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ndnimpulse
Greensboro, NC
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Body size, it's just sometimes they're interested but most the time there especially when you first meet. Can y'all answer my question
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| 4/23/2014 12:24:40 AM |
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naturebiy
Bangkok
Thailand
40, joined Jul. 2011
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You can be the ugliest man in the world...and have a team full of beautiful, wonderful women... if you know how to make them feel appreciated...
If you are a big guy... go to the gym... the question comes off as a confidence question, rather than a weight question...
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| 4/23/2014 12:31:50 AM |
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arcturus1
Eloy, AZ
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Large in height or large in girth?
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| 4/23/2014 12:32:11 AM |
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sum12see
Alhambra, CA
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Cause there are a lot of tall skinny fit men knocking at my door. It's not that I don't like them. I dated a man that had a belly... I just end up with skinnier guys that all.
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| 4/23/2014 12:48:29 AM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
66, joined May. 2009
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Sounds like you have unrealistic expectations and want to put all the onus on women. Tell me how do you feel about BBWs?
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| 4/23/2014 1:33:49 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
53, joined May. 2011
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They are afraid you might fall on them and kill them.
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| 4/23/2014 1:35:39 AM |
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baileybug32
Sacramento, CA
35, joined Mar. 2013
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I don't mind a bigger guy...
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| 4/23/2014 1:35:49 AM |
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whitl42
Beaver Dam, KY
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I've dated tall short skinny and fat
It's more about your attitude confidence and charisma..
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| 4/23/2014 1:40:51 AM |
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xxxtammi1979xxx
Clarkson, KY
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I like both thin and big guys. Honey there are ladies out there that do like big men Just gotta look in the right place.
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| 4/23/2014 1:46:14 AM |
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stresscase
Ridgecrest, CA
56, joined Feb. 2013
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Bullshit! Below is proof positive that if you have enough $$$ you can over come being fat and ugly...
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| 4/23/2014 2:06:10 AM |
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vallamaldoran
Bathurst, NB
40, joined Apr. 2011
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Why don't you like large women?
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| 4/23/2014 4:37:27 AM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2014
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Bullshit! Below is proof positive that if you have enough $$$ you can over come being fat and ugly...
That's his wife?
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| 4/23/2014 4:42:10 AM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
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I don't mind a bigger guy...
Neither does my girlfriend. 
It's all in how you carry yourself. If you walk around bitter with a huge chip on your shoulder of course the ladies aren't going to be interested.
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| 4/23/2014 6:54:48 AM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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I prefer larger men. Strong arms big chest.lol usually thin legs. What's not to like. They work,cook,enjoy life too. If they have a bike....lol.
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| 4/23/2014 7:10:27 AM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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Any man can screw up with an attitude problem,big or average size. That's a given premise.
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| 4/23/2014 12:08:53 PM |
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87nativepride
Cut Off, LA
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Cause it makes them 'women feel smaller than they are
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| 4/23/2014 1:01:42 PM |
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gman588
Rosedale, MD
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I'm a fat pig. If you saw me naked you'd know why women don't like fat guys. It's disgusting.
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| 4/23/2014 1:46:16 PM |
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cabanaariefedd
Norcross, GA
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I'm a fat pig. If you saw me naked you'd know why women don't like fat guys. It's disgusting.
lmao.
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| 4/23/2014 3:03:19 PM |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
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It's not true that women don't like big guys, just as it's not true that men don't like big women.
Over 50% of the country's population is overweight. Does that mean nobody likes all these people? obviously not.
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| 4/23/2014 3:10:59 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
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Don't even have to have $$$. A job is truly helpful, but...
I'm a lardass. My girl is considered a BBW. We have a wonderful time together in public and in private. Like a lot of people have said before me...
It's all about attitude.
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| 4/23/2014 3:28:30 PM |
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islandia8_2
Tacoma, WA
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I don't mind large strong looking men. (Men who are carrying a few extra pounds.)
Actually, if the chemistry is right--it doesn't matter what size a man is, however, I do prefer men who are taller than I am.
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| 4/23/2014 3:42:53 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
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I am not into large guys. I am active and watch what I eat, so he should do the same. There is a cure for being fat; its called not eating like a pig. There shouldn't be any excuses why you are fat. No one is "big boned", come on we all have the same bone structure. Sure you may be stocky, but you do not need to be stocky and fat .
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| 4/23/2014 3:54:41 PM |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
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I am not into large guys. I am active and watch what I eat, so he should do the same. There is a cure for being fat; its called not eating like a pig. There shouldn't be any excuses why you are fat. No one is "big boned", come on we all have the same bone structure. Sure you may be stocky, but you do not need to be stocky and fat .
Some people are fat as a reaction to certain medications, such as antidepressants or mood stabilizers...
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| 4/23/2014 4:17:05 PM |
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islandia8_2
Tacoma, WA
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I am not into large guys. I am active and watch what I eat, so he should do the same. There is a cure for being fat; its called not eating like a pig. There shouldn't be any excuses why you are fat. No one is "big boned", come on we all have the same bone structure. Sure you may be stocky, but you do not need to be stocky and fat .
There is a huge difference between men with huge bones and men with normal bone structure. I have put my hands around a skinny man's wrists and compared it with a fat man. Big difference, especially when there is no fat involved. I was told I have big bones as most Polynesians (especially Samoans) have large bones, even the slim men. We have larger and heavier bones.
When I looked anorexic I stood on the scales and weighed more than a chubby caucasian woman the exact height as myself, I was almost 10lbs heavier than her. The doctor told me it was expected to be that way because of my race.
Really??? Have you seen a skinny man with the same size bones as everyone else? I haven't.
Not one one of my babies were under 10lbs, my heaviest was almost 12lbs. Thank heavens for C-Sections. It is a known fact that South Pacific Islanders have the largest babies, especially the people from an island kingdom called Tonga. Why??? Our babies are not fat, they are huge with heavy bones. We do not have gestational diabetes either. My tallest son is 6'8. He does not have huge bones he takes after his Caucasian father and has normal sized bones. My other two sons have huge bones and are not fat, just big built men.
I would never pass up a good man because of his size. And, I am not attracted to men who go to gym and are so in love with their buffed bodies.
Women, however have no excuse for being overweight (besides medical causes). Keep yourself in shape, no matter what age and how many children, and your man will be proud to take you out.
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| 4/23/2014 5:52:11 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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Here we go again
most big guys I know work hard, are strong,passionate,clean. They eat out at fast food or good cooks. They aren't couch potatoes. They're healthy now.
agreed that weight causes med problems. I would encourage healthy eating and exercise.emotionally support them. They are men. I respect most men. Even loved a few.
maybe in you're perfect world you are the prize.not in my world,your attitude sucks
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| 4/23/2014 6:11:56 PM |
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islandia8_2
Tacoma, WA
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^^^^^ OT who you referring to?
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| 4/23/2014 6:28:31 PM |
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gman588
Rosedale, MD
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I am not into large guys. I am active and watch what I eat, so he should do the same. There is a cure for being fat; its called not eating like a pig. There shouldn't be any excuses why you are fat. No one is "big boned", come on we all have the same bone structure. Sure you may be stocky, but you do not need to be stocky and fat .
True. I'm a lazy overeating fat pig. Oh well. I may have a huge fat blubbery body but at least I have a small penis.
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| 4/25/2014 2:23:33 AM |
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minermikelewis
Jerome, ID
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Dude I never had a problem catching women the problem is keeping them im a bigger guy but full of fun Times and laughter dont sit in the coner depressed and stare man get up make a move show um what that larger size has buried..... start with this walk up to one your interested in smack her on the ass.... if she turns around in awe like what the hell... just be like dam im sorry you looked just like my sister... its a smile every time or at least around here lol keep that head up
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| 4/25/2014 3:13:10 AM |
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rdeffley
San Jose, CA
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Reverse the situation. Would you want to date a woman that was severely obese?
My advice would be to use your bad experiences as motivation to get in better shape. Hell, when male clients of mine initially sign up for personal training most say their motivation is to meet women.
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| 4/25/2014 3:49:00 AM |
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septembersong72
Beverly Hills, CA
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It's easy to say they don't like you because of your body size. But have you ever thought of the idea it could be something else they don't like about you?
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| 4/25/2014 3:53:47 AM |
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tyakack
Euclid, OH
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Over 50% of the country's population is overweight.
That is just sad. 
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| 4/25/2014 4:24:57 AM |
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xxxtammi1979xxx
Clarkson, KY
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Dude you have to have confidence! I am fat. Ain't seen skinny since skinny saw me and i have confidence. If they still don't like you piss on em!
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| 4/25/2014 5:44:17 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
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I came in here to say something mean but you're actually a cutie pie.
The only thing I don't like about it is you're an athlete.
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| 4/25/2014 7:16:13 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Its pretty simple.
If that large thing....looks good to them....fine.
If not....your not like women to where they can offer p*ssy to make up for it..
This being in general.....and not accounting for....some men and women seek personailty over looks.
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| 4/25/2014 10:59:34 AM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
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My ex was big and tall and he was chased by women of all sizes. It's all about the attitude!
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| 4/25/2014 11:09:40 AM |
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moodyleo
Jacksonville, FL
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I know this fat Mediterranean chef who is married to a beautiful woman, and all the young waitresses like him and flirt with him... He is fat, no doubt about it... but he is f**king hot.
Queen Latifah is big but she is gorgeous.
I really think charisma and personality have a lot to do with attraction, and it helps if you have a really good looking face like Queen Latifah...
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| 4/25/2014 11:46:07 AM |
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joe44070
North Olmsted, OH
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I just want to say I appreciate all of the ladies comments on this post is very good insight and thank you for your honesty. To all you nice ladies
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| 4/25/2014 1:21:43 PM |
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thatdood1974
Cleveland, OH
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See... I see the opposite
Im a rather small guy and feel women prefee larger guys than themselves. Im confident pretty success ful.... and dont hurt the eyes much. In my experience and from some friends say they wont date guys smaller then them
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| 4/25/2014 1:25:29 PM |
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actionmodel
Nottingham, MD
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Depends on what the women likes.I dated a Heavy Guy years ago but it didnt work because he was insecure.And I miss his daughter till this day.
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| 4/25/2014 4:43:02 PM |
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cabanaariefedd
Norcross, GA
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I can be friends with a big guy but not date him...its just not attractive & a turnoff.Especially when the clothes come off
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| 4/25/2014 4:44:24 PM |
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001snatch
Marysville, WA
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Just stop eatting so much
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| 4/25/2014 4:50:14 PM |
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joe44070
North Olmsted, OH
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Shallow
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| 4/25/2014 5:02:56 PM |
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jrupp0604
Stoughton, MA
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Does not care how he looks, or health problems 
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| 4/25/2014 5:07:28 PM |
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iamblithe
Carlsbad, CA
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You know for most women a man is attractive when he demonstrates a great deal of confidence and fun.
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| 4/25/2014 5:12:58 PM |
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vanir
Victoria
Australia
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blithely demonstrates a great deal of confidence and fun.
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| 4/25/2014 6:52:57 PM |
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dahlingdarling
Hollywood, FL
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Likely for the same reason it seems guys don't like large gals, ugly gals, etc. That reason being attraction however in my opinion I see very little reason for guys to complain in regards to dating as it seems gals are far more willing and forgiving when it comes to looks. Note how one of the first responses to you is about the ugliest guy in the world having teams of beautiful gals not simply a gal but a certain type of gal.
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| 4/25/2014 7:19:34 PM |
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impygirl
Butler, PA
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I like large guys. Taller guys with big strong arms, nice big chest and nice legs, not skinny legs. And some meat on their bones. With a beefy butt
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| 4/25/2014 7:35:41 PM |
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iamblithe
Carlsbad, CA
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blithely demonstrates a great deal of confidence and fun.
Oh...only if I were fun....
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| 4/25/2014 7:47:10 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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hormones or having children for gaining weight
Cop out!!
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| 4/25/2014 7:53:30 PM |
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midniteriddler1
Austin, TX
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Body size, it's just sometimes they're interested but most the time there especially when you first meet. Can y'all answer my question
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| 4/25/2014 7:53:41 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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You can be the ugliest man in the world...and have a team full of beautiful, wonderful women... if you know how to make them feel appreciated...
If you are a big guy... go to the gym... the question comes off as a confidence question, rather than a weight question...
Hmmm, this depends on many factors. Such as one's interpretation of beautiful.
The ugliest man in the world ain't gonna attract a team of runway models or playboy playmates, unless he's also one of the richest men in the world, let's just be honest about that.
I'm far from ugly (in my opinion), but from personal experience, it's MUCH easier to attract "beautiful" women when you have plenty of disposable income.
The pretty chick who turned you down last month because you were walking will chase you if you pull up in a new Mercedes.
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| 4/25/2014 11:05:01 PM |
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zach1107
Jacksonville, FL
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I dont know I gets lots of chicks I think because im big some females still got that lil girl mind I guess I met a few in high school but not many...I done got way more skinny girls than big I thought just cause big girls arent feelin me who knows
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| 4/26/2014 12:42:09 AM |
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dahlingdarling
Hollywood, FL
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The pretty chick who turned you down last month because you were walking will chase you if you pull up in a new Mercedes.
Bit curious as to the . If your mindset is that it's 'bad' for her to go for him due to money why? If it's because it's shallow/superficial that's a bit hypocritical to me as most likely he went for her due to looks so it seems pretty tit for tat in my opinion.
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| 4/26/2014 1:04:21 AM |
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kennylooking4u
Victorville, CA
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| 4/26/2014 1:29:26 AM |
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tyakack
Euclid, OH
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Women are fat because of bad habits too you twit. I've seen plenty of large women who never had kids. And ones that have had kids that are still fat are usually still big because of bad choice. Cram your hormones up your tight was ass
Right lol, and the kid excuse is a terrible excuse. As if its impossible to lose the baby weight. People do it all the time. The ones that care about their bodies anyways.
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| 4/26/2014 2:00:35 AM |
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cabanaariefedd
Norcross, GA
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damn lol.
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| 4/26/2014 3:57:00 AM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
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I don't mind a bigger guy but 3 out 4 I have dated have small to average penis size. Girth around the body & small penis does not fulfill me sexually.
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| 4/26/2014 5:59:29 AM |
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gsxrmiket25
Palm Beach Gardens, FL
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Different people have different body types and natural shapes as well. There's three basic body builds, small and slim, tall&lanky, and broad and big. I happen to be the broad type with a big bone build. My knees are like 1.5x as wide as most people. I compare my knees because we don't store much fat around our knees even when obese. Most people just eat the wrong things but that doesn't mean someone may be unattractive now and be on the right path and end up looking amazing and vice versa. I never had a complaint in the d*ck depot either which sure if my body type was smaller I'd appear to look bigger but wouldn't change actual penis size. And penis size is mostly a genetic trait where someone has a genetic predisposition for a big d*ck. I don't think someone being successful in life could make their body change and have higher levels of testosterone and become bigger bc most guys who talk a big game can't back it up. But I find if funny for you to say that just because a guy might be fat or overweight that they tend to not be that big or satisfying I think is just a poor excuse
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| 4/26/2014 7:02:11 AM |
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jenly
Chaska, MN
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I don't mind bigger men.
That being said, I am too big for my own health and liking, and am actively working on it. If I'm going to date someone on the bigger side, I want them to be motivated to get healthy alongside me, or at least be active with me.
I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Doesn't bother me one bit, because I have preferences as well.
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| 4/26/2014 7:17:14 AM |
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tyakack
Euclid, OH
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I don't mind bigger men.
That being said, I am too big for my own health and liking, and am actively working on it. If I'm going to date someone on the bigger side, I want them to be motivated to get healthy alongside me, or at least be active with me.
I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Doesn't bother me one bit, because I have preferences as well.
At least you are actively working on getting into shape and admit it being a problem. Alot better than using the ol I'm fat and happy angle.
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