| 10/27/2014 10:17:51 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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Shouldn't there be only three topics(possibly 4) for what are you looking for from this dating site. Like i'm looking for someone but wants no serious commitment, just friends(why come to a dating site to just make friends its a dating site). I believe it should be looking for a relationship or well that it now that I think about it because. That's what a dating site is about and well im not saying ever person you start talking to or meet your automatically dating/in a relationship with. Maybe someone can enlighten me more as to why there is anythung else as an option.
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| 10/27/2014 10:19:34 PM |
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bruceinsaginaw
Saginaw, MI
58, joined Mar. 2014
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| 10/27/2014 10:23:05 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014
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Well if you've established that you're looking for friendship then that's telling whoever you're talking to to put the brakes on the hormones.
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| 10/27/2014 10:27:06 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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Well if you've established that you're looking for friendship then that's telling whoever you're talking to to put the brakes on the hormones.
Youre on a dating site not a friendship site. If that were the case that you wanted just a friend wouldnt you just goto friendfinder.c0m
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| 10/27/2014 10:29:16 PM |
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bigdinv
Victoria, TX
34, joined Sep. 2011
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It's free. What exactly did you expect?
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| 10/27/2014 10:31:31 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014
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How exactly do you intend on finding a relationship on a dating site? Chat for a little bit online, exchange numbers, text for a bit, then become girlfriend and boyfriend?
When you state that you're looking for friends you've pointed out the obvious. As soon as you start chatting with someone you've already established some sort of bond. Usually starting out as acquaintances then later on becoming friends leading to the inevitable relationship involving you two dating.
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| 10/27/2014 10:32:29 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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It's free. What exactly did you expect?
So is facebook twitter myspace. But those dont claim to be a dating site. Right?
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| 10/27/2014 10:36:34 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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How exactly do you intend on finding a relationship on a dating site? Chat for a little bit online, exchange numbers, text for a bit, then become girlfriend and boyfriend?
When you state that you're looking for friends you've pointed out the obvious. As soon as you start chatting with someone you've already established some sort of bond. Usually starting out as acquaintances then later on becoming friends leading to the inevitable relationship involving you two dating.
But if know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you dont want a relationship no matter how long you chat go out to dinner text or whatever.why use a dating site.
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| 10/27/2014 10:45:19 PM |
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myrealme
Nampa, ID
40, joined Aug. 2013
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So, lets say you talk to a lot of people in forums and consider them friends, but still are looking for someone to date.
One day an amazing man messages you (or woman) and it is potentially someone you can see spending some time with.
should you be kicked off the site?
Oh, and people use facebook for dating. Should they be dismissed from there?
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| 10/27/2014 10:49:23 PM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
39, joined May. 2014
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I fell asleep. Can someone tell me what I missed?
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| 10/27/2014 10:49:48 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
55, joined May. 2009
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You seem quite rigid on this. Can't you allow for the fact that different people are looking for different things, and that what they want today might not be what they want tomorrow? Do you really believe that one should decide what, then go to a specific site that has only that one option? That just seems, well, flat and boring.
Then there's the fact that many may want someone specific until they meet someone who changes their mind and causes them to rethink what they thought they wanted. What site would they use?
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| 10/27/2014 11:04:44 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
43, joined Sep. 2011
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What do u mean its free! I pay $19.99 a month.
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| 10/27/2014 11:07:53 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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op, everybody that come here,
not gone be happy and we're
on this site for different reasons
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| 10/27/2014 11:17:15 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012
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Dude you're thinking to far ahead...I for one would like to establish a friendship whilst dating the man..you know get to know each other and see how things flow with each other..maybe a relationship may start maybe not...sometimes you just gotta take a risk and stop asking why a person does this or that or that someone may pass you by...
Good luck
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| 10/27/2014 11:27:40 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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So, lets say you talk to a lot of people in forums and consider them friends, but still are looking for someone to date.
One day an amazing man messages you (or woman) and it is potentially someone you can see spending some time with.
should you be kicked off the site?
Oh, and people use facebook for dating. Should they be dismissed from there?
But if you from day one arent looking for a relationship why join? Why not just join a forum. Theres 15 million different ones.
As for facebook dating thats creepy.
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| 10/27/2014 11:32:13 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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op, everybody that come here,
not gone be happy and we're
on this site for different reasons
I understand that but if your not here for a relationship or dating why not find a site where you will be happy and not filling up the site with useless dating/relationship profiles?
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| 10/28/2014 12:11:39 AM |
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t0n1o
Prosser, WA
33, joined Dec. 2011
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The OP asks a legitimate question.. If an individual who is niether lookin for nor wantin a "dating" relationship then why join a site that actually is a site to date.. what is the reasoning behind that desicion?.. is there malice in their choice of begin a conversation with someone who actually is interested into them for more then just friendship only to reject said advances?.. do they get some sort of satisfaction by that?.. honestly I do not kno.. however, OP the question U shld be askin is why does a "Dating" website such as this one even have forums or blogs?.. it shld only focus on message, profiles an searches.. Blogs an forums, such as this one u are now using, is more for a social/networkin site.. so maybe U shdnt look at this site as a dating site anymore.. 
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| 10/28/2014 12:16:14 AM |
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seeking_piece
Killeen, TX
37, joined Aug. 2014
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I don't think one person came here without hope of meeting someone to date or fool around with .... but once you get into the forums you make friends. You also see how people in the forums act. Typically being condescending to "outsiders" or worse. This is what transform most forum posters to "here for forums only"
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| 10/28/2014 12:25:10 AM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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The OP asks a legitimate question.. If an individual who is niether lookin for nor wantin a "dating" relationship then why join a site that actually is a site to date.. what is the reasoning behind that desicion?.. is there malice in their choice of begin a conversation with someone who actually is interested into them for more then just friendship only to reject said advances?.. do they get some sort of satisfaction by that?.. honestly I do not kno.. however, OP the question U shld be askin is why does a "Dating" website such as this one even have forums or blogs?.. it shld only focus on message, profiles an searches.. Blogs an forums, such as this one u are now using, is more for a social/networkin site.. so maybe U shdnt look at this site as a dating site anymore..
Very well put so yes let go with your questions I should have asked. Now lets thro this in. Ive tried almost a dozen dating sites paid and unpaid. I know what I want and dont wanna settle as I hoped someone im interested in doesnt settle for me if im not exactly what she wants.
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| 10/28/2014 12:32:12 AM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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The DH site I will say the search sucks on this site I cant search locally for some unknown reason. But I will give it to most people who are on here if theyre are in a relationship and are only here for the forums they say that it big bold sentence.
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| 10/28/2014 10:44:04 AM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
31, joined Jul. 2014
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Youre on a dating site not a friendship site. If that were the case that you wanted just a friend wouldnt you just goto friendfinder.c0m
AFF is for f**k buddies/FWBs.
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| 10/28/2014 12:31:40 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
52, joined Apr. 2014
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Youre on a dating site not a friendship site. If that were the case that you wanted just a friend wouldnt you just goto friendfinder.c0m
Dating does not happen on-line. This is a social network with a focus on singles.
I have a question...how would removing people from the forums (people who have no intention of dating you anyway) improve your experience and/or results?
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| 10/28/2014 12:39:14 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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It's free. What exactly did you expect?
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| 10/28/2014 2:02:23 PM |
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lilithimagines
Oviedo, FL
42, joined May. 2014
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Dating isn't always about exclusivity. Especially not right off the bat. Many people date just to get out with another person and then maybe become exclusive. Some people are just looking for activity dates, partners to do things with.
Friends - this is a topic that has been discussed ad nauseam on here. You'll find many reasons why someone states 'friends' in their profiles and for definition, you'd probably have to ask each one what they mean.
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| 10/28/2014 2:08:27 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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AFF is for f**k buddies/FWBs.
Yeah im definitely not lookin for a fwb arrangement. Lol
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| 10/28/2014 2:12:03 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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Dating does not happen on-line. This is a social network with a focus on singles.
I have a question...how would removing people from the forums (people who have no intention of dating you anyway) improve your experience and/or results?
I wasnt referring to just this site. Ive seen other ones that had looking for a relationship and then 5 other titles that are the furthest thing from a relationship. And they were a full on dating site thats all they were wanting to do.
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| 10/28/2014 2:28:19 PM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
31, joined Jul. 2014
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Yeah im definitely not lookin for a fwb arrangement. Lol
Some of the best and most successful & lifelong relationships evolve from a friendship.
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| 10/28/2014 2:54:05 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
52, joined Apr. 2014
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I wasnt referring to just this site. Ive seen other ones that had looking for a relationship and then 5 other titles that are the furthest thing from a relationship. And they were a full on dating site thats all they were wanting to do.
doesn't matter what site you hre talking about, my question to you is still the same.
Dating does not happen on-line. This is a social network with a focus on singles.
I have a question...how would removing people from the forums or social sites (people who have no intention of dating you anyway) improve your experience and/or results?
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| 10/28/2014 3:58:09 PM |
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myrealme
Nampa, ID
40, joined Aug. 2013
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Thats what im saying. Maybe people come to date and stay for the friends.
Dont be a control freak.. just go with it
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| 10/28/2014 4:54:16 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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I understand that but if your not here for a relationship or dating why not find a site where you will be happy and not filling up the site with useless dating/relationship profiles?
Think about, it's a free sight and
they have forums on here
besides u can't dictate where
somebody needs to go, half the
men on here looking to get a easy
lay
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| 10/28/2014 7:36:49 PM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
31, joined Jul. 2014
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Thats what im saying. Maybe people come to date and stay for the friends.
Dont be a control freak.. just go with it
This.
As someone who HAS HAD success from here, as of last year, & who stays for friends/forums/etc., it cracks me up INSANELY fiercely the idiotic emails I get on here from hatefully hating males.
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| 10/28/2014 11:57:56 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Just be happy the site is free for the meantime and don't think too much about it.
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| 10/29/2014 7:47:34 AM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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Thats what im saying. Maybe people come to date and stay for the friends.
Dont be a control freak.. just go with it
Who's a control freak. I could care less. I just started this discussion on this topic.
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| 10/29/2014 9:57:23 PM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
52, joined Sep. 2014
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This is making me really tired
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| 10/29/2014 10:14:39 PM |
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carmelcb
Leonia, NJ
24, joined May. 2012
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I'm just here for the forums
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| 10/29/2014 10:25:33 PM |
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j0rdan02
Cape Canaveral, FL
28, joined Apr. 2009
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I'm just here for the forums
Sounds like fun.
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