| 11/9/2014 8:07:19 PM |
Why are guys scared or not interested in a Mom with kids?? |
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lookauwfind1
Clifton, CO
41, joined Mar. 2014
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| 11/10/2014 10:32:46 AM |
Why are guys scared or not interested in a Mom with kids?? |
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shucks_huck
Hershey, PA
38, joined Jan. 2014
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There are lots of guys that are happy to date single moms.
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| 11/11/2014 4:04:32 PM |
Why are guys scared or not interested in a Mom with kids?? |
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bblnu28
Houston, TX
48, joined Apr. 2012
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The main reason is that, the woman is always in full contact with the father of her kids. And so her new man won't have a lot to say. So the new guy the only time he will say that this my woman when both are in the same bed. After that unn!!!
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| 11/11/2014 4:11:56 PM |
Why are guys scared or not interested in a Mom with kids?? |
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bblnu28
Houston, TX
48, joined Apr. 2012
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The main reason is that, the woman is always in full contact with the father of her kids. And so her new man won't have a lot to say. So the new guy the only time he will say that this my woman when both are in the same bed. After that unn!!!
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| 11/11/2014 9:55:18 PM |
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ms_janet
Houston, TX
54, joined Jun. 2014
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Most men don't want to take on the responsibility of someone else's kids.
For selfish reasons, they want to come first, to have your full attention. Of course not all men are like this.
Men don't want to deal with kids comparing them to their father. This alone causes slot of problems in the relationship.
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| 11/13/2014 9:18:24 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
Tujunga, CA
40, joined Jan. 2013
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I feel that it scares them and they realize that dating a mother with kids is a lot of responsibility
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| 11/13/2014 10:29:14 PM |
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countrytime50
Stanford, KY
52, joined Sep. 2014
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Most men don't want to take on the responsibility of someone else's kids.
For selfish reasons, they want to come first, to have your full attention. Of course not all men are like this.
Men don't want to deal with kids comparing them to their father. This alone causes slot of problems in the relationship.
Don't you want the attention of the person you are going out with? Do you want him always on the phone? Talking about himself or sports all the time.
Would you go out with someone when you knew you weren't important to them?
Everyone wants to know they are important to the person they are with.
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| 11/20/2014 10:41:58 PM |
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miss277volts
Lakeland, FL
47, joined Mar. 2013
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If you were single would you want to take on a single man raising 5 kids of his own?
Not saying that there are absolutely non out there that would be there are not a lot.. Your best bet is to focus on your kids and yourself. They should always come first anyways. Doesn't mean you can't date and enjoy a little you time, just don't expect to find Mr. wonderful to move right on in and play house..
Good luck as I know it is not easy at all.. Find the happiness with your kids.. The rest will come later.. 
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| 11/21/2014 9:13:35 PM |
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def_diff
Marietta, GA
52, joined Dec. 2011
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People have preferences - it's as simple as that. I've met women who wouldn't go out with me because I have kids. Fine by me - not gonna lose any sleep over that - her loss as far as I'm concerned. If that's a disqualifying factor that's not someone I'd want to date any way and I'd think any woman would feel the same way.
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| 12/24/2014 1:33:31 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
35, joined Jul. 2012
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People have preferences - it's as simple as that. I've met women who wouldn't go out with me because I have kids. Fine by me - not gonna lose any sleep over that - her loss as far as I'm concerned. If that's a disqualifying factor that's not someone I'd want to date any way and I'd think any woman would feel the same way.
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| 12/27/2014 8:47:17 AM |
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c2j2012
Holt, MI
36, joined Apr. 2013
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The main reason is that, the woman is always in full contact with the father of her kids. And so her new man won't have a lot to say. So the new guy the only time he will say that this my woman when both are in the same bed. After that unn!!!
For every generalization, there is someone to prove you wrong. Don't know what kind of woman you've been dating, but I guarantee that there are many more single women, that just happen to have kids, that are also done with the ex (that just happens to be the father of the kids). The only "contact" I have with my ex-husband is to confirm if he'll be taking his upcoming visitation (once per month) or to troubleshoot technical difficulties if he and my child Skype together. That's it. There are many other single parents out there with just as little contact as I have with their ex, both single moms and dads.
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| 12/30/2014 11:13:03 PM |
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peanut_ekard
Gastonia, NC
24, joined Nov. 2012
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Listen...just because you date a woman with kids doesn't mean you're playing daddy!! It means youre a role model in a young persons life....plus you're with a person who cares for you like you care for them kids don't change feelings, they shouldn't!!
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| 12/31/2014 7:57:13 PM |
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txcountrymedic
Pleasanton, TX
39, joined Mar. 2014
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I am a single father raising three kids on my own. I actually prefer a woman to have kids. They seem to be a LITTLE more under standing. But once they find out my kids live with me full time i get the boot. I have meet some really good moms out there i would like to date
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| 1/1/2015 12:40:34 PM |
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garvinwjones
Farmington, UT
66, joined Nov. 2014
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I don't know about most guys but I would consider it a bonus, call me strange but I love kids
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| 1/2/2015 3:02:00 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013
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5 kids? seriously guys? just tell her the truth and quit babying her...too late she deleted ...now she thinks men actually want a woman with 5 kids,good job!
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| 1/2/2015 3:06:45 PM |
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no_thanx
Kissimmee, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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I've never had a problem getting dates as a single mom.
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| 1/2/2015 4:37:05 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
40, joined Sep. 2013
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I've never had a problem getting dates as a single mom.
do you have 5 kids? if so they haven't seen you naked yet
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| 1/2/2015 4:43:47 PM |
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no_thanx
Kissimmee, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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No I have 3 & I'm selective about who sees me naked. Lol However, this pic was just taken today. I think it has more to do with being willing and able to have that time to focus just on him. Yes, my kids mean the world to me. That doesn't mean a guy can't be as important. It shouldn't be a competition. 
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| 1/2/2015 6:45:59 PM |
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countrytime50
Stanford, KY
52, joined Sep. 2014
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No I have 3 & I'm selective about who sees me naked. Lol However, this pic was just taken today. I think it has more to do with being willing and able to have that time to focus just on him. Yes, my kids mean the world to me. That doesn't mean a guy can't be as important. It shouldn't be a competition.
Well said. It should not be a competition. Too often it feels that way sometimes. Like you said, you should make time for both. One doesn't always have to take away from the other
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| 1/10/2015 11:07:18 PM |
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cjsassy72
Berthoud, CO
44, joined Sep. 2014
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5 kids? seriously guys? just tell her the truth and quit babying her...too late she deleted ...now she thinks men actually want a woman with 5 kids,good job!
We all know that not all guys like to date a woman who has lots of kids.... why don't you let them speak for themselves.... I don't mind dating a guy who has 5 kids because I always wanted a big family.
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| 1/11/2015 3:44:07 AM |
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fwhite97
New York, NY
47, joined Oct. 2014
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Any single moms out there what to put your 2 cents in, your opinion, experiences on this I am a single mom of 5 Beautiful kids! 
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| 1/28/2015 9:23:36 PM |
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cole_tanner
Fort Pierre, SD
35, joined Dec. 2012
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Ok I got a 2 year old daughter she's the biggest daddy's girl ever I don't got a problem dating a women with 1 or 2 kids over that it my thing around here your expected to be daddy to them kids and yeah not trying to sound bad here but I can't afford that lodes hard enough with out taking care of a army
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