3/19/2015 4:47:11 AM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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Why do so many men from distant states message me? Im okay with making a couple online friends but isnt the point to find people to possibly date?
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3/19/2015 4:50:36 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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you've been here since 2010.....I'd figured you know about most things here.
I don't know the answer....but I do notice enough regulars on here talk about how there is no one worth while in their area, but they see people far off, they wouldn't mind dating.
So...maybe that's it.
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3/19/2015 4:50:43 AM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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u have the face that launched a thousand messages sweet heart
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3/19/2015 4:51:38 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Op..
How far would you travel to find a great connection and perhaps the ultmate love in ones life?
If a person refuses to go past the local 7-11...
Than it must not be of much importance.
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3/19/2015 5:12:14 AM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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Yes, 2010 but just truly took it seriously a few weeks ago and posted profile pics.
Thanks for the compliment
I agree, but I can honestly admit that I wouldn't relocate just to date.
Im worried that its a bunch of creepers that want some kinda sex chat sessions. Sorry, not me. Maybe im wrong?
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3/19/2015 5:12:57 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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w/o perving your profile..do you have "LOCAL only"??
I had that on mine when I was dating and still got messages from all over..because they don't read the profiles.
er..have you looked in a mirror? you're attractive, young (relatively) etc..
just focus on the ones you DO want..and ignore the rest.
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3/19/2015 5:15:02 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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It just depends on the individual.
We are all grown..
Some people look at dating as a sport or a recreational hobby..
Others would go the extra mile to find that person that may be by their side for the rest of their life.
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3/19/2015 5:22:12 AM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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Thanks txrose, I will look into the local only option.
I want to meet someone in person, not be on the damn sites all day. Im a real person.
Isnt there 1-800 sex chat lines these guys can call to get their thrills?
I hate to be rude but im just not responding to them. Then I'll just be the B*tch of course
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3/19/2015 5:23:49 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Kansas City, MO
55, joined Apr. 2009
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Go invisible , problem solved
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3/19/2015 5:24:15 AM |
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
35, joined Mar. 2014
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Im worried that its a bunch of creepers that want some kinda sex chat sessions. Sorry, not me. Maybe im wrong?
A lot of it is probably this. And nudie pics and skyping.
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3/19/2015 5:25:23 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Kansas City, MO
55, joined Apr. 2009
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So Op you are a real person. What are we?
You really are blonde
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3/19/2015 5:25:43 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Bokers....just delete the lame emails and don't take them personally.
I think you can set your profile to certain particulars....not sure if that includes filtering long distance emails....but you might check into that.
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3/19/2015 5:26:59 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Go invisible , problem solved
except one problem....if she does that....she blocks out any potential locals contacting her too.
right?
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3/19/2015 5:27:07 AM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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normal and here should never be used in the same sentence...find a local guy to sext with and send naughty pics to..much better...best of luck to u
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3/19/2015 5:27:29 AM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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I think ya'll are right bout the creepers.
And I would go the extra mile but I dont get the feeling that is whats going on here
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3/19/2015 5:27:50 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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Thanks txrose, I will look into the local only option.
I want to meet someone in person, not be on the damn sites all day. Im a real person.
Isnt there 1-800 sex chat lines these guys can call to get their thrills?
I hate to be rude but im just not responding to them. Then I'll just be the B*tch of course
yah figured that out out quick too I see..~block~ and be done with 'em.
I hear you..many just want a cyber buddy or electronic pen pal..two weeks (or so you know some sooner some a tad more) but there were messages, for a few days and if they didn't ask for my number and USE it (no just texting geesh) or a date I'd cut 'em loose.
NEXT!!
go hang at Home Depot Saturday mornings or the grocery store a lil after quitting time, they were quite the singles club in my neck of the woods
good luck!
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3/19/2015 5:30:47 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Op.....from being on the forums I guess....I get views from all around the country...sometimes emails from far off.
Sometimes it may be being just curious about my profile....sometimes its just they can't find anyone good in their area.
as for these men you refer to....maybe part of the deal is, they tried and failed with the women in their area....so they branch out.
I don't know.
One thing I use to get sometimes was emails and attempts at heavy flirting....when the real deal was....they were afraid of a real relation...so they just filled that void sometimes seeking some on line love affair....then bail when they got their fill of it.
another learning experience for me....so maybe that's part of it too.
Sometimes people go with distance...because its safe....they won't actually meet. So that's the safety net.
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3/19/2015 5:33:36 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Kansas City, MO
55, joined Apr. 2009
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I want to meet someone in person, not be on the damn sites all day. Im a real person.
Your words right here. am I correct?
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3/19/2015 5:33:46 AM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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Guess I shouldnt have said "Normal"..? really!
Lets rephrase: People who are looking for a personal, real, relationship....any better?
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3/19/2015 5:34:48 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Kansas City, MO
55, joined Apr. 2009
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3/19/2015 5:34:58 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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anyway good luck.
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3/19/2015 5:36:11 AM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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u r interesting OP ..ur profile is the first ive seen that says loves drinking and cooking..i found that interesting is all
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3/19/2015 5:46:41 AM |
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wench_doctor789
Atlanta, GA
38, joined Nov. 2014
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They want to romance you through Skype
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3/19/2015 5:50:38 AM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
43, joined Feb. 2014
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No.
There is nuthin Normal here.
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3/19/2015 5:51:28 AM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
Australia
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3/19/2015 8:05:34 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Why do so many men from distant states message me? Im okay with making a couple online friends but isnt the point to find people to possibly date?
Because there are several modern ways to get to you that all fall under the title of "transportation methods"
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3/19/2015 8:15:10 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
52, joined Oct. 2013
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I'd say mainly it's because you are an attractive female and they are male and it costs nothing extra to send a message across state lines.
If you asked them to come meet you for coffee in the morning I doubt they'd show up but if they did then you'd at least know they are willing to put in some effort.
Like rose said, ignore any and all that you wish and good luck to you.
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3/19/2015 8:43:32 AM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
23, joined May. 2013
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Happens a lot have people messaging me from Ireland, South African, Japan people can message people from anywhere it's your choice to respond or not. The site is not just for dating you can chat with people from all over if you choose as well.
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3/19/2015 8:47:15 AM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012
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Why do so many men from distant states message me? Im okay with making a couple online friends but isnt the point to find people to possibly date? many fantasize
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3/19/2015 9:08:13 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
52, joined Nov. 2014
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Why do so many men from distant states message me? Im okay with making a couple online friends but isnt the point to find people to possibly date?
I don't mind if chics from the Show-Me State just show me what they are all about and insist i appreciate their morality for being so Faithful, to their State motto.
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3/19/2015 9:15:24 AM |
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Elisa78
GhurianAlmerÃa
Spain
36, joined Jan. 2015
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Here u can find a lots thing, nice person,d*cker,racist,pervert,friend and enemies, choose and be happy.
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3/19/2015 9:37:36 AM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014
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Because there are several modern ways to get to you that all fall under the title of "transportation methods"
I agree
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3/19/2015 9:38:56 AM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
47, joined Jun. 2014
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they will ask soon for nude pics
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3/19/2015 9:42:52 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
52, joined Oct. 2013
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Here u can find a lots thing, nice person,d*cker,racist,pervert,friend and enemies, choose and be happy.
That is the perfect description of Kawk.
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3/19/2015 9:43:35 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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3/19/2015 9:49:50 AM |
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koch99
Arnold, MO
33, joined Oct. 2012
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ill date someone in Illinois or Kansas. if there worth it.
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3/19/2015 10:04:49 AM |
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bill_i_am2
FPO, AP
52, joined Apr. 2010
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ill date someone in Illinois or Kansas. if there worth it.
I hear that East St. Louis has many of " those " types roaming the streets
#racetogether
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3/19/2015 10:17:18 AM |
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artokol
Vaubecourt
France
48, joined Nov. 2014
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I hear it's customary for women from Hillsboro, MO, to pay for the first date...is this true? How do you deal with over eaters and what's the maximum payout for gas allowance? Is there a Waffle House there...90% of members meet there.
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3/19/2015 10:40:40 AM |
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plantkeeper
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011
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No OP, this is no place for dating,
Only for hating....
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3/19/2015 9:05:39 PM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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Amazing, then where are the people that want a genuine relationship?
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3/19/2015 9:10:17 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Most probably are not on here. Not that there aren't some, but they ones wanting a relationship are probably the minority non here.
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3/19/2015 9:14:38 PM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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I think the forums are hilarious but not having any luck with meeting someone who has the same wants as myself. Just entertainment here then...?
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3/19/2015 9:15:15 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
47, joined Oct. 2013
online now!
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Amazing, then where are the people that want a genuine relationship?
In Colorado!
Be like price is right and come on down!!!
Btw, do u date black men???
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3/19/2015 9:16:18 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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I want a relationship & to end up with a lifelong companion. I don't think it will happen from this site nor expect it to. Too many, though not all, see this site as a hooking up for sex site.
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3/19/2015 9:20:40 PM |
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apaulcalypse
North Port, FL
51, joined Oct. 2012
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I think the forums are hilarious but not having any luck with meeting someone who has the same wants as myself. Just entertainment here then...?
Basically, and also unsolicited pictures of men's private parts.
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3/19/2015 9:24:32 PM |
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bokers
Hillsboro, MO
38, joined Jun. 2010
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I see, thanks for your honesty
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3/19/2015 9:33:35 PM |
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apaulcalypse
North Port, FL
51, joined Oct. 2012
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I see, thanks for your honesty
Any time.
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3/19/2015 9:45:48 PM |
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missamicable
Orlando, FL
55, joined Jul. 2014
online now!
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Long distance relationship is stressful.
If you find a gentleman that treats you good, then hang in there
until you both can work out the distance.
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3/19/2015 10:34:03 PM |
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soundzgood
Long Beach, CA
47, joined Feb. 2014
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I get my share of messages from women that seem sincere & polite & then I look at their
location, "Oh, hey, she's only 2,330 miles away. hmmmm..." Do you know something?..
All the trouble we all go through over dating and us guys all have this one most WOEFUL
lesson to learn....and we all have to learn it. Yepp. Do you know what it is?
The guy C-A-N-N-O-T move in with the lady. He C-A-N-N-O-T marry the lady. Do you know
why?.....Oh she thrills the guy alright....ALL he wants. That's the BAIT. Once they move
in....they forget about sex......Unless it's with a stranger of course. Ha? AM I RIGHT
LADIES? Oops. You're not getting mad are you? I hope not ...some of these ladies go
getting all...........Oh just forget it. No worries. Missouri. . ??
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3/20/2015 12:43:26 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
47, joined Dec. 2014
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It's ab-normal here...look for someone out of state and all you'll get is locals....
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3/20/2015 12:45:02 AM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
40, joined May. 2014
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At least you get them in the states!!!
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3/20/2015 12:46:12 AM |
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tasty_taters2
Springfield, IL
36, joined Jan. 2015
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well OP......if you play your cards right......I might be willing to go halves on a baby, with you
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3/20/2015 12:47:47 AM |
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60n9ne
Morgan, UT
24, joined Mar. 2015
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Give it time and roll with the flow.
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3/20/2015 12:48:40 AM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
40, joined May. 2014
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well OP......if you play your cards right......I might be willing to go halves on a baby, with you
You used this line on me!!!
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3/20/2015 12:55:19 AM |
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tasty_taters2
Springfield, IL
36, joined Jan. 2015
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well if you'd of let it work on YOU................then I wouldn;'t be out trying to lure other women
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3/20/2015 1:01:27 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
57, joined Jul. 2010
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Lonely, dreaming to point of fantasy. Fairly normal here. As eating bony fish you must take time to separate and discard them from the meat.
Delusional as I would be in thinking an attractive young lady would give me a second thought much less a glance.
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3/20/2015 1:09:23 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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Just put "I'm a lesbian with herpes" in your header, and no out of state men will bother you again.
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3/20/2015 1:13:29 AM |
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playground1
Los Angeles, CA
53, joined Feb. 2011
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Find someone to date?
...Here???
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3/20/2015 1:34:26 AM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
40, joined May. 2014
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Haha scamming knows no race, sexual preference, body size or sex...
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3/20/2015 2:02:00 AM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
51, joined Jul. 2014
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I don't know (why they're mostly from out of state)
but I find some other sites..to have more people
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