| 1/24/2015 9:19:28 PM |
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ksav121
Portersville, PA
20, joined Jun. 2014
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
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| 1/24/2015 9:20:53 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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It doesn't have to be the love of your life if that's not important to you, but make it someone you know, trust and are comfortable with.
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| 1/24/2015 9:28:19 PM |
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freckleyez
Perrysburg, OH
34, joined Oct. 2014
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It's really up to you... It's better when you love someone.... But that is my personal opinion
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| 1/24/2015 9:33:03 PM |
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gentle_man89
Midland, PA
25, joined Jan. 2014
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Depends on the person
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| 1/24/2015 9:40:07 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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It's really up to you... It's better when you love someone.... But that is my personal opinion
Agree
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| 1/24/2015 10:03:58 PM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
54, joined Feb. 2013
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The more special that person is in your heart, will make intimacy that much more memorable for you. As years go by, you'll frequently think of your "first". 
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| 1/24/2015 10:11:30 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
Instead of being a worthless slut and wondering why nice guy want nothing to do with you................. why not wait until marriage and only date nice guys who can respect that?
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| 1/24/2015 11:00:54 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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The more special that person is in your heart, will make intimacy that much more memorable for you. As years go by, you'll frequently think of your "first".
Is that a real thing? I thought it was a romance novel kind of concept. I tend not to revisit past relationships.
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| 1/24/2015 11:06:55 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Sleep with someone who has a powerful political position,and about a hundred million dollars in the bank. Get pregnant. Threaten to ruin his: marriage, career, life, etc, unless he sets you up in business as a consultant, and hires you to work on his campaigns...by digging up dirt on his opponents. Then you can sleep with those opponents,and pull the same gag on them. You will become the richest consultant in Washington DC, and can then become lobbyist.
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| 1/25/2015 12:01:07 AM |
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joma28
Kissimmee, FL
36, joined Oct. 2011
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I don't see anything wrong in sleepig with someone I mean its just sleeping is not like ur having sex with him... I sleep over my friends all the time and she's right next to me but we just go to sleep nite nite.. so to conclusion if its to sleep go ahead, but if you have sex with him thats a different story its on u.
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| 1/25/2015 12:15:41 AM |
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malikkassidy
Detroit, MI
35, joined Nov. 2014
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It doesn't have to be the love of your life if that's not important to you, but make it someone you know, trust and are comfortable with.
What she said.
Don't rush into it.
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| 1/25/2015 2:21:28 AM |
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unique_woman
Olathe, KS
26, joined Dec. 2014
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It doesn't have to be the love of your life if that's not important to you, but make it someone you know, trust and are comfortable with.
I agree
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| 1/25/2015 2:21:58 AM |
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unique_woman
Olathe, KS
26, joined Dec. 2014
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It's really up to you... It's better when you love someone.... But that is my personal opinion
I agree
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| 1/25/2015 2:22:40 AM |
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unique_woman
Olathe, KS
26, joined Dec. 2014
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I don't see anything wrong in sleepig with someone I mean its just sleeping is not like ur having sex with him... I sleep over my friends all the time and she's right next to me but we just go to sleep nite nite.. so to conclusion if its to sleep go ahead, but if you have sex with him thats a different story its on u.
 I agree
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| 1/25/2015 2:31:31 AM |
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jpkomar77
Lehigh Acres, FL
37, joined May. 2012
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Had another man hit on me and we kissed what should i do
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| 1/25/2015 2:34:04 AM |
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theloser2123
Manassas, VA
23, joined Apr. 2014
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Can you say closet slut?
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| 1/25/2015 2:39:56 AM |
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jpkomar77
Lehigh Acres, FL
37, joined May. 2012
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Had another man hit on me and we kissed what should i do
is it wrong for me to sleep with him
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| 1/25/2015 3:05:28 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
38, joined Aug. 2014
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
You start just sleeping with a bunch of random people you can get something Ajax won't get off. To many diseases out there for all of that! I would be very picky and very careful if you do decide to but I recommend to wait on a special person. It is so much better in so many ways. Good luck to you.
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| 1/25/2015 3:13:46 AM |
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sweetnsassy1957
Valparaiso, IN
57, joined Jun. 2014
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You never forget the "first time" so choose wisely.
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| 1/25/2015 7:46:34 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
52, joined Oct. 2013
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In your profile you state that you are not interested in FWB or Hookups. So why would you ask us if you should sleep with someone random?
Whether you are talking about actual sleep or sex the answer is no in my opinion. I can not imagine why a young lady would just "sleep" with someone random. To me that would just be stupid, especially for your first time.
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| 1/25/2015 8:13:05 AM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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There's a whole lot of real estate between like/love and random sex.
Nothing is that black and white.
I suggest you spend more time developing friendships in the real world rather than seeking the advice of strangers
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| 1/25/2015 9:34:53 AM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
23, joined May. 2013
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My personal opinion I would say wait until you are with someone you truly care for or even love or wait till marriage. If you decide to have random sex you might be disappointed only because you might get attached to someone who you don't even have feelings for.Sex is pretty special especially your first time. But at the end of the day it's your decision you are still very young no rush. Guy's don't mind a girl being a virgin some find it to be pretty unique and respect it. Any guy who pressures you into anything isn't worth your time. Best of luck!
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| 1/25/2015 9:53:10 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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It's not prostitution if he puts the money in a birthday card.
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| 1/25/2015 10:03:22 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
That's up to you?
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| 1/25/2015 10:08:36 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009
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I guess it depends on what your goal is.
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| 1/25/2015 10:35:20 AM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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Had another man hit on me and we kissed what should i do
Did u liked it? Doesn't mean u have sleep with him either
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| 1/25/2015 10:35:23 AM |
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jlyinc
Chaska, MN
30, joined Nov. 2014
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It doesn't have to be the love of your life if that's not important to you, but make it someone you know, trust and are comfortable with.
This.
Ultimately, you need to do what is right for you.
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| 1/25/2015 11:05:09 AM |
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dukesr69
San Antonio, TX
45, joined Jan. 2013
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any single lady in SanAntonio TX
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| 1/25/2015 11:39:17 AM |
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eyes4unow
Pomfret, CT
45, joined Dec. 2013
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Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Just saying if you wait for the "one" and then end up marrying him if something was to go wrong in the marriage (considering today's divorce rate) then not only are you sour about marriage failing it will also extend to him being your first love and 1st time.
Make memories that won't be shattered all at once.
I did the above.... And in ways I am sorry I did.. Those memories are all destroyed and don't hold a special spot in the heart.
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| 1/25/2015 11:57:07 AM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
58, joined Jan. 2013
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Wait till you're married. It's supposed to be the best e-v-e-r. So why not wait. Otherwise, you'll be disappointed.
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| 1/25/2015 12:42:25 PM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
67, joined Sep. 2009
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Is there a rush to get laid for the first time? Is getting laid a status symbol? Is it bragging rights to others? Do you want your first time to be cheap and without feeling? If so then go ahead and just put your stuff out there and give it away.
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| 1/25/2015 1:56:38 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014
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Sleep with somebody who has a good understanding of you. For instance, whether you want dinner and a movie then making love. A party then a meaningless f**k. Whether you want him to be gentle and tenderize it or put down the rubber sheets and have him destroy the hymen like it's supposed to be destroyed.
It's your first time so unless you're gonna save it for marriage, whoever you do it with may not be intending to stick around for the long run. The way you lose or give it up is up to you.
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| 1/25/2015 2:05:53 PM |
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herbhead
Red Wing, MN
60, joined Mar. 2009
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If you want to like sex and maybe do it again sometime, make the first time with someone who you can't keep your hands off of!
None of this, we're such good friends, he'll be safe, blah, blah,blah.
Sex is meant to be wild and crazy, at times frenzied and messy~
'Sleeping with someone' implies an inert state, comatose. This is not what you want! haha
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| 1/25/2015 6:40:48 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012
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While I agree with others that you will never forget the first time, you also will likely have sex with a guy you won't end up with forever (or til death do you part) so I'm of the thinking that who cares who you choose to do it with (boyfriend or random guy) because it will likely end anyway. Most relationships do. As long as the memory of the sex was good - that's all that matters anyway.
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| 1/25/2015 6:43:39 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jun. 2013
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Wait till you're married. It's supposed to be the best e-v-e-r. So why not wait. Otherwise, you'll be disappointed.
you will never forget that first time with your first husband 
after 6 husbands......not so much 
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| 1/25/2015 7:33:27 PM |
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forsyth4
Fort Payne, AL
28, joined Nov. 2014
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U should sleep with everyone all the time
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| 1/25/2015 9:57:55 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
46, joined Aug. 2013
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If you have to ask...... you shouldn't do any.
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| 1/25/2015 11:35:27 PM |
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don_johnson99
Janesville, WI
54, joined Nov. 2013
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
Honey,, YOU'RE a LOAD. Have fun finding anyone to f**k you.
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| 1/25/2015 11:38:38 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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If you have to ask...... you shouldn't do any.
I do believe I agree with this
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| 1/25/2015 11:54:42 PM |
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mr_larrybob
Ruidoso, NM
94, joined Sep. 2014
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While I agree with others that you will never forget the first time, you also will likely have sex with a guy you won't end up with forever (or til death do you part) so I'm of the thinking that who cares who you choose to do it with (boyfriend or random guy) because it will likely end anyway. Most relationships do. As long as the memory of the sex was good - that's all that matters anyway.
Let's f**k.
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| 1/26/2015 12:12:52 AM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Do what I told you the last time I posted in here. You won't, but you should.
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| 1/26/2015 1:42:16 AM |
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luxorus
El Volcán
Argentina
36, joined Apr. 2014
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either way go get pregnant
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| 1/26/2015 3:08:29 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
Why do you have to wait? Is that someone seeing someone else?
Or are you wIting to find him period?
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| 1/26/2015 5:17:32 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
53, joined May. 2013
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Don't do it. Wait until you are in love, make it special. 
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| 1/26/2015 6:24:20 AM |
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istillrock
Winter Park, FL
32, joined Jan. 2015
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Do what feels right for you. If you feel ready go for it, if it doesn't, wait. 
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| 1/26/2015 7:26:23 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
If you do make sure you shave that thing first.
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| 1/26/2015 8:39:24 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Had another man hit on me and we kissed what should i do
Sounds like you liked it
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| 1/26/2015 8:42:54 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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That's up to you.
I think best not to sleep with someone random though. Your first time only happens once, so choose wisely about who you want that to be with & when.
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| 1/26/2015 9:31:35 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Sorry....I'm not willing to be responsible for your actions.
Your supposed to be an adult....you decide, you be responsible.
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| 1/27/2015 4:11:24 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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I think best not to sleep with someone random though. Your first time only happens once, so choose wisely about who you want that to be with & when.
In this post you're talking about someones "first time" so are you a virgin?
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| 1/27/2015 8:45:20 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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In this post you're talking about someones "first time" so are you a virgin?
No, I'm not a virgin. I was married once & have 2 kids. Oh, you posted this because of my previous posting. I posted that thinking it would be OP's first time to have sex. Not sure why I thought that because I see she didn't mention a first time.
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| 1/27/2015 8:50:57 AM |
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eyes4unow
Pomfret, CT
45, joined Dec. 2013
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It's not prostitution if he puts the money in a birthday card.
This was the best!!!
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| 1/27/2015 8:56:33 AM |
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mr_1234m
Louisville, KY
39, joined Apr. 2014
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Should I wait to sleep with someone who I like/love or should I just sleep with someone random?
Virginity is one of the most beautiful gifts you can ever give. Don't waste it on someone that doesn't deserve it.
One man's opinon
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| 1/27/2015 9:38:20 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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@dr_i_got_answer...I read this thread again & OP DOES appear to be talking about her first time to have sex. So why did you think I could be a virgin because I commented?
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