| 5/28/2014 1:35:38 PM |
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stmary186
Smyrna, GA
30, joined Aug. 2013
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Why is so hard to find someone who is respectful of your time an feelings good god
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| 5/28/2014 2:04:47 PM |
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eddies_back
Kane, PA
47, joined Sep. 2013
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Works both ways I'm sure..
Oh yeah FIRST!!
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| 5/28/2014 6:10:33 PM |
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Jan. 2014
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Idk but let me know when you do.
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| 5/28/2014 8:41:59 PM |
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robertcoleman89
Marshall, TX
27, joined Sep. 2013
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Cuz divorce turns all guys in to a bitter a** hole
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| 5/28/2014 9:46:06 PM |
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miss_toni84
Greeley, CO
32, joined Dec. 2013
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Cuz divorce turns all guys in to a bitter a** hole
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| 5/30/2014 9:00:37 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Cuz divorce turns all guys in to a bitter a** hole
Speak for yourself.
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| 6/2/2014 1:38:30 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Why is so hard to find someone who is respectful of your time an feelings good god
According to MOST of the women here, there is no such thing.
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| 6/2/2014 1:39:55 AM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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Depends on the guy and the age. Women get bitter to especially if she lost out to a younger woman. I did not get bitter due to the fact of what type of guy she left me for, a drunk that beats women and kids. I feel karma will be the greatest teacher there. Now I am having the time of my life.
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| 6/2/2014 9:48:12 AM |
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wk1965
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Aug. 2013
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I think there are many real good nice men out there..I personally feel that it kinda depends on how you "market" yourself as to the men you will attract! 
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| 6/2/2014 12:55:09 PM |
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
43, joined Jul. 2013
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Cuz divorce turns all guys in to a bitter a** hole
No......
Not really
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| 6/2/2014 5:05:33 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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....I did not get bitter due to the fact of what type of guy she left me for, a drunk that beats women....
you must be quite the catch!!!
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| 6/3/2014 12:56:25 AM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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you must be quite the catch!!!
No, I left when she made threats to me. I never laid a hand on her in any ill manor. She is the type of woman that thrives on arguing and has to win. When threats were made, I left. No woman is worth going to jail over if she wants to play games.
You see my dear, I do not want a woman that needs to be ruled over. I also do not want a woman that wants to rule the house as a tyrant. I am looking for a woman that wants to be equal in all manors. At least you have shown me that you would be the type I would not be interested in.
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| 6/3/2014 8:53:38 AM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
74, joined Mar. 2008
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try presenting yourself, and acting like a gentle , classy woman.
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| 6/3/2014 9:15:55 AM |
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mr_hitman549
Waterford, MI
45, joined Mar. 2014
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Because a lot women and men bring there last marriage into the next relationship
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| 6/4/2014 12:45:56 AM |
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richard10k
Fromberg, MT
48, joined Apr. 2014
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Your having a hard time finding a gentle man and I can't find a woman who is non controlling or a gold digger
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| 6/7/2014 1:42:37 AM |
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robertcoleman89
Marshall, TX
27, joined Sep. 2013
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Im a bitter person now cuz for four years I thought I found my soul mate I work out of town alot sacrifice so much time with her and my daughter so I could make enough so they would not have to worry about money and food so they can live a good life but no I get stabbed in the back and spit in my face cuz she wanted to run all over town with any swinging d*ck so yes im bitter and mean I learned the world will f**k u over in a hart beat
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| 6/8/2014 10:50:33 AM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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To H E L L with " real guys " and " gentle men ".....  - 
-  Date a FAKE REAL " moderator "....!!!
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
63, joined Dec. 2010
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Don't be fooled by ANYthing else....
without this official DH " moderator badge ". ..!!!
Delete the C R A P out of em..
And send me all your money..!!!
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| 6/8/2014 11:38:16 AM |
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johngypsy
Pittsburgh, PA
57, joined Feb. 2011
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Chances are, if they are rude and/or disrespectful now, they have always been that way and want to blame others for their anger. I've been married twice (and divorced twice), and I don't carry any of the negativity I may have for them into any new relationships. That's a heavy burden to carry.
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| 6/10/2014 6:43:30 AM |
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chevybabe15
Las Vegas, NV
35, joined Mar. 2014
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Makes so much sense!
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| 6/15/2014 7:43:20 PM |
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lonleybear6967
Celina, OH
47, joined Oct. 2013
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JUST DIVORCED  ..HATE THIS DATEING THING. ALL I FIND IS MEN WANTING SEX WHAT HAPPEN TO FRIENDSHIP N HAVING FUN
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| 6/15/2014 8:26:40 PM |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
65, joined Mar. 2008
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My experience has been that while it is difficult to find compatible people and nice people to date, it is far from impossible. The old kiss a lot of frogs thing comes to mind.
Having been single a long time and having had a few very nice long term relationships, the single most important thing is that people put as much into the relationship as they expect to take from it. Sadly, that has been an issue I have come across quite a number of times as I dated people, and after some communication, always polite, and not seeing any real change, poof, on to the next one.
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| 6/23/2014 3:54:53 PM |
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bamababy52
Decatur, AL
65, joined Jun. 2012
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Is it just me or are there more phonies on here than real folks looking ?
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| 6/24/2014 2:17:59 PM |
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rmsx3816
Kansas City, MO
49, joined Jul. 2013
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It's hard to find a real women after mine
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| 6/28/2014 9:03:43 PM |
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collegeladymom
Big Rapids, MI
48, joined Jun. 2014
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well...has it been a long time since you have been back in the dating game?
things have changed since I was in my early twenties..though I do recall there were quite a few back then that would offer to buy ya a drink and then offer to take you to bed
have patience..be particular on what you are looking for
best of luck to you!
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| 6/29/2014 9:01:48 PM |
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needingsomeone7
Wheaton, MO
56, joined May. 2014
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I've been divorced for 4 yrs & no man even wants to date me, I walked off & let him have everything, so I'm not the bad person, but invisible to men on these dating sites for some reason, granted I'm not miss america but not the worst either, just sick of being alone already.anyone want to tell me what's wrong with me?
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| 7/6/2014 7:45:03 PM |
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needingsomeone7
Wheaton, MO
56, joined May. 2014
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I've only met 2 guys in person from this site in last month & 1/2 & the first one was all lovey dovey & then wanted to be friends & then quit talking to me all together. the 2nd one I liked better but he was almost the same- txt & called me for 2 days straight & then we met in person & he never called me again. he was a truck driver, was sweet at first then lied to me bout calling. GEEEZZZZZZ.gives a woman a complex
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| 7/6/2014 7:45:54 PM |
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needingsomeone7
Wheaton, MO
56, joined May. 2014
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Thanks, yeah it is sure different on alot of levels.
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| 7/6/2014 7:49:06 PM |
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needingsomeone7
Wheaton, MO
56, joined May. 2014
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you r still young, but I do hear what ur saying, even as a woman I don't agree with what ur ex did, cause those kind of women ruin men for anyone else to have a chance, I hope u meet a decent faithful one & give her a chance. just watch for signs.
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| 7/6/2014 7:54:37 PM |
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u_sabato
Oslo
Norway
45, joined Jun. 2014
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Sounds like OP is still hung up on her ex.
Perhaps you should give yourself time to mourn and get over it before you start dating again.
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| 7/8/2014 10:19:39 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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JUST DIVORCED ..HATE THIS DATEING THING. ALL I FIND IS MEN WANTING SEX WHAT HAPPEN TO FRIENDSHIP N HAVING FUN
Hanging out together makes the "love making" better. After all, how much teasing can you do in an afternoon or evening.
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| 7/8/2014 10:34:04 AM |
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rustyskllt
West Bend, WI
37, joined Jan. 2014
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Recently divorced, father of 2. Just curious if my relationship with ex is so weird. We are actually friends and not just for kids. We don't hang out but talk often and about new relations. I feel very lucky to have this kind of relationship with her we just weren't good married. Would love to meet new ladies to hang out with if we click I'm open for more.
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| 7/30/2014 9:46:29 AM |
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raven5401
Houston, TX
50, joined Jan. 2010
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You need be patient , I t will come, you just have to relax and think of the next move, guys whom want to enjoy the person you are vs. got to see how far they can get... Ladies are also in this category .... So have some fun please. 
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| 8/12/2014 9:41:26 AM |
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racingboy14
Las Vegas, NV
35, joined Jul. 2014
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To find a perfect partner is like finding a needle in a haystack. 
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| 8/12/2014 11:58:57 PM |
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bella_luce
Bartonsville, PA
45, joined Feb. 2014
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Its rough. There's a lot to sift through to find even one you'd like to go the next step with.
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| 8/13/2014 9:21:18 AM |
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maryshe2014
Shanghai
China
39, joined Jul. 2014
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I think there are many real good nice men out there..I personally feel that it kinda depends on how you "market" yourself as to the men you will attract!
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| 8/13/2014 11:45:51 AM |
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havoc70
Vallejo, CA
47, joined Mar. 2014
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The reverse is true. Have a few message exchanges, woman says she'd like to meet. I offer to get in touch and then suddenly it's the black hole, no more messages. I'm seriously doubting any woman on this site is real. I guess the point I'm making is, I feel your pain.
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| 8/13/2014 8:39:58 PM |
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only1ofme4u
Birmingham, AL
49, joined Jun. 2013
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I agree with person above. You talk to someone, feel like you start getting close, make plans, then nothing! They disappear!  Does anyone really want to meet on this site?
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| 8/13/2014 9:24:56 PM |
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james8691
Tuscaloosa, AL
41, joined Jul. 2014
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Sorry but not all guys turn into a** holes .. Who ever said that has picked the Wrong guy .. you can't think every guy on here is that way or your not going to find one . because how your think of evert guy. I'm not saying that there isn't some dumb a** here . But Don't label all of us the same .you can't ask any of my friends on my page .Not all of us guys are that way. You maybe be looking at the wrong guys .
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| 8/15/2014 1:03:14 AM |
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coronel2006
North Las Vegas, NV
29, joined Jul. 2014
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I live in Vegas men just like to party here so real man out here lol and true regardless it's hard to find
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| 8/15/2014 8:01:25 AM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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I use to live in Vegas, out in the lakes area back in 2000. What I found was women who just wanted to go to the casino's and clubs. It was all about how much money you had to spend on them. If you couldn't drop $500 to $1,000 on them a night it was bye bye sucker.
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| 8/16/2014 12:38:47 AM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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Sometimes it is better to take your time and get things right.
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| 8/16/2014 10:11:09 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from stmary186:
Why is so hard to find someone who is respectful of your time an feelings good god
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It's tough, even at my age. Most men don't care. They just want what they can get out of a dating relationship and if they aren't getting it then they either cheat or move on.
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| 8/16/2014 10:12:49 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from only1ofme4u:
I agree with person above. You talk to someone, feel like you start getting close, make plans, then nothing! They disappear! Does anyone really want to meet on this site?
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even paid sites are like that! I talked to a guy back in 2012 that I met on a PAID dating site and it's not a cheap one either and he promised to visit me 5 times in the last two years. I have dated others in the meantime and we remained "friends" but he will always have an excuse as to why he can't visit me so I gave up on ever dating him and just focus on men near me.
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| 8/16/2014 8:56:57 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from stmary186:
Why is so hard to find someone who is respectful of your time an feelings good god
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It's tough, even at my age. Most men don't care. They just want what they can get out of a dating relationship and if they aren't getting it then they either cheat or move on.
Depends on where you are meeting them and what type of guy they are.
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| 9/5/2014 12:36:49 AM |
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singleguynbama
Trussville, AL
52, joined Dec. 2011
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Cuz divorce turns all guys in to a bitter a** hole
Thats not always true sweetheart,definately not here
[Edited 9/5/2014 12:38:30 AM ]
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