10/7/2007 6:08:57 PM |
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superscreenname
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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Sorry tru, we took your subject and ran with it this morning.
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10/7/2007 6:19:18 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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No problem super. I enjoy coming back and checking out the threads i've started.
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10/7/2007 6:23:17 PM |
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agent05949
Greenville, MI
age: 57
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Man, I hope its not being misunderstood ??
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10/7/2007 6:27:45 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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what being misundertood agent?
It's the easiest thing in the world to get your hopes up as you chat,email and talk on the phone. Disappointment is part of the leap. It is a risk to meet someone through this kind of avenue.. but we encounter risks every single day. How sad it would be to perhaps pass by the best thing that could ever happen to you because of fear of risk. The hurt can be brutal when one feels the connection and the other doesn't... but... I think one can live with that alot easier than to live with the nagging " what ifs" down the road.
jmo Trish
[Edited 10/7/2007 6:40:36 PM]
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10/7/2007 7:19:59 PM |
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tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 36
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tru the question is this did the person learn any thing from this that is positive so they can move forward and not let them slow this person down. i think i'm allmost possative they did besides that they have support here from me if they need it.
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10/7/2007 7:23:44 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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I think such a meeting would be totally worthless if one did not bring something back of value ( lesson learned) from the meeting. I, myself, have added to my " search for The one" manual some valuable footnotes that I have learned from the past of meetings. To me.. that only makes my future and search even brighter
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10/7/2007 7:27:06 PM |
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tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 36
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i had a feeling that was the case just being a friend
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10/7/2007 7:31:24 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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I think we all have had such meetings. It's not the end of the world if 2 people do not connect.. although.. for some, it can certainly feel that way and I am in no way making light of that. If finding what we are seeking was made easy, none of us would have a reason to be on these sites.
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10/7/2007 7:38:06 PM |
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tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 36
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sorry if you thought i was trying to make light of the situation that wasn't my purpose i would not do that when a person is still feeling the affects of something like that because you have gotten further than i did i got shut down on the first phone call and i felt robbed of what could of ben so please don't think of me in that way.
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10/7/2007 7:45:40 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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no tj I wasn't referring to you as taking it lightly. That was in general. Ya a pretty cool dude.
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10/7/2007 7:48:27 PM |
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tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 36
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tru ty i need all the friends i can get
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10/7/2007 7:53:27 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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lol ya welcome tj.. you got a friend in me. Time to hit the sheets in a few moments. Don't cha just hate work?! Have a good evening......... Trish
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10/7/2007 7:54:13 PM |
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 55
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I gave up on this working long ago.... too many variables, too little feedback... 
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10/7/2007 7:56:44 PM |
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tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 36
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nite tru terry
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