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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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Divorce does go two ways. Mine did, and I freely admit that I did contribute to it's demise. Seems like it's a progressive thing. Petty annoyances stacked one on top of another. Then the bridge finally breaks. Mine started when my cute blonde wife came home one day with red hair. Now, normally, I don't care what color a woman chooses to be. But in my eyes, she ceased to look good to me. And she started to act the part of the redhead. You know, the outgoing, brash, careless attitude. In turn, I wasn't as attentive to her, and stuff started to slide. It didn't bother me that she gained weight. It was more, her personality changed on me. She wanted to go out more, and me to ignor the stuff that kept a roof over our heads. I could only do so much, and she became less tolerant to it, and me. By that time, I got to not caring what she wanted. End of story.
So, what made yours go bye-bye? Did your's change drastically? Was it sheer boredom? Did you come home to find someone in your bed that wasn't supposed to be? Did you find him with your best nightgown on?   Mystery phone calls, messages, or emails? What in your estimation killed it?
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| 3/28/2014 8:23:57 AM |
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talldad53559
Marshall, WI
38, joined May. 2013
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Me giving up on one sided relationship. Her ignoring kids and draining acct leaving no money for food or gas.
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| 3/30/2014 6:55:26 PM |
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trinkel86
Bristol, FL
30, joined Oct. 2013
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Mystery texting and phone calls. then after he crashed my car I called the number and the girl didn't even know. he had told her he was divorced. so I gave him the reality to his lies.
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| 3/30/2014 10:58:42 PM |
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2wheeledrider
Live Oak, FL
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I worked, provided , was trustful, loyal, and true to the vows I swore upon.
She stopped working, became untruthful, non-loyal, and used the vows she swore upon like toilet paper. Then she had the "Accident" , Her clothes fell off,,she slipped, tripped , lost her balance and fell crotch 1st on another man's penis (whom was a convicted sexual predator). Divorce was swift and final. I got the house , car , kids. She got a bruised ego (she calls feeling's), C.D.C. violated crotch , and walking paper's that she is welcome to use as toilet paper. LOL!
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| 3/31/2014 3:16:03 AM |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
49, joined Oct. 2011
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I didn't make enough money for a bigger better house.
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| 3/31/2014 8:28:41 AM |
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johnanthony1980
Hollywood, FL
37, joined Aug. 2013
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What contributed to my divorce was my ex wife's obsession with her family and neglecting ours. All she would do is work for them, never contributing to the household and wanting more crap. That plus she was a Colombian woman that just wanted her papers pretty much. I'm not saying all Colombian are the same, but there known for those behaviors.
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| 4/1/2014 5:35:48 PM |
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texas_aries
Austin, TX
43, joined Oct. 2013
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Infidelity. He couldn't seem to keep it in his pants.
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| 4/1/2014 8:43:15 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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uhh let's see, he chose her over me and our children. Yeah, that's it! And four years later she is gone after the third time leaving him in three years of them being together and he learned his lesson. 
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| 4/2/2014 12:09:37 AM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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Some other guys d*ck in her may have something to do with it.
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| 4/2/2014 1:48:14 PM |
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idk500
Mankato, MN
52, joined Jun. 2013
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Progressive issues and build up over time. He did his little ultimatums and I reacted to them, not always in the best way. Hindsight: should have never married, but raised in the belief of you made your choice now do whatever to make it work.
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| 4/2/2014 5:27:17 PM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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She couldn't keep her clothes on and her legs closed and any guy.
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| 4/3/2014 11:42:17 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
65, joined Jul. 2010
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My last ex was a blonde, and got too caught up in acting the part! 
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| 4/3/2014 9:56:30 PM |
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Jan. 2014
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Idk it just did. Now I'm ready for a fresh start.
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| 4/5/2014 12:52:53 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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Mine ended bc of the way it started! I needed financial help he liked that I was dependant so he gave me an ultimatum! We get married or we end it ! So I got used to him he started controlling EVERYTHING I was a prisoner then I got tough ran away and filed for divorce! I blame myself as much as I blame him
wrong answer. You married him for his money and once married he didn't let you spend it like you wanted to so you left.
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| 4/6/2014 2:58:56 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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He are some issues.
He was quiet; emotionless at time. We weren't compatiable at all. I held things inside a "worrywart"; anxiety driven. I was resentful and bitter at times. He picked racing quads (four wheeler) over me, over b-day parties, over family/friends events. We had somewhat decent first ten yrs. The last ten we were like roommates; staying together only to survive. I had a mental breakdown (age 35); he had enough. I had breast cancer (age 36-37) and he wanted to leave, but he stayed (didn't do me any favors). Three and a half yrs ago he walked out...to live with he gf (not sure where he started seeing her). We both f ucked it up! The end.
Life goes on.
I've been here three yrs. I am truthful in my comments. Never hiding behind half truths. Be honest or go home.
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| 5/4/2014 10:06:34 PM |
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kymseward
Walton, NY
50, joined Mar. 2014
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Honestly it was a multitude of things. He liked to go out drinking and expected me to be home waiting for either his call to pick him up or waiting for him when he finally got home. He often got overaggressive with me or the kids when things didn't go his way. I had him arrested many times for attacking me yet I kept going back because I honestly loved him. I was hurt by a fall at work hitting my head. Many tests later a brain tumor was fpund. I felt my husband pulling away from me and our children. We broke up several times we got back together too many times. Finally after my surgeries I lost my self esteem because of too many physical changes. He wasn't coming home atnight and didn't want me going out with him. Needless to say my heart and spirit were both broken. I asked him to stop drinking and work on our marraige. He said no and I needed to realize our children were grown and it was now our time. We still had 14 and 15 yr old boys at home. I chose my kids.
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| 5/5/2014 8:45:34 AM |
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jess_is_back
Jefferson City, MO
30, joined Mar. 2013
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Married young, he was ARMY with a lot of deployments. Each time he came home we each had changed.
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| 5/5/2014 9:32:20 AM |
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wilhardin
Elkland, MO
60, joined Apr. 2014
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for me there's not enough room in this little box I did been there done that three times and I going to do it again I'm not going to put all my trust and love into one person and have them betray me again and cheat on me just because they're mad at me about something silly a** bullshit lack of cooperation infidelity too damn independent expecting too much not giving out enough just just general disrespect to the vals we took before God and everybody else pisses me off to think about it that's all I got to say about it right now
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| 5/5/2014 10:01:25 AM |
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wilhardin
Elkland, MO
60, joined Apr. 2014
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looking back on it all now I have left hey say hindsight 2020 and it is but it doesn't change what happened lot of different factors come into place lot of different circumstances come into play the fact is we became an incompatible and a lease lil least littlest things would set us all fighting arguing financial problems relationship problems child raising problems lack of cooperation head my head my authority is the head of the household the leader of the family undermineI can't blame it all on them I did my share I made my share of mistakes I could have been a much better man and I was with the third one except for I got a DWI just before I even met her 3 weeks later and the cop made up a bald faced lie to present probable cause the previews of the dash cam video and up as the first question the judge ask anyway I got a conviction and had to go away for awhile I just got tired of being alone so I can't blame her for that except for I can blame her for not honoring the vows and we took where I'm from and f*** if you don't have a certain amount of integrity about you you just ain't you're not much of a human being that's all I got to say about that Thank You Forrest Gump
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| 5/5/2014 9:23:21 PM |
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owllover3
Newport News, VA
47, joined Sep. 2013
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Infidelity
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| 5/6/2014 7:42:24 AM |
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her_happiness
Chouteau, OK
29, joined Apr. 2014
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Infidelity. He couldn't seem to keep it in his pants.
similar story for me. Except I was dealing with her bi-polar tendencies also. I was the divoted one. But hanging on to her was like clinging on to an angry porcupine.
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| 5/8/2014 12:17:34 PM |
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
43, joined Jul. 2013
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It was set up to fail from the start and I was too young to understand what that would do. We had vast family differences and when my kids came along, those things reared it's ugly head. 
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| 5/21/2014 4:09:29 PM |
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jolen36
Burr Oak, MI
43, joined Mar. 2014
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He liked his pills to much and knew it was gonna take his life couldn't watch him kill himself. Its been a sad day my cousin just left her bf cause of this and he was very close to the family actually stayed with my mom after they split ,moved out a month ago and overdosed this morning. Breaks my heart and I know it does hers. I know she is thinking just what if I had done this or that ?I am scared of having that feeling. Cause I know its gonna be sooner or later that he will soon do the samething and its the love of my life as they was.  He was just a kid to which makes it worse.
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| 5/21/2014 7:11:48 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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He liked his pills to much and knew it was gonna take his life couldn't watch him kill himself. Its been a sad day my cousin just left her bf cause of this and he was very close to the family actually stayed with my mom after they split ,moved out a month ago and overdosed this morning. Breaks my heart and I know it does hers. I know she is thinking just what if I had done this or that ?I am scared of having that feeling. Cause I know its gonna be sooner or later that he will soon do the samething and its the love of my life as they was. He was just a kid to which makes it worse.
That a shame, you have my condolenses.
Don't shoulder the blame for this. You were involved with someone that's capable of taking their life. This is their problem, and chances are, a way of thinking before you came along. If you had patched up your differences and stayed married, something else would come along and start the whole senario all over again.
I wasn't aware that my ex had thought about blowing her brains out until we seperated. She'd actually had set herself in the bathtub with her pistol, and was going to do it there, so the mess wouldn't hard to clean up? Once I'd heard that, I decided that it was best that we split. She was going thru something that I had no control over, (Nor aware of) and she wasn't wanting to do therapy. I suspect that she was Bi-polar, and at first I could snap her out of her depression. But that only lasted so long. No amount of talking from me would make her seek help, and after a while I had to worry about me. She has re-married, and I don't have to deal with it anymore.
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| 5/22/2014 12:42:36 AM |
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american_ghost
Chicago, IL
92, joined May. 2014
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THAT'S WHAT THEY DO in that wretched vile contract.
i told you all.
they go thru a personality change, and you just KNOW how screwed you are.
Marriage is a dirty, filthy con. the greatest of all time.
the sheep just go hippity hopping to slaughter, with NO CLUE as to what they are really doing.
it's like smoking pot before you drive.
feel great, this is GREAT there is nothing bad here.
oh look at that pretty phone pole.
BLAM!!!!!!!!!!
NOW it doesn't feel so good, wish you hadn't done that. but its too late.
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| 5/22/2014 8:01:38 AM |
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sassypants760
San Marcos, CA
42, joined Feb. 2014
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A huge tragedy changed everything. Otherwise, my ex-husband is a great man. 
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| 5/23/2014 6:01:01 PM |
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stevenbnie
Watertown, NY
35, joined Jun. 2010
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She sleep around. If you get with someone else at least get with a girl. I could deal with that
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| 5/24/2014 11:00:31 PM |
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sweetate2
Albion, IN
67, joined Jul. 2013
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Divorce does go two ways. Mine did, and I freely admit that I did contribute to it's demise. Seems like it's a progressive thing. Petty annoyances stacked one on top of another. Then the bridge finally breaks. Mine started when my cute blonde wife came home one day with red hair. Now, normally, I don't care what color a woman chooses to be. But in my eyes, she ceased to look good to me. And she started to act the part of the redhead. You know, the outgoing, brash, careless attitude. In turn, I wasn't as attentive to her, and stuff started to slide. It didn't bother me that she gained weight. It was more, her personality changed on me. She wanted to go out more, and me to ignor the stuff that kept a roof over our heads. I could only do so much, and she became less tolerant to it, and me. By that time, I got to not caring what she wanted. End of story.
So, what made yours go bye-bye? Did your's change drastically? Was it sheer boredom? Did you come home to find someone in your bed that wasn't supposed to be? Did you find him with your best nightgown on? Mystery phone calls, messages, or emails? What in your estimation killed it?
I was a very shy red head ( you do have the wrong idea of all red heads )that went blonde after my husband cheated on me with every co worker he ever had
He still cheats on his wife after me so guess I was the lucky one
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| 5/25/2014 8:23:52 AM |
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robertcoleman89
Marshall, TX
27, joined Sep. 2013
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No sex I have a high sex drive and she dont
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| 5/25/2014 8:14:03 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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I was a very shy red head ( you do have the wrong idea of all red heads )that went blonde after my husband cheated on me with every co worker he ever had
He still cheats on his wife after me so guess I was the lucky one
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| 5/27/2014 11:52:07 AM |
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robertcoleman89
Marshall, TX
27, joined Sep. 2013
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Self centered b*tch idk what it is about todays girls they think that marriage is a game ok like im not rich im not well off im broke now I work my whole life ive been married for 4 years and was.never out of work now we never had alot but what we did have I shared with her and she worked but yet she would run around be hind my back with other guys and would not think anything of it and she sayed she never had sex with them and I said well u two face c*nt its just like u did I dont f**k around on u but to her she did nothing wrong so mine would no turst
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| 5/27/2014 12:12:46 PM |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
37, joined Feb. 2014
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Im sure we all can blame our ex for the down fall but im gonna take the heat on this one. i worked to much didnt talk to him enough i got to fat and so on.i walked out when the other woman took my place.
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| 5/27/2014 12:15:46 PM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Its a two way street, not a half street. One wants it the other does not.
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| 5/27/2014 12:32:55 PM |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
37, joined Feb. 2014
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Yes one wants and the other doesnt my ex loved me i loved him but life gets in the way and love wasnt enough to keep it togeather.
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| 5/27/2014 12:38:33 PM |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
37, joined Feb. 2014
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Merriage is never a game u merry because u love your partner he becomes part of u you dnt have to be rich or perfect or even softto have that. its a bond so strong that noone else can take their place in your life but both have to feel it.its a promise but at some point it gets broken a pain shows up and it cant heal so devorce moves in its life
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| 5/27/2014 1:59:03 PM |
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sheldon6537
Niles, OH
49, joined Jun. 2013
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I provided everything and never had a say in anything. I worked hard to free up her time but she never found time to spend with me. She was a Democrat and felt entitled to a comfortable life but contributed NOTHING to it. No matter what I gave her she spent it and had nothing to show for it. I would have been more tolerant of petty things if the sex was more frequent. She sucked the life out of me and for the sake of my mental health, I asked her to work on the marriage or move out. She moved out. 6 months later, I discovered she was actually having an affair for 2 years with her married boss. When I confronted her, she filed for divorce.
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| 5/27/2014 4:57:54 PM |
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whitl42
Beaver Dam, KY
46, joined Feb. 2014
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Grew up and grew apart..
No shared interests..
And his tendencies to stick his dik where it didn't belong
Call me crazy! But I just couldn't deal with it.. 
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| 6/12/2014 6:23:16 AM |
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shelly_36_
Corpus Christi, TX
40, joined Apr. 2014
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Overly controlling and lack of physical affection. I couldn't take it anymore and when I stood up for myself and started telling him I needed to work and be able to do things with my friends and I needed my affection from him he said he was done and filed for divorce. I guess I let it go to long...16 years. Maybe if I had told him earlier it wouldn't have been such an issue...idk...
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| 6/12/2014 8:01:38 AM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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She had trouble keeping her legs closed around all the guys she could meet. Became pregnant by one of them she was sure which one. Gave her divorce papers just before Christmas told her Merry Christmas and left. Never saw or talked to her again. Karma got her last February when she past away with several STD's and a major heartache.
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| 6/12/2014 12:50:17 PM |
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style829
Shawnee, KS
40, joined Dec. 2009
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My ex wife tried to get me to become a mormon , she begin becoming something I didnt like, she stop dressing sexy, stop being fun, in I lost interest, she stop being the woman I feel in love with
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| 6/25/2014 1:30:37 PM |
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roses_tulips
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2014
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The lousy way he treated me from the start.
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| 6/27/2014 4:59:40 AM |
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born2ride1210
Spokane, WA
62, joined May. 2014
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Mother and father in law moved in for a short time when they retired. Short time of 2-1/2 years later and still no privacy marriage took a nose dive. They bought the house next door I was told. Turns out my wife bought it. She hid 5 years of behind the back financial deals with her parents. Bought her dad a 35 grand Harley.,
She hurt me more and more as time moved on. She treated me like the lawn boy. She lieder constantly to me when I tried to get her to tell me about her parents. The parents knew we were in trouble but Instead of supporting our marriage they, especially her mother, did everything possible to push her away.
I hurt her too. So there is no one sided story here. I turned into a real jack a** . To me what she did was cheat on me. She lied constantly, did things behind my back and looked me in the eyes as she made up her stories., So she didn't sleep with another man... She still cheated.
I pushed her away as well we failed to communicate. I found outside the marriage company only after she pushed me into total loss of self respect.
Still have not obtained a financial report on what she spent... But she's going to have to show it sooner or later....
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| 6/27/2014 5:28:00 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Well, I way gone a good portion, due to being in the armed forces. There were times I was away for 5 days all the way to 9 months. Then when I was home, I would have to get a second job to pay for what she wanted.
So I guess you could say, my not being there caused it, however I still think it was her cheating that caused it.
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| 6/29/2014 8:47:26 AM |
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3danedogs
Newport, WA
64, joined Aug. 2013
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He is very moody. It got worse with age, and after 33 years, it was to the point that I never knew what his reaction would be to any comment I made. Sometimes he'd think teasing was funny; othertimes, it would set him off into a rage that got scary. I finally gave up talking. He came home from work; I made dinner; we ate, and I went up to my own bedroom. We had quit touching at least 6 years before. I admit: I had gained weight--he never did. After a while, it didn't matter to me anyway. I finally started having health issues: high blood pressure, panic attacks while I was at work. I realized I couldn't continue to live my life that way, and he refused to see a psychologist about his moodiness. I found another man who did touch--turned out his story was all lies in order to get himself out of debt--but that's another story. Been divorced for 7 years. My health is better, and I've gotten my independence back. I'm friends again with my ex. He's a good man, basically, but I'm very glad I don't have to live with him and walk that tightrope.
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| 7/5/2014 9:18:24 AM |
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wk1965
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Aug. 2013
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We both stopped expressing our love for each other.
Over the years we both changd and we changed into something we both couldn't live with...
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| 8/3/2014 8:19:50 PM |
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gommer593
Cincinnati, OH
56, joined Jul. 2014
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I think mine was a bunch of little things that kept getting bigger and bigger. I got tired of fighting all the time. But the clincher was when I was accused of cheating when I wasn't. Then there was I forgive you. Well that's building because you forgive me for something I did not do. Now it's I believe you but she still thought that I did it. Last straw.
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| 8/3/2014 9:48:53 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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I think mine was a bunch of little things that kept getting bigger and bigger. I got tired of fighting all the time. But the clincher was when I was accused of cheating when I wasn't. Then there was I forgive you. Well that's building because you forgive me for something I did not do. Now it's I believe you but she still thought that I did it. Last straw.
That would do it.
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| 8/3/2014 11:44:24 PM |
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Jan. 2014
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My husband.
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| 8/4/2014 9:48:32 AM |
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2late4never
Oklahoma City, OK
40, joined Dec. 2013
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My husband began mentally abusing me. He was very controlling as well.
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| 11/3/2014 9:58:38 AM |
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captbeefy
Silvis, IL
32, joined Sep. 2014
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After my Son was born, she never took off the "Mom Cap" and left me in the dust. Almost all intimacy disappeared and it eventually went to us being on seperate couches barely talking to each other. Her also having him sleep in the bed to prevent me from making a pass at her. Eventually she started texting some guy (all hours of the day/night) and when I confronted her about it, the messages disappeared and she refused to tell me the nature of the messages and who he was.
I don't blame my Son for anything that happened because he's the best gift I've ever received. She moved out (parent's house) and took herself off the lease of our apartment. I'll be fighting for primary custody of my Son soon.
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| 11/4/2014 11:55:32 AM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
43, joined Apr. 2014
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Me and my cheating
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| 11/10/2014 1:38:19 AM |
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sunnydaythree
Grand Blanc, MI
32, joined Mar. 2014
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He put his mom before me, and he wanted me to be like his mother. I felt like I had no reason to change when we were a happy married couple.
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| 11/10/2014 9:37:38 PM |
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shucks_huck
Hershey, PA
38, joined Jan. 2014
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We all have our faults, it is sad to see so many just blaming their ex for everything. Non of us are perfect. I for one know I was not the perfect husband. Looking back I did some stupid stuff. The final straw was her cheating, but we both had inflicted many small wounds on each other that led to that point.
If any of us hopes to have a healthy relationship in the future, we need to look in the mirror and admit our faults and work on improving ourselves. If you have a string of failed relationships, the only common denominator is you.
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| 11/10/2014 9:51:12 PM |
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bkw223
Tovey, IL
44, joined Mar. 2014
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Well its been 15 years since I've been married but the reason is because my wife thought the grass was greener on the other side of the fence. And then once you wanted to come back in the yard the gate was locked.
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| 11/11/2014 12:54:00 AM |
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looking4now4901
Battle Creek, MI
46, joined Sep. 2014
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Her infidelities, and having children outside of our marriage.
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| 11/11/2014 12:56:02 AM |
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looking4now4901
Battle Creek, MI
46, joined Sep. 2014
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I had my role in it. But not to the extent of sleeping with someone else. Wasn't an angel, but damn....
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| 11/11/2014 9:27:13 AM |
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bearchigg
Hayti, SD
42, joined Sep. 2014
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he would sit at my workplace for 8 hours at a time because he thought i might meet someone there.I finally couldn't take anymore. That and being accused of cheating constantly. I never did cheat, but I thought about it after I was accused of it every day for 2 years, But I'm not wired like that.
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| 11/11/2014 1:47:40 PM |
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ILUVFORUMS
Flossmoor, IL
51, joined Oct. 2014
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My husband moved in with a woman while I was at work. He even called me at work to make sure I was there. This was the second time he deserted me. So I ran to an attorney and got out of that sham marriage. Shocked him that I took control. Now he wants to remarry me but I am in a relationship with a wonderful man I met on DH.
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| 11/12/2014 1:16:39 PM |
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love_language
Speedwell, TN
44, joined Sep. 2014
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Best hope for all of us^^^^ Congrats. Hope it continues to be all you hoped for. 
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| 11/12/2014 6:12:47 PM |
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lostinmorton
Onalaska, WA
52, joined Sep. 2014
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Some other guys d*ck in her may have something to do with it.
^^^^ Yea what he said. Once a cheater always a cheater. 
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