| 9/28/2008 8:32:01 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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easygoin68
Crawford, NE
age: 40 online now!
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Childbirth isn't a cake walk, for sure. I don't understand the big family thing either. Childbirth, does take it's toll on a womans body. As for the posters who think a woman can take more pain than a man, I disagree. Women can handle different types of pain better than men, while men can handle different types of pain than women.
I walked around on a broken leg for three days, before I could get to a doctor. But, being constipated...is unbearable for me. So , the pain of childbirth wouldn't be for me.
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| 9/28/2008 8:42:33 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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someone said if a man witnessess his wife giving birth and the pain she goes thru, he cannot dare hit her, true or false.
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| 9/28/2008 8:44:45 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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washingtonbound
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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True..I have heard a few stories..about how a mans respect for his wife is made so much stronger when he see's what she has to go thru..to bare a child..that they both want and love..
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| 9/28/2008 9:13:09 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 49
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We are Humans and we require love some may think thats a defect however most dont
what is required has nothing to do with post,its intention was to show that people will endure pain for pleasure,as with giving birth the pleasure of the birth by far out weighs the pain, also with love,
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| 9/28/2008 9:15:38 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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data_chic
Abbeville, SC
age: 37
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This is why guys don't do child birth.....
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| 9/28/2008 9:20:18 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
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Quote from leftfooted:what is required has nothing to do with post,its intention was to show that people will endure pain for pleasure,as with giving birth the pleasure of the birth by far out weighs the pain, also with love,
I was under the impression that what I answered to was about seeking another relationship after a bad one
By this post of yours: Quote from leftfooted:
why would you search for love knowing that if things do not end up the way you want them to it will be painful but yet you search again
[Edited 9/28/2008 9:25:32 PM]
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| 9/28/2008 9:30:49 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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binderdundat
Metairie, LA
age: 46
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someone said if a man witnessess his wife giving birth and the pain she goes thru, he cannot dare hit her, true or false.
False: A man that will hit a woman will hit her no matter what.
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| 9/28/2008 9:42:43 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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wvtravlr
Ravenswood, WV
age: 49
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Im just glad god gave it to women...I couldnt imagine putting a bowling ball thru a straw
 
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| 9/28/2008 10:23:52 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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kit.. .you can't stand kids or mothers who have them...
why do you have this thread?
its weird... i can take the honesty of not wanting kids
but why would you give a rats a** about the physical pain of birth?
as for your real answer... after the release of the baby from the birth canal
the after birth naturally was pulled form the wall of the uterus.. this pulling
caused a natural hormone called endorphins told by the hypothalamus to the adrenal gland to spill into the mothers body...
also the hippocampus and amygdala area of the brain causes a natural memory blockage from
the pain... its a natural enhancement of your own body's drugs and hormones...
to forget the pain....
usually if a women has stitches or a slow natural healing from tears of her labia and vaginal canal and pudendal .. she will remember that more.. then the actual point of crux...
which is the highest pain threshold time when a women feels she can not go on with the birth and pain.
and i just said more then any one here wants to know...
my first few lines i wrote is the answer i want from op... though...
[Edited 9/28/2008 10:36:22 PM]
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| 9/28/2008 10:26:04 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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lilmissala
Hartselle, AL
age: 51
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someone said if a man witnessess his wife giving birth and the pain she goes thru, he cannot dare hit her, true or false.
Definitely false. Kids dad never laid a hand on me until after the kids were born.
I miscarried my 1st child, had the 2nd one it was a rough delivery,miscarried the 3rd child and had the 4rth one. The 4rth one was so bad that even if I could have had another I wouldn't have. There were many complications with carrying him and his birth. I remembered that pain for a long time. No I don't remember the pain now but I guess it is like everyone says the love kills the pain.
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| 9/28/2008 10:51:14 PM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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redstar4evr
Lakewood, WA
age: 57
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If women remember just exactly how bad it hurt and what exact they felt laying on the bed through out labor, not a child would be born after each one of us gave birth to our first.
But God made us women so that when we bond with our newborn child and he/she is in our arms the   love and protective feelings for our child is instant and just grows stronger. In truth we should have anger at how this small baby caused us so much almost unbearable pain.
But no.... God made us to be mothers,
Yes there are drugs a woman can take after so long into birth, but for myself and many others it is more healthy for their unborn child to go natural child birth without taking drugs.
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| 9/29/2008 2:57:37 AM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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forever4
Victoria
Australia
age: 47
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yes it can be painfull but we are very quick to forget the pain and have more children but some deliveries are esier than other ones my first baby was a shoching painful one the 2nd one was ok the third was ok as well But the last one my god the pain was ubearable  
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| 9/29/2008 7:40:13 AM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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manykisses
Tonawanda, NY
age: 50
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I can't speak for women really since I don't have a vag, but I will relate what I once heard a woman say when asked if childbirth was painful:
Get a bowling ball.
With your left hand, hold the bowling ball in front of your mouth and against your teeth.
Now take your right hand and pull your bottom lip around the bowling ball so that the bowling ball is completely covered.
After hearing this description, I did not need to actually go get a bowling ball to figure out that yeah, that's gotta hurt.
So why do they do it anyway?
Simple. No pain, no gain.
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| 9/29/2008 7:42:03 AM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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This must coincide with the recent rise in vaginoplasty
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| 9/29/2008 8:15:23 AM |
Giving birth is not painful. |
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hotcowgirl4u
Martins Ferry, OH
age: 47
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a friend of mine told me she will never ever try it again..she is pregnant...i think women forget so fast.
I remember every painful ouch that birthing included.
BUT I also remember holding that incredible creation in my arms the first time and being so unimaginably overwhelmed.
Not about how to take care of a baby-I could learn that easily.
But knowing that I had a completely innocent being, and that it was my responsibility to help that child become the most she could be. To lead that child and her sister into womanhood has been an incredible journey.
So the pain of birthing is nothing in comparison to the knowing that you had a hand in the development of such caring, contributing adults.
For me the pain was truly worth it, when my daughter called me cring, saying she didn't know how to be a mother, that she only had me to compare herself to and that I was such an incredible, wonderful person she just couldn't do it as well. I was crying like a baby by the time she was done with her little boo hoo moment. What better compliment can a mother get from an adult child.
IT MADE EVERY PAIN SOOOOOO WORTH IT.
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