2/28/2014 6:34:43 PM |
Anyone else recently divorced and simply like a fwb without the bs? |
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lonelyandgone83
Chattanooga, TN
33, joined Jan. 2014
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I was wondering if other people who are recently divorced are out looking for just a fwb to fill in the gap from the healthy sex life you used to have while married? A way just to skip all the bs and just let love happen. Maybe it's just me.
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3/4/2014 1:14:09 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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I am not into the fwb's thing. Sex is not high on my list of things to accomplish. And guess what most fwb's include the bs too.
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3/4/2014 2:52:40 AM |
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anja_lou514
Kissimmee, FL
42, joined May. 2011
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You mean some married people have a healthy sex life?
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3/4/2014 4:17:38 PM |
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lonelyandgone83
Chattanooga, TN
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Im not recently divorced but fwb relationships work best for me. I have to many major priorities to think about a committed relationship. I've had 2 in the last 3 yrs and were fantastic and I'm still great friends with both men.
See that's exactly how I was thinking. My experience with the whole marriage was sour enough to make me against it. Im not talking about having a shit load of partners, just one person that you can call to hook up with each other when one or the other is feeling the desire.
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3/4/2014 10:32:16 PM |
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countryboy4279
Brighton, CO
38, joined Oct. 2013
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I admit, I don't really know what I'm looking for right now, but I think fwb would probably be the best setup for me too.
I just can't get too excited about a major relationship right now. Also, I don't want to feel like I need to divide my time between my daughter and a girlfriend.
I was dating a girl a couple months ago, and she was very high-maintenance. It didn't work out for me because I felt like she was taking my attention away from my daughter and other things that should be a higher priority at this point in my life.
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3/4/2014 11:34:16 PM |
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lonelyandgone83
Chattanooga, TN
33, joined Jan. 2014
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I think, especially for people that are freshly divorced, that a true relationship is the last thing we need. You have to take some time to re discover yourself and maybe take inventory of your strengths and weaknesses so that when it comes time for another relationship it may be stronger than the previous one that did not work.
That being said, even if you don't want a relationship, as humans we still need to have intimacy in our lives and that is where a good fwb would come into play. And who knows, even though you both understand the rules you could end up falling in love with each other when you least expect it.
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3/5/2014 9:27:49 PM |
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caliokc
Oklahoma City, OK
44, joined Jan. 2014
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How hard is it to find a fwb? Is it luck? And how often do you hook up? Answer as much as she's willing! But also females especially develope feelings much easier. Thats a bridge I dont want to cross.
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3/6/2014 3:20:39 PM |
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lonelyandgone83
Chattanooga, TN
33, joined Jan. 2014
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You are 100% correct that Iit is hard to find a good understanding friend that can adhere to the game plan. You are also correct that guys are just as guilty as women when it comes to developing fee lo ins in a situation where there wasn't supposedto be any feelings. I suppose tthat's just part of life though. Sometimes we fall in love when we least expect it and with the person we least expected. But that's what makes it all so good.....
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3/9/2014 1:48:39 AM |
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bwade1231
Drumright, OK
35, joined Aug. 2013
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Bn looking can't find one in my area
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3/11/2014 5:26:51 AM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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i rent women.
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3/11/2014 1:22:59 PM |
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lonelyandgone83
Chattanooga, TN
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Wow... nothing like completely missing the point of the discussion. When speaking about a FWB iam not rreferring to a hooker. It is a close friend that you spend time with and get the benefits without the pressure of a relationship. The idea is not to have to sleep around with 100 different people to have your needs satisfied.
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3/11/2014 7:17:12 PM |
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lonelyandgone83
Chattanooga, TN
33, joined Jan. 2014
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People don't realize that a true fwb is monogamy.. There is a level of respect and honesty that doesn't often exist in actual relationships.
People confuse f**k buddy for fwb.. F**k is the forefront of one and friendship the other..
You have just perfectly said what I have not been able to figure out how to explain. Thanks.
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3/28/2014 6:29:41 PM |
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biking1964
Buford, GA
52, joined May. 2011
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FWB is good in theory. But it will eventually fall apart.
Feelings and emotions will rear their ugly heads unless you both are robots.
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3/28/2014 7:15:49 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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I have one of those. Here lately we're just trading favors, and not having the benefits. But we seem to doing the snuggle buddy thing. Actually, I kind of like that better.
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3/29/2014 12:07:49 AM |
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bill6996
Hernando, FL
59, joined Mar. 2011
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I have been lucky enough to have had a few over the years. Close friends that enjoy each other as friends can share a sexual connections as well. You must live them as a friend above all. If your sexual time comes to am end the friendship doesn't. I was happy go my FWB lady's when they found someone that they eventually married. Respect is what it's all about. Friends respect each other. Many don't know how to be a true friend.
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3/29/2014 10:28:58 AM |
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monsterroller96
Fremont, OH
31, joined Feb. 2014
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Im not afraid to say I was married she ended being a wh*re, and I divorced her she wanted to bang anything with a joystick, but I like fwb's cuz theres no commitment so you dont gotta worry about what shes doing I had two it was awesome and they knew about each other wich was cool and it was fun cuz we did stuff in public places and know one knew I dont have them now they want to try settling down and get a bf so I told ok no hard feeling, so now im on the search again so to say lol
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4/10/2014 6:15:30 PM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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I am recently divorced and met someone. We are both over 50 and enjoy each other sexually. My girlfriend,(feels weird saying girlfriend at 54 ) asked me about getting a female friend to join us. I answered yes. We both have grown children. They have their own family,never been in trouble,and are thriving. We both want this relationship to work even if this seems out of the norm. What do you think? Made the mistake of posting in wrong forum so apologies if I am wrong again. Thanks for your opinion.
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4/12/2014 3:38:28 PM |
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sassypants760
San Marcos, CA
42, joined Feb. 2014
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Quote from luvsanimals1:
People don't realize that a true fwb is monogamy.. There is a level of respect and honesty that doesn't often exist in actual relationships.
People confuse f**k buddy for fwb.. F**k is the forefront of one and friendship the other..
^^^^ agree 100%
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4/13/2014 7:21:18 AM |
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sassypants760
San Marcos, CA
42, joined Feb. 2014
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I'd like one. But an fwb that is only with me.
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4/13/2014 8:47:03 AM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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I'd like one. But an fwb that is only with me.
^^^^ agrees with this^^^^^
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4/13/2014 4:20:24 PM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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We have talked about it, and may want this person to be part of our life into the future. Even though we hope to have a lot of incredible sex together, we want to go to dinner, relax around the house, movies, cooking together, normal every day things, but the emphasis will always be on pleasuring each other and leaving the stress of every day living.
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4/13/2014 10:53:14 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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to fill in the gap from the healthy sex life you used to have while married?
Liar
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4/14/2014 12:44:46 AM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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Sorry, don't lie rather tell the truth and get it over with. Didn't have a healthy sex life during marriage. After 20 years we just passed each other in the hall on the way to work or what ever we were doing. There is nothing complicated about this, it is something we want to try. We are both over 50, kids are out of each of our houses and have their own children. Just talking to people here, not looking for your approval.
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4/27/2014 8:10:06 PM |
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wdavid40
Chattanooga, TN
43, joined Feb. 2014
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Sounds good to me. Even though it wasn't a healthy sex life I did really even have one
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5/21/2014 4:31:15 PM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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We just really want to find someone to be with us not only for the sex but to enjoy things together. We have a great sex life and just want something new. Not multiple sex partners, just the three of us.
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5/22/2014 10:03:58 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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^^^^^
Good luck with that.
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5/23/2014 4:43:59 PM |
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bunnyfastard
Fort Morgan, CO
58, joined Jun. 2008
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I'd like one. But an fwb that is only with me.
This.
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5/23/2014 7:11:48 PM |
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sharper170
Forest Park, GA
48, joined Jul. 2013
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A lot of people have a FWB relationship and do not even realize it. I think most people do not like that "FWB" label.
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5/23/2014 8:25:03 PM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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We will just see how things go once we find someone interested. Don't really know how to go about it. One thing I did notice is there are a lot of couples looking for the same thing.
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5/28/2014 2:55:53 PM |
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just_khloe
Ashtabula, OH
48, joined Jul. 2013
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I see this as being scared...not wanting to let your guard down enough to really let someone In...
Never had a FwB...never wanted one...still holding out for the real thing!
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5/29/2014 5:20:20 AM |
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1968billr
Central, SC
48, joined Jul. 2013
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Maybe it is being safe not scared to let someone in its about taking the time to find oneself again and not get caught getting into another bad relationship but yet fulfilling a desire and what better than with a friend!
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6/13/2014 3:44:51 PM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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This fwb search is somewhat complicated especially when it involves a threesome. There are a lot more couples out there looking for the same thing.
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6/15/2014 2:29:49 PM |
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rogergraffjr47
Delta, CO
34, joined Jun. 2013
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I been divorced over a year now and a fwb would sound really nice. My problem is people think I am too reserved with my emotions and I don't feel I can let my guard down.
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6/25/2014 4:59:46 PM |
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fyahbaby
Honolulu, HI
33, joined May. 2014
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hi there
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6/26/2014 1:43:56 AM |
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redlighthouse
Kempton, PA
48, joined Mar. 2013
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Don't have any expectations and u won't be disappointed. Nothing is what it's cracked up to be.
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6/28/2014 4:37:31 PM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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We are fine being together without someone else. We have fun whatever we do together.
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6/28/2014 8:03:56 PM |
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thck420candy
Bronx, NY
41, joined Sep. 2013
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Hello guys
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6/28/2014 10:43:42 PM |
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swalla_1
Bronx, NY
39, joined Dec. 2013
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Oh you got that babysitter money today huh
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6/29/2014 1:10:38 AM |
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thck420candy
Bronx, NY
41, joined Sep. 2013
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Lol
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6/29/2014 2:02:24 PM |
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koudman5
Marksville, LA
57, joined Dec. 2013
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WTF is baby sitter money? We are in our early 50's and still having fun.
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7/2/2014 1:47:41 AM |
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urbanessence_ny
New York, NY
37, joined May. 2014
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When black men participate in the FWB ritual, they are repeatedly scorned by white men, however "it's ok"'when white men do the same.
[Edited 7/2/2014 1:48:14 AM ]
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7/2/2014 2:29:15 AM |
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thacharmingone
Brooklyn, NY
36, joined Jun. 2014
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Really i dont think so i needs a fwb
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7/2/2014 1:18:50 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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7/3/2014 6:27:50 AM |
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privacyneeded
Montgomery, AL
39, joined Jun. 2014
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Would welcome 1 good fwb provided we have SOMETHING in common both lived clean healthy lives occasional conversation is cool to Ithink we just miss having someone their to hold some nights
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