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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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Sex before marriage is wrong for many reasons. The chief reason is that it is a sin against God. For those that would scoff at that reason there are many other reasons why. Having sex before marriage will cause trust issues after marriage. If you were willing to have sex outside of marriage why would your partner be able to trust youd honor the marital commitment? Many will agrue the point of needing to know what kind of sex drive their partner has before committing to them. Well, that agruement goes out the window because sex drives can increase or decrease. So just because someone has a great sex drive before marriage does mean theyll have it forever. In addition, some people can tell their loved one what kinda sex drive they have because they may have already been married. What are your thoughts?
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9/7/2015 11:34:04 PM |
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roidpaige
Columbia, MO
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Amen
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9/7/2015 11:39:18 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Didn't read.
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9/7/2015 11:41:11 PM |
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zippy75
Manahawkin, NJ
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Go f yourself op nobody cares
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9/7/2015 11:46:27 PM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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Go f yourself op nobody cares
I am amazed by your ignorance. If you disagreed why not simply explain your point of view? Anyways your blocked.
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9/7/2015 11:51:23 PM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
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9/7/2015 11:51:48 PM |
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joey33icerain
Linden, NJ
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no one likes blockers im Christian to but id never push my beliefs down someone's throat i let everyone make their own choices and mistakes in life or else how will people learn
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9/7/2015 11:56:55 PM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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no one likes blockers im Christian to but id never push my beliefs down someone's throat i let everyone make their own choices and mistakes in life or else how will people learn
Didnt block him because he disagreed but rather I dont much care for the ignorance of droppin the f bomb. I dont block ppl who disagree. Follow my posts...I have alot of haters. Its not too popular to be a Christian...at least one who lives their faith.
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9/8/2015 12:14:38 AM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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Amen
Wow...one that agrees
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9/8/2015 3:56:11 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Troll.
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9/8/2015 4:29:47 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
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You have to test the goods ahead of time. what if you get married and you find out you are completely incompatible sexually? that's a divorce just waiting to happen.
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9/8/2015 5:04:16 AM |
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jlyinc
Bemidji, MN
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I'm a firm believer in sex before marriage.
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9/8/2015 5:40:52 AM |
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lareveur
Sun City, CA
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I disagree whole-heartedly. I have to at least test drive my car; before buying it.
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9/8/2015 6:25:33 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
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Marriage wasn't invented until relatively recently, AND it's an invention of Mankind. Logically, this ought to mean, even to the most devout, that sex came long before marriage.
Believe as you will, but Churches and Church rules are all the works of humans and not of the gods they claim to speak for.
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9/8/2015 6:51:52 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
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I say before, during and after.
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9/8/2015 8:12:07 AM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
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I believe in sex after marriage with people other than your spouse.
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9/8/2015 8:56:59 AM |
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quit_lukin
West Hollywood, CA
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I don't believe in marriage.. I was born to be a sinner.
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9/8/2015 9:41:45 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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I don't believe in marriage.. I was born to be a sinner.
wanna f**k?
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9/8/2015 9:42:40 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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I disagree whole-heartedly. I have to at least test drive my car; before buying it.
Need a ride?
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9/8/2015 9:45:16 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
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"Oh lord heaven knows we belong way down below, way down below, way down below"
The Pretty Reckless.
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9/8/2015 1:19:37 PM |
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masterofbacon2
Kirkjubæjarklaustur
Iceland
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If OP insists on blocking people for ignorance then he needs to start with himself.
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9/8/2015 1:22:22 PM |
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cheese_n_stuff
Houston, TX
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Fornication is fun.
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9/8/2015 1:22:53 PM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
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Your opinion.
If you don't let others express their opinions, why create a thread or barbaric topic of conversation?
I'll be blocked now so peace out!
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9/8/2015 1:30:23 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Sex before marriage is wrong for many reasons. The chief reason is that it is a sin against God. For those that would scoff at that reason there are many other reasons why. Having sex before marriage will cause trust issues after marriage. If you were willing to have sex outside of marriage why would your partner be able to trust youd honor the marital commitment? Many will agrue the point of needing to know what kind of sex drive their partner has before committing to them. Well, that agruement goes out the window because sex drives can increase or decrease. So just because someone has a great sex drive before marriage does mean theyll have it forever. In addition, some people can tell their loved one what kinda sex drive they have because they may have already been married. What are your thoughts?
Ok,went back and read.I didn't marry my ex until 7 years,was with him 25.I'm divorced.People have freedom of choice and different beliefs.Having sex before marriage doesn't in know way should have anything to do with trust,unless in your head you had no trust to begin with.Obviously already prejudicial about sex would be a huge turn off in itself.
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9/8/2015 1:42:29 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Also,reading your pro.I think single woman wouldn't give you a chance,cause you sound like your a prison guard wanting to remarry a virgin yet raise your kids.Good luck.You don't even have a pic..
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9/8/2015 1:42:32 PM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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Fornication is fun.
Hell is hot.
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9/8/2015 1:43:58 PM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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Also,reading your pro.I think single woman wouldn't give you a chance,cause you sound like your a prison guard wanting to remarry a virgin yet raise your kids.Good luck.You don't even have a pic. .
Picture is reserved for someone i get to know and like
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9/8/2015 1:53:07 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Picture is reserved for someone i get to know and like
See,how I made a comment,and most would judge that your hiding something.But,now you shared why.It's about communication,connection between two people that can relate,appreciate eachother with respect and not just about sex.
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9/8/2015 2:00:44 PM |
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5oclocked
Alhambra, IL
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Hell is hot.
Yes, but so is making a lifetime commitment to someone you don't know 100%. Sexuality included.
If I need a piece of paper to trust someone to be faithful to me, I don't want it.
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9/8/2015 2:04:24 PM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
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9/8/2015 2:07:24 PM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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See,how I made a comment,and most would judge that your hiding something.But,now you shared why.It's about communication,connection between two people that can relate,appreciate eachother with respect and not just about sex.
Thanks for your post!!
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9/8/2015 2:09:13 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Zeke...ass,I'm all seriousness for a change..I'm the teacher,get your damn backpack,straight to the principal office,you are going to lunch detail for that outburst young man!!!
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9/8/2015 2:18:43 PM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
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9/8/2015 2:27:29 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Alright...skip lunch detail.Spanky,where are you?Give him the paddle..
Op,perhaps you need to laugh instead,just saying.We kick eachothers a** up in here.But that is our distraction.
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9/8/2015 2:41:50 PM |
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stonecold63
AlvearAlvear
Argentina
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Yes, but so is making a lifetime commitment to someone you don't know 100%. Sexuality included.
If I need a piece of paper to trust someone to be faithful to me, I don't want it.
Preach on! This x 1000
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9/8/2015 2:46:25 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Trish,grab your helmet,windex,a few towels too.Another road trip..Oh,you drive this time.I made a mess of thing running over Aus..Now that I look back,she and ding disappeared,same exact day..
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stonecold63
AlvearAlvear
Argentina
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We will steal away in the night in my black Challenger.
Peep and race to the next destination. With whom and where shall we start our mission? Gas prices are under $2 a gallon So we can ride for a while.
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9/8/2015 3:27:56 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Trish,bahaaaaaa.I'm hostile and thinking to myself.Op,just made me realize my mistake..I'm going to go be with my lil buddy..We are alright.I am a diarrhea mouth,he loves me and..Ima going to jump him sexually.Hey,he knows me well..
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9/8/2015 3:35:37 PM |
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scarredandtatto
Oral, SD
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Didn't read.
This
And if there isn't sex before the first date, there won't be a first date. Why waste the time.
I am amazed by your ignorance. If you disagreed why not simply explain your point of view? Anyways your blocked.
OH, and a blocking p*ssy. Well then, please, do me the honor also.
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9/8/2015 6:19:41 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
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Alright,I'm a...
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9/8/2015 7:28:58 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
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Sex before marriage is wrong for many reasons. The chief reason is that it is a sin against God. For those that would scoff at that reason there are many other reasons why. Having sex before marriage will cause trust issues after marriage. If you were willing to have sex outside of marriage why would your partner be able to trust youd honor the marital commitment? Many will agrue the point of needing to know what kind of sex drive their partner has before committing to them. Well, that agruement goes out the window because sex drives can increase or decrease. So just because someone has a great sex drive before marriage does mean theyll have it forever. In addition, some people can tell their loved one what kinda sex drive they have because they may have already been married. What are your thoughts? Now, I disagree. In America, dating has a way of selling a product, that marriage doesn't necessarily sell. And those are the words of another Christian, T.D. Jakes.
Allow me to point something out, about your soapbox, though. When you make a post, regarding the sins against God, there IS a religion forum. Here, you will get chewed up and spit out. Also, making any remark about others flaws, which we were CREATED with, by God, Himself is just going to offend and start a war.
I may as well post some kind of sexist remark, and then make a comment, about how I am not popular with the ladies.....ummm, duh!
The Bible is full of wisdom, and lessons. I know, because it took 9 1/2 months to read it, from Genesis to Revelation. So, why is it so many "Christian" people lack it, so badly?
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9/8/2015 9:25:41 PM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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God does create us with flaws. Our flaws are a direct result of Adam and Eve's sin.
Nobody is chewin me up and spittin me out. I belong to God.
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9/21/2015 3:02:50 PM |
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journeyman327
New Orleans, LA
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In an Ideal situation maybe waiting until you're Married is best . But all around us is sex , sex , and more sex . It is Healthy to have and if you avoid Children before you get Married , you did good . If you avoid std's , even better , so much risky behavior out there now . But waiting until Marriage , can have a drawback . If your the Man and you're the Virgin , the woman will expect you to know where her gspot is before you get her naked , and she may be expected to perform like an adult film star , if you don't place these unrealistic demands on your better half maybe and I say Maybe waiting is better . God does want all of us to wait .
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9/21/2015 3:11:45 PM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
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9/21/2015 3:25:01 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
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God does create us with flaws. Our flaws are a direct result of Adam and Eve's sin.
Nobody is chewin me up and spittin me out. I belong to God.
Do you belong to God.. An yet here u are, on a dating site that has no boundaries ... Wow!
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9/21/2015 3:44:32 PM |
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nicoli_9
Louisville, KY
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Not gonna commit the rest of my life to someone, if we don't know how each other are in bed.
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9/22/2015 1:48:49 PM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
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Marriage wasn't invented until relatively recently, AND it's an invention of Mankind. Logically, this ought to mean, even to the most devout, that sex came long before marriage.
Believe as you will, but Churches and Church rules are all the works of humans and not of the gods they claim to speak for.
Much of the churches "material" is like the National Inquirer. There is some truth to it but most of the info has been contorted and confabulated to serve a greedy agenda...
Read some history books . Go back to 10,000 year old + Sumerian texts and you will see the bibles contents already written prior to the maleficent editing of the current 32 variations of the published editions .
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9/22/2015 1:56:39 PM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
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Do you belong to God.. An yet here u are, on a dating site that has no boundaries ... Wow!
Amen!
Why would a supposed all loving God create humans with a natural sex drive and then tell us it is a sin? It wasn't this so called God that labeled sex a sin. It was manipulative men who desire to control the masses for their own greedy and sinful agendas.
OP...Again, this is not a Christian website. Quit preaching and proselytizing via the DH forums. At the very least go to the religion threads.
If you express your opinions then you must gracefully accept without judgement the opinions of others. Christianity is not a power tool.
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9/22/2015 1:59:36 PM |
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j1323j
Blue Ball, PA
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So can I stop over tonight pa
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9/22/2015 2:01:48 PM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
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So can I stop over tonight pa
I gotta wash my hair
Hi neighbor
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9/22/2015 2:02:28 PM |
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j1323j
Blue Ball, PA
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Ur in NY sweet...I'll peek thru ur windows tonight
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9/22/2015 5:26:42 PM |
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istillrock
Winter Park, FL
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So what if you wait until you get married and your spouse dies? That means you can't have sex again or you find another spouse? Where is that in the Bible?
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9/22/2015 5:43:32 PM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
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in the bible the husbands brother is supposed to assume the husbandry ...
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9/22/2015 6:32:20 PM |
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nurseshanna1972
Burnet, TX
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Sex before marriage is wrong for many reasons. The chief reason is that it is a sin against God.
Soooooooooooooooooo then if one stays a virgin until they are married , then what happens when there is a divorce ? Spouse dies ? Spouse locked up for life in prison? or other reasons that one is no longer married.
Considering I have no plans to ever marry again ( I do have two very faithful FWB`s ) I guess I should go ahead and renounce my Christianity.
But then for you OP please remember that will also include getting rid of your most reliable sex partners. Mr Left hand and Mr Right hand.
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9/23/2015 12:46:49 AM |
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sassytits2
Gainesville, FL
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You have to test the goods ahead of time. what if you get married and you find out you are completely incompatible sexually? that's a divorce just waiting to happen.
^^This
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9/23/2015 8:03:46 AM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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Error
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9/23/2015 8:05:49 AM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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Amen!
Why would a supposed all loving God create humans with a natural sex drive and then tell us it is a sin? It wasn't this so called God that labeled sex a sin. It was manipulative men who desire to control the masses for their own greedy and sinful agendas.
OP...Again, this is not a Christian website. Quit preaching and proselytizing via the DH forums. At the very least go to the religion threads.
If you express your opinions then you must gracefully accept without judgement the opinions of others. Christianity is not a power tool.
Pagal:
While I no longer post threads due to time better spent elsewhere I do still come into the forums and read. I wanted to take the time to reply to a couple of posts. First off I appreciate how you maintain civility while disagreeing. Many others here could learn from you. In terms of being here on DH. I fully realize that this is not Christian Mingle however it is a place to meet women and originally that was my intent here. There are Christian men and women here that live their faith. I realize that others may take certain liberties with the name of the site and decide that this is a site to get your freak on. I would disagree respectfully. For that matter Christian dating sites are full of people that are not Christians living their faith. I personally am looking for a woman to marry who is a Christian living out her faith. Just like others I have things that I look for in a woman....no biggie there, to each their own. I have concluded though that I will discontinue actively looking online. There are plenty of women locally. I think to a degree online dating takes the fun and effort out of dating and like many other social media communication forums I believe it handicaps our person to person communication skills.
Now to your point that I quoted. God created us for His purpose and His perfect plan. Sexual attraction and sex itself are His creations. God nor the Bible says that sex is sin or evil. It is the action of sex outside of the Creators design that is a sin. I dont use God as a power trip....God uses me. In terms of shining the light Christians are called to do that 24/7 whereevere we are. There is no such thing as a part time Christian. In terms of receiving criticism graciously...I can do that. For those that say that though and unlike you use unbridled tongues to scourge Christians...thats a bit hypocritcal.
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
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FOG...it is great that you have your faith.
The issue here is that you are posting and pushing your beliefs in the wrong crowd.
Kinda akin to preaching vegan-ism to a carnivorous crowd.
It's acceptable to express your feelings but pointing fingers and chastising DH posters with any expectation of conversion will not work. Especially when you freely chose to participate in a hookup medium. There are other venues that will support your beliefs without demonizing the other participants. I hope you find a better outlet that supports your views.
I do not share my spiritual beliefs here nor do I desire to change anyone or feel the need to point out that anyone is wrong for their beliefs. This is not the proper venue for these personal belief conversations.
I hope you find a forum that better suits your beliefs and that you find your match.
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9/23/2015 5:29:23 PM |
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FOGenigma
Hadensville, VA
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So what if you wait until you get married and your spouse dies? That means you can't have sex again or you find another spouse? Where is that in the Bible?
So what if you wait until you get married and your spouse dies? That means you can't have sex again or you find another spouse? Where is that in the Bible?
True. There are many truths in the new testament about this very topic.
1 Corinthians 7:8-9
1 Corinthians 6:18
Pagal mentions that the brother is to take the widow however this was old testament and is no longer required of Christians though it would still be OK to practice with those willing to do so. Many use an example of this regarding Onan to suggest masterbastion is a sin. In reality God slew Onan, not because he ejaculated after withdrawing but because he disobeyed God's command to raise up children to his brother. You can read it here; Genesis 38:9.
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
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I get more sex now than I did before I was married. Granted it's not with my wife...
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