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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Many ppl will mention what tthey want in a companion but almost always choose the opposite. Why?
So list up to 10 "must haves" that would make a good companion. Once your able to see what your requirements are can you see the mistakes AND see how many others make the same mistakes you do.
How can you want a real commitment if you don't knkw what a real one is?
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8/5/2014 12:43:02 PM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
53, joined Apr. 2014
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I think my time is better spent on just being comfortable with who I am. That will attract like minded companions. I prefer to accept people as they are rather than compare them to a rigid list.
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8/5/2014 12:45:07 PM |
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cawkasian
Houston, TX
48, joined Jun. 2014
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2 legs
2 arms
a head
2 ears
2 eyes
a mouth
..damn that's 10 already and I didn't even get to tits and ass.
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8/5/2014 2:21:21 PM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
60, joined Jul. 2013
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...^^^...N/C...for now...
*****
6' 6" tall
Hip-length hair...
Liz Hurleys face....
Carmen Electras frame...
Kathleen Turners speaking voice...
Caren Carpenters singing voice...
Jane Fondas Libido....
MY Wedding Ring...!!!!
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8/5/2014 2:29:03 PM |
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tweetyttweet
Raleigh, NC
48, joined Jul. 2014
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happy
supportive
compassionate
secure
motivated
sexual
witty
loving
tall
single
^ should just about cover it.
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8/5/2014 3:27:11 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
56, joined Feb. 2014
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taller than me. works and fresh n clean. has his own place. is a leader and stronger than me. stamina and all body parts work. great kisser and cuddler. treats me with respect and understanding. smart and has humor. likes to dance and enjoys music. works with me and dosent mind a honey do list.
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8/5/2014 7:38:45 PM |
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cajlg
Callao, VA
54, joined Nov. 2009
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taller than me. works and fresh n clean. has his own place. is a leader and stronger than me. stamina and all body parts work. great kisser and cuddler. treats me with respect and understanding. smart and has humor. likes to dance and enjoys music. works with me and dosent mind a honey do list.
. Sounds great..I will take one, too!
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8/5/2014 8:21:27 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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I think my time is better spent on just being comfortable with who I am. That will attract like minded companions. I prefer to accept people as they are rather than compare them to a rigid list.
I agree soul.I can't create a man when I know, no one is perfect
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8/5/2014 8:30:13 PM |
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jenly
Chaska, MN
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I don't have an ideal... I just try to get to know each man on their own merit.
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8/5/2014 9:42:01 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
46, joined May. 2014
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You can't ... No one is perfect!
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8/5/2014 10:08:00 PM |
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joat111026
Port Saint Lucie, FL
51, joined Oct. 2011
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I can list all the things I want in a guy but all will be just a dream!
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8/5/2014 10:30:18 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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Nice body
Beautiful mind
Good heart
Balls
Respect for others and integrity
Talented lover
Imagination
Down to earth
Class
Education
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8/5/2014 11:05:07 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
42, joined Jan. 2014
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If I could I would have a problem. Now would I.
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8/6/2014 12:10:04 AM |
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mei_bankai
Middletown, OH
21, joined Jun. 2014
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no such thing
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8/6/2014 12:21:24 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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I don't need a long list.
1. I find her attractive, and I care about her, and enjoy her company because of who she actually is.
2. She is attracted to me, and cares about me, and enjoys being with me because of who I actually am.
Other details vary.
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8/6/2014 8:45:28 AM |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
59, joined Jun. 2012
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the perfect man for me is tall dark and handsome.
he should have a great sense of humor he should keep me laughing every day as i will for him..
Secure, compassionate, open minded, kind and friendly to all, show respect to me and anyone, chivalrous, generous, able to compromise, a good listner..honest to a fault..let me know he loves me in actions not just words..high libido is a must..loves animals..even tempered..no hot heads..put me first above all others as will do for him..he should care about his appearence.looking neat and clean and dressing nice has nothing to do with keeping up with the Jones..it's about pride and self respect and pleasing your mate..loves to play all sorts of games and the travel... the list goes on and on...
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8/6/2014 10:27:49 AM |
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allseeme2
Manassas, VA
64, joined Feb. 2014
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I don't need a long list.
1. I find her attractive, and I care about her, and enjoy her company because of who she actually is.
2. She is attracted to me, and cares about me, and enjoys being with me because of who I actually am.
Other
details vary
This man has it so right,no body is perfect,just respect the one your with,when you find that person,it takes two to make love last,.an working together.don't take love for granted.::rose
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8/6/2014 10:44:13 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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I think my time is better spent on just being comfortable with who I am. That will attract like minded companions. I prefer to accept people as they are rather than compare them to a rigid list.
I was totally going to say this above statement.
You have to except people and not change them or make them into something you would like, that is a selfish and unrealistic act. Too many people get disappointed because they want things their way, but sometimes you have to give in a little and hey you might get more than you were expecting.
Be yourself. And let others be themselves too.
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8/6/2014 10:55:40 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
49, joined Mar. 2008
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Under 5'6
non smoker
great sense of humor
attractive
fit
large love globes
nice feet
no short hair
not overly talkative
not bossy and demanding
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8/6/2014 11:18:29 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
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Many ppl will mention what tthey want in a companion but almost always choose the opposite. Why?
So list up to 10 "must haves" that would make a good companion. Once your able to see what your requirements are can you see the mistakes AND see how many others make the same mistakes you do.
How can you want a real commitment if you don't knkw what a real one is?
1. Talkative
2. Sweet
3. Funny
4. Physically attractive
5. Plans for the long run
6. Close with family
7. Dominant (SEXY!!!!)
8. Able to control his temper
9. Doesnt drink or do drugs
10. Good work ethic
Hmm I think my list is decent
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8/6/2014 11:19:49 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
20, joined Jul. 2012
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Under 5'6
non smoker
great sense of humor
attractive
fit
large love globes
nice feet
no short hair
not overly talkative
not bossy and demanding
Someones easily satisfied
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8/6/2014 11:21:27 AM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
38, joined Apr. 2014
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As of this time I can't say what I want so much disappointments in my life right now
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8/6/2014 11:21:40 AM |
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judahdunlap
Riverside, CA
28, joined Sep. 2012
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Sexy
Honest
Loyal
Sassy
Dark eyes
Dark hair
Large boobs
Speaks Spanish as well as english.
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8/6/2014 11:28:52 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
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Omg men your lists suck can we eliminate atleast an inch of shallowness?
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8/6/2014 11:29:53 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
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As of this time I can't say what I want so much disappointments in my life right now Awww u poor thing
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8/6/2014 11:31:51 AM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
38, joined Apr. 2014
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Well a hot beer poster chick in a skimpy outfit with a ice cold beer will do for now. I'm thirsty
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8/6/2014 11:33:07 AM |
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judahdunlap
Riverside, CA
28, joined Sep. 2012
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8/6/2014 11:40:23 AM |
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judahdunlap
Riverside, CA
28, joined Sep. 2012
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Sexy
Honest
Loyal
Sassy
Dark eyes
Dark hair
Large boobs
Speaks Spanish as well as english.
As well as very talkative
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8/6/2014 1:34:53 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
56, joined Mar. 2012
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The only perfection I believe in is the heavens
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8/6/2014 6:31:35 PM |
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baileybug32
Sacramento, CA
34, joined Mar. 2013
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At least 6 foot, job, nice to me, oh yeah 10 inch d!ck.. the end.
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8/6/2014 10:28:34 PM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
60, joined Jul. 2013
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I don't need a long list.
1. I find her attractive, and I care about her, and enjoy her company because of who she actually is.
2. She is attracted to me, and cares about me, and enjoys being with me because of who I actually am.
Other details vary.
Yeah....That pretty much covers it....
Options can vary...but it's Really . . Just . . The Chemistry..!!
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8/7/2014 12:01:26 AM |
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new2this63
Bowie, MD
51, joined Apr. 2014
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Only need one characteristic and that is a woman that truly loves herself.
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8/7/2014 1:35:22 AM |
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bsweet2caroline
Salt Lake City, UT
31, joined Dec. 2012
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Single
Can be myself with him
Has a Job
Dependable
Fun
Conversational ( easy 2 talk 2)
Has a car
Believes in himself
Manners
Handsome
I think all of those qualities would make him handsome to be honest
This was something I needed to re-evaluate. Thank you!
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8/7/2014 1:38:29 AM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
38, joined Apr. 2014
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Mary was her name
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8/7/2014 7:00:47 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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I don't think I'd want a perfect woman....it could get boring after a while.
Always saying and doing the right thing...I think it could get dull at some point.
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8/7/2014 10:18:39 AM |
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firey_green1
Austin, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014
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Wouldn't want a perfect man... i can handle the flaws he comes with... it's all compromises on changes with valid support from me... works both ways...
If I wanted a perfect man that doesn't say nothing I'd go buy me the Ken doll...
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8/8/2014 8:58:55 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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Single
Can be myself with him
Has a Job
Dependable
Fun
Conversational ( easy 2 talk 2)
Has a car
Believes in himself
Manners
Handsome
Hey but #1, #3 and #7 shouldn't be obvious??
Wow!! Nowadays a woman has to spell out that he has to be single?
And she has to spell out that he has to have a car and a job?????
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8/8/2014 10:16:17 AM |
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audyssey
Khanabad
Afghanistan
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Lol these days, they're a must have.
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8/17/2014 4:37:20 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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The reason why I started this thread was to try and show ppl just how shallow theyve become and why so many relationsbips fail. Almost all the things ppl mentioned was superficial, surface and vain.
Of course we want good looks, nice body, cars and money. But does all these things form a good foundation for a serious, successful relationship? I asked ppl of other cultures the same and their answers had more substance.
Spiritually grounded, family orientated, loyal, faithful, respect for parents AND grand parents, good mental and physical health history in the family, ambition and good cultural teaching and knowledge there of. SOLID FOUNDATKON MATERIAL.
Compare that to what you all been listing. And thats why other cultures have many more zuccessful marriages, much fewer divorces, stronger families and happier lives.
Think about it seriously.
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8/17/2014 4:56:10 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Only need one characteristic and that is a woman that truly loves herself.
And what does that have to do wigh her loving and respecting you? And explain why herloving herself is a good foundation for a good relationship??????
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8/17/2014 7:25:44 AM |
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stephisicated
Teaneck, NJ
32, joined Jan. 2013
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Easy going, good humor, intelligent, educated, attractive, good hygiene, compassionate, respectful, loyal, athletic.
That's what would be perfect for me
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8/17/2014 7:44:05 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
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The reason why I started this thread was to try and show ppl just how shallow theyve become and why so many relationsbips fail. Almost all the things ppl mentioned was superficial, surface and vain.
Of course we want good looks, nice body, cars and money. But does all these things form a good foundation for a serious, successful relationship? I asked ppl of other cultures the same and their answers had more substance.
Spiritually grounded, family orientated, loyal, faithful, respect for parents AND grand parents, good mental and physical health history in the family, ambition and good cultural teaching and knowledge there of. SOLID FOUNDATKON MATERIAL.
Compare that to what you all been listing. And thats why other cultures have many more zuccessful marriages, much fewer divorces, stronger families and happier lives.
Think about it seriously.
The perfect woman is on who would tell you to shut the hell up.
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8/17/2014 7:49:13 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
47, joined Jun. 2014
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I'm going to find me a reckless woman.with razor blades and dice in her eyes.just a touch of sadness in her fingers.thunder and lightning in her thighs.and will ride like a one eyed Jack of diamonds with the devil close behind.
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8/17/2014 7:52:21 AM |
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diana29615
Greenville, SC
46, joined Jan. 2014
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mind of a mad scientist
heart of a poet
spirit of an adventurer
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8/17/2014 7:56:02 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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The reason why I started this thread was to try and show ppl just how shallow theyve become and why so many relationsbips fail. Almost all the things ppl mentioned was superficial, surface and vain.
Of course we want good looks, nice body, cars and money. But does all these things form a good foundation for a serious, successful relationship? I asked ppl of other cultures the same and their answers had more substance.
Spiritually grounded, family orientated, loyal, faithful, respect for parents AND grand parents, good mental and physical health history in the family, ambition and good cultural teaching and knowledge there of. SOLID FOUNDATKON MATERIAL.
Compare that to what you all been listing. And thats why other cultures have many more zuccessful marriages, much fewer divorces, stronger families and happier lives.
Think about it seriously.
Too bad you did this to yourself.
Let me tell you what you ACTUALLY did:
You had existing prejudices about what peoples' likes and dislikes were all about, and your prejudices made you feel superior and comfortable, and you wanted to shove them in other peoples' faces in order to feel even MORE superior.
So you wrote up a trick post, written specifically to encourage people to joke around and talk about surface issues, so that you could come back as you have, and applaud yourself in public.
Had you wanted to conduct a GENUINE and HONEST discussion, you would have explained that from the beginning.
And your snotty conclusions might have actually had some validity. As it is, they amount to nothing more than common, unsubstantiated fantasies, which display nothing more than the usual, rather pathetic, "noble savage" worship.
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8/17/2014 4:55:39 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Too bad you did this to yourself.
Let me tell you what you ACTUALLY did:
You had existing prejudices about what peoples' likes and dislikes were all about, and your prejudices made you feel superior and comfortable, and you wanted to shove them in other peoples' faces in order to feel even MORE superior.
So you wrote up a trick post, written specifically to encourage people to joke around and talk about surface issues, so that you could come back as you have, and applaud yourself in public.
Had you wanted to conduct a GENUINE and HONEST discussion, you would have explained that from the beginning.
And your snotty conclusions might have actually had some validity. As it is, they amount to nothing more than common, unsubstantiated fantasies, which display nothing more than the usual, rather pathetic, "noble savage" worship.
WRONG ALL WRONG. I dont have the power to control ppls thoughts and words. I flattered that you think I can, thank you. I asked this question to others and got serilusness. There will always be young minded idiots in this forum that will NEVER take anything serious. Not responsible for their behavior either.
I'll ask and you answer however you wish. But be an adult about it, be responsible for the answers you give. Grow up please.
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8/22/2014 8:12:31 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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happy
supportive
compassionate
secure
motivated
sexual
witty
loving
tall
single
^ should just about cover it.
Take this list here. All this is fine but its all surface. These are not "foundation" type material.
They could be all that and a lousy parent, alcohol wit or addicted to drugs. Things that would destroy the relationship.
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8/23/2014 12:38:14 AM |
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triedandtestedt
Las Vegas, NV
27, joined Jun. 2014
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I'm very open to accepting people for who they are,but my ideal mate must have one quality....[Honesty] I believe honesty takes care of everything!
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8/23/2014 1:30:13 AM |
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judahdunlap
Riverside, CA
28, joined Sep. 2012
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I'm very open to accepting people for who they are,but my ideal mate must have one quality....[Honesty] I believe honesty takes care of everything!
I feel the exact same way, I am always open to excepting people for who they are, but they MUST be honest.
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8/23/2014 1:43:03 AM |
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diana29615
Greenville, SC
46, joined Jan. 2014
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Mind of a mad scientist
Heart of a poet
Spirit of an adventurer
*stirred not shaken*
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8/23/2014 2:44:46 AM |
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wedontgiveaf
Vancouver, WA
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8/27/2014 7:46:01 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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I'm very open to accepting people for who they are,but my ideal mate must have one quality....[Honesty] I believe honesty takes care of everything!
Ok. Would you date a crackhead alcoholic who had a child by her own brother and sells herself for drug and alcohol money AS LONG AS shes honest and open about what she do?
I dont think you would. So when listing and/or looki.g for a mate shojld DRUG FREE be a must?
You see whereI'm going wit this?
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8/27/2014 7:57:23 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
52, joined Dec. 2007
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Just 7...
1. Great hair, red, strawberry blonde, auburn, deep brown with hints of auburn...you get the theme.
2. Healthy, athletic and interested in sex [with me], sports (tennis/cycling/hiking).
3. Bachelor's degree or equivalent (I have a Masters-so I think that's fair)
4. Own career that she likes (I don't like a woman who hates her job and won't do anything about it). I love my career.
5. Wears modern, sexy, adult, middle class clothing (heels, skirts, dresses, lingerie).
6. Eats actual food and isn't on some weird diet all the time.
7. Has a spiritual base (doesn't have to be devout anything)- just grounded.
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8/27/2014 8:04:39 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Mind of a mad scientist. (Which means he'll have you tie up on a table for some crazy experiment) lol
Heart of a poet. (He used sweet angelic words to lure you there) lol
Spirit of an adventurer. (He's seeing other woman while you're tied up) lol
*stirred not shaken* (He's been crazy since he was a kid)lol
There! I made the interpreted corrections.
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8/28/2014 10:25:59 PM |
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miss_sharonda
Glenshaw, PA
38, joined Dec. 2013
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I'm at my computer and I'm creating the perfect man like in the Movie Weird Science.
1. Denzel Washington (Swag and Style) I love a man that has a confident walk and knows how to dress
2. Bill Cosby (Education) I have my Bachelor's Degree and I'm currently working on my Masters. Therefore, I would want a man that is educated
3. Ryan Gosling (Face) He has a boyish charm and he is so hot
4. The Roc (Body) I want to feel his big strong arms around me
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8/29/2014 1:47:29 AM |
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new2this63
Bowie, MD
51, joined Apr. 2014
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A woman that loves herself unconditionally.
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8/29/2014 11:20:52 AM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
42, joined Jan. 2014
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If I could create my perfect man. I wouldn't be on here.
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8/29/2014 11:24:52 AM |
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italianroyalty
London
United Kingdom
21, joined Jul. 2014
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Sad to see 75% of these comments only describe what they want in in the physical department..
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8/29/2014 11:11:23 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Sad to see 75% of these comments only describe what they want in in the physical department..
THANK YOU VERY MUCH. It took someone from ANOTHER CULTURE to see what I was saying.
BENEFITS and RESPONSIBILITY, relationships are comprised of both. And when you go into it ONLY looking for the benedits then its the lack of responsibility that ends it.
Most time in drama, sometimes in death. You waste yrs of ur life, money, cars, jobs, houses and drag innocent kids through hell using them as ponds in this game.
And all bcuz you couldnt handle your business PROPERLY from the start.
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9/8/2014 10:10:38 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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I agree soul. I can't create a man when I know, no one is perfect
This is interesting. None of us are perfect....so does that mean we have to except anything or anyone bcuz we arent?
Should a woman be with a man who beats her bcuz shes not perfect herself?
Should a man be with a woman who slept with ALL his friends and most of his family bcuz hes not perfect?
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