10/6/2007 8:47:01 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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It happens to any of us who takes the big step to go meet someone from online. Sooner or later.. many of us will find THE one for us.. but until than, we must be bold enough to take that leap of faith and see what becomes of the meeting. The bad side to this is getting your hopes up after connecting so well online, meet, and just do not find that same connection in person. Of course, if both parties do not feel the connection, it's so much easier to walk away from it.... but it saddens me when one of the 2 has very strong feelings.... and my heart goes out to them. Sometimes, it can get frustrating to keep looking and that's understandable. But.. really... are there any on here that has TRULY given up in their search? I doubt it.. for dreams are what keeps the hope alive.. and the hope keeps our faith alive. I'm here to tell you that finding love from online is possible. It happened to me once so I know it can! Don't anyone give up that hope! Otherwise, I may hafta come and kick your butt
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10/6/2007 8:49:06 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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Ooooooo some ass kicking eh??? 
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10/6/2007 8:51:11 PM |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 53
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Please don't kick me tru! I promise to be good and not get my rear kicked!
Sorry it didn't work out.
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10/6/2007 8:53:29 PM |
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cutencuddls
Hopewell, VA
age: 38
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10/6/2007 8:54:06 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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I still treasure the connections that I have online.. even tho I have met them and the " click" just wasn't there. I think.. sometimes.. clicking online is good for us. It reminds us of what can really be and lets many of us know that we can definitely feels those things again.
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10/6/2007 8:56:24 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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I wont come there Paula as long as I don't hear you say you are giving up! It's ok. I went to this meeting with both eyes opened and my heart at enough of a distance to avoid getting crushed. Hasn't made me not want what I'm searching for any less!
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10/6/2007 9:35:23 PM |
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nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47
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Happened to me last night. It hurts. Partly the disappointment, partly the rejection--because no, we didn't both feel the same way.
Glad to see you handling it well. Hang in there, Tru.
Peace and Love,
Fritz
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10/6/2007 9:52:53 PM |
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defiantlyltr
Stroudsburg, PA
age: 46
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I've just about given up hope!
And NO I don't want my ass kicked!!
Just that there doesn't seem to be any REAL men out there, near me, that want a 45yo with an 11yo kid who doesn't want a playmate!! Plus most men are all about the chase and release!! They don't really want anything to do with commitment and feelings and sharing. They just want fun and games!
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10/6/2007 9:53:42 PM |
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dragonflys
Saint James, MO
age: 46
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Yeah, I'm not giving up. I haven't had that spark in a long time, and it feels so great to care about someone....I do miss somethings. But then there are other things I don't miss at all I guess thats the same in every relationship, gotta take the good with the bad. 
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10/6/2007 9:55:35 PM |
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defiantlyltr
Stroudsburg, PA
age: 46
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Wish I could change places with you dragon!!!
I had me ..... never mind!
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10/6/2007 10:05:02 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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Def, I totally disagree with you. I am 51 and I want that total commentment, sharing and caring. I don't want the games. I want the real thing and if she has a child, hey that's ok too. I would not try to take the dad's place, but I would be a dad to that child.
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10/6/2007 10:10:53 PM |
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dragonflys
Saint James, MO
age: 46
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Hm defiantly.....bad experience? Alway here if ya need to vent.....big shoulders and ears to match....
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10/7/2007 3:55:57 AM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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fritz... It's not to say that it is not disappointing and hurtful. I am just saying that we should not give up or become so totally frustrated that we give up our search. And oh yeah.. are times I just wanna say f*** it and become a hermit. I've already done that for the past 16 years.. It was a choice in the begining.. but no longer something I want to do
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10/7/2007 4:57:20 AM |
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steak_king
Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 50
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Type "A's" don't give up, wrong thread 
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10/7/2007 4:58:57 AM |
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nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 58
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Many times people do not connect for one reason or the other...perhaps it
is meant to be...our sadness can make us want to give up...but we need
to rise above our feeling of being a victim...We have the power over ourselves,
over our perception of what happens to us. We Choose our own experiences.
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