| 7/8/2014 4:19:20 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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farfromblessed
Pleasantville, IA
21, joined Jun. 2014
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am so confused. kinda confused. i broke with my man and got married to another man. my ex needs his baby, i dont feel like allowing my child to go see his real dad. his step dad is loving and caring what should i do? somebody to help me.
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| 7/8/2014 4:41:27 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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evilsnicker
Fruitland Park, FL
46, joined Jul. 2013
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If there is no reason other than you're just feeling petulant and selfish then I'd say you need to rethink that. Your child has a right to know his father and vice versa.
If you feel that your child would somehow be in danger with his real father, then I'd say you were probably doing the right thing, but I'm thinking that's not the case here. I'd also be willing to bet that you're damn well making him pay child support. Quit being selfish. Grow up.
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| 7/8/2014 5:01:36 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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farfromblessed
Pleasantville, IA
21, joined Jun. 2014
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i guess it will be dangerous to let the kid go see his dad. although amnt sure.
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| 7/8/2014 9:40:01 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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You are confused, heck we are confused.
You broke up with your baby daddy and go and get married and now your on a dating site, is this right?
How about you not date/marry anyone? Sounds like your a very confused 18 yr old.
If your sons father is a decent man he deserves to see his son. He deserves to pay, take care of and hang out with his child. Do the right thing. And if he is a a-hole he still needs to help support that child.
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| 7/8/2014 10:13:08 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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farfromblessed
Pleasantville, IA
21, joined Jun. 2014
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Oh. am sorry. Lol. gosh! my sister bumped into this site and posted the quiz using my username.. lol. yeah am eighteen and i cant have a kid right now. anyway my sister seeks for advice on what she posted, please advice her av tried telling her the same on what you guys have said but she is relucant at what am saying..
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| 7/9/2014 1:58:55 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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Too many people use the kids as a battering ram against the other parent. You kid will end up hating you if you keep it up. Kids grow up and see through the BS sooner or later and it will come back and bite you in the a** in the end.
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| 7/9/2014 9:55:53 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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Not a good idea. Your child needs to know both, and allow it to decide. I just met back up with my niece after a 17 year absence. I have a grand nephew that I didn't know about. My brother-in-law didn't get to know his children, after his ex decided that we wern't good enough to be around them. Needless to say, given the chance, I'd deck my sister in a heartbeat. Don't be that horrible. Not only are you witholding his child for him, you're not allowing his parents to see what maybe their only grandchild.
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| 7/10/2014 1:40:29 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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anja_lou514
Kissimmee, FL
42, joined May. 2011
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My oldest didn't meet his biological father until he was almost 16. I didn't bad mouth his father during that time period and I didn't ask for child support. I didn't have another man raise him either, though. Was I being immature and selfish at the time? Looking back, yes, I was. However, during that time, his father had two other children that he has little to no contact with. He is now an alcoholic as well. I can't regret the decision I made all those years ago. I don't try to prevent my son from seeing him though. He's old enough to make his own informed decision now. 
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| 7/13/2014 11:04:34 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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don_johnson99
Janesville, WI
56, joined Nov. 2013
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am so confused. kinda confused. i broke with my man and got married to another man. my ex needs his baby, i dont feel like allowing my child to go see his real dad. his step dad is loving and caring what should i do? somebody to help me.
You NEED to have your tubes tied. We don't need anymore welfare mothers in this country. 
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| 7/13/2014 1:07:51 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Poor decision on your part, OP.
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| 7/15/2014 2:45:59 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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girlsrule11
McAllen, TX
41, joined Mar. 2014
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If there is no reason other than you're just feeling petulant and selfish then I'd say you need to rethink that. Your child has a right to know his father and vice versa.
If you feel that your child would somehow be in danger with his real father, then I'd say you were probably doing the right thing, but I'm thinking that's not the case here. I'd also be willing to bet that you're damn well making him pay child support. Quit being selfish. Grow up.
Very well said. I have a baby whose biological father doesn't want to meet her because he doesn't want to pay cs. I don't trust him too much but was willing to work something out so she would get the chance to know him. Filed a suit against him, but he never replied, I cancelled petition and told him that if he ever wants to meet her to take me to court. I was making it all easy for him but he's a jerk, a real loser. My baby is blessed to be loved and accepted by my ex husband. So, thanks to him she has a father. Money is not the most important issue, it's she not being rejected. So I believe you should not deny your child from seeing father unless he is dangerous or rejects your child. It's not only about the father's right but baby's too.
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| 7/20/2014 5:58:28 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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ayee_again
Pasadena, TX
56, joined May. 2014
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If there is a an issue with the child's safety then of course you are making the correct decision unless the visits are court ordered and supervised..
Otherwise you are being selfish and doing your child a disservice by not allowing him to know his father.
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| 7/21/2014 7:38:01 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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c2j2012
Holt, MI
36, joined Apr. 2013
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If he files a motion with the court, you may not have a choice.
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| 7/21/2014 12:43:07 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
37, joined Feb. 2014
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if he's not a danger to your child its best to let them have that connection. no matter how many step dads u get you can't change the fact that the father is the father and by keeping them apart may only cause them to push away from u later a child needs love from both a mom and a dad
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| 7/23/2014 11:32:32 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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sweetate2
Albion, IN
67, joined Jul. 2013
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If there is no reason other than you're just feeling petulant and selfish then I'd say you need to rethink that. Your child has a right to know his father and vice versa.
If you feel that your child would somehow be in danger with his real father, then I'd say you were probably doing the right thing, but I'm thinking that's not the case here. I'd also be willing to bet that you're damn well making him pay child support. Quit being selfish. Grow up.
You really can not keep your child away from his father.... When you divorce your child is really looked after by the court I believe.... I agree with the above...
Too many children are hurt by games their parents play in a divorce...It is hard enough on them...... If there is no harm from the father then do the right thing and help your child realize two people love him... or her......good luck
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| 7/24/2014 3:56:06 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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am so confused. kinda confused. i broke with my man and got married to another man. my ex needs his baby, i dont feel like allowing my child to go see his real dad. his step dad is loving and caring what should i do? somebody to help me.
let me get this straight OP
you have a baby you had with an ex that doesn't see baby
you are married to another man now
you are on a single's dating site looking for a man
You sound like one screwed up 18 yr old girl who needs to put her kid first and live life and stop f8cking around. Seriously. 
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| 7/24/2014 3:57:14 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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Oh. am sorry. Lol. gosh! my sister bumped into this site and posted the quiz using my username.. lol. yeah am eighteen and i cant have a kid right now. anyway my sister seeks for advice on what she posted, please advice her av tried telling her the same on what you guys have said but she is relucant at what am saying..
yeah right 
stupid kids.
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| 7/27/2014 12:14:32 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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bella_luce
Bartonsville, PA
45, joined Feb. 2014
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How about seeking real help from a licensed counselor or local social services. This site is not appropriate for this situation. Best of luck to you all.
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| 8/7/2014 6:48:35 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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tbyers
East Orange, NJ
45, joined Apr. 2014
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I feel that a women should not keep the child from seeing the father unless the father have not made no attempts to see or be in the child life. If the child is older enough to decide if they want the father in their life cool if not that better
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| 8/7/2014 11:38:22 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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happywalker825
Birmingham, AL
53, joined Jun. 2013
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Don't do anything that will make your child look at you in a bad light in years to come. do the right thing anyway. Be glad if he even wants a relationship. So many don't. The children should never suffer.
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| 8/7/2014 11:44:01 AM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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anywhereusa
Converse, TX
52, joined Dec. 2009
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If there is no reason other than you're just feeling petulant and selfish then I'd say you need to rethink that. Your child has a right to know his father and vice versa.
If you feel that your child would somehow be in danger with his real father, then I'd say you were probably doing the right thing, but I'm thinking that's not the case here. I'd also be willing to bet that you're damn well making him pay child support. Quit being selfish. Grow up.
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| 8/7/2014 1:43:24 PM |
I dont think i will allow my child to meet his real dad. |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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This is an easy one. IF he decides he wants to see the kids and you refuse. All he has to do is take you to court.Then you don't have a choice anymore. Be smart and let him see them.
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