| 10/9/2008 5:15:51 PM |
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hrh_queen_b
Cleveland, OH
age: 32
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what's worse, a woman being with a man solely for his money, or a man being with a woman solely for her appearance? guys, could you love and stay with a woman that you knew was only with you for money? what if you already loved her deeply when you discovered this? would it matter? what about the ladies, girls could you be with and stay with a guy who was only there because you're beautiful? for those who would stay, do you think it would last?
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| 10/9/2008 5:34:51 PM |
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tallbevfrompa
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 49
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I don't think one or the other is worse. Both situations are disgusting.
It's hard to answer from a "beautiful" woman's perspective since I'm not but....
I don't think I would be with a guy that was with me for ANY superficial reason.
It's sad to say but I think some girls might stay--especially if he was heavy on the cash.
Some girls put up with a heck of a lot of crap and disrespect for money. I'm not one of them.
Financial security is one thing--being bought is another.
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| 10/9/2008 5:49:59 PM |
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up_for_anything
Richardson, TX
age: 33
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A relationship based solely on anything is doomed, imo
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| 10/9/2008 9:34:48 PM |
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rlds
Ogden, UT
age: 49
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Being with someone should always be without any questionable motives........otherwise truth will surface sooner than you think!  R
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| 10/9/2008 9:38:12 PM |
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sunfreak
Harwich, MA
age: 37
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Yes. When you really love someone, there is no motive, no reason, no incentive...
You just do.
somtimes, you don't even WANT to...lol....you just do - you love them.
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| 10/9/2008 9:44:12 PM |
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bry11ca
Canton, MI
age: 43
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Bry sighs sadly.
I have been with beautiful women and I have had much money . . . sometimes.
How about this . . . I want a woman who puts this epitaph on my grave . . . Thank you, God, For This Man. And I would feel the same.
Bry 
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| 10/9/2008 10:30:03 PM |
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krathnami
Olympia, WA
age: 28
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The basis of a basis is baseless.
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| 10/9/2008 10:39:56 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51 online now!
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well in my opinion if anyone is with another purely for motivational reasons then thats bad from the very start... I could only stay with a man who truly loves me and shows me his love...He has to love me for myself who I am ,I think so many people get involved for the wrong reasons hence thats why so many relationships fall apart... 
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| 10/9/2008 10:44:15 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
age: 36
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First of all, if a woman were just after me for my cash, I would spot her well in advance of getting in too deep with her but for sake of fun lets say she was and I didn't find out for years... She would end up in a river.
And not on a boat either.
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| 10/9/2008 10:46:49 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 36
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Well I'm not beautiful looking, and I never married a rich man.
Not my problem. Sounds like they belong together.
Really can someone so shallow so empty be measured in bad, badder, worst?
Nothing from nothing is still 0
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| 10/9/2008 11:25:08 PM |
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sunfreak
Harwich, MA
age: 37
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beauty fades over time.
today, money in wall street is no sure bet.
Love endures all. Never thinking twice.
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| 10/9/2008 11:46:55 PM |
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monty_python
Bridgeport, CT
age: 54
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what's worse, a woman being with a man solely for his money, or a man being with a woman solely for her appearance? guys, could you love and stay with a woman that you knew was only with you for money? what if you already loved her deeply when you discovered this? would it matter? what about the ladies, girls could you be with and stay with a guy who was only there because you're beautiful? for those who would stay, do you think it would last?
What is the point of even trying to make this comparison?
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| 10/10/2008 7:58:38 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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When I divorced my second (last) husband, his separate checking account had over $200,000 in it from an inheritance he received 2 years earlier. Originally, he had received over $700,000 and he spent it like a crazy person on things HE wanted. Well, now he has his "things" and their upkeep every month is killing him financially. But he no longer has me, the person who loved him unconditionally and was always on his side. I am guessing he has another woman now who will enjoy him the first few years, then find out who he really is and be confused like I was. I never married for money and never will. But you can date me because I am eye candy - LOLOLOL
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| 10/10/2008 8:37:33 AM |
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orangeburst
Laguna Beach, CA
age: 61 online now!
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if you are in a relationship for money they will make you earn it.
if you are in a relationship for looks, it is not love, which is blind. and very often deaf and dumb.
by dumb i mean it cannot not speak. to try would be futile. others far more gifted and eloquent have all failed. because the language of love is not in words, as my words and those of others here happily prove.
then again, if you do the right thing for the wrong reason are you still wrong? John Milton said yes. But he was blind.
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| 10/10/2008 9:17:54 AM |
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stpeteaccountan
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 38
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Both are equally as bad. Anytime you are with someone for reasons other than the feelings you have for each other, it is wrong. You have to be happy with yourself then find someone who can be happy with you. Not keep looking for someone to make you happy and money and looks can fade away.
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