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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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...who is paying for their past? I have a freind. He has 5 children all a year apart from 5 different one night stands. He supports all of his children. And he loves, and spends time with them. Great father. But...afterwards...yup, you guessed it....he has little left financially. He got married to a woman who has no children, and they do not have any children. And they have no money because of his past discretions. Could you marry someone who will never be financially set in the future?
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| 1/20/2015 9:33:19 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Cut me some slack. We are running low on threads. 
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| 1/20/2015 10:13:52 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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of course, i would marry my true love, one and only, potential soul-mate, in a heart beat; if only she were anywhere to be found.
now, i tend to practice not being the jealous type a lot, and trying to appreciate modern women being their modern selves in modern times.
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| 1/20/2015 10:32:05 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Understood.
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| 1/20/2015 10:34:44 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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I dated a woman who had restitution. And lots of it. Million dollar accident. The government can only garnish so much of your wages. And when she ran low on funds, and asked for money to pay for her mistakes... relationship over.
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| 1/20/2015 11:07:37 AM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
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It depends on what the guy did and what steps he's taken to improve his life. I'd pass on someone with five kids by five women, but could overlook a milder situation. No one is perfect.
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| 1/20/2015 11:45:44 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
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I dated a guy with 2 kids from 2 different women. It didn't work for me. He was a sh8tty dad. To each his own though.   
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| 1/20/2015 12:13:39 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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It would depend upon what else-besides no money-she had to offer.
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| 1/20/2015 12:51:53 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Hmmm. I'm undecided. I've dated many who had little. But few with nothing, and will never have anything.
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| 1/20/2015 2:49:29 PM |
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shadow65241943
Barre, VT
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Yes that's why I am on dh but I have just about given up everyone is looking for one thing sex and more sex and more I am looking to settle down being single and lonely sucks looking for someone to love me for me someone who wants to spend time together and do things and make a life together and someone who won't reject me and my love everytime they mad relationships are meant to have there ups and downs both people supposed to work through it not one saying they gonna give up and I don't want someone that wants to be part time in my life I looking to marry not have a lifetime of empty meaningless sex i want the loneliness to go away i want to love someone and have them love me back not to much to ask i don't think but apparently it is so yes i could marry someone with a past i don't believe in rejecting anyone everyone deserves a chance at happiness.
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| 1/20/2015 3:37:46 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Well...rest assured. I do not want to have sex with you. Ok? I promise from the bottom of my heart there is absolutely no way I will ever have sex with you. My word is golden.
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| 1/20/2015 4:26:20 PM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
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...who is paying for their past? I have a freind. He has 5 children all a year apart from 5 different one night stands. He supports all of his children. And he loves, and spends time with them. Great father. But...afterwards...yup, you guessed it....he has little left financially. He got married to a woman who has no children, and they do not have any children. And they have no money because of his past discretions. Could you marry someone who will never be financially set in the future?
nope 
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| 1/20/2015 4:58:40 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Cut me some slack. We are running low on threads.
 now I'm being nice, my answer is no, two broke people can't be together it just won't work and what was she thinking? Somebody got to have something
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| 1/20/2015 5:02:57 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Good answer.
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| 1/20/2015 6:20:39 PM |
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toxictears1970
Marrero, LA
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I don't want to ever get married again 12 yrs good enough I did my time now I'm free
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| 1/20/2015 6:40:22 PM |
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bouze
Durand, MI
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Tuff question . Yes and no ! " NO , kid's are o.k. However not when your broke ! Whose gunna foot the bill's persay." So that open's it up for Sex sex and more SEX.. Cause that's all that's their. " YES " if you ( SHE ) can bring something into the RELATIONSHIP / MARRAGE.. " NOTHING'S FREE IN ANY SITUATION !
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| 1/20/2015 6:43:23 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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Not a chance! Your uh uh uh uh "friend" should be taking care of his kids full time. They need him far more than he needs ANOTHER 1 night stand.
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| 1/21/2015 2:41:59 AM |
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wildfir
Albany, IN
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Maybe if I found the right man. There are 2 sexy men I would marry if asked. But im in no hurry to say I DO.
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| 1/21/2015 2:56:22 AM |
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blacklova
Chicago, IL
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If .marrying you im.trying to build something together.f**k all that love and soulmate shit. This 2015 we aint teenagers. We grown. And I xpect you to be as motivated to succeed as i am or what good are you to me.
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| 1/21/2015 8:19:44 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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... maybe, if she is lucky and happens to be at the right place, at the right time, when i am getting tired of uncommitted sex and want to clamor for a serious relationship.
Now, y'all chics should know by now, that isn't going to happen if you aren't doing me because a lack of sex only makes me think you want to have any serious relationship annulled, due to a lack of sex.
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| 1/21/2015 8:24:31 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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I don't mind if a woman has to spend some money on her past, as long as she has enough left over to contribute to our cause.
But the main thing is....does her past give her the dreaded issues? or does this past and/ or kids take up too much of her time with us?
now that would be a problem, and a red flag.
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| 1/21/2015 8:34:25 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Also good points. Yes. I do not have time to date someone who has to pay a million dollars in restitution because she decided to get drunk, steal a state snowplow, and run it into a federal building facade. She can be broke a** alone for life. I'm not responsible for her past emotionally, financially, or credibly.
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| 1/21/2015 9:42:27 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
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Yes that's why I am on dh but I have just about given up everyone is looking for one thing sex and more sex and more I am looking to settle down being single and lonely sucks looking for someone to love me for me someone who wants to spend time together and do things and make a life together and someone who won't reject me and my love everytime they mad relationships are meant to have there ups and downs both people supposed to work through it not one saying they gonna give up and I don't want someone that wants to be part time in my life I looking to marry not have a lifetime of empty meaningless sex i want the loneliness to go away i want to love someone and have them love me back not to much to ask i don't think but apparently it is so yes i could marry someone with a past i don't believe in rejecting anyone everyone deserves a chance at happiness.
How in the HELL are you 30 years old????? 
And you have a man in your profile pic. You hardly look lonely to me. 
Sh8t, put yo d8mn teeth in woman and eat a couple big macs! That shit's scary 
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| 1/21/2015 2:49:09 PM |
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toxictears1970
Marrero, LA
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Nope
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| 1/21/2015 2:51:26 PM |
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toxictears1970
Marrero, LA
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Hey love I can bring more then sex I can bring pleasure n pain make u climb that walls love so stop ur yapping
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| 1/21/2015 3:29:03 PM |
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freyia
Worcestershire
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No
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| 1/21/2015 3:41:42 PM |
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packersbabe920
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| 1/21/2015 3:45:36 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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And.....shadow blocked me? I guess crazy people don't like to be told they are crazy.
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| 1/21/2015 5:36:10 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
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I couldn't marry someone who has five kids with 5 different women. That just screams RUN!!!!
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| 1/21/2015 5:38:08 PM |
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mar0331
Saint Louis, MO
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Watch it ladies!!!
op's a gold digger
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| 1/21/2015 6:26:25 PM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
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OMFG!
I have to agree
Craaaaaaaap!
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| 1/21/2015 7:00:50 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
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@ his! I'm surprised I'm like the only person who even noticed that.
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| 1/21/2015 8:55:11 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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Not a chance, wouldn't even consider it. Why should I ruin my life getting involved in your drama?
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| 1/21/2015 9:27:47 PM |
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ymia_dikhed
Gresham, OR
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...who is paying for their past? I have a freind. He has 5 children all a year apart from 5 different one night stands. He supports all of his children. And he loves, and spends time with them. Great father. But...afterwards...yup, you guessed it....he has little left financially. He got married to a woman who has no children, and they do not have any children. And they have no money because of his past discretions. Could you marry someone who will never be financially set in the future?
Yeah, I believe I could. I make enough to where I don't have to rely on anyone else. If the one I Love or fall in Love with is financially screwed and always will be then a compromise in working together is okay with me. She does her share in one way and I do my share in another way but both ways will work together as one.
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| 1/22/2015 12:08:38 AM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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I would definitely not consider that "paying for his past". I would consider it living up to his current obligations as a father and investing in what should be his first responsibility. Nothing wrong with that--far better than the alternative.
When I met my ex-husband, he was recently divorced with two young children and half of his income was going to child support. Not only was I fine with that, but when he was laid off, I paid it. The kids were and should have been his first priority, and quickly became mine.
That said, I'd question how a man came to have children with five different women. That gives me more pause than the financial issues.
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| 1/22/2015 1:40:34 AM |
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iamoneonly
San Diego, CA
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No the idea of marriage is ridiculous.
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| 1/22/2015 3:03:20 AM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
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@ his! I'm surprised I'm like the only person who even noticed that.
I didn't.
Obviously.
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| 1/22/2015 9:43:15 AM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
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...who is paying for their past? I have a freind. He has 5 children all a year apart from 5 different one night stands. He supports all of his children. And he loves, and spends time with them. Great father. But...afterwards...yup, you guessed it....he has little left financially. He got married to a woman who has no children, and they do not have any children. And they have no money because of his past discretions. Could you marry someone who will never be financially set in the future?
NOPE. I'm done with marriage. Both my ex wives cheated and the third time is NOT a charm. 
I came into this world alone and that's how I'm going out.
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| 1/22/2015 10:00:11 AM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
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Well...rest assured. I do not want to have sex with you. Ok? I promise from the bottom of my heart there is absolutely no way I will ever have sex with you. My word is golden.
let's see where have I heard THAT b4?
OP that would be a BiG FaT "NO". If you don't have money; if you can't support me and my art career..........later. 
I predict plenty of arguments in their future. Unless she makes. $200,000.00 annually, her parents bought the McMansion, and you each have a kid from another mother/daddy. Maybe  but even then, the big boob argument keeps coming up. The kid is scared that mommy and daddy fight over the nice big boob lady. Guys, if you like big boobs, don't marry someone who doesn't have them because she will accuse you of staring at the ad above ^ maybe she should just go ahead and get the breast augmentation OUCH oh, you need $$ for that, plus "sick leave"
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| 1/22/2015 11:02:03 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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i figure, if chics are not really really serious about a really really serious relationship, they won't even bother to fornicate me into one.
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| 1/22/2015 11:04:42 AM |
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Lokin4AReason
Kenner, LA
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that is like a catch 22 in a way .... having a past but wanting a future
and dont know in which direction to go ....
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| 1/22/2015 12:57:37 PM |
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dorval
Danville, IL
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no.........I would be looking for a man who is well balanced...........may have been a rough ride, but he found his way.......too many babies with too many woman would not be something I would consider.
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| 1/22/2015 2:10:44 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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All good points to consider. Ridiculous amount of medical bills anyone? Would you date them? How about tax levies? Anyone dating someone who has filed bankruptcy? Lifetime debt is never any good. Could happen to anyone overnight.
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| 1/22/2015 2:16:49 PM |
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dorval
Danville, IL
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Bankruptcy is not a lifelong deal..........many men I have talked to have declared bankruptcy and that turned their life around........there have been situations where a woman becomes greedy, hardened, selfish and that can destroy a man........finding balance in any thing is not easy for some...........before I get killed here, yes, there are always exceptions.
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| 1/22/2015 3:12:24 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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he takes care of his bills,he's a good father and a good husband? right? that's not good enough? If she doesn't appreciate that than she doesn't deserve him.
i suppose it depends on what you value most.
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| 1/22/2015 3:34:59 PM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
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Yeah unfortunately it can happen. Better odds of staying power if I go for broke too
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| 1/22/2015 9:27:43 PM |
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fwayne55
Hurst, TX
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Yes, but there are stipulations, just small stuff. That foxy lady shall have my beer cold and within arms reach, food warm, TV set to football game, be barefoot and in bikini, ready for sex when my prerogative is expressed, legs shall be shaved, house must be cleaned, only speak when spoken to, and a few other small things.
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| 1/22/2015 9:41:54 PM |
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diana29615
Greenville, SC
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And then he woke up.............
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| 1/23/2015 12:14:04 PM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
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| 1/23/2015 4:14:28 PM |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
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I've been down that road before and refuse to do it again!..my life was completely affected negatively by his mistakes..why should I suffer or go without for his mistakes..nope..
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| 1/23/2015 4:59:12 PM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
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Yes, but there are stipulations, just small stuff. That foxy lady shall have my beer cold and within arms reach, food warm, TV set to football game, be barefoot and in bikini, ready for sex when my prerogative is expressed, legs shall be shaved, house must be cleaned, only speak when spoken to, and a few other small things.
Damn, you look like my neighbor!
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| 1/23/2015 6:44:59 PM |
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fwayne55
Hurst, TX
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Sure, if they are not like ones I had before. Marriage thing has not worked out.
One of my exs kept buying the wrong beer. Came home from work fixing to get drunk and just horrible. Another couldnt put bait on a hook, couldn't cook my eggs right, I had to do everything myself. The last ex got fat right after I married her, put on 30 lbs before we separated.
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