| 1/3/2009 2:17:32 PM |
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dlonepony
Monroe, IN
age: 54
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Hand, belt, flogger, crop,.... all have different textures & feelings to them~
Again, everyone is different... different doesn't mean "wrong". 
AGREE....and soooooo much fun too....
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| 1/3/2009 2:36:46 PM |
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junkyardhack
Ocala, FL
age: 41
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No
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| 1/3/2009 2:45:07 PM |
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flames_
Newark, NJ
age: 26
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Well I got a solution...Tell him u have the same fetish n take a belt n whip his a** n see how much he likes it...Tell him its ur thang too..Hopefully he wont like dat
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| 1/3/2009 7:22:38 PM |
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swangerlonger
Wharton, TX
age: 28
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HELL NAWL
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| 1/3/2009 10:33:18 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 42
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it should be mandatory
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| 1/3/2009 10:39:15 PM |
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jater34
Springfield, IL
age: 36
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It depends on if that what the women likes.lets get freaky.
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| 1/3/2009 10:51:28 PM |
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potpie71
Gig Harbor, WA
age: 39
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it should be mandatory
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| 1/4/2009 5:51:49 AM |
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friendseeker234
Clifton Park, NY
age: 39
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ONLy if your using a tennis racket whhhoooo
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| 1/4/2009 6:03:53 AM |
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equegirl
Torrington, CT
age: 36
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Run!!!!  
Dude has a fetish and it drives his sexual interest...it will not work (pun intended) if your not into it! Good luck!
I have to agree with this.
A little spanking can be fun (actually pretty enjoyable )
but to actually lose an erection with out it?!? Yes! run away 
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| 1/10/2009 3:04:19 PM |
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doreen1111
Brenham, TX
age: 46
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People make reference to it ... I don't think it's cute at all ... I think it's demeaning! 
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| 1/10/2009 3:29:58 PM |
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scottiscool
Mayville, WI
age: 51
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I just watched a program on TV. They stated spanking sends stimulation straight to the Genitals. There is something to it. May not be for everyone. I would not call it Demeaning, If A lady wants it for fun. I would never say no.!!
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| 1/10/2009 3:36:37 PM |
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lnlass
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 53
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Doesn't everyone enjoy giving or receiving a smack on the bum every now and again, especially during the deed. How is this EVEN a question?
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| 1/10/2009 5:45:25 PM |
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jaymem
Edinboro, PA
age: 22
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i think that the belt would be a great addition for someone like me who likes to be smaked but if thats not you then run away fasat cuz the sex will just keep getting worse
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| 1/10/2009 8:32:12 PM |
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ledrock
Preston, ID
age: 48
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A little slap on the a** is nice
abuse 
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| 1/10/2009 8:42:53 PM |
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trainwreck22
Newark, DE
age: 25
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A little slap on the a** is nice
abuse
I agree.. a little tap is fun but I am not into making a girl submit uner pain.... not cool at all.
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| 1/10/2009 11:30:56 PM |
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papichulo4ever
Houston, TX
age: 41 online now!
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normal?
depends who you ask.
i like to give and recieve spankings when the mood hits.
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| 1/11/2009 2:12:23 AM |
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nycoast
North Yorkshire
United Kingdom
age: 54
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Never tried it myself, but I know there is a fine line between pleasure and pain!
I suppose I would agree with the chap above who mentioned a little slap on the bum during love making, only if your partner agrees.
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| 1/11/2009 2:15:31 AM |
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nycoast
North Yorkshire
United Kingdom
age: 54
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A little slap on the a** is nice
abuse
I would agree with you a little playful slap on the bum cheek. I think some people take things beyond the norm to satisfy their lower cravings.
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| 1/11/2009 8:05:55 AM |
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blkbagger
McHenry, IL
age: 49
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Harder... NO, HARDER!!!
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| 1/12/2009 6:08:50 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 44
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Spanking is normal and highly encouraged. 
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| 1/12/2009 6:43:58 AM |
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bryan2207
Brandon, MS
age: 22
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depends
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| 1/12/2009 6:49:26 AM |
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deltadann
Peachtree City, GA
age: 51
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LOL! walk to the nearest exit? you should run! there are too many of us gentle men left to settle for such disrespect. men who spank usually are paying back what they got as kids and maybe teens. real men pay forward.
dann
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| 1/12/2009 10:18:52 AM |
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3waybliss
Hopkins, MN
age: 54
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Yes, you need to leave.
I like giving spankings, but have only done it to women who are turned on by it.
I should ALWAYS be up to the one who is to receive the spankings.
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| 1/12/2009 10:37:49 AM |
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shani09
Bronx, NY
age: 25
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lol this is kind of funny
dude has a serious fetish .....i don kno wat to say about that ...maybe its normally for him...is he european?
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| 1/12/2009 2:32:31 PM |
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alive_n_kickin
Boise, ID
age: 55
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Nope not normal. I'm with most of the rest on this issue. Don't do something that you are not comfortable with. I hope you get out of that relationship before he hurts you.
JMO.
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| 1/12/2009 5:31:46 PM |
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mcdennis
San Jose, CA
age: 24
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Sounds like he finds it pleasurable to inflict pain on women. I would run and find a safe house
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| 1/12/2009 6:31:51 PM |
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loverover
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 49
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It's normal only if you like it. I do it sometimes, but only with my hands, anything else is too freaky. The best way to know what your partner likes or dislikes is to ask first. Try discussing the activities you and your partner would like to engage in during sex. It's a great turn on and also acts as part of the foreplay.
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| 1/12/2009 10:38:21 PM |
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76chances
Baker, LA
age: 47
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It's normal only if you like it. I do it sometimes, but only with my hands, anything else is too freaky. The best way to know what your partner likes or dislikes is to ask first. Try discussing the activities you and your partner would like to engage in during sex. It's a great turn on and also acts as part of the foreplay.
Beating each other up is NOT normal..
It's 
You hit me I will hit back. You hurt me you're dead...
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| 1/12/2009 10:59:07 PM |
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luvlybrwneyes
Miami, FL
age: 26
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i give you credit for trying an obviously it didn't work for you...it's not for everyone. but hey if he can't respect that about you he can go elsewhere of course. i wouldn't pursue it if i were you though
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| 1/12/2009 11:19:37 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 63
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Normal is a tough thing to describe---what you want to know is--IS IT ACCEPTABLE TO YOU?? You may not like it--but another woman may love it--whatever two people do is between them and has to be acceptable behavior--not forced--not uncomfortable--not allowed for fear. The whole act sounds like it wasn't fun for you--but it was "great fun" for him. Any infliction of pain or dominance is a "control act"--the man may not actually spend his normal daylight hours as a dominating person--but in the bedroom he is ACTING OUT and being someone in a fantasy. No one knows why he enjoys spanking---he may have been spanked as a child and enjoyed it. Maybe it was his spankings as a child that he felt was LOVE from his mom. Maybe the dominance from his dad-- maybe dad ruled with an iron hand and this man now wishes he could do it also--even though he knows it is wrong. He is imagining "something" while he is slapping you---you probably do not exist when he is acting out--you are just a butt--any butt---you or anyone else could fill that bill. Will it get worse?? maybe--maybe he will take it further because you accept it and he thinks you like it. If you don't like it--then stay away from him. better hope he doesn't think he's Hitler or someone who enjoyed the infliction of pain. Torture is a real turn on for some people. Some criminal cases involved people who loved to inflict serious pain and went to great lengths to find partners to inflict this pain on. AND SOME LOVE THE PAIN, also. If you didn't like it--then stay away--no explanation necessary. Jeffery Dahmer did little pain things--then seriously walloped and then killed his partners--sudden brutality---then ate the body parts. He started by killing small animals as a kid. Just a warning about spankers.
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| 1/12/2009 11:22:00 PM |
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young_marley
Milledgeville, GA
age: 24
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I would Say Yes But Some Might Say No
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| 1/12/2009 11:25:14 PM |
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travlnmike
San Jose, CA
age: 34
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Spanking NO, Slappin a** YES
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| 1/12/2009 11:27:58 PM |
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justteena
Moose Jaw, SK
age: 40
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A little smack on the a** never hurt anybody
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| 1/12/2009 11:40:22 PM |
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mrlatino78
Hialeah, FL
age: 32
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Hit him back with a brick!
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| 1/13/2009 10:15:40 AM |
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ladyvixxen
Burbank, IL
age: 41
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there is a time and a space for that...i love spanking the harder the better
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| 1/13/2009 10:23:58 AM |
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elite_pete
Roselle, IL
age: 26
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Spankin, hair pulling, biteing, scratching are all a must!!
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| 1/13/2009 10:48:02 AM |
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heartfullove
Olathe, KS
age: 57
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I have to say run, sex should be enjoyable for both and you should agree on what you want. If he loves you and that what he want and you do not then he should tell you and let you go and he should fine the one who does like that. I my shelf are into please the lady I am with but not spanking I am just not that type. Will good luck to you.
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| 1/13/2009 11:32:30 PM |
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areallady1
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 46
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You can't knock people for the things that turn them on. If it isn't for you you will always be turned off by it and he will be the only one enjoying your acts. Talk to him about how important it is for him to spank. I have talked with men who are into Domination and Submission and this is part of the role playing I have had spankings with mini straps and hot wax. You have to be open to it and the guy had me really hot though. He was a pro with toys and other sex aids. I didnt find him the least bit physically attractive but he was an awesome sex partner.
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| 1/14/2009 12:20:43 AM |
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justteena
Moose Jaw, SK
age: 40
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| 1/14/2009 1:01:58 AM |
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fizzking
Orlando, FL
age: 39
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Spanking and you dont like it ? Handcuff that prick and kick his a** and run like hell ..plzzzzz
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| 1/14/2009 12:17:53 PM |
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k_tothe_c
Las Vegas, NV
age: 41
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spanking, choking, hair-pulling, it's all red rum!
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| 1/14/2009 12:26:23 PM |
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jambbeam
Chicago, IL
age: 37
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Girl!
this is not normal....
a man gets turned on by the attributes a woman had on her naked body...
no by spanking it with a belt....
from a guys perspective, seems your new lover has some fetished and he is
looking for you to fullfill them....
if you are not comfortable with the spanking talk to him...
if he does not want to stop then leave him right there on the spot...
you dont want him to get a wip and chains out next time or something worse...
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| 1/14/2009 5:08:22 PM |
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nettaunplugged
Pasadena, CA
age: 47
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I think spanking ROCKS!!!!! as long as both parties enjoy it and are on the same page regarding the parameters. Should ANYONE EVER step outside those parameters without permission, then that is sexual violation and is NEVER o.k. Boundaries are there to ensure that people are safe. With safety and with actual mutual caring , I think that all manner of freaky stuff is great! Spank me baby!
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| 1/14/2009 5:19:30 PM |
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redjulie65
Beloit, WI
age: 45
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| 1/14/2009 5:25:44 PM |
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tww_61
Chamois, MO
age: 49
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if she likes it
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| 1/14/2009 7:13:56 PM |
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active59
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 61
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I enjoy both giving and receiving spankings. I get turned on when receiving a spanking. A woman can be turned on too from giving it or receiving it. Look at spanking as role playing.
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| 1/14/2009 7:36:06 PM |
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castanova79
Valley, NE
age: 31
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no its not normal. at least women i been with never wanted me to do it. i dont know if i could if i was asked id be cared id hurt them
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| 1/14/2009 10:35:10 PM |
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jazzy395
Lakeland, FL
age: 31
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TO BE HONEST WITH YOU I THINK THAT IS JUST CRAZY........I LIKE TO GET SPANK WHEN MY DUDE IS GETTING IT FROM THE BACK, BUT HE GO TO PULLING OUT BELTS AND SHIT O YEA ITS TIME TO GO,YEA,,,,,,,,,,,ITS TIME TO RIDE SO YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!!
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| 1/14/2009 10:35:44 PM |
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21tito
Brooklyn, NY
age: 22
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can i spank you
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| 1/15/2009 7:05:40 AM |
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inheaveno8
Fort Bragg, NC
age: 33
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My dear lady... have you not heard of asking about fetishes.. some have them and enjoy them. i believe you should have see the demon. one as he called his little girl. because a demn. pets are his little girl. and yes are often bad and get spanked. if not into. tell him. sex great. not demn. sex. cant handle it he has to go.
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| 1/16/2009 11:31:26 AM |
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niceguy4tlc
Bartow, FL
age: 53
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jazzy395
TO BE HONEST WITH YOU I THINK THAT IS JUST CRAZY........I LIKE TO GET SPANK WHEN MY DUDE IS GETTING IT FROM THE BACK, BUT HE GO TO PULLING OUT BELTS AND SHIT O YEA ITS TIME TO GO,YEA,,,,,,,,,,,ITS TIME TO RIDE SO YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!!
I agree with you. I know from experience that some people start with the whips and lose their mind. A little smack or 2 on the a** is fine. Inflicting real pain is sick. JMO The situation that the OP described is called PERAPHILIA and it gets worse. Its a form of addiction.
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| 1/16/2009 12:03:15 PM |
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hawk_2009
Streamwood, IL
age: 39
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i spank my monkey during sex, so, yes.
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| 1/24/2009 7:06:47 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 40
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Enjoy it......make him happy
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| 1/24/2009 4:34:42 PM |
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jaysinsp
Rowlett, TX
age: 38
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If you told him your not into it and he still wants 2 Run Run Run
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| 1/24/2009 4:52:57 PM |
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tokobo
Albuquerque, NM
age: 51
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Tell him you have a fetish... it requires a corn cob!
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| 1/24/2009 5:24:48 PM |
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clownkilla
Sarasota, FL
age: 40
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Just take out a bat jam it up his a** and tell him that is the only way you are going to blow your load!
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| 1/24/2009 10:20:58 PM |
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19jack69
Arlington Heights, IL
age: 40
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What about licking and scratching and biting and just letten loose? all in fun go for it!
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| 1/24/2009 10:30:26 PM |
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teneight
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 45
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everyone needs alittle spank now and then
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| 1/24/2009 11:23:34 PM |
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gitrdone09
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 49
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Nope! You both should enjoy sex. not 1 person. Run for the hills.
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| 1/24/2009 11:47:06 PM |
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whitelillies
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 55
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I think the couple having sex would have to define what is normal for them.
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