| 9/24/2008 4:24:09 PM |
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ssgtshanahan
Wallingford, VT
age: 29
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Why every woman out there complain's of men cheating on them, but I have had the exact oppisite happen to me. I am not perfect, no one is, but I have never even held hands with another woman while dating and I intentionally push away other women that I find attractive by being rude. Every woman I have dated has ended up cheating on me, with the exception of one. I am no pretty boy with hundreds of women after me but I have dated plenty of women and was married for 8 years. Why is it women complain of no good men out there and then crush the good men they find?
Don't bother contacting me, my d*ck is retired
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| 9/24/2008 4:26:36 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
age: 36 online now!
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Not all women do that... But the ones that do are from some other planet and have a mental disorder called "STUPID"... Don't give up.
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| 9/24/2008 4:31:57 PM |
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seakats
Palm City, FL
age: 46
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don't let the bad experiences change the fact that you are a faithful person.
you have to be faithful and honest for yourself; because it is what you believe in. Not for anyone else.
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| 9/24/2008 4:33:34 PM |
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flwrgrl123
Saginaw, MI
age: 49 online now!
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Wow you are way to young for retirement! Maybe just be on vacation!
Men and women both cheat that is life, but not ALL do. Finding the right partner will take time and a lot of patients and a sense of humor along the way. Don't ever give up. You will find the one that appreciates a good man.
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| 9/24/2008 4:38:06 PM |
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indoubt
Beaumont, CA
age: 33 online now!
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I wish I had an answer for you. It is all so sad. Sorry you were hurt.
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| 9/24/2008 4:39:31 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
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Maybe stop being a d*ck to other women and see what happens... make her a little jealous that she could lose you to one?
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| 9/24/2008 4:40:36 PM |
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mycologyism
Cloverdale, OR
age: 26
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read the bible.
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| 9/24/2008 5:07:35 PM |
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nvsweetie1986
Minden, NV
age: 22 online now!
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I do not understand this myself. I have had friends that have great men that I would love to have a chance of being with but they cheat on them or hurt them in some way. I do not think you should retire just be more cautious. Women show signs just like men....I think some women are just scandalis people and it is hard to tell the good ones from the bad...just like men. Go figure huh.
I do not understand why people cheat. I feel like if your not happy in the relationship then tell him/her move on don't hurt them more then they have to be.
If you are a good person then be that good person and keep those qualities and the right women will come along and change your mind. Love is not something you should give up on.
Good Luck to you!
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| 9/24/2008 7:06:41 PM |
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bellinghamster
Bellingham, WA
age: 27
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Ive never understood the whole cheating thing. they should move on.. .really .
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| 9/24/2008 7:12:15 PM |
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topeshka
Newnan, GA
age: 47
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I don't know that I understand this, but other than the word "every" in your sentence, I will agree that it can be true for both sexes.
I personally have trouble even "seeing" other men when I am in a relationship. They all seem androgynous to me. True Story.
Wouldn't it be a better world if all the cheaters would just miraculously be attracted ONLY to other cheaters?
That would save the rest of the world for people like us!
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| 9/24/2008 7:19:19 PM |
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christycarol
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 51
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I've had that happen a couple of times in the past two years. I finally decided to take time off from the dating scene and regroup.It wasn't easy being alone, but I fell I am astronger person for it.I learned a lot about myself I hadn't realized before,I'm not saying that taking time off would work for you, just a sugestion.I will advise you not to give up, we were not designed to live life alone.
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| 9/24/2008 7:46:47 PM |
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bubba19682007
Indianapolis, IN
age: 40
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Dont feel bad man I had it happen to me except I was married to her. she like the idea of marriage, just not the commitment. and women get scarcer the older you get, ive been on here sending out emails and forums and never get a second look. but I cant get over the old romantic notion that there is a woman out there that can treat me the way i can treat her, one that loves me for me, and can think as us and we instead of me and i, hevent found that one yet. i hear the talkon here all the time with women that want a good man but push away a good one when they come calling, go figure
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| 9/25/2008 3:25:34 PM |
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ssgtshanahan
Wallingford, VT
age: 29
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Thanks for the advice. I seem to attract the wrong type ALWAYS that is why I'm retired. Last GF was the best example of my treatment by those I have loved. She got drunk and slept with her cousin. It was so wrong I couldn't even get mad, just got what I could grab of mine and never came back.
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| 9/25/2008 3:30:59 PM |
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seakats
Palm City, FL
age: 46
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Dont feel bad man I had it happen to me except I was married to her. she like the idea of marriage, just not the commitment. and women get scarcer the older you get, ive been on here sending out emails and forums and never get a second look. but I cant get over the old romantic notion that there is a woman out there that can treat me the way i can treat her, one that loves me for me, and can think as us and we instead of me and i, hevent found that one yet. i hear the talkon here all the time with women that want a good man but push away a good one when they come calling, go figure
try posting in the threads more often ; women like that
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| 9/25/2008 3:32:17 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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read the bible.
especially EXODUS
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