2/26/2015 4:32:33 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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I went on a date with a Doctor and she asked me this question first. I thought it was a great question. What would be your answer?...Play nice all...
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2/26/2015 4:36:40 PM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
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What's the prize?
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2/26/2015 4:37:33 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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Salvation
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2/26/2015 4:39:41 PM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
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I already won!
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2/26/2015 4:40:09 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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I already won!
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2/26/2015 4:40:52 PM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
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I only owe El Paso Electric $11 this month. I win!
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2/26/2015 4:41:38 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
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my answer would be..that hasn't been my experience...
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2/26/2015 4:42:32 PM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
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Men dont always win.
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2/26/2015 4:42:49 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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I'm not aware they do always win?
Did you ask here win at what?
Oh, also, was there relevance to her being a doctor?
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2/26/2015 4:43:44 PM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
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They win when they meet me!
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2/26/2015 4:43:48 PM |
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sagepopper72
Globe, AZ
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my answer would be..that hasn't been my experience...
Hasn't been my experience either.
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2/26/2015 4:47:29 PM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
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Maybe what they win isn't such a great prize. I know that some of them want to win the booby prize.
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2/26/2015 4:48:39 PM |
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leggsalloverr
Beverly Hills, CA
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Depends on who and what is letting them win that determines why they win. Yet, who or what determines he won to begin with?
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2/26/2015 4:51:26 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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I'm not aware they do always win?
Did you ask here win at what?
Oh, also, was there relevance to her being a doctor?
You know settee I really liked her too. Well her rationale was quite simple.
She believed a man was at his best when he was being a man. In her eyes that was winning constantly. Who wants to marry a loser?
I told her without flinching.
Losing is not a select process it's who you are. Winning is the same way. Now nobody wins all the time. But men believe they can and thats why they do.
Too bad she was a Dr. What a great lady.
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2/26/2015 4:51:44 PM |
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b2cold
Bark River, MI
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I thought women always won
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2/26/2015 4:52:10 PM |
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monarchqqwings
Streamwood, IL
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I just let them think they do.
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2/26/2015 4:52:52 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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I have no idea where she came up with that.
Men don't think they win all that often.
this is a joke right?..lol
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2/26/2015 4:53:44 PM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
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So that women have something to celebrate!!
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2/26/2015 4:53:53 PM |
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sagepopper72
Globe, AZ
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I just let them think they do.
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2/26/2015 4:54:49 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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I have no idea where she came up with that.
Men don't think they win all that often.
this is a joke right?..lol
Ladies???? Here you go.....You see Bumbler..that's why she is happy and a Dr.
Ladies take note.
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2/26/2015 5:03:38 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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She believed a man was at his best when he was being a man.
Perfect. and women are at their best when being a woman.
In her eyes that was winning constantly. Who wants to marry a loser?
It sounds to me as if she'd have rather been born a man instead of feeling like she's simply living in a man's world.
I don't believe I've ever met someone who won every single time. If you win half the time, are you still a loser?
A doctor of what? Philosophy?
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2/26/2015 5:07:15 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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It sounds to me as if she'd have rather been born a man instead of feeling like she's simply living in a man's world.
I don't believe I've ever met someone who won every single time. If you win half the time, are you still a loser?
A doctor of what? Philosophy?
Well we weren't talking about women. In fact she didn't want to talk about women at all!
She wanted to talk about men.
She was a cradiologist.. moving into surgery thoracic study.
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2/26/2015 5:08:34 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
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my answer would be..that hasn't been my experience...
This
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2/26/2015 5:10:15 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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as a woman in a field predominantly composed of men...I'm sure she's got a reason to feel that way.
I always felt bad for the women that couldn't stand up to the "boys club" docs I worked with.
Hope you had a good date.
but in the game of life...is how you ultimately "win" just be happy...working to live..not vise versa.
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2/26/2015 5:10:25 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
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@jacksc
Men & women are equal when it comes to intelligence. Men are stronger than women physically. Men become weaker when they get older, this is natural. A 70 year old man will be physically weaker than his 50 year old wife, naturally. Unless the wife is grossly obese then she will be weaker than he is.
After a certain age, old is old. Doesn't matter if you are 70 or 75 years old. You are both old. LOL
You shouldn't look at life with only a gender thing. You should look at it as men & women compliment each other well. That means we are good as a pair & we need each other emotionally as a couple.
Women want sex as much as men do. We just don't talk about it the way some men do. Why do u think women are throwing themselves at the men they want, & fighting with each other for the same man? That man in particular has something they all want. He is very sexually appealing to women.
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2/26/2015 5:10:58 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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I got no feeling she gave a rat about being a man or living in a man's world. But honestly I can't speak for her and I did not ask that.
She was quite feminine.
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2/26/2015 5:12:15 PM |
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apokernut
Elk Grove Village, IL
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I went on a date with a Doctor and she asked me this question first. I thought it was a great question. What would be your answer?...Play nice all...
What was your answer????
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2/26/2015 5:12:29 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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.... If you win half the time, are you still a loser?
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2/26/2015 5:14:25 PM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
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What's the prize?
Beautiful, you are the prize!
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2/26/2015 5:14:30 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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Because it's a huge mind game. Men don't actually win all the time. Not even most. But keep him believing that he is and he'll be wrapped around her finger.
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2/26/2015 5:15:13 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
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Some men are very attractive. Women will fight with each other for him. They will rip each other apart so they can be with that man. Because he is very sexually appealing. But the woman want him all to herself. She doesn't want to share him with other women. Jacksc, u should ask those men what is it like to be in their shoes. I am sure those men enjoy being a handsome masculine man.
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2/26/2015 5:17:18 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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@ sarah...hi sarah...ah we weren't anywhere..near your planet on this one.
The question to me was why to men always win? I was on a date. No mention of women or men and women etc.
I appreciate your comment but that has nothing to do with the thread or the date
I also did not make any declarations like you listed. So I'm confused by your post?
She didn't mention anything about gender issues.
She's was interested in finding a man. That's all
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2/26/2015 5:18:23 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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I got no feeling she gave a rat about being a man or living in a man's world. But honestly I can't speak for her and I did not ask that.
She was quite feminine.
Sorry, I didn't mean to insinuate that she wasn't feminine or that she'd like to change gender at this late stage.
I'm wondering if she has resentment toward men for their ability to win when in competition with her.
Or she could have been flirting with you, and boosting your male ego.
I'd have to be a part of that conversation to know where she was headed the 'men always win' thing.
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2/26/2015 5:19:23 PM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
Australia
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what do they win?
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2/26/2015 5:23:20 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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@poker
My answer: It's what we do! And no I didn't slip the "try" in.
She wanted blunt honesty and she got it.
That's what she was looking for. It's instinct. Yes you don't win all time but you set out to do it every time in all things.
That was my answer. Have you ever gotten that question right between the eyes? First question!
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2/26/2015 5:28:16 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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@ settee ...we had three dates over 6 months...between her schedule and mine...well life sucks sometimes.
Probably not an ego thing because she said I did not have one. Gratuitous at this point. But a nice compliment.
Thirst to win keeps a man growing like a tree. Her words.
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2/26/2015 5:33:32 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
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That particular woman sees life as a man always win. She is a Doctor, you said? It's weird that a real doctor would say something like that? What kind of doctor is she? A medical doctor? Someone with a mind for science usually don't say stupid stuff like that.
The English language is a funny thing. An English & History major with a PhD is called a doctor too.
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2/26/2015 5:34:16 PM |
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artokol
Vaubecourt
France
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There are winners and losers only when you play games...don't play games and there's more of a chance you'll both win if genuine.
I have spoken...I win.
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2/26/2015 5:35:35 PM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
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2/26/2015 5:37:06 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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@artkol....yes you win the troll game as usual. You may take two "best retard of the day" ribbons from petty cash.
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2/26/2015 5:39:04 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
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I can't believe none of these DH Women had the sense to acknowledge what a great question that was on a date.
....making me wonder if U.S. Women just simply lost their touch lately.
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2/26/2015 5:39:06 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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Winning is an attribute of men. I'll have to remember that!
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2/26/2015 5:42:11 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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@sette that wasn't her point at all...she wanted to know who I was. She never made a comment about women that was the only gender specific question she asked.
On three dates...@ sarah...she was a medical dr.
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2/26/2015 5:42:14 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
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A medical doctor = an M.D.
Non-science majors: English, History = a PhD
A Dentist = D.D.S.
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2/26/2015 5:42:40 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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@ settee ...we had three dates over 6 months...between her schedule and mine...well life sucks sometimes.
Probably not an ego thing because she said I did not have one. Gratuitous at this point. But a nice compliment.
Thirst to win keeps a man growing like a tree. Her words.
She didn't know you very well of she said you hv no ego.
It wasn't a compliment Jack...it was a manipulation.
And I wld say your last comment doesn't only appy to men
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2/26/2015 5:43:14 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
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That particular woman sees life as a man always win. She is a Doctor, you said? It's weird that a real doctor would say something like that? What kind of doctor is she? A medical doctor? Someone with a mind for science usually don't say stupid stuff like that.
The English language is a funny thing. An English & History major with a PhD is called a doctor too.
^^^^^^...look at thus airhead respond.
I am a Man. And if I was asked that question, I would think that Woman is keeping me on my toes. It won't be no easy treat with her.
You obviously don't know why she asked such a question like that....which is pretty lame to not even pick-up how good a question that is for a Man to answer.
The Man is certainly in a tough spot there....as you can see how the OP rationalized his answer and the emotions he put behind his answer.
She certainly knows what kind of Man she's getting with now.
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2/26/2015 5:45:14 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
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She didn't know you very well of she said you hv no ego.
It wasn't a compliment Jack...it was a manipulation.
And I wld say your last comment doesn't only appy to men
Eyes came the closest to all Women that responded to understanding why that Dr. asked that question.
....well, there's still hope!
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2/26/2015 5:50:13 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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Hi eyes....actually she said there wasn't room in me for an ego. My personality was too large....so I took the ego comment as a compliment.
I can't be manipulated...because I really just do MY THING first. Which was her point.
We never discussed women
But I was asking if anybody else had gotten that question before and how they would answer it.
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2/26/2015 5:52:32 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
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If you want to go where the money is finance & business majors with a Master's Degree make more money than: doctors, dentists, pharmacist ,lawyers, etc...
Pharmacists' salary = $300.00 to $600.00 per day
Doctors' salary = $2,400 per shift
Lawyers' salary = $100,000 per year
Traders' salary = $400,000 per year or more depending on their performance. This is a very high stress job. (Business major)
Dentist's salary = depends on how many patients they get that day or that week. It fluctuates often from week to week.
President's salary of the United States = $200,000 per year in 1990. Don't know how much it is now.
You can look all this up on the internet by the way.
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2/26/2015 5:54:23 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
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.....just flew right over her head.
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2/26/2015 5:57:53 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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@sarah...not sure why you posted the profession list but you left out the most Wealthy group.
BUSINESS OWNERS
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2/26/2015 6:00:31 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
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i'd probably have answered sumn like.....
i got out cheap
i win
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2/26/2015 6:01:52 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
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i'd probably have answered sumn like.....
i got out cheap
i win
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Always stay humbled about things and keep the answers nuetral.
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2/26/2015 6:09:02 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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@be great. Well I just answered the question. What's the worse that can happen?
I did not give a shit. Thought the question was Damm refreshing.
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2/26/2015 6:12:41 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
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....
Always stay humbled about things and keep the answers nuetral.
notice
i didn't say anything about cutting ti short, walking out, dutch, etc...
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2/26/2015 6:17:08 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
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@be great. Well I just answered the question. What's the worse that can happen?
I did not give a shit. Thought the question was Damm refreshing.
Likewise. Refreshing, indeed.
I have a family of Women...and they tell me all the time the many different trick questions they use to get an idea who the "Man" is at his core.
First-impression usually wears off in time and the "real you" emerge. They want to see it on the first date though. Thus the "refreshing questions" they ask.
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2/26/2015 6:18:42 PM |
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dezweather
Phoenix, AZ
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A prostate exam isn't really a date.
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2/26/2015 6:20:29 PM |
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jackscamaro
Newark, NJ
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^^^^^
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2/26/2015 6:20:35 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
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notice
i didn't say anything about cutting ti short, walking out, dutch, etc...
Your answer is similar to how I would respond. I don't want to sound too scripted either but have a little flair about it to let her know, 'I know what you're getting at.'
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2/26/2015 6:26:56 PM |
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giss7
New Orleans, LA
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Tell her she won and gets all the free d*ck she wants for a year!
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