| 9/26/2008 9:22:49 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39 online now!
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Seriously, I know I have my faults, as we all do, but why do some people tell you they are interested in you, or want to have a ltr with you, grow old together, etc then not bother to tell you they have changed their mind or whatever? Why continue to string someone along you don't have an interest in? Even as a backup, wouldn't there have to be some interest? I just don't get it. It's not that damn difficult to just say "sorry, not working" especially if the other person gives you an out. I know if I ask a question, I don't want you to tell me what you think I want to hear, I really want an honest answer. Geez, you can be nice and still tell a person. Just disappearing is cowardly and shitty. *Rant over*
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| 9/26/2008 9:25:00 PM |
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night_tangle
Oak Harbor, WA
age: 19
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b/c most people are cowards. it's sad..
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| 9/26/2008 9:38:17 PM |
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jaybird16
Pasadena, CA
age: 37
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Because they're desperate. They're not lying to you so much as they're lying to themselves. And then finally they take their head out of where the sun don't shine and, and, yeah, like she said, chicken out and run away. But they set this situation up because they were desperate. And they're desperate because they're chicken-at-heart. Vicious cycle. 
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| 9/26/2008 9:44:21 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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when dating, pple r at their best behavioural patterns, they even dress sexy, when they get familiar with each other, the old sexy dressing and impromptu romantic surprises cease. the relationship starts to lack the lustre.
boredom creeps in and contempt takes centre stage.
keep the fir burning babe.....keep it burning.
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| 9/26/2008 9:47:13 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34 online now!
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Because they are scared or lack ballz.
They rather not return calls, not answer emails, not return voice messages. Yet many of them will proclaim they do let the other person know. But we know reality says different. Although there are some that do tell ya, majority of them leave you hanging expecting you to get the hint.
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| 9/26/2008 9:57:03 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39 online now!
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Great answers, keep them coming.
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| 9/26/2008 10:00:56 PM |
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xlibra75x
Gateway, AR
age: 33
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I agree w/ the "coward" comment.
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| 9/26/2008 10:04:00 PM |
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dancinglynx64
Reedsburg, WI
age: 44
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they don't have the guts to say it in plain english. What's worse is when they getcha hooked, & then they f#@k you over then block you. 
oh, then they rub your nose in it by blatenly go after one of your friends in the threads. How crass is that?
[Edited 9/26/2008 10:05:35 PM]
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| 9/26/2008 10:15:43 PM |
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blueyes28
Adger, AL
age: 29
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Seriously, I know I have my faults, as we all do, but why do some people tell you they are interested in you, or want to have a ltr with you, grow old together, etc then not bother to tell you they have changed their mind or whatever? Why continue to string someone along you don't have an interest in? Even as a backup, wouldn't there have to be some interest? I just don't get it. It's not that damn difficult to just say "sorry, not working" especially if the other person gives you an out. I know if I ask a question, I don't want you to tell me what you think I want to hear, I really want an honest answer. Geez, you can be nice and still tell a person. Just disappearing is cowardly and shitty. *Rant over*
Exactly what happened to me,not a very good site toi see,think some of them are cowards,figure they might hurt your feelings,so they think theyd just step away without you even noticing...Yea right thats for morons
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| 9/26/2008 10:31:20 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39 online now!
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Blueeyes28, Oh, no, not the one you really liked here recently?
[Edited 9/26/2008 10:32:47 PM]
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| 9/26/2008 10:37:41 PM |
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dancinglynx64
Reedsburg, WI
age: 44
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I know, what is up with that shit? I have no problem saying no thanks I'm not interested, why can't MORE people be like that? I hate getting hurt. It sux!
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| 9/26/2008 10:46:28 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34 online now!
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thebestman
Because they are scared or lack ballz.
They rather not return calls, not answer emails, not return voice messages. Yet many of them will proclaim they do let the other person know. But we know reality says different. Although there are some that do tell ya, majority of them leave you hanging expecting you to get the hint.
Well that pretty much answers some questions I have been trying to understand the past few weeks....Thanks
You are welcome.
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| 9/26/2008 10:53:09 PM |
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dancinglynx64
Reedsburg, WI
age: 44
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Cowards.I guess...some can't get to the point..if its a no then say it don't lead someone on...  ..sorry it happend to you dancin
Thanks missy, it just sux is all. oh well, live & learn.
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| 9/26/2008 10:55:25 PM |
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alwaysshining
Pine City, MN
age: 35
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Right answer.. COWARDS 
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| 9/26/2008 11:07:03 PM |
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blueyes28
Adger, AL
age: 29
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UM Huh what you talkin about>>>>KATRINA sorry out of quotes here>>>>Dont understand!!!!
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