2/23/2015 12:51:24 AM |
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whydo
Hartford, CT
38, joined Oct. 2013
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They hate and fear most without realizing they have, in order to understand their enemy? Is there anyone here that has experienced a shift from this toward a revised life? Please share!
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2/23/2015 12:53:15 AM |
Do people become what |
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m10420
Big Lake, AK
38, joined Mar. 2014
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2/23/2015 1:48:12 AM |
Do people become what |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012
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I would never lower my standards to become hateful or spiteful towards another if they treated me badly..I would eventually forgive, but not forget...but I can say this, I have no enemy's that I am aware of..js
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2/23/2015 1:49:56 AM |
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mccirrus
Tokyo
Japan
36, joined Nov. 2010
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Yay! Op almost made sense!
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2/23/2015 1:55:54 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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No....when I left my first life, into the second and my eventual third life.
I didn't notice any shifting, and if anyone was like that in any of the other lives, I guess they had to stay behind.
I think that answers the question.
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2/23/2015 2:06:19 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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They hate and fear most without realizing they have, in order to understand their enemy? Is there anyone here that has experienced a shift from this toward a revised life? Please share!
I do not feel that need. I am stronger than my enemies.
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2/23/2015 2:33:47 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Nope. Took control of my life and do not let others f**k it up.
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2/23/2015 8:40:15 PM |
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ymia_dikhed
Gresham, OR
41, joined Dec. 2011
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Why is your name whydo?
[Edited 2/23/2015 8:41:44 PM ]
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2/23/2015 9:17:35 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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They hate and fear most without realizing they have, in order to understand their enemy? Is there anyone here that has experienced a shift from this toward a revised life? Please share!
...yes. in combat. Got me 15 confirmed kills, and shot twice.
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2/23/2015 10:47:44 PM |
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poet987
Tiffin, OH
41, joined Jan. 2015
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Yes. I practically hate... almost ..prosaic poetry. I like classical forms and lyrical free verse...but bc no one publishes it anymore I dabble with boring prose from time to time. Then I need a shower and feel ashamed.
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2/23/2015 11:48:31 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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I'm not sure that I understand the question.
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2/24/2015 2:17:33 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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No! They don't consciously do it. Ppl may take a stand on things they believe to be true, real or right.
But then life gives you an experience that'll put the shoe on the other foot, turn the tables (sort to speak). Then while or after you go through it you realize that you're NOW on the other side of the fense.
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2/24/2015 2:24:05 AM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
26, joined Aug. 2013
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I don't think I've become what I hate. I've just become that necessary evil to fight fire with fire.
It's been extremely effective for me.
Sometimes I have to watch myself to make sure it doesn't completely take over but it's quite easy to keep it as something I can easily turn off when presented in the right company.
I've had men I've chewed out see just how kind I can be to truly nice men whom are deserving of a b*tch free-environment.
I think it's therapeutic in a way. To be a b*tch to someone you KNOW is a complete a**hole, is like a good cardio set. It cleanses the system.
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2/24/2015 2:31:06 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
51, joined Nov. 2014
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Garner up pleasant thoughts in your mind, for pleasant thoughts make pleasant lives.
-John Wilkins
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2/24/2015 4:00:02 AM |
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theloser2123
Manassas, VA
23, joined Apr. 2014
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You are what you eat. You must be eating a lot of dumb dudes d*cks
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2/24/2015 6:28:07 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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Not sure what you mean, exactly. I've certainly never "become my enemy" while trying to understand them. But understanding itself is always built on recognizing where something is similar or different. So naturally, I have occasionally recognized little bits in myself that are similar to people I don't like.
What do you really mean to ask?
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2/24/2015 7:36:53 AM |
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audlove515
Jasper, IN
26, joined May. 2011
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They hate and fear most without realizing they have, in order to understand their enemy? Is there anyone here that has experienced a shift from this toward a revised life? Please share!
Not typically.
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2/24/2015 7:46:09 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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They hate and fear most without realizing they have, in order to understand their enemy? Is there anyone here that has experienced a shift from this toward a revised life? Please share!
No. I hate spiders, I've never become one...even if I'm a bit creepy.
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2/24/2015 8:40:30 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
51, joined Nov. 2014
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i usually resort to the fewest fallacies, as a form of word game with those of the opposing view.
You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.
Plato
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2/24/2015 1:11:18 PM |
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whydo
Hartford, CT
38, joined Oct. 2013
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i usually resort to the fewest fallacies, as a form of word game with those of the opposing view.
You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.
Plato
oh, that is a great quote!!!!!!
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2/24/2015 1:18:26 PM |
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whydo
Hartford, CT
38, joined Oct. 2013
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No! They don't consciously do it. Ppl may take a stand on things they believe to be true, real or right.
But then life gives you an experience that'll put the shoe on the other foot, turn the tables (sort to speak). Then while or after you go through it you realize that you're NOW on the other side of the fense.
but, say...if u take a stand in the form of judgemental hate of someone's actions...then you could possibly be just as they are. At least that's what happened to me. But, the other side of the fence can be obtained by realizing through your own self why they may have done what they did. It is freeing to understand. But, even more so when u realize u are no better! That is when you can become so. Truly. Why do? Becomes... do.
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2/24/2015 1:22:46 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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I can't speak for women but men (real men) live by standards and rules which defines who he is and outlines his boundaries. So changes are done ONLY in a situation that critical in order to survive it, thus adaptationadaptation.
Thats when he might see the similarities between himself and his enemy but recognize it was necessary and not a choice of leisure.
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2/24/2015 1:28:18 PM |
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whydo
Hartford, CT
38, joined Oct. 2013
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I can't speak for women but men (real men) live by standards and rules which defines who he is and outlines his boundaries. So changes are done ONLY in a situation that critical in order to survive it, thus adaptationadaptation.
Thats when he might see the similarities between himself and his enemy but recognize it was necessary and not a choice of leisure.
fascinating!
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2/24/2015 1:30:38 PM |
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whydo
Hartford, CT
38, joined Oct. 2013
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...yes. in combat. Got me 15 confirmed kills, and shot twice.
imagine the depth of this!? (Tears)
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2/24/2015 11:52:37 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Once upon a time I said I would never cheat bcuz "the bad guys" cheat where the good guys don't.
About 5 yrs later I was in a situation, experiencing this for the first, I felt justified when I cheated. Becoming that person I didn't like before.
But I learned from the experience that its TOTALY not worth it no matter how justified you feel. So bcuz of my experience and what it taught me again I'LL NEVER CHEAT.
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