| 10/24/2014 9:42:47 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Blue Diamond, NV
45, joined Jan. 2012
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| 1. yes |
| 2. no |
| 3. unsure |
| 4. maybe |
I know of a couple that is in the same circle as me that started dating in July but weren't exclusive until some time in August. It's been about 2 months that they have been exclusive but not dating more than 3 months total. They just moved in together recently. Would you move in with someone that quickly?
The guy has been out of jail for about a year for DUI's and he has no car or no drivers license and was living in a trailer. She lives a little better off than he does and has a better home and they moved in to her home. He has a 13 yr old son he has never really helped to raise and sees him 1-2x per month. He does have a job. It's been said he has dated other women behind her back but that's just what I've heard and she doesn't even know about it. These people are both in their 40's. It's only been 3 short months at that.
How about it (women mostly) - Would you let a guy like this move in with you? Men too, if the tables were turned?
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| 10/24/2014 10:00:09 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
63, joined Jul. 2010
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" The guy has been out of jail for about a year for DUI's and he has no car or no drivers license and was living in a trailer. "
He must be a native of W.Va? 
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| 10/24/2014 10:11:55 AM |
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taurus_blonde
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Jul. 2014
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No, that's too soon.
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| 10/24/2014 10:16:18 AM |
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soulfullaussie
Victoria
Australia
48, joined May. 2014
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No way ..... Not even within a year or two 
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| 10/24/2014 10:17:11 AM |
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taurus_blonde
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Jul. 2014
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| 10/24/2014 10:18:26 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
56, joined Dec. 2013
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My ex insisted on a key to my place after we were together 7 days. Two days later, she started moving in "things" she thought I "needed". I came home from work to find two nightstands in my bedroom.
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| 10/24/2014 11:25:10 AM |
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xgod242
Aurora, IL
39, joined Sep. 2013
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After 2 months of knowing one another?
Maybe. Just Maybe.
After 2 months of going at it full steam?
Maybe. Leaning yes.
It all depends on the comfort level and confidence in trusting one another, knowing the secret lies we tell ourselves and being okay with them.
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| 10/24/2014 12:40:38 PM |
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woman_4_woman
Omaha, NE
26, joined Jun. 2014
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Maybe depends on the situation
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| 10/24/2014 12:43:22 PM |
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napoleon787
Torrington, CT
40, joined Oct. 2014
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Yes, I would if I felt that her and I had gotten to know each other very well in those 2 months and we both knew that we were in love with each other.
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| 10/24/2014 12:59:06 PM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Maybe
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| 10/24/2014 1:07:27 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
58, joined Jun. 2011
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In General. Not Likely. A guy like him..    
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| 10/24/2014 1:15:42 PM |
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mari987
Jerusalem
Israel
26, joined Aug. 2014
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No. I wouldn't move in with anyone.
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| 10/24/2014 1:24:00 PM |
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rocky_dennis
Delaware City, DE
34, joined Nov. 2013
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I live once! I did in the past, no big deal. But then again, if things went sour, I have always kept my life qualified enough, to leave anywhere within 30 seconds or less. Each person, place and thing, makes it's own guidelines and rules.
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| 10/24/2014 1:57:32 PM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Sure, it's easy to kick them out again
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| 10/24/2014 2:03:04 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012
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I would not consider living with someone after 2-3 months, but it's not my place to judge those who choose to do so.
I believe people can know right away, and end up spending their lives together - while other's stay engaged for years, get married and then get divorced.
As far as the guy's DUI's, and other character flaws --- I would not want to date someone like that (IF it's true) much less move in with them.
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| 10/24/2014 2:10:50 PM |
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tellitlkittis
Los Angeles, CA
60, joined Nov. 2012
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Never!
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| 10/24/2014 2:13:22 PM |
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mrhankchinaski
Sayville, NY
53, joined Aug. 2014
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I think all these folks who are saying 'no' are
Full O" Beans.
At least some of them.
If the right person came along they"d move in after 2 weeks, maybe even 2 days.
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| 10/24/2014 2:13:47 PM |
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neo52
Tallahassee, FL
58, joined Sep. 2009
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Yes ...
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| 10/24/2014 3:22:55 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012
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I think all these folks who are saying 'no' are
Full O" Beans.
At least some of them.
If the right person came along they"d move in after 2 weeks, maybe even 2 days.
Speak for yourself. I have kids, and I would NOT move someone into our home without a great deal of thought, conversation and TIME. I don't care if Steven Tyler wanted to move in.
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| 10/24/2014 3:44:24 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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No way
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| 10/24/2014 3:46:38 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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Also agree with dreamz.
yes he should speak for
himself
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| 10/24/2014 3:48:57 PM |
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brokenwing465
Belleview, FL
49, joined Sep. 2014
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No!
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| 10/24/2014 4:13:04 PM |
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mtrctylady
Canton, MI
66, joined Sep. 2013
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This is definitely a big NO on all counts!!!
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| 10/24/2014 4:15:55 PM |
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notlikeurex
Lenoir, NC
37, joined Aug. 2012
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No
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| 10/24/2014 4:42:16 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
46, joined Aug. 2013
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It's doubtful but as the saying goes. Never say never.
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| 10/24/2014 5:36:52 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014
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No, no. Terrible idea. Bad influence on the son. If he wasn't a drunkard, then sure. They should have known each other for a while now.
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| 10/24/2014 5:42:50 PM |
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taurus_blonde
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Jul. 2014
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My ex insisted on a key to my place after we were together 7 days. Two days later, she started moving in "things" she thought I "needed". I came home from work to find two nightstands in my bedroom.
That is far too soon for that kind of thing.
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| 10/24/2014 6:45:08 PM |
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purdiibirdi
Nice
France
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| 10/24/2014 6:50:09 PM |
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morse81
Beacon Falls, CT
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| 10/24/2014 6:57:22 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Blue Diamond, NV
45, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from mrhankchinaski:
I think all these folks who are saying 'no' are
Full O" Beans.
At least some of them.
If the right person came along they"d move in after 2 weeks, maybe even 2 days.
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I wouldn't and I believe others that say they wouldn't. I've been single again for quite some time and dated one guy for 16 months and now in a relationship for 2 years and would not live with this man either. I don't even want to get married again for a while. 
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| 10/24/2014 7:09:19 PM |
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carolina_chic51
Salem, SC
51, joined Sep. 2014
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Nope
Nor would I be posting someone else's business on a date site.
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| 10/24/2014 7:21:43 PM |
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hookmeup764
Joplin, MO
50, joined May. 2013
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Pretty sure I'd try to steer clear of that one. Lots of baggage and issues there. It damn sure better be true love. Romeo And Juliet for sure. I see problems , just sayin
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| 10/24/2014 9:33:16 PM |
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rcgeorge80
Orange City, FL
55, joined Jul. 2013
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If she was in jail, I wouldn't go out with her in the first place.
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| 10/24/2014 10:27:02 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Geez at 45 you're acting dumber than a teenage girl. What would you say if your daughter said she was doing this?  ? Probably, but when you do it it's alright. You're sure setting a terrible example and absolutely no common sense.
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| 10/24/2014 10:37:44 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
54, joined Jul. 2007
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No and really he doesn't sound like a keeper anyway.
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| 10/25/2014 1:45:13 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Some people are just looking for heartbreak.
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| 10/25/2014 2:10:20 AM |
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mercedes01
New South Wales
Australia
95, joined Jan. 2010
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Nah
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| 10/25/2014 2:26:18 AM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
51, joined Jul. 2014
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After 2 months, I'd have to know she was my soulmate 
A person like that - the one you described - never!
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| 10/25/2014 12:55:42 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Blue Diamond, NV
45, joined Jan. 2012
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Nope
Nor would I be posting someone else's business on a date site.
No names mentioned dumba$$
Some people have to try to start something somehow.  Why post in this thread otherwise.
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| 10/25/2014 12:57:18 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Blue Diamond, NV
45, joined Jan. 2012
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STFU old man. I have children I am raising and would never live with someone as it's against my beliefs. A man that wants that can move on. These people I'm talking about in this situation are both in their 40's and on my Facebook so everyone sees their sh8t on public because they brag about each other.
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| 10/25/2014 1:10:26 PM |
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ren_67
Oak Creek, WI
47, joined Feb. 2014
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If sex was superb.
That's a
HELL YES
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| 10/25/2014 1:38:49 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
43, joined Apr. 2007
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i don't think its fair to judge.sometimes people just click.that's up to them to decide.
if we changed the characters to say a ceo and a model would you judge them the same?you'd probably say they're a good fit just as these people might see themselves in their own world....however dysfunctional it may be
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| 10/25/2014 3:20:09 PM |
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brandycool1
Syracuse, NY
43, joined Jun. 2013
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No
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| 10/25/2014 3:26:23 PM |
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ladypat81
Baltimore, MD
33, joined Jun. 2013
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Hell no
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| 10/25/2014 4:24:19 PM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
51, joined Sep. 2013
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Op ...Can I hang with your group too...Real winner there..
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| 10/25/2014 4:46:52 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
47, joined Jan. 2012
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I had a woman that wanted to move in after one dinner, after I said we should get to know more about each other she quit talking to me.
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| 10/26/2014 4:11:48 PM |
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poisonivy69
Conroe, TX
27, joined Jan. 2012
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Been there done that I have no desire to do it again
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| 10/27/2014 1:09:55 AM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012
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Simply NO!
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| 10/27/2014 12:53:33 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
52, joined Apr. 2014
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I might actually...but not a guy like OP describes
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| 10/27/2014 1:33:24 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Green Bay, WI
52, joined May. 2011
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I am ready to move in right now.
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| 10/27/2014 1:41:09 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
52, joined Apr. 2014
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Do tell
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| 10/27/2014 2:01:26 PM |
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iamdriftwood
Redding, CA
43, joined Sep. 2012
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@OP it depends on you. I would not let someone enter my house until I knew them very very well. Your mileage may vary. Felons, not at all with no documents. I believe people can change but it seems like a rush job to me. (I did not bother to read the other posters, so sorry if this seems like a repeat). Be safe and have a great day or night!
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| 10/27/2014 4:51:12 PM |
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shannielicious
Redding, CA
36, joined Feb. 2014
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He needs to have his stuff together more then that no way would I.
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| 10/27/2014 5:05:55 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Blue Diamond, NV
45, joined Jan. 2012
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Op ...Can I hang with your group too...Real winner there..
They aren't my group but they are both high school friends. Only people I hang with are my kids and my boyfriend.
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| 10/27/2014 9:13:21 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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my first reaction is to say no. But if you really like him give it time.TRUST ME. Make sure youre not gonna be pulled under with stupidity.
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| 10/28/2014 12:32:21 AM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
42, joined Jan. 2014
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No I don't even know him.
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| 10/28/2014 3:28:16 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
33, joined Jul. 2012
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If you have underage kids in your home I hope the answer would be hell no.
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| 10/28/2014 3:31:30 PM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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If you have underage kids in your home I hope the answer would be hell no.
Aren't all kids underage??
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| 10/28/2014 3:42:27 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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two months is too soon for me. sometimes people just hit it off though.
a year in prison for DUIs means he got 3 of them. that makes him a felon. he's not only unable to drive,vote, leave the country, or own a fire arm. that doesn't necessarily mean he has or hasn't learned by his mistakes so it would depend on the person.
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| 10/28/2014 4:13:48 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
33, joined Jul. 2012
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If you have underage kids in your home I hope the answer would be hell no.
Aren't all kids underage??
You already know the answer to that.
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