Valentine's day: good thing or a sham

1/26/2015 6:13:54 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	To me...i think it is a sham because i believe that you don't need this day ...unless it is an anniversary on that day....to show your love one your appreciation.....hell, you should do that like the end of the week or something...what do you think? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/26/2015 6:15:04 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
jer3552 Vale, OR 60, joined Oct. 2013	be careful buddy wimmins love this date Valentines
1/26/2015 6:16:22 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from jer3552: be careful buddy wimmins love this date Valentines i know they do....Im just saying is all lol
1/26/2015 6:16:25 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
txrose64 Pearland, TX 50, joined Jan. 2013	a great day to get more sparklies and lobster
1/26/2015 6:17:01 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
jlyinc Chaska, MN 30, joined Nov. 2014	I believe in date nights and treating the one you are with, doing special things for them on a regular basis. Valentine's Day is not needed for those things. Although, in my entire existence I've only had a bf over Valentine's Day like, three times. So maybe I'd feel differently if I had more experience. haha
1/26/2015 6:17:13 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from txrose64: a great day to get more sparklies and lobster speaking of lobsters.....is red lobster is still around
1/26/2015 6:17:27 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
SunrizeSunset Houston, TX 80, joined Dec. 2014	It's still special when dating. I got bored with it while married, but that had more to do with the marriage.
1/26/2015 6:18:33 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
stobil Gallatin, TN 34, joined Nov. 2009 online now!	It's just a day that you can say, "I'm saving lots of money."
1/26/2015 6:19:14 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
im2thexy Belleville, ON 47, joined Dec. 2014	I see nothing wrong with taking this day and turning it into a day that has meaning for both of you and celebrating it the way you choose...
1/26/2015 6:19:21 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 62, joined Oct. 2009	It's a sham created by the greeting card industry and the jewelers and candy shops etc jump in to make their extra buck. It's just a cash cow like Christmas.
1/26/2015 6:20:07 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from stobil: It's just a day that you can say, "I'm saving lots of money." or damn ....i got a hole in my pocket
1/26/2015 6:20:24 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
wench_doctor789 Atlanta, GA 38, joined Nov. 2014	I don't celebrate March 14th either
1/26/2015 6:20:50 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
im2thexy Belleville, ON 47, joined Dec. 2014
1/26/2015 6:21:06 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from driver406: It's a sham created by the greeting card industry and the jewelers and candy shops etc jump in to make their extra buck. It's just a cash cow like Christmas. the difference between Christmas and valentine's day....Christmas is way more expensive....it depends though
1/26/2015 6:21:25 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
SunrizeSunset Houston, TX 80, joined Dec. 2014	Tip: it's better to buy NO JEWELRY than to buy bad jewelry
1/26/2015 6:21:29 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	It's not to show your appreciation it's that "love" has it's holiday/anniversary.
1/26/2015 6:22:13 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from dan9787_3: It's not to show your appreciation it's that "love" has it's holiday/anniversary. love=hence=appreciation
1/26/2015 6:26:25 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
txrose64 Pearland, TX 50, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from dark_gable0585: speaking of lobsters.....is red lobster is still around it is...but I've not been to one in years..I think my dad wanted (make that insisted) two Father's Days ago..but there's other places way better, we've got a new joint that's opened up not far from us we're going to try. Surf & turf yummm.
1/26/2015 6:26:39 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
mustangwriter Boerne, TX 54, joined Nov. 2009	Quote from driver406: It's a sham created by the greeting card industry and the jewelers and candy shops etc jump in to make their extra buck. It's just a cash cow like Christmas. Agreed. I don't need a designated day to show her I love her. I do that everyday. I realize some do...but I'm not that guy. I HATE Valentines Day. Its cold and usually rainy (here) and just an ugly gloomy day to 'express ones ardour'. I liked it in elementary school because Lisa Mellinger, Jane Courtney and Tracy Donahue usually outdid themselves for my affections.
1/26/2015 6:27:48 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	it's just another day ... to go to work
1/26/2015 6:28:24 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
txrose64 Pearland, TX 50, joined Jan. 2013	Norton keeps moving my page down when I click..second time today [Edited 1/26/2015 6:28:59 PM ]
1/26/2015 6:29:12 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
jer3552 Vale, OR 60, joined Oct. 2013
1/26/2015 6:29:32 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
stobil Gallatin, TN 34, joined Nov. 2009 online now!	Trixie's making him do it.
1/26/2015 6:29:58 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
im2thexy Belleville, ON 47, joined Dec. 2014	Wrong thread.... [Edited 1/26/2015 6:32:54 PM ]
1/26/2015 6:33:43 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
skywatcher58 Topeka, KS 56, joined Feb. 2014 online now!	Valentines day my second son was born csection. I picked the day. My dr had told me for 9 months I was having a girl. None of the sonagrams could tell so I picked valentines day since I was a repeat section. I had little dresses all hanging by the baby bed. He was our second son to be born. So valentines day is special to me for that reason. Out of my 3 sons he is the one closest to me. Valentines day is a perfect day to give little things to parents, kids, grandkids, grandparent's, it's not just for significant others. [Edited 1/26/2015 6:34:52 PM ]
1/26/2015 6:34:00 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
ladybugruth58 Patton, PA 56, joined Feb. 2014	I usually break up around valentines day.. Lol.. This guy is a keeper,so we will see what happens... I do like flowers,just saying...
1/26/2015 6:34:07 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
sir_hugo_drax Big Timber, MT 24, joined Apr. 2014	It is a significant cog on the many gears of capitalism. Therefore it's a "good thing"!
1/26/2015 6:35:25 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from ladybugruth58: I usually break up around valentines day.. Lol.. This guy is a keeper,so we will see what happens... I do like flowers,just saying... I have vague memories of all the various flowers I've been given. HOWEVER, give me a book, and I remember it forever.
1/26/2015 6:37:20 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
ladybugruth58 Patton, PA 56, joined Feb. 2014	Lol Dixie.. A book on repairing cars would be appropriate for me...
1/26/2015 6:38:11 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
a4umposter San Antonio, TX 47, joined Dec. 2014	I think Valentine's Day is a nice thing. But a person shouldn't show their SO they care about them just on that day or buy something special just on that day. They should be showing they care all throughout the year.
1/26/2015 6:38:32 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from im2thexy: Wrong thread.... lol really
1/26/2015 6:39:13 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
jlyinc Chaska, MN 30, joined Nov. 2014	I'm going to buy myself flowers and wine. Mainly just wine... on Valentine's Day. And then beer for my birthday the day after.
1/26/2015 6:40:16 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
im2thexy Belleville, ON 47, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from dark_gable0585: lol really Yeahhh it was suppose to be in the black syphillis in the shower thread...
1/26/2015 6:40:50 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
evajoy Reston, VA 58, joined May. 2012	i dont like it
1/26/2015 6:43:00 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from dark_gable0585: love=hence=appreciation No, it's the anniversary of love and of lovers, not to show appreciation as such. As if you weren't supposed to show it the rest of the time. regardless of whether you think it is commercially driven.. or not. [Edited 1/26/2015 6:45:18 PM ]
1/26/2015 6:45:33 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
skywatcher58 Topeka, KS 56, joined Feb. 2014 online now!	At work several women will get flowers delivered some will get cookie bouquets, others candy. I wonder if they tell their husbands to do it? We work in a secure unmarked building for security. So the husbands had to be told the address. I hate the display of competition I see between the women. Especially when 364 days a year I hear how they want to get a divorce. It's all for show to the other women. I like to buy little things and give to the widows at work.
1/26/2015 6:46:49 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
txrose64 Pearland, TX 50, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from im2thexy: Yeahhh it was suppose to be in the black syphillis in the shower thread... yeah I did it too
1/26/2015 6:47:41 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
zane097 Arvada, CO 47, joined May. 2014	Quote from dark_gable0585: speaking of lobsters.....is red lobster is still around Absolutely. Just got take out from there the other night.
1/26/2015 6:47:46 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
im2thexy Belleville, ON 47, joined Dec. 2014	i was responding to that...then i got confused when i saw it in the other thread...whoaaaaaaa....
1/26/2015 6:48:48 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
wench_doctor789 Atlanta, GA 38, joined Nov. 2014	I'm getting myself drunk and hope I get lucky
1/26/2015 6:49:57 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
zane097 Arvada, CO 47, joined May. 2014	Quote from im2thexy: Yeahhh it was suppose to be in the black syphillis in the shower thread... Lol.
1/26/2015 6:50:37 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 46, joined Jan. 2012	I can take it or leave it. Why can't men be that nice all year round instead of faking it for one day out of the year to please a woman?
1/26/2015 6:51:05 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
chris_90352 Sykesville, MD 41, joined Sep. 2010
1/26/2015 6:52:27 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
pdforone Litchfield, OH 63, joined Jul. 2010	Not content with Valentine's day and the consumerism it created? They also introduced Sweetest Day to the area, consumerism at it's finest? August 26th is National Dog Day, mine is happy with an ice cube!
1/26/2015 6:53:08 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
jlyinc Chaska, MN 30, joined Nov. 2014	I don't like that so many women expect something from their significant others, but aren't willing to do something in turn. I always went all out for whoever I was with.
1/26/2015 6:53:51 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	Good if you have disposable income- a sham if you are a cheap/poor loser who can't afford $50 of trinkets/flowers/candy and a meal in a restaurant.... Too easy....they care so you should.
1/26/2015 6:56:11 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
zane097 Arvada, CO 47, joined May. 2014	Quote from lookin4him2012: I can take it or leave it. Why can't men be that nice all year round instead of faking it for one day out of the year to please a woman? Too much like work. Probably falls under the category of: "why purchase the cow when the milk is free?"
1/26/2015 6:56:42 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from ladybugruth58: Lol Dixie.. A book on repairing cars would be appropriate for me... but so much more valuable/treasure than flowers that simply die lol I found a hard shell plastic travel case for golf clubs I picked up at a garage sale for my guy ... $5, looks like it was used once, brand new retails for $265 ... i'll say that's a win ...
1/26/2015 6:56:55 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
iceheart86 Florence, OR 28, joined Jan. 2015 online now!	Valentines day is just another day for a cook. The only difference is I am busier because of all of the men taking their women out for dinner.
1/26/2015 6:57:39 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
stobil Gallatin, TN 34, joined Nov. 2009 online now!	@Dixie. cheapskate [Edited 1/26/2015 6:57:56 PM ]
1/26/2015 6:58:19 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
SunrizeSunset Houston, TX 80, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from iceheart86: Valentines day is just another day for a cook. The only difference is I am busier because of all of the men taking their women out for dinner. Maybe it's the woman taking the man out for dinner
1/26/2015 7:00:33 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
iceheart86 Florence, OR 28, joined Jan. 2015 online now!	Quote from SunrizeSunset: Maybe it's the woman taking the man out for dinner Maybe. It doesn't matter to me. I'll be cooking regardless of who pays.
1/26/2015 7:01:55 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from im2thexy: Yeahhh it was suppose to be in the black syphillis in the shower thread... well...is not....i don't know why you put that comment there....that's why i said really
1/26/2015 7:02:56 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from barrydalmi: Good if you have disposable income- a sham if you are a cheap/poor loser who can't afford $50 of trinkets/flowers/candy and a meal in a restaurant.... Too easy....they care so you should. no....a sham if you used this day to show your love instead all year....so think about it for a min
1/26/2015 7:05:32 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	Quote from barrydalmi: Good if you have disposable income- a sham if you are a cheap/poor loser who can't afford $50 of trinkets/flowers/candy and a meal in a restaurant.... Too easy....they care so you should. sucker
1/26/2015 7:09:01 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from stobil: @Dixie. cheapskate just means I can spoil him with other things, because I have money leftover? ha. I think he was more impressed that I knew what it was, than the fact I got him one. the look on his face. priceless.
1/26/2015 7:10:51 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
sir_hugo_drax Big Timber, MT 24, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from dark_gable0585: no....a sham if you used this day to show your love instead all year....so think about it for a min Well, you CAN do this day AND the rest of the days, too. No laws against treating her well EVERY day. The things is...if everything is normal, then nothing is special...
1/26/2015 7:12:04 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
turkalurk82 Assumption, IL 32, joined Sep. 2014	Like most holidays, it seems my society associates celebrating with spending money to gratify desires. What should be about appreciating the people you love and taking time to celebrate an aspect of your life together becomes an obligation to gratify the superficial materialistic cravings of others. The problem with valentine's day is that it makes the "have nots" feel bad about not having a valentine, or not having enough money to afford a gift that appropriately corresponds with the appreciation you feel for your partner. That's why we should make it a day to appreciate the people in your life by writing a message to illustrate all the things that you appreciate about those closest to you. It can still be just as romantic for couples while not being so focused on romantic love. This way, everyone is happy, and maybe we won't have as many desperate lonely people scrambling to find a date by valentine's day! [Edited 1/26/2015 7:12:18 PM ]
1/26/2015 7:12:12 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
norwegianwood64 Pearlington, MS 51, joined Jul. 2014	One good thing about VD is that it is a reminder that it is safe to date again........and I have a full wallet.
1/26/2015 7:12:51 PM	Valentine's day: good thing or a sham
dark_gable0585 West Sacramento, CA 29, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from sir_hugo_drax: Well, you CAN do this day AND the rest of the days, too. No laws against treating her well EVERY day. The things is...if everything is normal, then nothing is special... i said i this day is a sham.....i didn't say i wouldn't celebrate with a woman Im with....of course i would....but i wouldn't want to celebrate just this day is my point

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