| 11/10/2014 3:14:32 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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would u take a person serious if u knew they didn't take care of there kids.
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| 11/10/2014 3:27:20 AM |
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devine_nature
The Dalles, OR
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No way...that isn't right
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| 11/10/2014 3:28:49 AM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
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Who takes care of them?
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| 11/10/2014 3:33:59 AM |
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nicoli7
Louisville, KY
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Dead beat parent.....is a synonym
for deadbeat human..
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| 11/10/2014 3:50:08 AM |
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devine_nature
The Dalles, OR
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Dead beat parent.....is a synonym
for deadbeat human..
Totally agree
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| 11/10/2014 4:08:01 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
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I would have to find out the reason(s) why and find out if it's their fault or their ex's fault of why he doesn't have his children.
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| 11/10/2014 6:39:27 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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I'd agree. I did and found out s different story from what my ex had told me
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| 11/10/2014 6:50:02 AM |
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lovetodoit
Buffalo, MO
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No, my x and I rasied our three sons we did without things so they could have what they needed. With all of my short comings in life I'm proud that I put them first.
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| 11/10/2014 6:57:31 AM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
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Who would???
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| 11/10/2014 7:57:09 AM |
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kissmyattitude1
Baby
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No
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| 11/10/2014 7:58:51 AM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
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Depends what they were trying to be serious about? If they had a gun pointed at my head I'd probably take them seriously regardless of their parental views.
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| 11/10/2014 8:23:27 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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It depends what the subject was.
If they were talking about fixing cars or cooking and they knew what they were talking about...
Sure...why not?
If they were talking about raising kids....Well...no.
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| 11/10/2014 8:26:51 AM |
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theloser2123
Radford, VA
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What kind of dumbass crackhead asks a stupid f**king question like this?
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| 11/10/2014 8:31:12 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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^^^^^^what kinda dumbass post a picture of him and an underaged girl as a profile picture?
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| 11/10/2014 2:51:04 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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would u take a person serious if u knew they didn't take care of there kids.
Don't discount paternity fraud.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paternity_fraud
Paternity fraud occurs when a mother names a man to be the biological father of a child, when she knows or suspects that he is not the biological father, or she intentionally does not state the name of the child's biological father on the birth certificate in order to either to begrudge the father, or to claim benefit, (see benefit at end of page). This is called "Paternity Fraud" and is treated as a serious fraudulent criminal offense (particularly in the UK, also in certain states of the US). However, a mother is permitted to not state the name of the biological father if (at the time of signing) she does not in fact know the name of the child's biological father.[1] Paternity fraud is a form of misattributed paternity.[1] The term entered into common use in the late 1990s. It has been given significant coverage by U.S. activists and authors Tom Leykis, Glenn Sacks and Wendy McElroy.
A 2005 scientific review of international published studies of paternal discrepancy found a range in incidence, around the world, from 0.8% to 30% (median 3.7%).[2] However, as many of the studies were conducted between the 1950s and the 1980s, some numbers may not be reliable due to inaccuracies in the scientific testing methods and procedures used at the time. The latest studies, ranging in date from 1991-1999, quote the follow incidence rates: 4.0% (Canada), 2.8% (France), 1.4% and 1.6% (UK), and 11.8% (Mexico), 0.8% (Switzerland).[2] These numbers suggest that the widely quoted and unsubstantiated figure of 10% of non-paternal events is an overestimate. However, this number may have been inaccurately circulated due to the following: in studies that solely looked at couples who obtained paternity testing because paternity was being disputed, there are higher levels; an incidence of 17% to 33% (median of 26.9%). Most at risk were those born to younger parents, to unmarried couples and those of lower socio-economic status, or from certain cultural groups.[3]
A 2008 study in the United Kingdom found that fathers were wrongly identified in 0.2% (1 in 500) of the cases processed by the Child Support Agency. Of that 0.2%, those resolved with DNA testing between 2004 and 2008 showed that between 10 and 19% of mothers had deliberately named the wrong father; none of the women were prosecuted.[3]
In 2012 the Iowa Supreme Court in ruling to allow a paternity fraud tort to proceed as they fall "within the traditional boundaries of fraud law", but advised caution in bringing cases, as they would be "hard to prove, emotional and embarrassing".[4]
Read more at the link. 
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| 11/10/2014 3:13:31 PM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
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What kind of dumbass crackhead asks a stupid f**king question like this?
^ This question you mean?...you. 
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| 11/10/2014 3:14:06 PM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
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^^^^^^what kinda dumbass post a picture of him and an underaged girl as a profile picture?
it might be a boy...
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| 11/10/2014 4:01:59 PM |
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lostinmorton
Onalaska, WA
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If a women has kids then they should come first. If you took the time to make them you should take the time and raise them.
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| 11/10/2014 4:23:45 PM |
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wedontgiveaf
Vancouver, WA
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| 11/10/2014 4:28:34 PM |
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studframer
Middletown, NY
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Dead beat parent.....is a synonym
for deadbeat human..
Correct
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| 11/10/2014 4:36:01 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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If I knew that person, and I know
they don't then yes
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| 11/10/2014 5:02:34 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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If a women has kids then they should come first. If you took the time to make them you should take the time and raise them.
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| 11/10/2014 8:48:01 PM |
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woman_4_woman
Omaha, NE
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No
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| 11/10/2014 8:53:21 PM |
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soleil71
Easton, PA
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No way !!!
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| 11/10/2014 8:55:44 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
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I wouldn't be with anyone who have children .
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| 11/10/2014 9:00:26 PM |
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brywithayfromca
Long Beach, CA
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What? Would you prefer they took care of their ex and kids "MOB" style? Why yes, those are daisies in the backyard. 
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| 11/10/2014 9:00:46 PM |
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punejack
Lincoln, NE
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Would bet to say from experience it starts with a dead beat dad, then its a trickle down affect. Dads are no where to be found, or she has no clue who he is so parents step in to help. But there is no reason not to try dating her if you both have something in common.
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| 11/10/2014 9:01:18 PM |
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ariesdreamer78
Suffolk
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No. I think it's shows they are irresponsible. They need to get their priorities straight.
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| 11/10/2014 9:27:48 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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| 11/11/2014 10:34:10 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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No way...that isn't right
I agree completely! The kids have to be your first priority!
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| 11/11/2014 10:51:48 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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i am not interested in dating people with kids, it doesn't fit my lifestyle.
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| 11/11/2014 11:40:13 PM |
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frozenheat
Farmington, NM
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Do they have their kids and just dont take care of them or are you talking about a absent parent not supporting their children? If you see it happening, you might have a chance to help. If they just arent paying, well about all you can do is take legal steps to try and collect.
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| 11/11/2014 11:40:31 PM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
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Heck no.....kids come first
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| 11/12/2014 9:37:12 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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Do they have their kids and just dont take care of them or are you talking about a absent parent not supporting their children? If you see it happening, you might have a chance to help. If they just arent paying, well about all you can do is take legal steps to try and collect.
both
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| 11/12/2014 9:38:54 AM |
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maggie__magpie
Santee, CA
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That would make me angry and I would have to slap them.
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| 11/12/2014 3:45:48 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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those types not need to have kids.
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| 11/12/2014 3:48:54 PM |
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chitowngirl78
Oak Lawn, IL
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would u take a person serious if u knew they didn't take care of there kids.
Did you really ask this question?!?
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| 11/12/2014 7:04:21 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
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i am not interested in dating people with kids, it doesn't fit my lifestyle.
Say's the lady with a baby carrier filled with a cat strapped to her chest. 
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| 11/12/2014 7:08:02 PM |
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blue3rose
Saint Louis, MO
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If they don't take care of their kids. What else don't they take care of?
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| 11/12/2014 7:15:24 PM |
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anton998
Cincinnati, OH
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Last girl I attempted to date on here wanted to dump her daughter off with her father like trash and move in with me.....I dumped her immediately.
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| 11/13/2014 2:15:52 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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If they don't take care of their kids. What else don't they take care of?
exactly
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| 11/13/2014 2:48:21 AM |
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mssugarsugar
New Orleans, LA
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Hell no I wouldn't. I don't particularly like kids, but I do feel like if a parent has a child, they are 100% responsible for their child care and well being. I don't care if the child lives with the mother or father. The non custodial parent should be doing their part. If a custodial parent isn't taking care of their kid, they don't need to have the kid.
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| 11/13/2014 3:05:58 AM |
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sweetnsassy227
Valparaiso, IN
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No, and I wouldn't go out with them if their microwave was dirty, either.
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| 11/13/2014 3:41:30 AM |
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frozenheat
Farmington, NM
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If a parent doesnt love their own children enough to take care of them in ALL ways, they are probably not capable of loving anyone....including you.
RUN!!
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| 11/13/2014 5:23:37 AM |
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Karmakicked
Rocky Mount, VA
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I have very little respect for parents that don't take care of there kids. Financially or emotionally. How could I expect someone to be in my life and respect me as a parent if there b*tching about child support or not wanting to spend time with there own kids? If they don't love their own, how can they love someone with kids?
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| 11/13/2014 4:04:55 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
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I have very little respect for parents that don't take care of there kids. Financially or emotionally. How could I expect someone to be in my life and respect me as a parent if there b*tching about child support or not wanting to spend time with there own kids? If they don't love their own, how can they love someone with kids?
My thoughts exactly! I'm there 100% for my kids so why would I want someone who isn't there for his own? When I find out a guy doesn't take care of his kids that's a big turn off.
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| 11/13/2014 4:17:57 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
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No, I couldn't.
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| 11/13/2014 4:19:06 PM |
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mari987
Jerusalem
Israel
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No.
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| 11/14/2014 4:33:54 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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there are many that dump kids off on parents all the time
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| 11/14/2014 4:59:45 AM |
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vivalamigra
Chicago, IL
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 11/14/2014 5:44:19 AM |
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notlikeurex
Saint Louis, MO
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No I wouldn't deal with them at all. If they take care of their kids....that tells me that they are irresponsible and selfish.
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| 11/14/2014 8:02:35 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
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Is not cool. The kids come first always.
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| 11/15/2014 10:38:18 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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I think a lot are party people
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| 11/15/2014 10:51:04 AM |
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001snatch
Marysville, WA
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I never dated anyone with kids.
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| 11/18/2014 10:34:46 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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I gave one a chance.never did that before. never will again
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| 11/18/2014 10:35:32 AM |
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ashtyn_93
Aldrich, MN
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Hell no that just shows what kind of person they really are
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| 11/18/2014 2:47:45 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
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I'd agree
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| 11/18/2014 3:15:12 PM |
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mehbleh
Glendale, AZ
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would u take a person serious if u knew they didn't take care of there kids.
Sure.
Some people just weren't meant, cut out, or have the ability to be a parent.
If they recognize that fact, are honest with it, and act accordingly, then I would take them serious.
Are they like that honey boo boo mom that believes she's taking care of her kid but really isn't?
No. I would not take a person like that seriously.
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| 11/18/2014 3:22:48 PM |
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chitowngirl78
Oak Lawn, IL
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It really does amaze me at how many women out there will let any guy impregnate them. You must not have anything else to offer besides your body.... so depressing to let someone use you for their own selfish pleasure.
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| 11/18/2014 9:15:24 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
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No!
Someone like that is plain MEAN!
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