| 10/8/2007 1:53:37 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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The threads about alimony is quite interesting. How do you feel about a prenup agreement?
Would it hurt your feelings to have your mate-to-be ask for one?
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| 10/8/2007 1:55:11 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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I would not have a problem signing one for it's not the material things I want.
[Edited 10/8/2007 1:59:03 PM]
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| 10/8/2007 1:57:55 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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True Way... but some argue that it's like saying there will be a divorce before there is even a wedding. I could care less myself. I understand how important such a contract can be to a person and signing one would not bother me in the least.
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| 10/8/2007 2:01:13 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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Tru there should not be a reason to sign one , but for me if a woman is better off with money and things than I am, I would sign it to let her know that it is her love that I want.
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| 10/8/2007 2:03:54 PM |
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osipsc
Chicago, IL
age: 53
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Necessary. Situations change, people change. Pre-nups set some boundaries and can really be helpful in defining what's important to each person. I've used one and wouldn't be offended if I was asked to sign one - negotiated between the two.
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| 10/8/2007 2:04:58 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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I agree that it is rather unsettling to think that the love of my life would ask me to sign a contract. But it seems to be the thing to do these days. If I wanted material things, I woulda stayed married or at least taken him to the cleaners in the divorce.. which everyone tried to talk me into. I had no reason nor desire to do that.
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| 10/8/2007 2:07:28 PM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
age: 59
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It's one of them things that fit some peaple and some not.
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| 10/8/2007 2:07:33 PM |
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knoxsouthy
Knoxville, TN
age: 32
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They are a necessary evil for anyone who has attained any assets. Trust me it's better to have one and not need it than to find out 6 months into a marriage and realize you're going to lose half because you were in "love" when you got married. I've seen it first hand before and it's not pretty.
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| 10/8/2007 2:09:54 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Knox.. I agree.. I swear that I do lol It just... I dunno.. seems so business like. I know it can be a very good thing.. but I just have very raw feelings about it. I have seen greed to so much damage.. so I understand covering your ASSets.
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| 10/8/2007 2:10:53 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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Sad to say but I guess it is something to have.
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| 10/8/2007 2:15:20 PM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
age: 59
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In my state what you have before your married is yours, and everything gained affter marrage is 50-50 or sopose to be. So I don't think hear one is very important.
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| 10/8/2007 2:16:46 PM |
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 18
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i wouldn't sign one, it would just feel too much like they didnt trust me. and if we don't trust each other before the marriage it would only be downhill from there.
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| 10/8/2007 2:17:12 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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And Star I believe that would be only fair.
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| 10/8/2007 2:18:59 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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50-50 with all that was attained during marriage is fair.
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| 10/8/2007 2:25:17 PM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
age: 59
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I think so, mine went that way though the other side just keept filling papers so it still took years and a foutune but she did not see it just the laywers!!
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