| 10/12/2008 4:48:31 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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It doesn't sound like the OP is looking for anyone to compete over her, just that she has met these guys and likes these guys and doesn't know how to proceed.
OP, dating is about meeting people and exploring your feelings. I would say go out with them both and see if you feel a real connection with either of them. You may find you don't click with either.
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| 10/12/2008 5:03:38 PM |
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shylywilling
Medford, OR
age: 47
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Good Post KK.
"Before you decide not to date others, it would probably be a good idea to have a few discussions about what both of you are looking for in a relationship. If you were to choose one after only ONE date, what if after two or three dates you find you are not compatible? Is it worth throwing away a perfectly good guy for no reason?"
I prefer to work on one romantic relationship at a time. I see nothing wrong with people that can sucessfully multi task romance though.
For me, I would dismiss the initial oops of having two dates scheduled. But to be true to myself I would have to make a decision and carry it out before a repeat date.
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| 10/12/2008 5:07:48 PM |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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Don't sweat it, I'm pretty sure you're not the only girl either of them is dating. So ask yourself, how does that shoe feel?
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| 10/12/2008 6:12:23 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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im sure they are doing the same, since u r all digging holes, i bet it will be a good experience when u meet at the bottom
[Edited 10/12/2008 6:29:57 PM]
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| 10/12/2008 6:27:39 PM |
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singlemegan29
Lovelock, NV
age: 20
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While playing the field is nice, you would do much better just focusing your time on one guy...that way you could see if you actually like them rather then feeling your head with thoughts of both of them. You will think neither of them no, but some how in a slip up or some sort, they will be brought up and if they find out...you will be left with neither of them...you'll have nobody and that's not fun...I would say just try one out and see if he works, if not then the other one might do! good luck
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| 10/12/2008 7:44:16 PM |
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mrlepew67
Battle Creek, MI
age: 41
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iF U HAVONLY SEEN BOTH FEW TIMES,DONT U THINK SHOULD GIVE BOTH MORE TIME TO GET TO KNOW EACH ONE BETTER,IT WOULD MAKE DECICION MUCH EASIER,DONT WANT TOPICK WRONG ONE FOR WRONG REASONS
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| 10/12/2008 7:54:50 PM |
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justgg07
Phoenix, AZ
age: 39
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If you met them on a dating site chances are that they are dating, as in seeing other people. There is nothing wrong with you dating also. Make your decision when you (and they) feel you are ready. No pressure.
Good luck!
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| 10/12/2008 10:54:34 PM |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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once again... you are under no obligation to anyone in the dating world,, unless
after a period of time. 3 months? that you and he sits down and talks about having a monogamous relationship. but until then, date 100 guys if you can remember all there names.
your young, enjoy it!
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| 10/13/2008 5:45:06 AM |
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shygirl2004
Dickson, TN
age: 23 online now!
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Thanks for everyone for their advice. It really helped me out.
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| 10/13/2008 12:37:02 PM |
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nickmedic
Wakefield, KS
age: 36
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Slow down Kim and don't meet anyone you just met on the internet. Get to know one another first and don't rush it. If it happens it happens.
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| 10/13/2008 12:44:22 PM |
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jimmyroma
Westfield, NJ
age: 37
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Date them both till it blows up in your face than the one that comes around again likes you best.
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| 10/13/2008 12:48:57 PM |
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bekki08
Ridgeland, MS
age: 39
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Dating is just that..dating. You are getting to know each other. Until you have mutually agreed to be in an exclusive relationship there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. Just be upfront about your intentions and don't mislead anyone into thinking that there is no one else. As another poster mentioned..Once you sleep with one or the other then that does change things however.
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| 10/13/2008 12:50:08 PM |
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dakoske
Whitehall, MI
age: 29 online now!
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MUST be FRIGGIN NICE IS all I gotta SAY!
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| 10/13/2008 12:51:19 PM |
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notagain61
Elm Creek, NE
age: 47
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Damn, I must really be out of touch! I am one of those simple-minded folks that takes things one at a time. The grass may be greener on the other side approach kind of makes me want to hurl. JMO
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