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10/7/2015 7:06:44 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oooohlalala
Over 2,000 Posts (3,979)
Chicago, IL
32, joined Jan. 2008


I know you r thinking this is an open invite for shit talking,
but it is a real question...

There seems to be a culture of sterility,
as in the most unlikely people have an idea of
which label means what...
Who is allowed to wear this, like this etc.



I probably do, so I will say...
If you come in & say something intentionally hateful...
You are history...

If you have some narrow minded things to say but
you are seriously talking & being honest, fine...

Also, please don't intentionally go off topic
because you feel this is too much of a hot button issue...
If you r uncomfortable, stay out of it... seems logical...

It's retarded that I have to say these things but...
que cera, cera...

I mean to make some break throughs even though I
know this may go to race bashing, sex bashing,
slut shaming or who knows...

Bring it....

related topic... R people offended or rigid about other races ?
Need clarity ? Say so, I'll b back...

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10/7/2015 7:10:22 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
Chairman__Darth
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,941)
North York, ON
47, joined Jul. 2015


Well there is a difference of being born black and acting like a ghetto thug because of their favorite hip hop artist/group.

10/7/2015 7:11:27 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
ol_buddy_ol_pal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,966)
Charlotte, NC
49, joined Apr. 2014


Paranoia

Risk

Great skin

10/7/2015 7:35:13 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

browneyz
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,166)
San Diego, CA
98, joined Jan. 2008


The culture you are raised in makes a greater difference than the color of your skin.
African blacks
Muslim blacks
indian blacks
caribean blacks
asian blacks
new york city blacks
Deep south blacks
Canadian Blacks
london blacks
Parisian blacks
Cuban blacks

Black skined people are different just like Whites are different .
Asians are different also.

10/7/2015 7:38:10 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
kinderbtch
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,832)
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Feb. 2015


And here we go again...

10/7/2015 7:39:04 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (71,740)
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011


I think we need to know what its like to be a typical whites that's not rich and faces the same things anyone else does, without all the perks of being black....and goes thru all the trenches in life in these days of escalating prices of things, while the ages remain the same and have to maintain a higher standard, because of their color, because more is expected from them.

I mean this is just like the women's movement...they wanted 40 years of men understanding them better....yet no effects were made to understand men better.

Formula's like this never work out or improve a situation....but only makes them worse.

Why? because 100/0 never works out.

anyway I've been thru much more than the typical modern black all the while, expected to maintain a certain level of contribution to all, and level of excellence....so it really doesn't matter to me what anyone else no matter the color has been thru or what it like to be them....I've been to hell and back and all the trenches along the way....without any freebies or excuses.

So a black might say, they made fun of me in school because I'm black.

All the while a white kid with red hair got made fun of too.

So did the fat white girl with the glasses.

So did that tall skinny white kid, that looks like a rail.

On and on....but only the black one complained so much, and tried to sue the school, and used this a scape goat to not try as hard, or work as hard.


This not saying this is always the case....but it happens....and too much

Geez...I'm been thru this too in school or life, experienced unfairness, injustice, enough of racism from blacks, discrimination and all the rest.

Hey, why aren't you asking about what's it like to be me?

10/7/2015 8:05:30 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

candy0426
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,797)
Newtown, PA
48, joined Aug. 2014


Blah, blah, blah.. Go ahead block me. I judge people by character, attitude and degrees they amuse me. Color doesn't play a role.

10/7/2015 8:06:41 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
pinwizard09
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (43,235)
Shelbyville, KY
39, joined Jun. 2013


Damn

Candy is sexy af

10/7/2015 8:17:17 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

candy0426
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,797)
Newtown, PA
48, joined Aug. 2014


^^ sent

10/7/2015 8:20:00 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
ol_buddy_ol_pal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,966)
Charlotte, NC
49, joined Apr. 2014


^^ sent everyday

10/7/2015 8:22:05 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

seth097
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,421)
Arvada, CO
49, joined May. 2014


Quote from browneyz:
The culture you are raised in makes a greater difference than the color of your skin.
African blacks
Muslim blacks
indian blacks
caribean blacks
asian blacks
new york city blacks
Deep south blacks
Canadian Blacks
london blacks
Parisian blacks
Cuban blacks

Black skined people are different just like Whites are different .
Asians are different also.




I agree with this and what Candy said. I spent 9 days with a fantastic black woman and not even one time did we look at each other and say "omg, your skin is different than mine." or anything of the ilk. Had a great time together. Came back and found she was insincere but I choose to remember the good time we had together.

10/7/2015 8:37:48 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
lunaglider
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,596)
DPO, AA
97, joined Dec. 2013


It means you can eat watermelon.....with the lights off

10/7/2015 8:39:28 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

renee398
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,879)
Chilhowie, VA
37, joined Jan. 2015


It means hung like a horse..

10/7/2015 8:39:51 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
Bugzey
Over 2,000 Posts (3,261)
Red Bluff, CA
53, joined Aug. 2015


What does it mean to be Black ?...I don't know because I am not black.....You tell me OP..I can run with this OP....

10/7/2015 8:41:19 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
stumppy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (38,538)
Wind Gap, PA
71, joined Jan. 2008


You bleed the same as another ethnic group.

10/7/2015 8:42:19 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
ol_buddy_ol_pal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,966)
Charlotte, NC
49, joined Apr. 2014


It means the government will pay me if I fill out the paperwork properly.

10/7/2015 8:43:18 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

fishnthec
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,116)
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010


In my town, I think it means you drive a really nice car, jacked up, with big giant wheels with really skinny tires and hubcaps that keep spinning when you stop!



[Edited 10/7/2015 8:45:04 PM ]

10/7/2015 8:49:27 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
Bugzey
Over 2,000 Posts (3,261)
Red Bluff, CA
53, joined Aug. 2015


you have a bunch of women all around you with your bling hanging around your neck and your pants hanging half way down your ass.....

10/7/2015 8:51:54 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oceanblues53
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,830)
Cayce, SC
59, joined Apr. 2011


I don't know but I'll ask my friends next time they come in.

10/7/2015 8:57:18 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
Bugzey
Over 2,000 Posts (3,261)
Red Bluff, CA
53, joined Aug. 2015


you do realize op that's a loaded question ......

10/7/2015 8:58:48 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

gothygoogoo
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,640)
Red Bluff, CA
59, joined Feb. 2015


there's
only
two
out
here...


easy
to keep tabs on...





10/7/2015 8:59:32 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
Bugzey
Over 2,000 Posts (3,261)
Red Bluff, CA
53, joined Aug. 2015




10/7/2015 9:00:49 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

gothygoogoo
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10/7/2015 9:01:09 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

fishnthec
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Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010


I'm sorry, I must admit- I am a redneck when it comes to those down-low britches!

10/7/2015 9:01:43 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oceanblues53
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Cayce, SC
59, joined Apr. 2011


Or I could say it means you are lucky you don't have to tan.

10/7/2015 9:07:13 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
ol_buddy_ol_pal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,966)
Charlotte, NC
49, joined Apr. 2014


It means you will be heroic and sympathetic but at the end of the moveie you will die just to give us a dose of what it's like to be black.

10/7/2015 9:21:29 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

fishnthec
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,116)
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010


I'm still trying to figure out what it means to be White!

10/7/2015 9:34:28 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oooohlalala
Over 2,000 Posts (3,979)
Chicago, IL
32, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from browneyz:
The culture you are raised in makes a greater difference than the color of your skin.
African blacks
Muslim blacks
indian blacks
caribean blacks
asian blacks
new york city blacks
Deep south blacks
Canadian Blacks
london blacks
Parisian blacks
Cuban blacks

Black skined people are different just like Whites are different .
Asians are different also.


So ur answer is it is different for each different person ?
That was my understanding...
but this is the season of Black men (mainly)
defining for me what I should not be doing,
but they never answer this question...

10/7/2015 9:41:56 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oooohlalala
Over 2,000 Posts (3,979)
Chicago, IL
32, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from bumblebee7:
I think we need to know what its like to be a typical whites that's not rich and faces the same things anyone else does, without all the perks of being black....and goes thru all the trenches in life in these days of escalating prices of things, while the ages remain the same and have to maintain a higher standard, because of their color, because more is expected from them.

I mean this is just like the women's movement...they wanted 40 years of men understanding them better....yet no effects were made to understand men better.

Formula's like this never work out or improve a situation....but only makes them worse.

Why? because 100/0 never works out.

anyway I've been thru much more than the typical modern black all the while, expected to maintain a certain level of contribution to all, and level of excellence....so it really doesn't matter to me what anyone else no matter the color has been thru or what it like to be them....I've been to hell and back and all the trenches along the way....without any freebies or excuses.

So a black might say, they made fun of me in school because I'm black.

All the while a white kid with red hair got made fun of too.

So did the fat white girl with the glasses.

So did that tall skinny white kid, that looks like a rail.

On and on....but only the black one complained so much, and tried to sue the school, and used this a scape goat to not try as hard, or work as hard.


This not saying this is always the case....but it happens....and too much

Geez...I'm been thru this too in school or life, experienced unfairness, injustice, enough of racism from blacks, discrimination and all the rest.

Hey, why aren't you asking about what's it like to be me?


No, we (You) are not here to reform the question...
If you want to make a thread of
What does being white mean,
be my guest...
I didn't read what you said.
Perks of being Black ?
Nobody cares or bothers to
tell you how to act etc.
or maybe they do...
Point is, I don't care...
You didn't & I'm pretty sure
you are not capable of answering the question...
So, 2 u I say, 'good day'

10/7/2015 9:50:46 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
kinderbtch
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,832)
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Feb. 2015


Quote from oooohlalala:
No, we (You) are not here to reform the question...
If you want to make a thread of
What does being white mean,
be my guest...
I didn't read what you said.
Perks of being Black ?
Nobody cares or bothers to
tell you how to act etc.
or maybe they do...
Point is, I don't care...
You didn't & I'm pretty sure
you are not capable of answering the question...
So, 2 u I say, 'good day'


He's a long winded idiot...

10/7/2015 9:54:32 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
kinderbtch
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,832)
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Feb. 2015


Quote from fishnthec:
I'm sorry, I must admit- I am a redneck when it comes to those down-low britches!


I'm with you on that, Fish....

10/7/2015 10:07:01 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

calthropstu
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,438)
Phoenix, AZ
37, joined Aug. 2012


Quote from browneyz:
The culture you are raised in makes a greater difference than the color of your skin.
African blacks
Muslim blacks
indian blacks
caribean blacks
asian blacks
new york city blacks
Deep south blacks
Canadian Blacks
london blacks
Parisian blacks
Cuban blacks

Black skined people are different just like Whites are different .
Asians are different also.

This is 100% accurate. England blacks are English. Chinese blacks are Chinese. Blacks in many areas of the world have adapted to the society they now dwell in.
Here in the US however, that is not the case. Blacks show little interest in assimilation here. There's numerous causes, and segregation was the biggest one.
But with legal segregation ended, there seems to be little interest being generated in the black community to join the rest of America.
I have met many blacks not like that, but I am not talking about individuals. I am talking the community at large. As long as blacks in the US identify themselves as black first and American last, there will continue to be issues.

10/7/2015 10:16:32 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oooohlalala
Over 2,000 Posts (3,979)
Chicago, IL
32, joined Jan. 2008


That is my philosophy Seth...

That is the myth isn't it Renee (not always true, thank god...)

Bugzey- What does it mean to be Black ?...I don't know because I am not black.....You tell me OP..I can run with this OP....

I am just as confused as u r... I can only guess that is y these guys keep trying to school me, not that I care...

Didn't answer the question Stumppy... now let's sing cumbaya, or however u spell it...

Fish- no one who isn't black is allowed to buy a lift kit, low profile tires & dumb a** spinning rims ? r u spending ur $ on ? shit u actually need ?

10/7/2015 10:36:44 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

fishnthec
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,116)
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from oooohlalala:

Fish- no one who isn't black is allowed to buy a lift kit, low profile tires & dumb a** spinning rims ? r u spending ur $ on ? shit u actually need ?


I spend my money on guitars! And, as always, I only need just "one more" guitar!

10/7/2015 11:18:02 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oooohlalala
Over 2,000 Posts (3,979)
Chicago, IL
32, joined Jan. 2008


you do realize op that's a loaded question ...... I do Bugzey... Do you even read things I write ?

Gothy- there's only two out here... easy to keep tabs on...

So you're saying Being black means someone is always keeping tabs on u ?

They did that where I used to live... They would watch me & when I leave my house, they would break in... ty 4 reminding me...

Ocean... non White people can still get skin cancer, actually it's on the rise because of that stereotype... another hard lie to correct in peoples' minds...

Fish- I'm still trying to figure out what it means to be White!

I wish you luck Fish...

kinderbtch, I'm used to him.. but it is a real question... I already knew he couldn't resist... Did u see what I said @ the beginning ? I wanted thoughtful answers... I thought I was clear that I wanted thoughtful answers about my question...

calthropstu - 1. u didn't answer the question.
2. I'll get back to u with a small book... I'm not understanding your thinking for placing the blame of lack of assimilation.

Fish- I spend my money on guitars! And, as always, I only need just "one more" guitar!

I'm with u on the guitars... guitars = poon...
One of my missions in life is to f**k a sweet axe & whoever is playing it....
what ? It's the American way... that I care about...



[Edited 10/7/2015 11:20:22 PM ]

10/7/2015 11:45:30 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (45,386)
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012


I can not speak upon it...I hv no path being...black.

10/7/2015 11:54:14 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
bizzyb_23
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,633)
Chicago, IL
30, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from renee398:
It means hung like a horse..


I thought this was a myth...

10/8/2015 1:00:41 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,560)
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013


That is up to the Black him / her self. You can be a Frederick Douglass kind of Black....or a Chester Turner type of Black. It's your choice.

10/8/2015 1:09:27 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  
im2thexy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,847)
Belleville, ON
49, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from stumppy:
You bleed the same as another ethnic group.



Yep...we all bleed the same color..unless you're an alien..then you bleed green....

10/8/2015 2:46:08 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

stanleyzee
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (50,541)
Dayton, OH
39, joined Dec. 2012


Put down... Drug through mud...belittled... Etc etc etc... But I'm PROUDDDD

10/8/2015 2:53:05 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

viper1e
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,370)
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from browneyz:
The culture you are raised in makes a greater difference than the color of your skin.
African blacks
Muslim blacks
indian blacks
caribean blacks
asian blacks
new york city blacks
Deep south blacks
Canadian Blacks
london blacks
Parisian blacks
Cuban blacks

Black skined people are different just like Whites are different .
Asians are different also.


You missed a couple of "cultures" in your list.

One of them, is military culture. If you were a black raised in a military environment, and spent most of your life overseas, you tend not to see differences in other Americans. If you're an American kid, then you play with other American kids, regardless of their ethnicity. Over there, there's the Americans, and "them".

There are no differences. Asking this question is like asking "What does it mean to be human?".

10/8/2015 3:04:12 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

stanleyzee
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (50,541)
Dayton, OH
39, joined Dec. 2012


ANDDDDDD... I TRULYYY... THANK GOD...THAT HE WON'T... JUDGE ME...FOR BEING BLACK...

Looking on YouTube...about ENOCH, SUPPOSEDLY... WE R CURSED...

10/8/2015 4:25:07 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  
ol_buddy_ol_pal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,966)
Charlotte, NC
49, joined Apr. 2014


It means you'll be good at boxing, booty shaking, and making words rhyme that don't normally rhyme.

10/8/2015 5:55:17 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (71,740)
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from oooohlalala:
No, we (You) are not here to reform the question...
If you want to make a thread of
What does being white mean,
be my guest...
I didn't read what you said.
Perks of being Black ?
Nobody cares or bothers to
tell you how to act etc.
or maybe they do...
Point is, I don't care...
You didn't & I'm pretty sure
you are not capable of answering the question...
So, 2 u I say, 'good day'


actually I know what it means to be black in a sense more than you do.

I was around in the days of Juke Jives, Real Blues and Soul.....real black people.

These days it just half whites that can't sing soul without faking it.

So in that...there's nothing to know.

10/8/2015 5:59:58 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

stanleyzee
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (50,541)
Dayton, OH
39, joined Dec. 2012


Alot of folks...hate/despise us...ANDDDDDD... At the same breath...WANT US

TRULYYY AMAZING...

10/8/2015 6:16:09 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

stanleyzee
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (50,541)
Dayton, OH
39, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from stanleyzee:
Alot of folks...hate/despise us...ANDDDDDD... At the same breath...WANT US

TRULYYY AMAZING...


10/8/2015 6:28:11 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  
ahleah4mriris
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,012)
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jul. 2014


well, I don't judge anyone by color. I just live my life best way I Can.

10/8/2015 6:42:57 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

fishnthec
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,116)
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010


I hate to pick on my Black friends, but I am truly amazed just by watching them savor a meal.

I go to lunch with a couple of Black gentlemen I hired to help me in my business every day.

Now you Black ladies may be a little different, but have you ever watched a Black man eat?

By the time a Black man puts all that pepper sauce on everything, strategically salts and peppers everything just right, and drowns everything in just the right amount of ketchup, and blesses his meal, I am all but through eating.

And then you see him savor his first bite! It is like some kind of a mouth orgasm has just taken place, as he smiles and pauses for a second to just let the endorphins rampantly overcome him!

Jesus, I wish I had taste buds like that!

10/8/2015 7:04:33 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

browneyz
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,166)
San Diego, CA
98, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from stanleyzee:
Alot of folks...hate/despise us...ANDDDDDD... At the same breath...WANT US

TRULYYY AMAZING...

There are haters everywhere. Don't let the Devil in your head.

10/8/2015 7:06:47 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  
grande_mamon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,209)
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014


It means you are inferior.

10/8/2015 7:15:08 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  
idliketotalk
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,105)
Punxsutawney, PA
54, joined Oct. 2013


"Maybe then I'll fade away and not have to face the facts. It's not easy facing up when your whole world is black." Rolling Stones

10/8/2015 7:20:20 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  
grande_mamon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,209)
Houston, TX
49, joined Sep. 2014


Quote from browneyz:
There are haters everywhere. Don't let the Devil in your head.


A hater of a hater would be worse than just a hater.

10/8/2015 8:21:49 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

greeleybro
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,878)
Longmont, CO
49, joined Oct. 2013


Just Google "colorblind world" by the boogie boys.


Nuff said!

10/8/2015 8:29:07 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

viper1e
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,370)
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from fishnthec:
I hate to pick on my Black friends, but I am truly amazed just by watching them savor a meal.

I go to lunch with a couple of Black gentlemen I hired to help me in my business every day.

Now you Black ladies may be a little different, but have you ever watched a Black man eat?

By the time a Black man puts all that pepper sauce on everything, strategically salts and peppers everything just right, and drowns everything in just the right amount of ketchup, and blesses his meal, I am all but through eating.

And then you see him savor his first bite! It is like some kind of a mouth orgasm has just taken place, as he smiles and pauses for a second to just let the endorphins rampantly overcome him!

Jesus, I wish I had taste buds like that!


Pepper sauce?

10/8/2015 8:48:39 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oooohlalala
Over 2,000 Posts (3,979)
Chicago, IL
32, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from im2thexy:
Yep...we all bleed the same color..unless you're an alien..then you bleed green....


that is stereotyping ! How do u know they don't bleed purple ? Just insensitive !

Z & Viper... 3 pages in & u r the 1st to have relevant....

I find it fascinating but predictable that White people feel they r the preeminent source on all things...

Also, Rupert Murdock just said yesterday that Ben Carson is a 'REAL BLACK' whom he would like to see as president...

Crazy how timely this is... I posted this 1st btw...

Z... If you read again... I'm not really looking for the downside.... Maybe it's a lil confusing...

Society wants to ignore the person & only deal with your outward appearance, using that to DECIDE in what way you should conduct yourself.

Just like the being male or female has no bearing on what you feel you are which has no bearing on what u r attracted to... it is a VERY LOADED question... But why is it so contentious for persons perceived to b BLACK ?

I have said this b4, but I was raised Latina. There was a clear change in how I was treated after I left school. & I keep getting people, mostly Black men, some White men who tell me I am not acting Black. I HATE BLACK people. I must HATE myself.

I routinely get these messages 2xs a year here:
kfraunce- Sweetheart you are Black ,if you like it or not ,so bring your black behind back to Africa. Sorry to inform you, but you're an African American and your roots are from Africa and Mississippi, so stop, except who you are , a beautiful Sister.

Learn how to speak Black woman , you are a token a** Sister, you want to be a native and a white woman ,but oops ,they don't mix and yes , I am a AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY INSTRUCTOR that's why I would love to educate your ignorance. Yes you are very delusional. Cherokee Indian. Is that the only tribe you know? Shoot some to me without goole. Enjoy your Bronze skin and hair Like wool. Don't sell out

You sound like a dumb a** blond . Hang with you white buddies and find out the truth White Girl. And I will never be jealous of anyone especially of something like you. Xoxo, you will learn.

10/8/2015 10:27:39 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

oooohlalala
Over 2,000 Posts (3,979)
Chicago, IL
32, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from amusicluvr:
That is up to the Black him / her self. You can be a Frederick Douglass kind of Black....or a Chester Turner type of Black. It's your choice.


I'm sorry music... I missed ur answer... ty 4 speaking to my question...
I generally like u & agree with ur opinions...
as I do here... if u read what I say further down...
I explain why I posted this...
I feel I have chosen what type of PERSON I want to be.
I am constantly being CORRECTED.
Told I am wrong.
That I would live differently if I were
better educated...
I have studied, many cultures...
I have read, watched film on the Holocaust,
The Middle passage,
the wholesale genocide of Native peoples...
The reasons people chose to mix...
because of oppression & segregation...
the people who have mixed & are ignored.
Society puts u in either the Black or the White pile.

Truth is there are Black (visually) people all over the globe.
Like Viper said, it is mostly in Murica that people
make a visual distinction & use that to determine your
values & behavior....

Maybe the better question is...
what does it mean to b Murican ?
Since no one values traditions that weren't
manufactured in the last 2 centuries ?
It is a do what the f**k u feel culture,
value no one... nothing has meaning...



[Edited 10/8/2015 10:28:45 AM ]

10/8/2015 8:50:02 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
im2thexy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,847)
Belleville, ON
49, joined Dec. 2014


Hi lala...wellllll i was being stereo-typical cause i saw green blood in the movies once...it could be purple for all i know...

10/8/2015 10:16:00 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
stumppy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (38,538)
Wind Gap, PA
71, joined Jan. 2008


O.T. it means you have a lot of melanin in your skin.

10/8/2015 10:17:56 PM What does it mean to be Black ?  
kinderbtch
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,832)
Knoxville, TN
54, joined Feb. 2015


Means my black car is hot as f**k.

10/9/2015 9:05:51 AM What does it mean to be Black ?  

kandykayn
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,023)
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


It means being the oldest race known to earth with a rich history. Originating from the richest natural resource continent of the world. Being able to endure any climatic region on Earth. Blessed with versatile anti gravity hair.
The epitome of masculinity for the males with their tall stature and typically larger genitals. Black males tend to naturally have more testosterone than others making them a force for competition in sports physical combat and hunting as it applied to the ancient world.
As for the women the epitome of feminism as black women are the face of the "coke bottle" shape. Tending to naturally have bigger butts and breasts than other races. Black women are also as the males more competitive in sports physical combat and hunting.
The melanin in our skin gives us natural anti ageing capabilities as our skin deflects most of the sun's harmful rays that ages the skin. This is why most races look older when compared to a black person of the same age especially after the age of 30.
We also tend to be more creative the leaders of popular culture at any time in history. Musical genius as our musicians transcend cultural and continental barriers. Musical notes flows literally through our veins as it connects to the electrical pulses of our bodies giving us "soul" and the ability to tune our bodies to the music making us great dancers.

We tend to have deeper sultry voices giving us more range which in turn makes us great singers.

The most imitated and the only race who constantly has our history white washed.
We are the people of the sun the originators of the earth brown as tree bark, brown as the dust of our habitat. Nature's Kings and Queens.