10/12/2014 8:06:55 PM |
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waki_1
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Sep. 2014
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We've all had a love of our life marriage fail.. We all know our own faults and the faults of our partner..and in that we are all a bit jaded.....and very scared to committee to a possible failed attempt....
So why? What does a partner provide that keeps us on this rollercoaster of love?
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10/12/2014 8:18:07 PM |
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horns40
Macon, GA
45, joined Nov. 2012
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Financial stability or Mind blowing Sex.
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10/12/2014 9:16:03 PM |
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never713
Sugar Land, TX
41, joined Aug. 2014
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I need someone to be my rock on the days when I'm losing it. I need someone to tell me go sit down. And he handles it. All I seem to meet are dependents.
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10/12/2014 9:17:07 PM |
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never713
Sugar Land, TX
41, joined Aug. 2014
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And yes mind blowing sex. That will keep me calm.
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10/12/2014 11:10:06 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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I have spent so many years alone that it is hard to remember what is missing.
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10/13/2014 2:22:08 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I have spent so many years alone that it is hard to remember what is missing.
Same here. After a while you learn to do for yourself without someone providing support.
I say better alone than with someone that will not support you.
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10/14/2014 8:42:01 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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We were not meant to be alone. It is much better to share your life with someone.
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10/14/2014 1:04:10 PM |
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mustafa2357
Bellefonte, PA
38, joined Jun. 2014
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I'm a basic man just seeking honesty trust loyalty. Someone who loves me and doesn't expect me to be who I am not to please their family and friends.
But I'm having doubt that type of woman doesn't exist
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10/14/2014 5:48:27 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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I too am a simple being
and I can only speak for myself as to what
I'd like MY " good partner/mate to provide " for MEeee..
Unlike most of the folks on DH with a list of " must have/be " for potential dates..
I have ONLY ONE criteria in my search for a mate..
I just want an honest woman to love me..
And as for myself....
I'm respectful , not picky and don't care if
the woman I'm with is
fit, healthy, sick, or half dead....
I don't give a c r a p about a woman's color,
religion, race, or creed....
It is insignificant whether she is tall, short, skinny, or fat..
booty, butts, breasts, and rumps mean NOTHING in MY search.
and ALL gals look the same with the lights off....
" Honesty " is what I wants in my wimmins.....
The kind of woman I can depend on and trust..
a decent woman with a job...
Cause it takes a hard working REAL woman
to support me and my bad habits....
So I'm lookin for a gal with a house,
bank account and a decent job....
No riff-raff loser for me.....!!
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And ALL my friends....
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10/14/2014 7:48:27 PM |
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justinsss111
Saint Louis, MO
36, joined Apr. 2014
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I honestly couldn't tell you anymore these days people think mind blowing sex money And faithfulness Is all a couple needs but I have to disagree
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10/14/2014 9:16:55 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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We were not meant to be alone. It is much better to share your life with someone.
I'd argue that point. I've listened to experts say that we live longer with a mate. I don't believe that. The women that I've ever known, has made me upset in some way, shape, or form. I grew up depending on myself for my own entertainment. Living in a rural area, there were few kids within a reasonable distance from me. I adapted to depend on my own devices. To me, most people are dull. Sports, are boring. I don't do gossip. Music, meah. Social events are a chore. Kids, I won't go there. I love discussing ideas and theories. I love to read. But that is me. There are plenty of people that can't bear to be without someone in their life. I think it's more stressful to have someone in your life.
So what does a partner provide? Well, since I've never had a partner that hasn't given me a good dose of grief and aggravation, maybe I haven't met the right one yet.
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10/15/2014 10:18:02 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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I'd argue that point. I've listened to experts say that we live longer with a mate. I don't believe that. The women that I've ever known, has made me upset in some way, shape, or form. I grew up depending on myself for my own entertainment. Living in a rural area, there were few kids within a reasonable distance from me. I adapted to depend on my own devices. To me, most people are dull. Sports, are boring. I don't do gossip. Music, meah. Social events are a chore. Kids, I won't go there. I love discussing ideas and theories. I love to read. But that is me. There are plenty of people that can't bear to be without someone in their life. I think it's more stressful to have someone in your life.
So what does a partner provide? Well, since I've never had a partner that hasn't given me a good dose of grief and aggravation, maybe I haven't met the right one yet.
And I feel with that attitude you never will.
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10/15/2014 6:51:14 PM |
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waki_1
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Sep. 2014
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I often remember using my partner to do all the jobs and chores I didn't want to do..Never really thinking how much they might hate it...
.So, I will focus on not asking my partner to do anything Im not willing to do or at least help or be willing to be the goffer for.
I think that will make me a better partner......but still not sure I can provide enough to be a good partner yet..
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10/16/2014 2:32:40 AM |
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kittygirlt
Escondido, CA
56, joined Aug. 2014
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Financial stability or Mind blowing Sex.
Along with communication on every level, honesty, trust and allowing each other me time when needed.
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10/16/2014 8:34:13 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Unconditional love.
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10/19/2014 12:00:01 PM |
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love_language
Speedwell, TN
44, joined Sep. 2014
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understanding(it's a tall order when one get's to know me) lol, which would of course = unconditional love.
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10/21/2014 6:59:14 AM |
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waki_1
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Sep. 2014
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I'm of the mindset that love with your partner is never unconditional ... I think unconditional love is only for your children ...and people have problems with that as well...
I remember many conditions such as my weight, clothes, friends, the cleaness of the house, our sex life, dinner, discipline of the kids, etc.....It seemed as if my love affair with my husband had too many conditions on both sides.. I had things that I felt were kinda requirements in a good stable marriage also....
I think i learned from all those conditions and am better prepared for my next relationship!!!
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10/21/2014 8:27:05 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Unconditional love means you love the other person no matter what. It doesn't mean you have to like what they do or say. I loved both wives, just had a problem when they "dropped the ball" in not doing what they said they would do. At the end of the day I still loved them. I even loved my 2nd. wife after she gained a lot of weight.
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10/22/2014 8:50:36 AM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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sex and sandwiches.
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10/22/2014 8:52:04 AM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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Unconditional love means you love the other person no matter what. It doesn't mean you have to like what they do or say. I loved both wives, just had a problem when they "dropped the ball" in not doing what they said they would do. At the end of the day I still loved them. I even loved my 2nd. wife after she gained a lot of weight.
huh?
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10/22/2014 11:25:10 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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huh?
You must not have kids, or don't go to church.
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10/24/2014 9:47:31 AM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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