| 8/21/2014 6:14:31 PM |
Is it wrong to want to date a girl without kids??? |
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moto_gp_guy
Lavaca, AR
31, joined Apr. 2012
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It just seems like almost every single females first sentence is"I'm a proud mother" or "I'm looking for a man to take care of me and my kids" I understand if marriage failed but not 20yo with 3 kids and never married and stil "looking for a good man to settle down with" maybe I'm just old fashioned and think should find a (actual) good man then have kids. Idk maybe I'm wrong Lol
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| 8/21/2014 7:50:42 PM |
Is it wrong to want to date a girl without kids??? |
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ok72076
Jacksonville, AR
56, joined Jan. 2008
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Nothing wrong with that dream.
Just you're going to find a lot of ladies who had already met guys with that dream ahead of you and they failed to use protection when they fooled around.
But you're going to be awful lonely if you don't date mothers. At least with the mothers you can see how they are going to handle kids if you ever had any together.
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| 8/24/2014 11:35:21 AM |
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justsearching37
England, AR
42, joined Jan. 2012
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I agree, nothing wrong with it but you may find it difficult to find what you are looking for. It may take a long time.
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| 8/24/2014 11:44:09 AM |
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ok1954
Okmulgee, OK
63, joined Sep. 2008
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I don't think so....if you don't want to, don't do it...
I have my criteria of who I will date also....you can't change people or their family.
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| 8/31/2014 4:04:02 PM |
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furryboob
Dover, AR
32, joined Jan. 2010
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Not saying that your way of thinking is wrong but I do understand what you're saying.
Personally I would love to be with someone whether they have kids or not, and if not then maybe a few years down the road discuss having a child together. Mind you I have 16 brothers/sisters but all are half or inlaws. But of all of them I'm the second oldest. I am the only one without a child for a similar reason as you mentioned. I merely wish to wait for the right partner and if I never get the chance then fine by me but I'd still be just as happy with a partner already with kids because regardless of the kids not being biologically mine I'd still raise them as I would my very own.
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| 9/4/2014 5:42:20 PM |
Is it wrong to want to date a girl without kids??? |
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moto_gp_guy
Lavaca, AR
31, joined Apr. 2012
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Im mainly saying its just rare now days to find a single woman that doesn't have kids and usually states the father is a "a**hole" or "pos". Its like didn't you see that before getting pregnant? I just feel like they knew the guy was a a**hole got pregnant and tried to change him, failed and now just looking for runner up to settle down with. Plus I don't see it fair for kids to get attached to a guy they break break up and she starts dating another guy and it messes with the kid. Also if they're young with slew of kids with multiple fathers that just means they make bad decisions and I don't want any part of that.
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| 9/4/2014 5:48:53 PM |
Is it wrong to want to date a girl without kids??? |
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moto_gp_guy
Lavaca, AR
31, joined Apr. 2012
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I've always been the "good guy" or the "nice guy" so I've been single for long time cause I actually treat women right but ALWAYS get passed over for some pos that treats em bad and theyll just say all guys are the same and date another pos so being lonely doesn't bother me anymore. Today's society women don't want a good guy, just a pos they think they can change
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| 9/6/2014 7:11:47 AM |
Is it wrong to want to date a girl without kids??? |
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furryboob
Dover, AR
32, joined Jan. 2010
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I can understand generally what you mean about guy after guy involving a kid or kids.
And ya I have to agree. Woman always say they want a nice guy yet go with the shittiest of them. I know a fair chunk of woman and almost all of them are with a pos guy who'd rather neglect her in some form or fashion.
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