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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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Another article by: Lauren Martin of 'Elite Daily'
So when it comes to love, how do you know when your man is serious?
1. He goes to things he doesn’t want to go to because you’re going.
2. He’ll stay in on a Friday when you’re sick and risk getting it.
3. He can sleep with you and not have sex.
4. He buys your friends drinks too.
5. He goes where you want to go for dinner.
6. He buys snacks specifically for you.
7. After a trip, he stops to see you before seeing his own apartment.
8. He’ll always text you back, even when it’s inconvenient.
9. He pays attention to the little things and remembers them for later.
10. He tries to set up his friends with your friends.
11. He gives you a towel.
12. He tells you you’re beautiful when you wake up — no matter how much makeup is smeared across your face.
13. He even pretends to listen when you’re complaining about insignificant drama.
14. He doesn’t act any different when his friends are around.
15. He actually gives you advice when you talk to him.
16. He carries that extra bag of yours — you know, the really girly one.
17. He doesn’t need to tell you he loves you.
Men, what will you do to show you love her? Do any of these ring a bell?
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| 3/10/2015 9:23:09 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
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6 and 17
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
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Its too early for l....l...l.... Heck I can't even say it.
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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9 & 14 
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| 3/10/2015 9:27:31 AM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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Kawk, I hate to even ask what those 'snacks' might be. 
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
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#18. He doesn't mind going to the grocery store and buying your feminine products.
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
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18. He puts a ring on it. (And, no, not the one most of you dh ppl are thinking about)
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
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" 16. He carries that extra bag of yours — you know, the really girly one. "
My mother in law was a real load! 
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| 3/10/2015 9:31:34 AM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
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#13 insignificant drama.....You've got exactly 5 minutes to vent. Get loud, get it out, kick a puppy, whatever. I'll agree it sucks & is ridiculous.
After that, you need to let it go & have some fun.
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
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How about he carries your car keys for you because you have no pockets.
You know, that set of keys that weighs about 5 lbs and has every sort of key and card and decoration thingy imagionable and won't even hardly fit in a mans front jeans pocket.
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| 3/10/2015 9:36:11 AM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
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Buys her flowers & gifts just because.
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| 3/10/2015 9:38:31 AM |
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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cancel subscription to 'elite daily'.
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| 3/10/2015 9:46:07 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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18. He puts a ring on it. (And, no, not the one most of you dh ppl are thinking about)
 true..that one you know for "sure"
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ahleah4mriris
Fort Worth, TX
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#6
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
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true..that one you know for "sure"
That's not always an indicator, he might just be buying some time, while keeping her from wondering off. Trust me, I've done it!
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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side note...
why is she going to sleep with makeup smeared across her face? even I know that's bad for her skin. 
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| 3/10/2015 10:07:26 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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how do I know a man is serious? lol i wouldn't need a list for it to figure it out.
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| 3/10/2015 10:16:02 AM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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how do I know a man is serious? lol i wouldn't need a list for it to figure it out.
What? You don't want him to show his love by: 7. After a trip, he stops to see you before seeing his own apartment? Hold your purse or fix your friends up with his friends?
Women do that all the time...why can't HE do that?
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
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He cannot do that because he is insecure about himself.
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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how do I know a man is serious? lol i wouldn't need a list for it to figure it out.
that's probably because you're a grown woman, not a little girl who makes 'he loves me, he loves me not' lists.
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
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side note...
why is she going to sleep with makeup smeared across her face? even I know that's bad for her skin.
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| 3/10/2015 10:27:35 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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that's probably because you're a grown woman, not a little girl who makes 'he loves me, he loves me not' lists.
isn't that the truth..I know in one conversation Sweetie related I was one of the first women he hadn't caught doodling her name with his last name that "practice signature" when newly dating.
do women really do this?
who the hell have you been dating? all of them? ok so not all..but a couple..YIKES!
I mean I saw those in Junior High..but really? he was 54 when we got together.
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| 3/10/2015 10:33:39 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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What? You don't want him to show his love by: 7. After a trip, he stops to see you before seeing his own apartment? Hold your purse or fix your friends up with his friends?
Women do that all the time...why can't HE do that?
I just want him to be himself and do what feels natural to him. every man has his own little ways in showing how he feels about a woman.
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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After the hot sex she fell asleep before washing any makeup off.
she shouldn't be letting her girlfriend's boyfriend buy her drinks then send in his guy friends to take her drunk a** home.
she knows her boyfriends hate that!
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casheyesblond
Belmont, NC
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19. When she starts complaining about a woman in the work place,etc,always answer back with,"I never liked that b*tch anyway"
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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19. When she starts complaining about a woman in the work place,etc,always answer back with,"I never liked that b*tch anyway"
thats funny.
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
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she shouldn't be letting her girlfriend's boyfriend buy her drinks then send in his guy friends to take her drunk a** home.
she knows her boyfriends hate that!
Not with me. I'm not a drinker
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
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He takes care of ALL of your automotive needs; including keeping your vehicle clean, without you ever needing to ask him.
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| 3/10/2015 10:51:08 AM |
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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Not with me. I'm not a drinker
then you have no excuse. 
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| 3/10/2015 10:51:52 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
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For what exactly?
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| 3/10/2015 10:53:28 AM |
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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For what exactly?
for expecting legitimate answers to bs posts, you silly .
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| 3/10/2015 11:11:25 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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she shouldn't be letting her girlfriend's boyfriend buy her drinks then send in his guy friends to take her drunk a** home.
she knows her boyfriends hate that!
maybe thats just what some people want to believe sometimes because the truth is much simpler.they're over thinking and possibly getting weird and stuff. lol you made that up.
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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O MY SWEEET HEART,, THERES NO LOVE LIKE I FEEL FORYOU BABY, A 6 I LOVE YOU A 12.. 
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
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You wore her down huh fly?
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| 3/10/2015 11:19:42 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
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for expecting legitimate answers to bs posts, you silly .
And what's the bs post...something of yours or mine?
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Elisa78
GhurianAlmería
Spain
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All and none.
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| 3/10/2015 11:24:21 AM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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He takes care of ALL of your automotive needs; including keeping your vehicle clean, without you ever needing to ask him.
I know several men who not only do that ^^^, but fill the tank so she won't have her hands smell like gasoline. carrying her handbag, not so much.
But you do bring up an important topic.
Men show love in manly ways. Each and every one of those '17 ways you know he loves you' are things women would do for the man in her life, including he looks handsome in the morning with his hair all tousled and a growth of scratchy beard.
My question: Do women want a man who thinks like a woman? Our expectations of men is that they show love the same as we do?
Our expectations is that he'll text us back, even if it's inconvenient, or he doesn't love us?
What?
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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And what's the bs post...something of yours or mine?
well MINE, of course.
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ibeenseenitall
Boca Raton, FL
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Seven ate nine and ten
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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He doesn't laugh at me when I threaten him with bodily harm, I hate that shit.
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| 3/10/2015 11:57:13 AM |
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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He doesn't laugh at me when I threaten him with bodily harm, I hate that shit.
well, it's kind of hard to take you seriously when you're tied up, or even over bended knee.
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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well, it's kind of hard to take you seriously when you're tied up, or even over bended knee.
I'm not usually mad when I'm in those positions, silly.
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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I'm not usually mad when I'm in those positions, silly.
so you take my point, i see. 
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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I never would have described it as pointy. 
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
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I protect my wimins from ninja's...
Hiiiiiyyyaaa!
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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I never would have described it as pointy.
well, now that i know what point you're trying to make...
i'll just say that i'm flattered. 
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sandycrabs
Greensboro, NC
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18. He shares the butter.
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| 3/10/2015 12:14:03 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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well, now that i know what point you're trying to make...
i'll just say that i'm flattered.
No, not flat either.
I try to stop myself before I go too far.
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| 3/10/2015 12:16:01 PM |
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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why???
oh, and goodluckwiththat.
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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I've been there, and done that...1 through 17, and then some.
More than a few times I have listened while she told me about some new revelation she has had-a new idea she just came up with-which is changing her life completely, for the better....and I did so withOUT reminding her that it is the same stuff I have told her day in, and day out, for 20+ years.
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iamalwaysjustme
Kansas City, MO
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#18. He doesn't mind going to the grocery store and buying your feminine products.
One thing my ex husband refused to do , even when I was lying in bed cramping
I always tried to keep stocked up , he was heartless
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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One thing my ex husband refused to do , even when I was lying in bed cramping
I always tried to keep stocked up , he was heartless
i bet if'd you'd asked real nice he'd have shared his shoprags with ya.
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iamalwaysjustme
Kansas City, MO
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How did you know he is a mechanic
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| 3/10/2015 1:41:04 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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to hold me when I am crying.... I know he doesn't know why I am crying, but he doesn't walk away... sometimes I don't know why I am crying either... lol then he will talk with me and figure it out... that's why I love him
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| 3/10/2015 1:45:33 PM |
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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How did you know he is a mechanic
it wasn't a tough guess.
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| 3/10/2015 1:48:19 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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to hold me when I am crying.... I know he doesn't know why I am crying, but he doesn't walk away... sometimes I don't know why I am crying either... lol then he will talk with me and figure it out... that's why I love him
Especially if he doesn't look at you like you're crazy when you answer his question of why you're crying.
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| 3/10/2015 1:50:35 PM |
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d__u__b
Athens, GA
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sometimes y'all just expect too damned much.
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| 3/10/2015 1:51:48 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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I know
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| 3/10/2015 1:57:33 PM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
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If he'd give you his last bite of food, that shows REAL love, & unselfishness.
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