| 10/7/2007 6:06:20 AM |
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cutencuddls
Hopewell, VA
age: 38
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Actually for me, it worked the other way around. Scenerio 2 was actually what I had once upon a time felt "pressured" into, before I chose to stick with scenario 1. I did state that in scenario 2 "you choose to ignore your own morals". But, either way..... more often than not, the women feel insecure to begin with. Women tend to feel "lonely" a lot easier. Plus, the natural maternal instinct to love and care for someone tends to play a roll in the dating world as well, because we feel "incomplete" if we aren't caring for and nurturing someone (in general... not ALL women). So, now we are trying to please a man we felt a connection with. No matter what we do, we lose. That was the point. Except for those rare connections, it is a lose lose situation for us.
Obviously, I have no idea what it is like on the other end since I am not, nor have ever been a guy. But, I have seen what they "do" to women... as well as experienced it.
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| 10/7/2007 6:08:47 AM |
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superscreenname
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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Sorry to see that you are having to deal with such dirtbags.
Oh, by the way, I have never been married steak. Thanks for the encouragement.
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| 10/7/2007 6:10:10 AM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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I agree Cute stay with what you feel is right. Sex is ok BUT making love is 100 times better and that is what I want.
Casual sex sucks because there is no real true feeling to it. It's just a quik release and doesn't mean anything. I need and want something that will build and be forever.
And woman have it bad, always have. If a guy goes out and beds different girls he's a stud. But if a girl goes out and beds different guys, she's a slut or too easy. That is so wrong. It should be wrong for both parties. Making love is a gift from God and should be taken as such. JMO
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| 10/7/2007 6:11:17 AM |
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cutencuddls
Hopewell, VA
age: 38
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Unfortunately for us super... there are few of you out there for us available women. Good to see there ARE still good guys willing to hold off on the sexual relationship.  As far as this whole post goes.... each person is an individual and decide what is needed and what is not on an individual basis. As Guardian65 said to me on the phone last night after I told him about this post..... "Guess we will just have to show them how this meeting in person thing is done" LOL
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| 10/7/2007 6:16:31 AM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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Cute it can happen. I feel bad for the ones that don't work out, but they just haven't found the right person yet. But when it does happen it's going to be wonderful. You must have faith and hope. I wish you 2 all the best
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| 10/7/2007 6:41:16 AM |
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jewelie74
Waukesha, WI
age: 33
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I just had my first online "in real life" meeting this past week. We had only been talking online and via phone for about two weeks. I know that physical attraction is not everything but I also knew in the back of my head that you have to be somewhat attracted to the person. There were a few things that were kinda telling me it would be a no-go, but I figured, maybe in person something will spark.
Well, upon meeting him the attraction wasn't there and our conversation during our meal just didn't go as well as hoped. I am still glad I went and gave it a shot though. It was only my first meeting with someone online and it certainly will not be the last! 
If anything I now have my first official date behind me since the divorce.
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| 10/7/2007 6:44:57 AM |
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steak_king
Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 50
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Yup, can't go swimming if ya don't wanna get wet.
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| 10/7/2007 6:45:42 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50 online now!
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jewel...you are now an official member of the cyber dating world...
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| 10/7/2007 10:04:15 AM |
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53lady
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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I had a "meeting" with someone awhile back. Due to statements by me, and a misunderstanding of them, we've gone our separate ways in that sense, but are still friends, and will still meet for a c*cktail from time to time. But that's just us. We liked each others company too well not to at least be friends. He's very funny and we have a meeting of the minds.
Oh...he says I am a fun person to be around and make him laugh as well....sooooo, just in case anyone is interested! Heheheheheheheh!!!!!
Cute, I wish you two the best also!
Heck, I wish EVERYONE ON HERE the VERY best!!
"Never say die" is my attitude!!!
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| 10/7/2007 10:33:08 AM |
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
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10 years ago we never had this. Sometimes you can learn more from a perdon online then anywhere else. It neats the bars or anywhere else for that matter. My only concern is please be respectful and truthful to everyone
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| 10/7/2007 1:21:58 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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I think most people can tell pretty quick at the first meeting as to if there is a click worth going forward with. We are NOT talking about a relationship that has gone sour. We are speaking of talking on here, on the phone, in emails and than meeting for the first time. It would be no different than going on a blind date. You may speak on the phone.. share a pic with the other via a friend.. and then meet. It either turns out to be a good first date or a second date will not happen. I know that I will find that same " OMG, this is so awesome" feeling with someone in person as I may feel on here from time to time. And I will NOT settle for just that feeling on here. I want it all
And WHOAAAAAA lol I never said a thing about the sex! That doesn't even enter into this subject. If sex was all I was seeking, I can get that anytime right here. The connection is a hell of alot deeper than sex.
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| 10/7/2007 1:26:39 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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You are right erotic.. or at least I agree with ya. The net is an awesome tool to find what you are searching for. We must remember to not put the heart right out there until we are certain of our choices.
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| 10/7/2007 5:17:03 PM |
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scndlman
Lexington, KY
age: 34
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Tru ,,,welcome back
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| 10/7/2007 5:22:51 PM |
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tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 36
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sorry to hear that true sometimes things are out of our controll for a better reason. wich we may not understand at the time but when whoever it maybe looks back will see it and laugh about it when the ringt one comes along. oh yeah flop here too.
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| 10/7/2007 5:56:17 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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I agree with ya tj and thanks randall
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