| 1/22/2015 7:34:09 PM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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| 1. Yes, I should date her. |
| 2. No, I should not date her. |
There's this hibachi grill restaurant that I enjoy going to. I go there once a week. There's a very attractive Chinese waitress there who I have gotten to know quite well. She's very friendly and we talk quite a bit when I'm at the restaurant. I know that she has a husband back in China, as she told me so.
She lives on her own here in America. She has indicated that she would be interested in going out with me like to the movies or out dancing or going out hiking. We flirt quite a bit. I can tell that she's interested in me. And yes, I am interested in her.
Normally, I would have already taken her on a date. However, there's the whole thing where she has a husband back in China.
She told me that she wants to go out dancing with me this coming Saturday night.
Should I try to date this woman who has a busband in China?
Why or why not?
 
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| 1/22/2015 7:41:53 PM |
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missamicable
Hurst, TX
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That would be consider cheating. Js
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| 1/22/2015 8:06:36 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Call the husband and ask if its ok to date his wife.
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| 1/22/2015 8:34:52 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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op u gone do it anyway, so i won't add my two cents
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| 1/22/2015 8:42:54 PM |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
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Go get you some of that kung pow p*ssy if she'll let you. You might be her gay bff who she has no feelings for whatsoever. Only one way to find out, you got to try to kiss the ho and see if she backs up. Take her dancing and see what happens.
I personally wouldn't f**k with a married woman, there's so many single women out there to be f**king with another mans woman. If she cheats on her husband it just shows her character. If I was married I wouldn't cheat. Now go get you some of that sideways.
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| 1/22/2015 8:44:00 PM |
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toxictears1970
Marrero, LA
44, joined Dec. 2014
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Go 4 it
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| 1/22/2015 8:54:51 PM |
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lovetodoit
Buffalo, MO
59, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm thinkin u shouldn't do it even tho I probably would.
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| 1/22/2015 9:35:07 PM |
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likedasun
Orlando, FL
26, joined Dec. 2014
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If shes willing then do it.
Heres why.
If she isnt willing to respect her husband shes going to cheat with or with out your assistance.
I was in a similar situation with a middle eastern girl.
In the end my morality got the best of me and i ended up passing up the opportunity to f**k her.
Guess what happaned lol
A week later she found a dude who was willing and didnt give a f**k if she was married.
So in the end its really up to her to stop you and if she doesn't then go for it.
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| 1/22/2015 9:39:22 PM |
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dorval
Danville, IL
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you have a choice to do the right thing and that would be to leave another man's woman alone......if you know she is married, move on..........she will be just using you for her own selfish needs.
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| 1/22/2015 10:04:17 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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That would be consider cheating. Js
She's right!! Don't help her do what you know is wrong. You know it's wrong. The only reason you asked the question is to get justification for what you know is wrong.
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| 1/23/2015 2:14:28 AM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
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Are you Catholic? Always asking us what to do. Hell no, why ruin a friendship.?
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| 1/23/2015 3:58:55 AM |
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theloser2123
Manassas, VA
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Shut the f**k up. She can't even open her eyes to see your pathetic looking ass. $20 says her chink a** husband has a bigger d*ck then your p*ssy ass. Make sure you hide your pet cat when you bring her back to your apartment
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| 1/23/2015 4:33:59 AM |
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geleen217
Manila
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@ OP that depends on you OP if you dont feel guilty then date her ,,,but if you feel guilty ,,,then dont ,,,,
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| 1/23/2015 5:54:06 AM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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No!!!!
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| 1/23/2015 6:10:51 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
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Depends on what you are trying to accomplish.
* post a waste of time thread here? Already done.
* provide free entertainment to someone else's spouse?
* build a serious relationship designed to make sure you have a reliable and trustworthy mate to be with? Not possible with that.
* make your mom proud of you? Depends on your mom.
* get a discount on Chinese food? Forget that!
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| 1/23/2015 6:29:55 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
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She is probably still paying off her travel expenses before she can get her husband here.
She may love you long time.
Great idea to get involved with an employee of the Chinese mafia.
Go for it!
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| 1/23/2015 8:35:18 AM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
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No! She is married, end of story.
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| 1/23/2015 12:37:55 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
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There's this hibachi grill restaurant that I enjoy going to. I go there once a week. There's a very attractive Chinese waitress there who I have gotten to know quite well. She's very friendly and we talk quite a bit when I'm at the restaurant. I know that she has a husband back in China, as she told me so.
She lives on her own here in America. She has indicated that she would be interested in going out with me like to the movies or out dancing or going out hiking. We flirt quite a bit. I can tell that she's interested in me. And yes, I am interested in her.
Normally, I would have already taken her on a date. However, there's the whole thing where she has a husband back in China.
She told me that she wants to go out dancing with me this coming Saturday night.
Should I try to date this woman who has a busband in China?
Why or why not?
You even have to Ask Why the answer Should be an Obvious NO!!! For a few reasons. 
[Edited 1/23/2015 12:38:41 PM ]
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| 1/23/2015 1:48:28 PM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
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China? The Husband will probably swap her for a pair of Levis, go for it.
there is also the 1000 mile rule, if they are more than 1000 miles apart it's not cheating.
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| 1/23/2015 2:03:03 PM |
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mr_1234m
Louisville, KY
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She is probably still paying off her travel expenses before she can get her husband here.
She may love you long time.
Great idea to get involved with an employee of the Chinese mafia.
Go for it!
That was just 
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| 1/23/2015 5:21:16 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
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That was just
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| 1/23/2015 5:25:22 PM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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What if I just go on a simple innocent date with her like go out dancing tomorrow tonight. We can dance, share some drinks, eat some wings, relax and laugh, and enjoy the evening. And then I drop her off at home, and I go to my home alone.
She's a very lonely woman. She just wants to socialize.
Would it be ok with me to take her out on a date as long as I don't have any sexual contact with her. I mean I will be dancing with her...my body rubbing on her body...but that's not sex...or is it?
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| 1/23/2015 5:56:05 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
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What if I just go on a simple innocent date with her like go out dancing tomorrow tonight. We can dance, share some drinks, eat some wings, relax and laugh, and enjoy the evening. And then I drop her off at home, and I go to my home alone.
She's a very lonely woman. She just wants to socialize.
Would it be ok with me to take her out on a date as long as I don't have any sexual contact with her. I mean I will be dancing with her...my body rubbing on her body...but that's not sex...or is it?
Your body rubbing on hers?
Why are you thinking of it, if it isn't sex to you?
Sounds as though you are looking for ways to pretend to yourself that you are a wonderful, caring, thoughtful person who just wants to help a foreign friend feel a little better. But everything you say points to your thinking that this is your shot at screwing around with a married woman, while blaming it on her and everyone else around you.
Just stop. You aren't fooling anyone, least of all yourself.
This is yet another "if you have to ask, it means you're on the wrong end of the stick" things.
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| 1/23/2015 5:58:14 PM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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Like I said, what if we just go out dancing, share some drinks, wings, and laughs, then after 2 AM when the bar/club closes, I drop her off at her home, and then I drive to my home alone. I am at my home now alone. I take off my clothes, put on my PJs, and go to sleep in my bed alone.
Would that be ok?
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| 1/23/2015 6:19:11 PM |
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likedasun
Orlando, FL
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Like I said, what if we just go out dancing, share some drinks, wings, and laughs, then after 2 AM when the bar/club closes, I drop her off at her home, and then I drive to my home alone. I am at my home now alone. I take off my clothes, put on my PJs, and go to sleep in my bed alone.
Would that be ok?
Hey!!!!! Do want you want.
Why are you asking permission on here?
You a grown man, pay your own bills so why seek approval.
mind you, im not condoning what you are doing but in the end the man goes as far the women allows him to go.
FACT.
Just be aware that every action has a consequence.
As long as you at peace with that then do what you want.
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| 1/23/2015 7:28:56 PM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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Think about this...what is her husband in China doing? Do you think he might be socializing with women there?
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| 1/23/2015 7:31:03 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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Who cares what her husband is doing in China .... your post is about you being a wh*remonger or not, right.
Don't do it.
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| 1/23/2015 11:11:41 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
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Go 4 it
yup ... get that chinese taco sauce on your swartzn**ger ... worry about paying the bill later.
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| 1/24/2015 3:34:49 AM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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Let me ask this:
what will be the consequences if I go on a dancing date with her this Saturday night?
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| 1/24/2015 5:54:15 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
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You are old enough to know that you should not date someone else's wife. Do a pass and feel good about yourself. 
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| 1/24/2015 8:37:00 AM |
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norwegianwood64
Saint Petersburg, FL
51, joined Jul. 2014
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Confucius say he who date married chinese girl end up with itchy balls
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| 1/24/2015 8:56:05 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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I couldn't do it. I was born with a guilt complex. I....have never cheated.
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| 1/24/2015 8:56:59 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
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Let me ask this:
what will be the consequences if I go on a dancing date with her this Saturday night?
The consequence will be that you prove that the only reason you asked these questions to begin with, was to help you to avoid taking responsibility for your own failures of personal honor.
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| 1/24/2015 9:22:39 AM |
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jakebearr
Simi Valley, CA
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Let's see a pic of this woman..
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| 1/24/2015 10:07:22 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
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You are old enough to know that you should not date someone else's wife. Do a pass and feel good about yourself.
He do NOT have any emotional IQ lauren ... he don't feel anything.
If he did ... he would feel shame, nausea, disgust ...
as it is he is getting peckerwood for this.
The guy is a boy slut .. a sex addict ... and he don't know what he is doing.
Drink some kool aid at Jim Town .. when it kicks in you see the pearly gates.
I promise !!!
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| 1/24/2015 10:42:13 AM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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I will make my decision at 6:00 Pacific Time (9:00 PM Eastern Standard Time)
Stay tuned.........
And please keep the advice coming......
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| 1/24/2015 11:22:55 AM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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You're going i bet
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| 1/24/2015 2:58:17 PM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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Not necessarily.
I will be making my final decision at 6 PM Pacific Time (9 PM Eastern Standard Time)
So people please help me.....give me some more advice!
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| 1/24/2015 3:45:33 PM |
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001snatch
Marysville, WA
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Her husband probably knows Kung fu....find another Chinese bar.
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| 1/24/2015 4:06:49 PM |
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keyboardkat
Oklahoma City, OK
39, joined Feb. 2011
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Hey,if a banging is all your after,then go do it.
But that's not a relationship material kind of gal.
And Asians are pretty hot.But kinky too.
The Japanese love tentacle and rape play,while the Chinese are bossy and dominate.
Just make sure her husband isn't in a Triad gang.
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| 1/24/2015 4:24:20 PM |
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eyes4unow
Pomfret, CT
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Your decision...
Are you more attracted to the fact that she is married and he isn't around or that she is oriental?
Just because her husband isn't here doesn't mean she doesn't have family which can be just as bad. Very rarely do they live alone. They live in pods until family does arrive.
If you decide to go and the rubbing (dancing) causes friction... Suggest going to her place and see what the reaction is.
Good luck
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| 1/24/2015 6:51:19 PM |
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eyes4unow
Pomfret, CT
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So at 8 o'clock (EST) does the countdown begin every 10 minutes for the big reveal if he goes or not?
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| 1/24/2015 9:06:45 PM |
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notsram
Olympia, WA
50, joined Sep. 2009
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Sum Ting Wong here
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| 1/24/2015 9:10:59 PM |
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eyes4unow
Pomfret, CT
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| 1/24/2015 9:11:47 PM |
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islandia8_3
Tacoma, WA
50, joined Jun. 2014
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Sum Ting Wong here
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| 1/25/2015 3:26:14 AM |
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sweetnsassy1957
Valparaiso, IN
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So when it comes down to it, what you want is at odds with, what is right.
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| 1/25/2015 6:42:51 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
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Yes, I never refuse a hot Asian.
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| 1/25/2015 7:09:58 AM |
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sea_bear
Oak Harbor, WA
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I went on the dancing date with her last night. And I dropped her off at her home after the club closed, and I went home alone.
All I did was dance with her.
Nothing wrong with that....right?
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| 1/25/2015 7:21:13 AM |
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eyes4unow
Pomfret, CT
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There is plenty wrong with it considering some say texting the opposite sex is a form of cheating.
I think you should have Skype her husband and got his consent to take his wife out.. Lol
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| 1/25/2015 7:41:33 AM |
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tazz_mania4
Morehead City, NC
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Just remember this.If she's cheating on her husband it's just a matter of time and she will be cheating on YOU...Karma's a b@#ch.
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| 1/25/2015 8:18:12 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
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i found it humorous too!
I was going for humorous tool .. not too ...
there is a reason this guy stuck in his Toddler Tantrum mentality from his Duck Disease can NOT get an American girl cause of his Emotional IQ being zip.
So he is looking on the other side of the planet for some foreign p*ssy for his swartzn**ger.
Where she is just using him for a sperm donor getting her Bristol 'Big Middle Finger' Palin on.
Just sex and money for her ...
for him ...
it is true love.
Will the numb nuts ever wake up ...
after the kool aid kicks in ... maybe
but sex addicts ... are addicts.
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