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prettyyoung90
Lake Orion, MI
27, joined Jul. 2013
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I'm 26 and chatting with a guy my age from online. We are both looking for something serious but he is looking to get married this year. I'm not looking to get married not until in a couple years. I did tell him how I felt and whatnot and I worry that if I decide to get into a relationship with this guy he'll pressure for marriage. I'm not sure whether or not I should rule him as a potiential mate.
well at least someone wants to marry you.
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| 1/27/2015 2:44:23 PM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
33, joined Aug. 2014
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It is VERY important. ..you meet who you're marrying 
So Skype Marriages don't count?
No
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| 1/27/2015 8:13:08 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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Lady, I think it sounds like the guy is looking for a green card...a green card marriage!
I finally asked him earlier about why he's looking to get married this year. He has said it's for different reasons and want to discuss it when we meet. I am still going to be wary about the green card theory.
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| 1/27/2015 8:17:58 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
49, joined Dec. 2014
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People get married for all different reasons...but i would be leery of someone who had seemingly ulterior motives and was just looking to marry anyone...
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| 1/27/2015 8:24:34 PM |
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groo_wanderer
Litchfield, CT
42, joined Dec. 2014
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People who are looking to marry quickly are always looking for a green card marriage.
Trust me.....I encountered 4 different Jamaican women like that who within 2 weeks were talkinig about marriage, and as a result they confessed that they had overstayed a travel visa to the United States. Thus, they wanted to legalize their immigration status!
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| 1/27/2015 8:44:47 PM |
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happy_geezer
Patchogue, NY
58, joined Sep. 2014
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| 1/27/2015 8:51:12 PM |
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groo_wanderer
Litchfield, CT
42, joined Dec. 2014
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I know from experience.
I can spot a green card lusting lady real quick! I know all the signs now!
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| 1/27/2015 9:03:01 PM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010
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He needs something, and he's looking for marriage to get it for him!
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| 1/27/2015 9:10:48 PM |
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Breezie95
Pensacola, FL
43, joined Jan. 2015
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RUN, RUN, RUN......as fast as you can!
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| 1/27/2015 10:08:30 PM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
51, joined Mar. 2008
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Dump him immediately! sounds like a clinger.
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| 1/27/2015 10:16:35 PM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
43, joined Sep. 2010
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I'm 26 and chatting with a guy my age from online. We are both looking for something serious but he is looking to get married this year. I'm not looking to get married not until in a couple years. I did tell him how I felt and whatnot and I worry that if I decide to get into a relationship with this guy he'll pressure for marriage. I'm not sure whether or not I should rule him as a potiential mate.
Why wouldn't you run?
Do you have a fetish for high-pressure arranged marriages with total internet strangers?
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| 1/27/2015 10:20:35 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
36, joined Nov. 2009
online now!
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I agree, this guy sounds crazy , but aren't women looking for any excuse to run?
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| 1/27/2015 10:29:34 PM |
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ninjafacepierat
Metairie, LA
29, joined Apr. 2013
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I'm guessing he watched that black comedy(Or so it claimed to be) about the 3 friends that made a vow after attending their friend's wedding as her bridesmaids on new years while they were single. They make a vow to get married or engaged by next new year, whether it's to each of their dream guys or the alternative and only option (they believe) is left... to the guy that follows them around like a puppy and worships them even though they think he's a square.
Perhaps he's so tired of being single that he decided to do the same thing.
Either way it's bullshit, if you know he is interested in finding someone to marry you shouldn't be standing in his way of that happiness he believes he'll find, knowing that you don't share his interest. Stop trying to take advantage of losers with money you damn gold digger.
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| 1/27/2015 10:32:50 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
49, joined Aug. 2013
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Um, Run is right! Anyone who talks about marriage that fast, I would run from. Yikes!
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| 1/27/2015 10:35:56 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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I know from experience.
I can spot a green card lusting lady real quick! I know all the signs now!
I believe ya.
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| 1/27/2015 10:37:08 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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I'm guessing he watched that black comedy(Or so it claimed to be) about the 3 friends that made a vow after attending their friend's wedding as her bridesmaids on new years while they were single. They make a vow to get married or engaged by next new year, whether it's to each of their dream guys or the alternative and only option (they believe) is left... to the guy that follows them around like a puppy and worships them even though they think he's a square.
Perhaps he's so tired of being single that he decided to do the same thing.
Either way it's bullshit, if you know he is interested in finding someone to marry you shouldn't be standing in his way of that happiness he believes he'll find, knowing that you don't share his interest. Stop trying to take advantage of losers with money you damn gold digger.
LMAO. I'm definitely not a gold digger but thanks anyway for your input
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| 1/27/2015 10:44:43 PM |
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ninjafacepierat
Metairie, LA
29, joined Apr. 2013
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Obviously you are to get involved with a guy that you don't have the same interest is, but thanks for harassing me in my inbox... enjoy getting deleted nutjob.
"ladynewy..
online!
Gold digger? B*tch you don't know what the f**k you're talking about. I'm far from a gold digger. You're blocked bye b*tch. How about you know about what you're saying before running your mouth
Jan. 27 10:35 PM"
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| 1/27/2015 10:47:26 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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Obviously you are to get involved with a guy that you don't have the same interest is, but thanks for harassing me in my inbox... enjoy getting deleted nutjob.
"ladynewy..
online!
Gold digger? B*tch you don't know what the f**k you're talking about. I'm far from a gold digger. You're blocked bye b*tch. How about you know about what you're saying before running your mouth
Jan. 27 10:35 PM"
LOL you deserve it for talking smack
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| 1/27/2015 10:53:06 PM |
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sea_
Kent, WA
64, joined Oct. 2013
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I'm 26 and chatting with a guy my age from online. We are both looking for something serious but he is looking to get married this year. I'm not looking to get married not until in a couple years. I did tell him how I felt and whatnot and I worry that if I decide to get into a relationship with this guy he'll pressure for marriage. I'm not sure whether or not I should rule him as a potiential mate.
Ask him to come down to the Jewlery Store, that you would like him to look at the $15,000.00 engagment ring you had picked out, also the $20,000.00 wedding gown, oh and don't forget the lakefront house you had chosen too, also tell him you would like to have at least 7 children, That'll tell you if is truly up to getting married now..
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| 1/27/2015 10:57:40 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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Ask him to come down to the Jewlery Store, that you would like him to look at the $15,000.00 engagment ring you had picked out, also the $20,000.00 wedding gown, oh and don't forget the lakefront house you had chosen too, also tell him you would like to have at least 7 children, That'll tell you if is truly up to getting married now..
Haha too funny. Great idea.
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| 1/28/2015 4:20:42 AM |
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grouchy_muffin
Sichuan
China
45, joined Nov. 2014
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RUN.
You are most likely idealizing each other... which tends to happen until you meet a person and truly get to know them.
Jen said it perfectly. 
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| 1/28/2015 6:40:40 AM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
34, joined Jul. 2014
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Well have you met him? Edit: N/m I see you haven't.
Meet someone before making a decision.
This.
And yes, RUN, obviously!
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| 1/28/2015 8:47:51 AM |
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happy_geezer
Patchogue, NY
58, joined Sep. 2014
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Ask him to come down to the Jewlery Store, that you would like him to look at the $15,000.00 engagment ring you had picked out, also the $20,000.00 wedding gown, oh and don't forget the lakefront house you had chosen too, also tell him you would like to have at least 7 children, That'll tell you if is truly up to getting married now..
Forget about lakefront. Make it a beachfront out in East Hampton. I think Billy Joel's East Hampton house is still for sale. 
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| 1/28/2015 10:09:44 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
65, joined Jul. 2010
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" We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage "
Marriage can be a good thing, planning it before meeting might not be!
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| 1/28/2015 10:12:05 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
66, joined Sep. 2011
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" We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage "
Marriage can be a good thing, planning it before meeting might not be!
  
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| 1/28/2015 10:14:34 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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I'm 26 and chatting with a guy my age from online. We are both looking for something serious but he is looking to get married this year. I'm not looking to get married not until in a couple years. I did tell him how I felt and whatnot and I worry that if I decide to get into a relationship with this guy he'll pressure for marriage. I'm not sure whether or not I should rule him as a potiential mate.
OP, please.  You have got to be a troll.
What adult in their own right mind would actually take time to consider dating someone they've never met who told them they have to get married this year? What this guy is ALSO saying is that you better hurry up and decide right now or else I'm on to the next one. You really de-value yourself that much? Insecure much?
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| 1/28/2015 10:15:39 AM |
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iceheart86
Florence, OR
30, joined Jan. 2015
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Run!
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| 1/28/2015 10:15:58 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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He's a scammer. Run like hell!
Yep. Probably some nasty old f8cker in a trashy trailer somewhere, weighs 300 lbs and hoping she will marry him quick or at the very least send him a bunch of her money. 
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| 1/28/2015 10:38:29 AM |
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mrwest515
Madison Heights, MI
24, joined Jan. 2015
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| 1/28/2015 10:42:31 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
65, joined Jul. 2010
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Good morning Yets! We still win! It's 19 here, not sure if that is a win though!
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| 1/28/2015 10:44:15 AM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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OP, please. You have got to be a troll.
What adult in their own right mind would actually take time to consider dating someone they've never met who told them they have to get married this year? What this guy is ALSO saying is that you better hurry up and decide right now or else I'm on to the next one. You really de-value yourself that much? Insecure much?
I'm not insecure or de value myself at all. I'm neither a troll. That's all I'm going to say
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| 1/28/2015 11:00:05 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
55, joined Apr. 2014
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WOW..he said he's "looking to get married this year" big whoop.
He didn't say ..WE should get married this year.
He didn't say. .I want to get married even if I don't love her.
He didn't say..I don't want to date you if you aren't interested in marriage for two yrs.
Based on the trend of responses in this thread...no wonder there are so many frustrated singles out there.
for cryin' outloud..you haven't even met yet. I vote move on, doesn't sound like you aren't even remotely interested him.
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| 1/28/2015 12:05:35 PM |
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ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
28, joined Jan. 2012
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Thanks everyone for their advice some were entertaining lol.
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| 1/29/2015 11:37:27 PM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
29, joined Dec. 2014
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| 1/30/2015 12:03:55 AM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
46, joined Nov. 2014
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What is marriage?
A construct of morals, religion, or law?
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| 1/30/2015 12:05:53 AM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
38, joined Apr. 2014
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beep beep
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| 2/1/2015 6:26:56 PM |
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cla19
Atmore, AL
52, joined Sep. 2014
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Run!!!!Run!!!!Run, and dont stop running
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