joejoe8924
Mesa, AZ
27, joined Apr. 2014
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Can it be an anomaly, or is it just me? Or is it a deal breaker for mostly I feel vanity reasons one would likely miss out peaking any attraction an previous acquaintance per se had shown seeing they all of a sudden dawned glasses that created a spectacle for hanging out with em in public places?? I have diagnosed squint...and been told contacts are now fully out of the question, and must wear what are thick on the sides like coke bottle glasses to compensate now. To my horror upon receipt I was sort of sternly told she estimated I'll need additional base out prisms, or I may say wedges to badically have the ability to fUse my eyes together to see onCe again!!! Or to better yet keep seeing binocularly....sorry to be long winded,
This actual lady eye doctor demeanor changed as tho I fought her initially??saying I don't squint if at all...but she had to redefine it for my eyes....ya;(
The oxo part of the eye exam had never had before and had my eyes feeling like they were being pulled apart...I can't believe I just want a relationship...but can't love till I learn to love who I am now. Sorry for those who's read any of this far. I'm a broken record sounding pansy.
Please if anyone has the kindness in there heart to share any hope or happily ever after stories :~/ of a four eyed loser similar or dissimilar positive outcomes dating someone who sooner or later finds out is visually handicapped w/out being chastised by there peers pls share. I'm at a cross roads tapering off the last of my zoloft anti-depressant medicine. I may marry a deaf or blind girl now as I sympathy and empathy of how the striggle is real
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gnaz
Mesa, AZ
42, joined Jun. 2014
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Well, that was tough read OP... I looked at the pics on your profile. If those are the glasses you're referring to, they look fine. Yes, they're thick but I think that the choice of frames does it justice. If you're having problems with girls, then it's because of your thought process, not the glasses. You're giving this issue too much power and you're dwelling and self conscious about it. Your attention and focus of vanity is contributing to the issue. I would suggest letting it go and focus on your character and interests. Never bring up the glasses and eye sight unless a lady asks and then respond short and sweet and just say you have (blank) issue and leave it at that.
I have essential tremors and use to be self conscious about it. It never stops me from getting a guy. I don't mention it until they do, then I make jokes about it...all is good. GL OP!
[Edited 6/28/2014 9:39:25 AM ]
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dougiem
Tucson, AZ
36, joined Aug. 2009
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If you're having problems with girls, then it's because of your thought process, not the glasses.
This.
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
35, joined Jul. 2012
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Yes there's always hope. My friend married a guy who completely lost his vision as a child. Another friend married a man born with a missing limb. It's more about one's attitude toward life!
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