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5/30/2014 8:30:10 PM	First message reads
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011 online now!	Ok, we've all been in that position, more than a few times. I'm sure we have all seen the "Hi!" message, and nothing else. Gee, that's so informative!I can do that one at the local WalMart to 50 people and get no farther with them, than on here. With any prospective women, I take the time to read her profile. (Yeah, I really do.) Now, are you more likely to respond to someone that has, and does comment on, your profile? Or, do you go for a more witty response? Does a romantic approach work better? It's pretty much a given that the needy reply is a big bust. I never know what to say, when I read the "Don't wants". Just a casual assumption on those, is to not mencion them in a reply. Even if it seems like you're asking for an answer. Another guess is that a general, cut and paste, response that looks like it was sent to 30 people is a no go. What peaks your interest? Enough to reply to? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
5/31/2014 2:48:22 AM	First message reads
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 46, joined Sep. 2011	I like those that read my profile and make a comment about something I wrote or interested in my interests/hobbies. The ones that say "hi" are fine as long as the next message is something worth reading and replying too. I too read profiles and make my decision based on the facts given. The ones who write "ask my later" or use words like hit me up or 'sex' written in their hobbies I move on. I know u like sex, so why write it in your interests.
5/31/2014 7:47:56 AM	First message reads
jrbogie1949 Ventura, CA 68, joined Mar. 2009	when did 'hi' become a bad way to start a conversation?
5/31/2014 6:49:08 PM	First message reads
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011 online now!	Quote from jrbogie1949: when did 'hi' become a bad way to start a conversation? Hi is just fine. ADD SOMETHING TO IT!
6/1/2014 10:32:46 PM	First message reads
just_khloe Ashtabula, OH 48, joined Jul. 2013	Funny always works...doesn't have to be profile specific...
6/5/2014 1:47:54 AM	First message reads
ladiebugg55 Redding, CA 61, joined Jun. 2012	I write back and say the same thing.."Hi"...and nothing else...I don't care for the shy timid type... Quote from purplerider1200: Ok, we've all been in that position, more than a few times. I'm sure we have all seen the "Hi!" message, and nothing else. Gee, that's so informative!I can do that one at the local WalMart to 50 people and get no farther with them, than on here. With any prospective women, I take the time to read her profile. (Yeah, I really do.) Now, are you more likely to respond to someone that has, and does comment on, your profile? Or, do you go for a more witty response? Does a romantic approach work better? It's pretty much a given that the needy reply is a big bust. I never know what to say, when I read the "Don't wants". Just a casual assumption on those, is to not mencion them in a reply. Even if it seems like you're asking for an answer. Another guess is that a general, cut and paste, response that looks like it was sent to 30 people is a no go. What peaks your interest? Enough to reply to?
6/5/2014 9:48:10 AM	First message reads
pdforone Litchfield, OH 65, joined Jul. 2010 online now!	Quote from purplerider1200: Hi is just fine. ADD SOMETHING TO IT! If that's all they have? Just move along!
6/5/2014 1:05:30 PM	First message reads
sunnystacy68 Elkhart, IN 50, joined Feb. 2014	ummmmm yeeeahhhhh ok that works
6/7/2014 12:15:02 PM	First message reads
cosmicgem Springfield, MO 61, joined Jun. 2011	I prefer someone to refer to somethi g I have written on my profile. Then I know they have Actually taken the time to Read it. And if they can make me laugh .. In a Good way... That is Always a Plus.
6/7/2014 3:14:56 PM	First message reads
nelly_nips Oklahoma City, OK 39, joined Jul. 2013	I don't message, I only respond...
6/21/2014 9:14:39 PM	First message reads
funamericanhuny Boonville, MO 57, joined May. 2010	for example if I list camping is one of my interest then in a reply he talked about the time he's gone camping and where. Also, if he wants to know what it is that I enjoy about camping.
6/22/2014 2:08:24 AM	First message reads
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	Well, after sending out countless messages, long, short, mentioning profile information, or forum posts, I can say that the only ones that get a response are the ones to forum posters that live over 500 miles away. You could like a lot of the same things she likes, mention that stuff, and still get no response. So, I figure that looks play a very vital role in garnering a response. JMO
6/22/2014 10:52:58 AM	First message reads
gilligains Saint Helens, OR 33, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from cavie59: Well, after sending out countless messages, long, short, mentioning profile information, or forum posts, I can say that the only ones that get a response are the ones to forum posters that live over 500 miles away. You could like a lot of the same things she likes, mention that stuff, and still get no response. So, I figure that looks play a very vital role in garnering a response. JMO Agreed. Hence why I might message one person a week at the most but more likely one a month. I look at and read tons of profiles and occasionally post on the activity wall. When I do send a message I introduce myself I comment on what about their profile has intrigued me and I ask open ended questions. All to no substatial avail I had a friend tell me it's a numbers game. You send the short simple message and get thousands of messages out there and some of them will look at your profile and some of those will message you back. Personally I'm interested in quality not quantity, I'm also not in a hurry so I just tinker on by. I Do respond to all messages, even "hi" or "Hey". If we had met in a bar that's how I'd start.
6/22/2014 10:20:57 PM	First message reads
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011 online now!	Quote from cavie59: Well, after sending out countless messages, long, short, mentioning profile information, or forum posts, I can say that the only ones that get a response are the ones to forum posters that live over 500 miles away. You could like a lot of the same things she likes, mention that stuff, and still get no response. So, I figure that looks play a very vital role in garnering a response. JMO The long distance ones will always answer you,-Because- there's a snowballs chance in hell that you will ever meet.
6/22/2014 11:13:16 PM	First message reads
gostrider2020 Bellows Falls, VT 58, joined Aug. 2011	I have been single to long ! need ,want, have to have a woman by my side for the rest of my life don't want to spend the rest of my life alone.how any of you feel the same? men women it don't make any diffence. we all need to feel needed and wanted and loved.yes you can say I'm a hick ,redneck ,hillbilly . but I'm stright -up and honest,I tell it the way it is no bull.
6/23/2014 1:58:43 AM	First message reads
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from gilligains: I had a friend tell me it's a numbers game. You send the short simple message and get thousands of messages out there and some of them will look at your profile and some of those will message you back. Personally I'm interested in quality not quantity, I'm also not in a hurry so I just tinker on by. Same here, I was never a fan of the "shotgun" approach to dating.
6/23/2014 9:42:21 PM	First message reads
emmicky Bellows Falls, VT 42, joined Feb. 2014	ok guys you want to know?? this honesty from a woman that doesn't like any bullshit.a woman that is attractive and yes I do know that I am. I do not believe that beauty is on the surface yet it is skin deep. I respond to those that actually makes sense to me. those that share a little bit about their lives that let me see just what I am looking at. I honestly like when a man tells me what it one of his faults are. this goes back to my beliefs though. I also look at everyones profile and see how far from me they are. I like funny men so anyone that makes me laugh catches my attention. I believe it really depends on the woman and her personality.
6/23/2014 10:41:55 PM	First message reads
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011 online now!	Quote from emmicky: ok guys you want to know?? this honesty from a woman that doesn't like any bullshit.a woman that is attractive and yes I do know that I am. I do not believe that beauty is on the surface yet it is skin deep. I respond to those that actually makes sense to me. those that share a little bit about their lives that let me see just what I am looking at. I honestly like when a man tells me what it one of his faults are. this goes back to my beliefs though. I also look at everyones profile and see how far from me they are. I like funny men so anyone that makes me laugh catches my attention. I believe it really depends on the woman and her personality. Ahh, a post with some content. I'm not one to start with Bs, if I intend to get somewhere with the prospective lady. Obviously, if it doesn't make sense to you in the beginning, then there's little use in sending a reply. Now, uncovering faults in the beginning. I don't think that's such a grand idea. But, if it's something that you don't care for, then it would just put a stop to hurt feeling later on. Distance, that's a killer. Who'd want to drive to Timbucktoo just for a date. Funny, I agree with. I've met my share of dry people. Impressions start with the first message. Thank you for injecting a thoughtful opinion.

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