| 10/8/2007 5:53:55 PM |
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waytogo51
Farmington, AR
age: 52
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[blocked site], that's how my ex and I did it. Well kinda. used her lawyer. Went easy and over and done and single in a month.
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| 10/8/2007 5:55:01 PM |
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sailor_nc
Norfolk, VA
age: 41
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kirota2 I did not get a bad deal with my first wife, it was my last wife I got burned bad, no one is a peach to live with all the time. But this is no excuse to commit gross/lude acts, and then request payment for them. With my first we have a very good relationship and she is the mother of my kids, I never minded paying a dime to her even when they lived with me. I cannot say either of my wives sacrificed anything material because neither had anything and both already had educations and choose not to work because I made enough to support the family. The thing that blows my mind is I think all should have jobs and neither even work single. This is the paradox we live in, some women (not all) want to be payed as equals and treated as women, but quite a few screw this up for many men. I know I was a Navy psychiatrist and psychologist 22 years and had a huge amount of these types comming to see me weekly.
I cannot help my last wife was a closet nymphomaniac, and I speak for all in saying even with my best schooling and experiance, I could not see this comming. So you have to have think about it "is this why:? "to get into realtionships is called a risk"?
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| 10/8/2007 5:56:20 PM |
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kirota2
Webster City, IA
age: 36
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Steak, I am not saying that you didn't do work. Like I said not all situations are the same. I left my marriage with no guilt or regrets. I left with less than what I came in with after trying for a year to make it work when I wasn't happy. I took care of kids 6days a wk totally by myself so I know that some women do a lot of work that men don't think is. All I was saying is that you can't lump all women or situations into one lump.
Steak, it is unfortunate that this happen to you. I wish you the best of luck.
Kirota
BTW, Steak and any other man on this thread.....I don't think any nor did I insinuate that any of you were a**holes. I wasn't even talking to you when I posted that, but if you want to assume and be pissed off feel free. I am not going to stop you.
[Edited 10/8/2007 6:00:31 PM PST]
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| 10/8/2007 5:56:35 PM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 61
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USING the same atty....... like me look > .....that is dangerous and cannot be done in some states.....
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| 10/8/2007 5:57:15 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Owensboro, KY
age: 52
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Steak..If I thought ya was an a**hole, I wudn't have anything to say to ya. Calm down and breatheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Way.. I guess it just depends on how much ya wanna fight and what you are fighting over. He just didn't have anything I wanted to fight for
Well.. the same lawyer for us worked for us both. I wasn't angry or a bitter woman at the divorce. I'm the one who walked out. I think we both had the same idea but.. with him caring too much what others thought.. it was best that I look like the b*tch and walk away.
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| 10/8/2007 5:58:13 PM |
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happy4evr
Picayune, MS
age: 47
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You know after years of mental, emotional, and other kinds of abuse I decided to go back to college. Got a BA in HIstory, and then walked away, got a divorce without a penny from him. Before that I was a stay at home Mom and wife but I had enough foresight to do something about earning a living. Every situation is different with different people. All he has to pay is child support for the youngest. I am happier now than I have ever been. He did not help me with college. He, of course, did not want me to go. I worked two part time jobs and the government has several programs to help displaced homemakers get through college. If I can do it anyone can.
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| 10/8/2007 5:58:38 PM |
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steak_king
Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 51
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And while I'm at it, when I was off from my back being broken, I got the kids off to school, breakfast and all. Then I cleaned the house. Was done by 9:30, worked out, watched History Channel, started dinner around 3, kids came home at 4. Yeah, I had it rough, would do that any frickin day instead of working.
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| 10/8/2007 5:59:43 PM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 61
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steak and [blocked site]...... we all have our opinion......just respect theirs..... otherwise you will be thrown out of this COURT....ON CONTEMP.....>>>>THE JUDGE>>>
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| 10/8/2007 6:01:14 PM |
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waytogo51
Farmington, AR
age: 52
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[blocked site], I didn't leave with a lot. I let her have the house. For the most part it went pretty smooth.
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| 10/8/2007 6:01:49 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Owensboro, KY
age: 52
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sooooooooooooo.. steak.. are ya sure you are wanting a LT relationship? lol I mean.. ya sounds pretty bitter.. and don't get me wrong.. ya have the right to feel that way! I'm just wondering if you can put that behind you far enough to not judge the next woman
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| 10/8/2007 6:03:00 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Owensboro, KY
age: 52
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respect whose opinions sunny? I didn't say anything against anyone! I'm innocent I'm telling ya!
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| 10/8/2007 6:04:10 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Owensboro, KY
age: 52
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Way.. mine went fine too. Of course, he spent the next 3 months coming over and crying in front of the boys to get them to feel for him.. but they knew the score.
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| 10/8/2007 6:04:50 PM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 61
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EVERYMAN.....needs to walk on  before he can walk on his 2's.....after a divorce...... i suppose women do it there way......
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| 10/8/2007 6:05:57 PM |
Who ever files for DIVORCE (first) should be DENIED ALIMONY>? |
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waytogo51
Farmington, AR
age: 52
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Wow [blocked site] sounded like you had a dandy there.
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| 10/8/2007 6:06:12 PM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 61
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typo......walk on their 4's first....
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