go very far. He's not bringing home take out anymore when I'd cooked supper, realizing damn I had to work over an hour for that crappy fast food meal. While how much he makes isn't really an issue with me, I've supported me and mine for a long time now just fine, so I can cover that, his income would mostly be for fun-entertainment, groceries (as it is now) but he will work and contribute. honest answer.
2/22/2014 9:24:15 AM	Richmond, VA
ladyeden Waynesville, MO 55, joined Apr. 2008	Times are tough out there, some are glad to even have a job. At least he's not afraid of work! However, at my age, I would be looking at other facets of this - is he unskilled, uneducated, a coaster with no ambition? Maybe he's just doing it for a bit of extra or out of boredom or until something more in line comes up to pay the bills. It would be more about factors of what makes him him than his paycheck.
2/22/2014 9:30:25 AM	Richmond, VA
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 51, joined Jun. 2012	I would imagine it would depend on your intent .... Not all humans date with the intent to find a mate..... For those whose intent is to find a mate ? The income may change the answer.... Also luv the word REAL in the op...indicating that any woman who says she wld date a min wage earner isn't being REAL.... [Edited 2/22/2014 9:33:21 AM ]
2/22/2014 9:39:50 AM	Richmond, VA
1darksavior Far Rockaway, NY 53, joined Mar. 2011	that depends on the age and life style ,times are hard as long as she lives like she makes minimum wage i could work with her.
2/22/2014 9:46:30 AM	Richmond, VA
maggiemagpie Santee, CA 43, joined Mar. 2012	I love a working man, regardless of his wages. Wages come and go (laid off, fired, job changes, slow business) but the man inside remains the same and as long as he is trying and is willing to work, who cares what he earns?
2/22/2014 10:09:18 AM	Richmond, VA
mr_ctr916 Roseville, CA 52, joined Aug. 2013	you chics know of any cash paying gigs? i would be happy to help out, afterward.
2/22/2014 10:13:12 AM	Richmond, VA
kungfu_candy Alsónémedi Hungary 26, joined Aug. 2013	Not really. When I earned minimum wage other men who earned minimum wage wanted nothing to do with me. The high rollers did. Now that I make an impressive sum the high rollers are STILL happy to date me. However it depends on his potential. Everyone has to crawl before they can walk so if he has a Bachelor's/Associates and is working to get by and do better things then: yes. If his lifetime goal is to be the Manager of Chicken Strip then: no. Now if I accidentally fall in love with someone like this then I'd have to just stfu and suck it up and deal with it.
2/22/2014 10:15:19 AM	Richmond, VA
heather1283 Noble, OK 31, joined May. 2013	He'd have to be a teenager, and I don't date teens. You have to grow up that includes finding a job that's not meant to be filled by kids.
2/22/2014 10:19:19 AM	Richmond, VA
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 52, joined Dec. 2007	Some will. The reality though (ugly that it is) is that she will be less likely to be of a certain "calibre". The rules of economics are relatively unforgiving. Of course there are exceptions.
2/22/2014 10:21:05 AM	Richmond, VA
lost_butler Tulsa, OK 40, joined Nov. 2013	What people say, and what they do, are two entirely different things.
2/22/2014 11:53:41 AM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	They will as long as you are a pre- med. You always need to be striving for something better that makes more money. Most women will not want to tell their girlfriends and family their guy only makes minimum wage and that he isn't in school for anything and he will only make minimum wage for the rest of his life.
2/22/2014 11:55:07 AM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	Quote from joefriday20500: OP - The obvious question is why does the girl need to known the man's wages? Why did the man tell the girl what he earns? None of her business. Well, chances are one of the first questions she asked is what do you do so when he said he worked at Burger King, she knew right away what his income is.
2/22/2014 12:00:27 PM	Richmond, VA
esmeraldar Toms River, NJ 67, joined Jan. 2009	Well, I'm retired and would probably be dating someone who is also retired. If he wants to earn a little extra by working for minimum wage, that's fine with me. And I certainly would prefer to date a man who earns minimum wage than a man who earns nothing. I've had many jobs where I didn't earn much more than that. I may be poor but there's nothing wrong with my caliber, Barry.
2/22/2014 12:28:47 PM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	^^^ That's great but you aren't most women.
2/22/2014 12:32:18 PM	Richmond, VA
baldhead1va Richmond, VA 50, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from cheat: Op look. Yes I'm rolling... Is this your way of trying to get women to view your profile? Yes I did, and if that's what you really make...that still does not attract...."me" Nope didn't say my attention needed to be got... So I'll cover That for ya. Now... Ask yourself, would you date a woman making "minimum wage"? I didn't think so. So cut the attention get ok No I'm NOT seeking attention, just asking a question. Thought that was what these forums were about. Yes, I would date a woman who only made minimum wage.
2/22/2014 12:38:15 PM	Richmond, VA
kandykayn Clarksville, TN 28, joined Dec. 2013	Yep when I met my ex he was making minimum wage. We married he went to school switched jobs started making $200,000 a year and turned into an entitled a**hole. Men who make less are more humble. I prefered my ex as a minimum wage worker.
2/22/2014 12:42:16 PM	Richmond, VA
reginamc Las Vegas, NV 59, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from kandykayn: Yep when I met my ex he was making minimum wage. We married he went to school switched jobs started making $200,000 a year and turned into an entitled a**hole. Men who make less are more humble. I prefered my ex as a minimum wage worker. See, there ya go. It all depends.
2/22/2014 12:45:01 PM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	Quote from gravityann: all women arent like that. if you care about someone you should be more caring about him then what he makes as long as he isnt a lazy bum. Therein lies your problem. You can't get to know someone if you don't spend time with them or go out with them. Having a high paying job gets your foot in the door. If you are only working a minimum wage job, most women won't want anything to do with you. If they knew beforehand that you were in school or training to do something that makes a lot of money, they would give you a shot but it's not like that most of the time. Again, a lot of women on DateHookup claim to be far different than the vast majority of women in the world that aren't on dating web sites. It's fine if you feel that way but most women do not. [Edited 2/22/2014 12:45:45 PM ]
2/22/2014 12:49:21 PM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	Quote from baldhead1va: No I'm NOT seeking attention, just asking a question. Thought that was what these forums were about. Yes, I would date a woman who only made minimum wage. That's because you are a guy. We are wired differently. Women need the security, the house, the nice cars and a high quality life. Minimum wage does not provide those things. It makes complete sense. Wouldn't you want the woman you love to have the best life possible? The majority of men do want that and reality is that money is what can make that happen.
2/22/2014 1:24:04 PM	Richmond, VA
amargosa Riddle, OR 57, joined Aug. 2011	Two people making minimum wage can barely make it together, but it is damned hard for one person to do it. How do you do it? Things are different these days. I remember back in 1982 I came back up to Oregon from California and got a min wage job. I got an enormous apartment, the entire upstairs of a huge Victorian house, for $150 a month. For furnishings I had a couch and two chairs. I had a little radio/turntable combo for a stereo. At night when I got home from work I would have two sandwiches. The ingredients were white bread, Best Foods Sandwich Spread and a preformed, already cooked minced pork patty that came in packages of ten from the supermarket meat dept. After eating, I would do my nightly ritual of drinking two beers and smoking a joint. I had a buddy who grew weed and he would give me huge bags of dried leaf for ten bucks. I had no tv, so for entertainment I read books, drew pictures or searched the radio for oddball radio stations that played interesting music. Back then we still had some unbiased news stations where you could hear something besides "Democrats suck" or "Republicans suck." For more adult fun, I could usually lure one or the other of the girls I worked with home with me a couple of nights per week. At that time I really could not afford actual dating. If I had to live on Oregon minimum wage today, I would fall flat. It would not cover the minimum necessities for life. When you minimum wagers go to vote, remember all your congressmen who voted themselves raises while refusing to raise the federal minimum wage for everyone else.
2/22/2014 1:28:57 PM	Richmond, VA
fishnthec Mesquite, TX 63, joined Oct. 2010	Out of all of the posts, one very bright 21 years young lady gave the very best answer. She said, and I quote, "As long as I don't have to support him". Single people who are supporting themselves and putting a roof over there own head have adapted a lifestyle that centers around their income and their needs. No one will ever want to get involved with someone who is going to drag down their own lifestyle. That is a sacrifice that no one wants to make. In fact, when relationships succeed, and start to live under a single household together, usually the lifestyles can be improved in many ways, as two can often share rent, meals, utilities, transportation as long as they have similar incomes. They tend not to eat out as much, and can find entertainment at home more than single people and all that can save money. Often times, especially with younger people, minimum wages are very temporary. You can't go down, so the only place you can go is up! [Edited 2/22/2014 1:29:48 PM ]
2/22/2014 1:48:48 PM	Richmond, VA
amargosa Riddle, OR 57, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from gravityann: it amazes me how many people find money so important. lol When you suddenly do not have any of it, you will find it important enough.
2/22/2014 1:52:31 PM	Richmond, VA
amargosa Riddle, OR 57, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from gravityann: i think not. lol i dont have it and i could care less about it. i manage on what i have. im not greedy. Who pays for your house and your food? Your power and water? Your car and insurance?
2/22/2014 1:52:38 PM	Richmond, VA
fishnthec Mesquite, TX 63, joined Oct. 2010	Quote from gravityann: it amazes me how many people find money so important. lol if you have a high paying job i understand that you would hope to find someone that makes close to what you make so yall can build a life together in a way that you both want with what you both make. but for money to be the main focus for a reason that someone gets close to someone is bull in my opinion. money will may get you more things life but it will not bring happiness or find you someone that really cares about you. You make a lot of good points Annie! In theory, people do tend to judge others by how much money-making potential they have. I do know a lot of hard-working people who have risen up the income ladder and are happier today as a result. They have more financial independence and that can relieve a lot of stress and pressure in today's world and improve their own lifestyle. We only live once so be all you can be in this old world. So, meeting others that have the same ambition and financial goals is always a good thing. It saves more marriages than anything I can think of short of fidelity.
2/22/2014 1:58:42 PM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	Quote from gravityann: i think not. lol i dont have it and i could care less about it. i manage on what i have. im not greedy. YOU AREN'T MOST WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not sure how I can put it any clearer. MOST women want the best life possible and MONEY gives them that. MOST women want to live in a nice house and have nice, reliable cars and go on vacations and ENJOY LIFE. Again, obviously not ALL of them do but since MOST of them do, I am going with the math here. The OP is 48 and if he makes minimum wage, he is pretty much scum in a woman's eyes UNLESS he is studying to become a doctor or something that equals what a 48 year old should be making by this time in his life. Even if he did find a woman to date, it wouldn't last long. A minimum wage job cannot sustain a relationship with MOST people. Again, you are in the minority and if you can't comprehend that MOST people want the best life possible and that MONEY can get that for them, there is no use trying to make you understand. A 48 year old to MOST people should be making WAY more than minimum wage if he expects to date. Sure, minimum wage can pay the bills if he lives a super simple life but he will have little to no money left over for dating let alone maintaining a relationship. [Edited 2/22/2014 2:01:18 PM ]
2/22/2014 2:05:00 PM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	Quote from gravityann: it doesnt take money to make me happy. i seek more important things in life. 100% FALSE!!!! It that was REALLY the case, you wouldn't have internet or a computer. You wouldn't pay rent and you wouldn't pay any bills period. Money DOES make you happy. If you had NO money at all, you would be happy? Prove it. Stop paying ALL YOUR BILLS. Give your money away. Be prepared to steal food or beg for it. Be prepared to live in a cardboard box on the street corner. After all, you state that it doesn't take money to make you happy so PROVE IT.
2/22/2014 2:18:33 PM	Richmond, VA
peaches356 Bel Air, MD 46, joined Dec. 2013	Once upon a time, I got a divorce, before the divorce papers were final, a business man took a very big interest in me. He owned a few mini malls along with a few houses. He didn't have any problem using that as leverage and constantly putting that in my face of what a wonderful life I would live if I were to ride off into the sunset with him. It was really just a turn off for me. And THEN to make the pot even sweeter, he added that I would be riding into the sunset with him on the back of his Harley Davidson. Uh no, I'm not a motorcycle momma! As to what my family and friends would think of whoever I date? Well, they aren't dating him, I am!
2/22/2014 2:30:32 PM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	Money is the number 1 thing couples fight about and the number 2 reason for divorce.
2/22/2014 2:32:06 PM	Richmond, VA
baldhead1va Richmond, VA 50, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from hbguy311: Money is the number 1 thing couples fight about and the number 2 reason for divorce. ^ TRUE
2/22/2014 4:25:46 PM	Richmond, VA
iamblithe Carlsbad, CA 44, joined May. 2013	Does he cook, shop, clean and do laundry? If so...sure.
2/22/2014 4:28:49 PM	Richmond, VA
hadassah169 Dhaneswargati Bangladesh 81, joined Dec. 2012	Yes if he was into "me", and I have before. I got this... I must say men like that aren't frequent in my circles or age group. More of a young adult thing.
2/22/2014 5:10:12 PM	Richmond, VA
sinnerin702 Moorhead, MN 41, joined Feb. 2010	Aint no woman datin a man who makes minimum wage.
2/22/2014 5:24:00 PM	Richmond, VA
hugsnlaughter McKeesport, PA 55, joined Jul. 2007	Well at my age, I am hoping he would be earning a bit more but shit happens and if he was trying to work his way up, yes I would.
2/22/2014 7:13:47 PM	Richmond, VA
touch1025 Ann Arbor, MI 34, joined Jul. 2012	No not at my age.
2/22/2014 9:11:49 PM	Richmond, VA
mercedes01 New South Wales Australia 96, joined Jan. 2010	Yeah
2/22/2014 9:17:10 PM	Richmond, VA
hbguy311 Fullerton, CA 34, joined Aug. 2010	Quote from iamblithe: Does he cook, shop, clean and do laundry? If so...sure. You must have dated or have been married to some real slobs. All of those things you listed should be the basic things in life you need to be able to do and or should be doing.
2/22/2014 9:19:03 PM	Richmond, VA
ooghostoo Beverly Hills, CA 96, joined Feb. 2012	I hate money. I actually have this slightly serious concern. Im close to being published see, and if it were to start making me serious money, I would have to question the motives of the female. Ive seen the Ferrari test. -Ghost MA
2/22/2014 11:02:57 PM	Richmond, VA
niterydah Houston, TX 44, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from kandykayn: Yep when I met my ex he was making minimum wage. We married he went to school switched jobs started making $200,000 a year and turned into an entitled ahole. Men who make less are more humble. I prefered my ex as a minimum wage worker. .......... see sometimes money makes the person ^^^^where as money should never change who you are rather your making minimum wage are 200,000 + a year that shouldnt change your personality .....so that shows he was an ahole when he was making minimum wage but was just hiding it
2/22/2014 11:08:05 PM	Richmond, VA
niterydah Houston, TX 44, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from coco_shaken: I dont think money is important but the electricity and gas company wont accept 'Im in love and broke' ............true this^^^this is a money driven society n the more money you have the better off your gonna be plain n simple
2/23/2014 12:21:19 AM	Richmond, VA
marydenton Aubrey, TX 39, joined Jun. 2011	not at my age
2/23/2014 12:30:35 AM	Richmond, VA
starr_bomb Mesa, AZ 31, joined Mar. 2013	Why not It's still paying the bills...
2/23/2014 12:40:13 AM	Richmond, VA
marydenton Aubrey, TX 39, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from galaxysparklz: I have the same personality I had when making minimum wage in HS and my campus job. I worked offshore in the summers, I made what new college grads made.. Then I worked for them after graduating. My last min wage job was when i was 20. I've moved too far beyond that to be a good match with someone making minimum wage.
2/23/2014 12:43:06 AM	Richmond, VA
starr_bomb Mesa, AZ 31, joined Mar. 2013	And thats why her too good for him azz is single at her age...goodness
2/23/2014 12:51:56 AM	Richmond, VA
marydenton Aubrey, TX 39, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from jsana: mary I am sure is a wonderful lady, but she is ruling out alot of good men, based on income, its kinda sad really ...i got a lot of things to do yet and think about I don't think that I got time to support someone else !!! ......
2/23/2014 12:53:19 AM	Richmond, VA
miscbyproduct Isle Of Man United Kingdom 18, joined Apr. 2012	Quote from jsana: mary I am sure is a wonderful lady, but she is ruling out alot of good men, based on income, its kinda sad really sad for who?
2/23/2014 12:54:29 AM	Richmond, VA
starr_bomb Mesa, AZ 31, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from i0st84: Starr loves me even tho I flip da hamboogies! Just bring me home....something baby...
2/23/2014 1:00:56 AM	Richmond, VA
starr_bomb Mesa, AZ 31, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from i0st84: Oh I will and for dessert you and me are going to make a chocolate vanilla swirl cone That sounds *SWEEEET*
2/23/2014 1:05:08 AM	Richmond, VA
miscbyproduct Isle Of Man United Kingdom 18, joined Apr. 2012	I had a gf that was a waitress at a Denny's. their standard pay is considerably less than min wage they have to hope and pray for tips in order to have even a reasonable pay for their shit. she managed to meet life expenses, whilst raising 3 kids. I eventually found out she had better frigging benefits than I did, working in a machine shop. In that regards, biggest shocker to me was she had a 401k... as $1.sumn hr waitress There are waiters
2/23/2014 1:06:31 AM	Richmond, VA
winterrain222 Stinnett, KY 41, joined Sep. 2013	If he was cute, fun and sweet
2/23/2014 1:08:58 AM	Richmond, VA
starr_bomb Mesa, AZ 31, joined Mar. 2013	If a woman is TRULY independent. ....why does it matter what he makes Thread closed. ..
2/23/2014 1:10:02 AM	Richmond, VA
miscbyproduct Isle Of Man United Kingdom 18, joined Apr. 2012	vaguely
2/23/2014 1:11:04 AM	Richmond, VA
starr_bomb Mesa, AZ 31, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from i0st84: That's why I luff her Lubb you most
2/23/2014 1:12:43 AM	Richmond, VA
miscbyproduct Isle Of Man United Kingdom 18, joined Apr. 2012	Quote from starr_bomb: If a woman is TRULY independent. ....why does it matter what he makes Thread closed. .. might have the ability to be.... but the mental and emotional truth is that they aren't. applies to men just as much. that is, unelss ya just here for the forums [Edited 2/23/2014 1:13:33 AM ]
2/23/2014 1:14:54 AM	Richmond, VA
starr_bomb Mesa, AZ 31, joined Mar. 2013	Huh? In this economy? ! Plenty of people with higher education are working remedial jobs..glad to get what they can get...while they can get it...

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