| 9/13/2008 12:38:33 PM |
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blueeyedgaldy
Waverly, GA
age: 40
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 Does the "goodguy" actually exist..Seems like all I ever meet are the one who want a one nighter. People excuse me but some of us are past that point in our life. Dont get me wrong I love sex more than most, but still there are other things in life.For just once I would love to met a guy that can acutally carry on a intelligent conversation over dinner and not think that im the dessert. WTF people!!! I'd like to here ya'lls feedback on this.
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| 9/13/2008 12:59:50 PM |
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funnyprincess
Loganville, GA
age: 44
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You mean you actually get to dinner? I've had occassions where the first line out of their mouth in an email or chat is in regards to sex. NOT  To me that's a big  and a turnoff. But I can honestly say that has not happened to me on this site  There are some real gentlemen here 
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| 9/13/2008 1:00:51 PM |
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lori21204
Commerce, GA
age: 25
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yes and I met him today!!!
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| 9/13/2008 1:06:32 PM |
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funnyprincess
Loganville, GA
age: 44
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yes and I met him today!!!
Ohhh realllly !!! You know we have to have details on here lori
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| 9/13/2008 1:11:53 PM |
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blaisethie
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 30 online now!
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Yes and after my last frustrated post I may have met the most respecting gentleman who is going through the same crap in life as me with his soon to be ex just last night!
So keep your chin up everyone with great advice for my post applies to you dearest. 
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| 9/13/2008 1:21:20 PM |
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mickey32761
Austell, GA
age: 47
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yes, they and we are oout there, just some make even us, look bad, but do not give up, you will find us..............we are hard to find and even harder to talk to.......wtf......we are harder to keep as everyone wants one.........there, maybe. Yikes
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| 9/13/2008 1:26:18 PM |
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blueyedshyguy2
Dallas, GA
age: 38
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Of course there are plenty of us "Good Guys" left. Are there quite a few guys looking for a booty call? I sure the answer is yes. However, there are a lot of good ones out there. A lot of times we are just gun shy about being burned again after having a sour relationship. Others tend to be shy for fear of rejection or even being used for what they have. I personally believe that friendship comes first and all other things will fall in place from there. If there is chemistry or an immediate connection the "sex" issue will probably happen sooner than later. Guess I'm just standing up for some of the stereo-type that all guys are after sex more than anything else. Hope that sheds some light from a guys perspective and a relatively newbie to the posting part of DH.
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| 9/13/2008 1:44:28 PM |
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blueeyedgaldy
Waverly, GA
age: 40
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Well congrats to ya'll.. I must be in the wrong part of the dang state then 
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| 9/13/2008 2:12:09 PM |
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lori21204
Commerce, GA
age: 25
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yes and I met him today!!!
Ohhh realllly !!! You know we have to have details on here lori
I'll do better than that...I'll hava pics later
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| 9/13/2008 2:12:48 PM |
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blueyedshyguy2
Dallas, GA
age: 38
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Now I didn't say that I have been lucky enough to met anyone yet as far as a relationship. Too bad you live on the other side of the state , but then that always seems to be my luck.
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| 9/13/2008 2:24:42 PM |
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bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
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Yes they do I met him 8 weeks ago,never thought there was someone like me out there, that I would ever meet. Don't give up,Keep looking stick to what you are searching for you will find him
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| 9/13/2008 2:39:50 PM |
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just_me___
Acworth, GA
age: 44
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I am really beginnig to wonder if he exsists or not myself. I had always thought that there was someone for everyone but I am doubting this these days.
I guess at least you are taking the chance and at least going on that first date. I find myself ?'ing should or not.
I must have signed on up for some reason.
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| 9/13/2008 3:30:30 PM |
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spepper
Canton, GA
age: 37 online now!
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I believe the same goes on both sides. And its just not finding a good girl or good guy out there...while that is a great start, it is finding someone that you mesh with, that does it for you. Someone who has all of the good qualities you would look for in someone of the opposite sex, but gets your motor running.
So, I think in short...the goodguy/goodgurl...is just the beginning...maybe the weeding out criteria to get to the next step does it exist out there...but who is just looking for a goodguy/goodgurl...I want more!
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| 9/13/2008 3:33:49 PM |
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jc30655
High Shoals, GA
age: 56
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Just an observation: Ladies, if you have a photo of yourself and ANY guy about your age in the photo, we guys dont figure that it is your Dad, your Uncle, or your Brother. I know if I saw a guy in one with you, big smile on each of your faces I would just pass her by. You can tell me all day long yall are just "friends" but guys read stuff into what they see (remember we are visual, right?) Just like if you have a ring on your "wedding finger". Nothing personal, just my observation.
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| 9/13/2008 3:33:56 PM |
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btdt
Donalsonville, GA
age: 57
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I believe the "good guy" not only exists, but is well & thriving.
I also believe the "good gal" is doing the same.
I believe this wholeheartedly.
It took a while to get from a beat up, broken down, extremely used heart to one that believes the above . The journey was worth it.
Blueeyed, I'm sorry you're having to go through so many frogs to find the prince, but he is out there!
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