10/8/2007 1:48:04 PM |
Who ever files for DIVORCE (first) should be DENIED ALIMONY>? |
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gawd

Appleton, WI
age: 54
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The laws definately need to change..I feel so bad for some men that get taken to the cleaners.
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10/8/2007 1:48:13 PM |
Who ever files for DIVORCE (first) should be DENIED ALIMONY>? |
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waytogo51

Farmington, AR
age: 52
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Yes, SHAME on you [blocked site]!!!
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10/8/2007 1:49:27 PM |
Who ever files for DIVORCE (first) should be DENIED ALIMONY>? |
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trublu5ft2

Owensboro, KY
age: 52
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lol Way... yeah.. I just don't know what got into me
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10/8/2007 1:52:07 PM |
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steak_king

Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 51
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My ex told me she wanted one but wouldn't file. Well, after some time of the cold shoulder shit and knowing you're not wanted I did. So I shouldn't get anything? This is just wrong people!
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10/8/2007 1:55:24 PM |
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trublu5ft2

Owensboro, KY
age: 52
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As I stated, the laws work for the women in divorce cases. I know some guy.. who right after getting a raise.. must give up that raise to the ex. It's no wonder marriage is becoming obsolete and that is sad.
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10/8/2007 1:57:11 PM |
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sunnyday7

Longview, WA
age: 61
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STEAK...... A good family law atty....... will advise you to work it out in the MANDATORY SETTLEMENT AGREEMENT..... both of you might have to give alittle...
BAD LAW EXAMPLES...... BOTH SPOUSES....WITH SAME INCOME..... THE COURTS ARE STUMPED !
they c/not order both to pay........ someone gets to go to the cleaners... 
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10/8/2007 1:57:49 PM |
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steak_king

Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 51
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Yea, it does give you a taste of the bitter pill, like chewin an aspirin
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10/8/2007 1:59:46 PM |
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steak_king

Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 51
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Sunny, I'm just saying what was I supposed to do. It was clear she didn't want me. Hang around and be miserable? I think not.
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10/8/2007 2:03:10 PM |
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gawd

Appleton, WI
age: 54
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Steak I feel so bad for you..I was wrong in my statement..I have just seen too many greedy women..
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10/8/2007 2:04:30 PM |
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waytogo51

Farmington, AR
age: 52
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Steak I would have done the same thing. Still sucks and not fair to you.
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10/8/2007 2:06:55 PM |
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chinatown_girl

Oyster Bay, NY
age: 20
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allinthedo that was what i was gonna say.
i think it depends on the situation. steak king or people in that situation would get a raw deal as well as a spouse who was being cheated on or abused, and would lose out for leaving a bad situation.
is there really that much alimony given when both spouses work?
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10/8/2007 2:07:10 PM |
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sunnyday7

Longview, WA
age: 61
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steak.......i take a half aspirin so i do not get a stroke....from my divorce a year ago......its good for you steak.....
sometimes....you have to roll the dice.... ....... good honest lawyers....have a better role......
or split....and move to a non-community property state...there are 41....but there is a residency requirement in most.....
or just......PRAY
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10/8/2007 2:07:32 PM |
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trublu5ft2

Owensboro, KY
age: 52
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It does suck! I know women who laugh all the way to the damn bank! It makes no sense for the guy to have to do all the suffering while the woman sits on her a** for the next 2-5 years getting alimony.
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10/8/2007 2:07:41 PM |
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steak_king

Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 51
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That sure wasn't the girl I married, her I miss. The new one sux ass
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10/8/2007 2:12:19 PM |
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steak_king

Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 51
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No alimony [blocked site], I sent her to school, supported her in job changes and so on. Had child support, but that money don't mean shit to all the time I lost when my daughter was 14 (boys are older). Can't buy that back, but no sense in subjecting them to stupid a** arguments after she went to the bar with (Friends?)
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