Why when women post they have children living at home, do men say how interested they are in you,but only want u to contact them when they are not at home???? They do not want you to invade their " personal" space, only talk or see you when kids are not home... My ex husband lives out of state.. I am always upfront they are with me almost always... So men read profiles carefully, some of us single mom's are good mom's, we do not simply ship our kids off... If your looking for a place to go to have sex, and certainly not at your place, maybe you should look for women who do not have kids living at home all the time.. I love my kids much more than a cheap hook up!!!

Never at his place means he has a wife or girlfriend. And only wants contact when he can come to your place and no kids mean he is not interested in You. Just a booty call. It also means he's an Ass and you can do Much better.

Do you think the problem may be your choice of the men in your area?

Never at his home?..that is a red flag for me..what is he hiding or whom is he hiding?..

Sounds like you have a built-in detector for guys who only want to polish their knobs.

OP i do not have children and those losers will not come to my house and try to save on a hotel bill.

Kick them to the curb OP.

OP you are not being flexible and are one of the reasons I don't date single moms. No flexibility, cancelled dates due to kid problems etc.

Be more flexible if you want a BF. Sounds like the kids scare them away...

Did I Miss something? Are you saying she should just let someone come to her home for a booty call? She stated she can go out for dating. That doesn't seem to be what they are offering.

OP if you are referring to messages online, there are Many Cads. And few good ones. But there Are some good ones. Just keep looking also not online. Join local activities. Or Organizations.

just don't answer those..I can't tell you how many of those I get/got when I was dating on here...just delete and NEXT!

YOU set the tone..and if it's "we're going on a proper date and you're not meeting my kids until I know you're going to be around a good long time" that's how it WAS. Period.

if they're not to your liking don't do that.

there's a lot just looking for a cheap bang..and if you're it..you can't blame them for trying.

I'd say your profile looks fine, nothing suggestive..it's a bit long..but nothing to indicate that you're a cheap bang. Just consider the source and focus on what you DO want.

that's the nature of the beastie.

good luck to you.

Why when women post they have children living at home, do men say how interested they are in you,but only want u to contact them when they are not at home???? They do not want you to invade their " personal" space, only talk or see you when kids are not home... My ex husband lives out of state.. I am always upfront they are with me almost always... So men read profiles carefully, some of us single mom's are good mom's, we do not simply ship our kids off... If your looking for a place to go to have sex, and certainly not at your place, maybe you should look for women who do not have kids living at home all the time.. I love my kids much more than a cheap hook up!!!