What's GUD for you?

3/5/2015 11:50:29 AM	What's GUD for you?
bedek40 Stockbridge, GA 53, joined Nov. 2013	Back home (always will be wherever I may roam) in So Cal, we coined a term "Geographically UnDesirable", or "GUD" you might say. I know the term isn't original, but in the wilds of the vast Southland it meant that all things being equal; distance is a major hindrance in the proper care and feeding of a relationship, and there is a line that makes love and relationships untenable. Believe it or not, but the traffic in SoCal isn't really any worse than here, and generally anything over 30-60 miles (30-60 minutes) is considered GUD which isn't good for a relationship. Anecdotal perhaps, but it seems to hold up in practice. Being a student of human interaction, I was wondering what y'all think is GUD for you? And have you broken your own Time/Distance rules for dating, friendships, etc? And how'd that work out for you? In essence; what is taking a good thing too far? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
3/5/2015 2:01:54 PM	What's GUD for you?
pleazu2010 Hartwell, GA 54, joined Jan. 2011	I've had visitors from 2 hours away but it was what it was expected to be a weekend of fun or 2 well 4 .. Got one as far as 10 hours talking about comeing here for a vacation But unless someone is willing to relocate not much chance of a real relationship Practicaly your 30-60 is about right 60 with someone hosting for at least a night sometimes .. Oh 1st ..
3/5/2015 2:02:22 PM	What's GUD for you?
angelagir Bethlehem, GA 48, joined Jul. 2008	I dated a guy for almost a year that lived almost 4 hours away. I would go there one weekend and he'd come up the next. It got to be a real chore!! I started to really resent that drive. Never again. Now I would say 1 hour away max. Maybe a little more depending on the circumstances. It would be nice to be close enough to be able to stay over and make it to work no problem. Oh and first! Well dammit Rickey second! [Edited 3/5/2015 2:03:34 PM ]
3/5/2015 2:06:46 PM	What's GUD for you?
avgjoe0266 Augusta, GA 98, joined Aug. 2008	Somebody within an hour unless they wanted to relocate. Then a few months of long distance dating to get acquainted and see if its worth it
3/5/2015 6:14:15 PM	What's GUD for you?
waki_1 Suwanee, GA 52, joined Sep. 2014	Interesting....GUD... never given it much thought but I'm not sure I'm into putting a mile marker on someone I find attractive, both mentally and physically... I'm looking for an interesting fun partner and many times those type can be from a different geographical Area that live a different life style and do different things for fun, and have experienced things I haven't .... But I find everyone's comments interesting and definately reasonable...and interested in other folks thoughts!!
3/5/2015 6:49:50 PM	What's GUD for you?
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 52, joined Jul. 2014	i love an care for one very much from texas,,an we have talked,but sadly she possibly dont feel,or she doesnt show what i feel for her,,even though when asked,,she says she does,an yes wants to be with me forever,,but,,somethin is amiss, but yes id go to texas,an we talked about her comin here,an said yes in a few months,i have bad feeling right now,,as i dont feel but like 10th place with her,an that wont work, but if not for distance o yeah, id win her very easily with much physical,an mental love etc that she really needs..very obviously. itcan be done,,but her feelings ,lovefor me have to stay strong as mine for her which are very strong,i never change or lie,,or bullshit like most women are champs at,an will kill your heart an leave you bloody an near dad in emotions etc,o yeah,i been there,an just lost wife of 23 years last july too. [Edited 3/5/2015 6:52:48 PM ]
3/5/2015 7:14:17 PM	What's GUD for you?
waki_1 Suwanee, GA 52, joined Sep. 2014	Sorry, I was reading fly-fishing comment and accidently hit post.... [Edited 3/5/2015 7:15:56 PM ]
3/5/2015 7:16:18 PM	What's GUD for you?
pleazu2010 Hartwell, GA 54, joined Jan. 2011	I got a friend married a foreigner in her country spent thousands, last I heard she never has probably never will set foot in this country .. And he can't live there I think last count about 60,000.he Spent ..
3/5/2015 7:19:11 PM	What's GUD for you?
tazz_mania4 Morehead City, NC 53, joined Mar. 2014	The Heart has no boundaries or Mile markers.
3/5/2015 8:21:38 PM	What's GUD for you?
gooberguy Danielsville, GA 52, joined Jul. 2014	I was in a relationship with a woman I met on this site for nearly two years. We lived about 1&3/4 hours apart yet managed to see each other most weekends. I will admit that the distance was a sticky wicket at times as far as convenience goes. It was not the main reason our relationship sank but it was an unnecessary and cumbersome spare anchor...
3/6/2015 8:24:38 PM	What's GUD for you?
albyak Ninilchik, AK 68, joined Apr. 2011	Well I want one to travel over 8,000 miles round trip with me each year so a few hundred should not matter
3/7/2015 11:09:35 AM	What's GUD for you?
iwanttherealdea Hampton, GA 52, joined Nov. 2013	^^^^^ I like that and agree!
3/7/2015 1:14:51 PM	What's GUD for you?
mayflylady Conyers, GA 56, joined Jun. 2012	Spent four years with a man who was 2 1/2 hours away in Eastman GA. It was great the first two years then he slowly began asking me to make the drive down there more often than him coming up here. I started to resent that drive and him. We both worked for the same organization so he was not working any later than I was on Fridays. After that relationship I decided never to get involved with someone who was more than 1 1/2 hours away. That's doable on a day to day basis for me. I like to see my man on the weekends at a minimum, during the week sometimes if possible. Any longer drive than that and it's not possible for me.
3/7/2015 1:41:51 PM	What's GUD for you?
bedek40 Stockbridge, GA 53, joined Nov. 2013	Quote from tazz_mania4: The Heart has no boundaries or Mile markers. I hear you, but the heart isn't all that smart either, and gets us into trouble more often than not... Jealousy, envy, fear; they are the obvious emotions that can mess us up, but love, infatuation, lust can pull the same thing if we don't know when to swallow the bitter pill of the truth: absence makes the heart go wander. But some are good with intimacy in small amounts, or like their "alone" time. Whatever suits you is fine, but both people need to be certain they are on the same page, and from some of the anecdotes here; that isn't always the case, or given time and distance, it becomes a case of out of sight; out of mind. I encouraged a divorced friend of mine to take his mind along for the dating ride awhile back, and since he has; I haven't had to deal with so many tales of heartbreak, and he seems a little more satisfied with his life. Many folks don't take time/distance into consideration in their blossoming relationships, and I just wanted to throw this into the mix to see what might be someone else's viewpoint. More info means better decisions.
3/7/2015 8:08:23 PM	What's GUD for you?
koztech Hendersonville, NC 55, joined Apr. 2013	Can we pick up the phone and say, Lunch in an a bit ? You can't share your time together with a keyboard, At least I can't.
3/7/2015 9:27:53 PM	What's GUD for you?
flyfish77 Conyers, GA 52, joined Jul. 2014	the most wonderful an true words by a million miles,,yes,, and im nearlty 800 friggin miles away,an is killin me.from her.. time,an money,an distance,an a cat thats spoiled rotten to me..only,,with egyptian blood,,very one person devoted,,an to leave him,is a no win thing, an how would he do in a dang cat carrier an 3 days in texas,o lordy,i cant wait much longer,anyone goin to texas,please let me know. ... [Edited 3/7/2015 9:28:30 PM ]
3/9/2015 9:59:22 PM	What's GUD for you?
waki_1 Suwanee, GA 52, joined Sep. 2014	You might be Gud For me....
3/10/2015 8:09:38 PM	What's GUD for you?
bitahunni Lawrenceville, GA 50, joined Jun. 2011	I prefer no more than 30 min to an hour.
3/14/2015 6:30:37 PM	What's GUD for you?
pleazu2010 Hartwell, GA 54, joined Jan. 2011	Quote from bitahunni: I prefer no more than 30 min to an hour. What's wrong with closer than 30 mins..laughing .
3/15/2015 4:38:26 PM	What's GUD for you?
bitahunni Lawrenceville, GA 50, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from pleazu2010: What's wrong with closer than 30 mins..laughing .

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